A
female
age
41-50,
*hakira29
writes:Dear AllIn high school, i was blessed with a remarkable guy. But in year 2000 he past away in an accident. I went thru a hard time. I even contemplated suicide but since my family was depending me for income, that made me strong to work and start life. I strongly believe in God blessing behind all happening in my life so god help me alot. After that LOST, i was single for 4 years, till my school frd, infact my best frd she match made me with her husband best frd (A). It took me 1 year to reply him. When i started loving A, i started dressing like before, i enrolled for a higher education and started living life, but after months he started avoiding me, he started admiring other girls, he forgets my birthday... he loves speding time with his friend and everytime he has good explanantion. That when i realize that he love is not true.. But i kept being patience for my love for Him was true. But last OCT my best frd's Husband came to know this problem when i wanted to break up with A. He started calling me. We spend time talking everyday. He shared his problem wt his wife "my Girl friend started hurting everyone by stabing and talking at the back of everyone after she striked a big lotery". Since he lost a wife, i lost a frd to share my problem we became closer. In a occasion we kissed. Next we slept, but i didnt loose my virginity. We were to emotional but we infact didnt enjoy sleeping together, we were more sad than happy. But after 3 months of relationship we both realized our mistake and we put a stop to it. Now iam back with A, he realize his mistake and is very loving me. We pray occasionally now days together, he there for me. The problem now is my concious, its killing me! A even said few time his frd "my affair partner" after alcohol consumation will say i have a big secret to tell but he will wait for right time...What must i do ? I honestly made a HUGE mistake! Must i tell A
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reader, LoveGirl  +, writes (8 April 2010):
You had sex with your friends husband? Well somone is going to tell 'A' and it better be you. Or else he will think you are nothing but a cheap slut by sleeping with his friend. You owe it to him to tell him the truth. How can you build a life together with this big lie ? Does your friend know about your affair with her husband?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 I think so yes :(
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