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writes:How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that? Reply to this Question
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reader, unappeciatied +, writes (9 April 2010):
I like putting my mouth on my man's big dick and shuving it down my throat. And of course that does not make me gay, do to the fact that I am a WOMAN! Now you on the other hand, have some terminology to study. Get a dictionary, a thesourous and a mirror. Look up the definition of Gay and you will find " happy". However, a synoym is " homosexual", now take a look and that mirror and you will find a happy homosexual. Enjoy your life, be honest with yourself and others, and always have safe sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): does it give good head. is it sexually adventurous and experienced
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): is your toaster cute. What does it look like
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Heart I don't know if trees are safe I think it all depends on who's around...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-sick-for-doing-what-im-doing.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): 'TEXAN'S TOASTER SEX SHAME'...
Feel free o brother
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 hahaha... pluged in you say... hell, go for it... it'll definately shake you up a bit...
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reader, Miamine +, writes (9 April 2010):
Masters and Johnson, and Dr Kinsley did extensive research on the sex habits of men and women....
Tons of men (and women) have sexual experiences with someone of the same sex. Common arround puberty, when people have sexual desires but little chances of finding a suitable person to experiment with. It didn't seem to be something the majority continued once they started dating women or men. The sex researchers suggests that a large percentage of people have had a least one homosexual experience but would not fit into the homosexual category, at it is something they do not continue when they reach adulthood.
Can't remember the proper statistics now, but it's pretty common even if it's something that is not talked about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Ah. Again we are back frolicking merrily through the trees. The telly right now is showing a golf tournament from Georgia called The Masters which has lots and lots of beautiful trees. Should I be worried about them. Are they safe overnight with all those men around?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (9 April 2010):
Trees... yep that's it....
You aint gay, you are just desperate... when some men can't get a woman, they'll jump anything... best friend, family pussycat, poor old tree standing in the woods...
You need to get yourself a girlfriend..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Heart where have you been? We have so had a post about trees!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): I get more confused every day. I like the term 'multisexual' because it is all-embracing. Obviously small defenceless furry animals are a no-go zone, as are kids, household appliances, trees etc. The point is, if there is a creature male, female, inbetweenie, alien or whatever who you WANT to get down'n'dirty with, and they feel the same way, and no third parties are being hurt, what's to stop you and why would you worry about labels? If I'm a gender-bender, what does that make Lady Gaga?
Q and Strom/The Realist both made absolute sense while arguing from entirely opposite perspectives. Tish (as usual) hit the nail on the head. It is completely a matter of semantics. If you suck another guy then you're OBVIOUSLY gay while you're doing it, and since it's a reasonably extreme thing to do with another male (compared with shaking hands or talking football or drinking a cup of tea) it does seem a bit disingenuous to pass it off as just something you did, an innocuous everyday occurrence, and that it doesn't make you gay.
So 'I like giving a guy head every once in a while'...of course you do. 'Is there something wrong with that?'...of course there isn't. Does it make you gay? Yes, it makes you bisexual, which could be seen as being both gay AND straight as the situation demands. Does it give you licence to cheat on a boyfriend/girlfriend/significant other as and when you feel like it? No, it doesn't. Standards of decent behaviour apply to you as they do to everyone else, in and out of relationships. (I am no angel and don't want to be the pot commenting unfavourably on the complexion of the kettle. But be aware that temptation will be omnipresent, and be safe at all times and respectful of the STD risks).
Good luck
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reader, raiders +, writes (9 April 2010):
 I personally don't think that if you give or receive head from someone from the same sex makes you straight, you might not be gay but straight your not. A straight person is only interested in getting it and receiving it from the opposite sex and I don't think he would day dream about getting it on with another man. Nope Nope Nope paint it any color you want but not straight.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 April 2010):
 I think this is semantics. If a guy gives head to another guy, he wouldn't be considered 100% heterosexual, so you couldn't really call him straight straight. If that makes any sense.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 April 2010):
I'd like to add that you should have discussed your definitions of 'cheating' with your romantic partner, so no one is being misled or lied to. Oh, and please practice safe sex.
http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/hpv-genital-warts/news/20090729/oral-sex-cause-throat-cancer-rise
You owe it to your partners to take steps to protect their future health, fertility and indeed, life.
Generally, if two people engaged in a sexual act are of the same gender their would either be considered bisexual, at the least, or gay, if their partners are exclusively same sex.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 I wouldn't say its gay at all. Gay is if you want a relationship with someone of the same sex. I hope the term bisexual does not offend you. There is nothing wrong with doing what you enjoy. It does not hurt anyone else and there is nothing illegal about it so why not. People will always steretype you like that, its sad but that is just how people are. I don't know if you're looking for any sort of answer other then do what makes you happy.
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