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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband wants to have sex with other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi friends i have a problem that my husband is very much interested in sex. he also wants to have sex with other women. he loves me, he takes care of me every time but he tells that this is his weakness. oneday i told that i will go away if he do sex with someone. he dont wan... (157 words)

How can I find out what he likes for his birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend whose a guy and his birthday is coming up in 10 days. He is turning 21. I would like some ideas on what I should get him...Also how can I ask him what his favorite things are or the things he likes without sounding too obvious about getting him something for his ... (66 words)

Why can't I cum?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a great relationship with my boyfriend..however when we have sex it's great it feels so good, however i cannot seem to cum ever! i've tried so many different things its unbelievable. i get moist when he plays with me and when we have sex however do not cum. i'm 19 year... (77 words)

Do I have a really low sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - sruthi.. I am very much worried that I am not able to enjoy sex, as some feeling is holding me back.. I never felt in that peak stage of mood. He is saying that he is not sensing any interest from me, and he wants me to initiate and show more interest in sex. Could anybody g... (94 words)

How long should we wait before having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im looking for some advice....Ive been going out with this boy for four weeks....he says he loves me at least once a day....and I love him 2....we are both virgins....how long should I wait before engaging in sex with him....IM 17 nd hes 19 ....any advice would be helpful to ... (52 words)

I cannot make my girlfriend orgasm no matter how hard I try!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - basicly my problem is i cannot satisfy my girlfreind no matter what i try i cannot make her orgasm i recently found out she has been faking them to make me feel better and this has made me feel rather bad knowing that i cannot satisfy her i just want to make her feel good an... (228 words)

How can we possibly have a lasting relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Help... I am really falling for a lovely young woman and I believe we could have a wonderfully rich and loving relationship. Thing is we are both in our second year of university. And she is going on her year abroad as part of her course next September. When she gets ba... (114 words)

Do guys obsess as much as girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Umm . . . hi :) I was just wondering, since I always obsess about what little things my crush says and does, Do guys obsess as much as girls? Or are they really as blasee as they make out? Just curious :) XoXo... (48 words)

I'm in love with her so should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some help! I'm a 37 year old man who has only had one relationship which only lasted about a year about 10 years ago. This is due to low self confidence, also as I got older, it was harder to start a relationship. Last year, I met this South African girl (about 2... (553 words)

Does it sound like his interest level has gone down?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy at a concert and he was VERY flirty with me the whole evening. Just very outgoing and tried to keep conversation going with me the whole night. At the end of the evening, he asked for my number and the next day he called. I missed his call because I had gone to bed ... (462 words)

Should I ignore her or keep being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, i want to ask about something about a girl in my class well i started my class month and a half ago then there was a girl i dunno i just felt it was good from both inside and outside then we became friends and through that time she hits me sometimes when lik... (364 words)

How do I know she didn't sleep with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok ive been dating this girl for about 5 months now everything has been going really smooth she was at my house almost everyday until school started because shes in college so now she kinda tends to both me,school which is fine anyways about 3 months into our relationship i ... (194 words)

How do I get some meaningful sexual experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there everyone, I've been feeling really blue lately. This is the first time I've ever really talked about this, so please bare with me a bit as I fumble with explaining things.. I'm 18 (and a half) and have no experience whatsoever with girls. I feel really sad, even de... (604 words)

I found out my boyfriend has a baby with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i just found out that my boyfriend, that i been in love with for the 3years had a child 5 months ago with another women! I dont know what to do, and to make matters worse i was pregnant two months ago and he told me to have a abortion because he could not afford our baby, ... (67 words)

How do I warn other girls my ex has Chlamydia?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age - An ex passed an STD onto me last April and has recently told me he didn't get treated. Mainly because he knows that it makes men and women infertile and no-one can say he's got them pregnant. Obviously I'm not with him anymore and I have a duty to my sister's, but ho... (131 words)

What makes him stick around like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really wondering what my ex is doing. We have broken up several months ago but remained in contact because of some important things. Unfortunately, all things have been settled just over 2 months ago. I really thought we would finally stop right after the important th... (310 words)

How do I explain to him how he's hurting me without making him angry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been engaged for 9 months. We started off hot and heavy, and then we kind of petered out into what I thought was a normal functioning relationship. we moved in together in my parents house 3 months after getting engaged (which was wayyy to fast, I know ... (555 words)

When I laugh my muscles go weak, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello quick question umm when i laugh i cant control myself and my muscles go weak and i end up being really floppy. today when i was laughing a when really floppy and i was eating when it happened and i couldn't physically close my mouth. is this normal? none of my mate... (62 words)

How do I date the first girl without hurting the second?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am really close to two different girls. Both are beautiful, but they hate each other. I hang with both of them, separately all the time, and always make sure I share my attention evenly. But I've really started to feel really close to one of them, more than the other. I know ... (96 words)

I want to give him another chance, but I feel like I deserve better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy for a little more than a year. One night he got really drunk and hooked up with 8 girls in one night! I couldnt believe it. He was my first love. I became so depressed and on top of that he never called me the day after, only texted me saying "im ... (243 words)

Still with my first love, but we've lost the spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a serious relationship for almost four years now with my boyfriend and loved every minute except the sex part. I was a 15 year old Freshman dating a 17 year old Junior in high school. Now I'm graduated and at college with him, but it seems I have lost that ... (429 words)

How can you tell if a female friend likes you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and her are always sitting next to each other in lectures and in seminars. she always playfully hits me, or teases me about something i do or wear and takes my stuff like my hat forcing me to try and get it back. when we were in class the other day she rested her head on my ... (143 words)

Do I tell her or keep it to myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Another Best Friends Wife Story... So my best friend got married to a wonderful girl about three years ago. She has been a very good friend of mine as well. I have been attracted to her throughout their relationship but very easily kept things at bay. I am a lot like her in ... (410 words)

I am dating one girl but another has my heart!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i've recently started going out with this girl, she turns me on loads, like everytime we kiss, im hard, but, the thing is, i dont feel anything in my heart for, her, we've onyl been going out for a week, but still, i feel like i should like her more, then there this other... (100 words)

Did that cheater truly love me, even for a moment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I found out that my ex-bf has been two-timing me throughout the 3mths29days that we've been together. He has another long time gf of 17mths. This secret of his was exposed on the day when I happen to be in the same place as that couple. 3 of us quarreled and he kept telling ... (473 words)

Her actions concern me..should they?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Am I wrong to be concerned about her actions? How can I gain the strength to walk away? Am I the problem? I am struggling with making the move and saying how I really feel and my gf is pushing to try to get me to buy a bigger place so that we can move in to together. Mt... (1664 words)

Why is my husband no longer interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my husband have been together for three and a half years and married for two! I lost my virginity to him after we had been dating 5 months, but before me he dated a girl off and on for 2 years and they lost their virginities to eachother but their relationship was ... (152 words)

Room mate is a male whore! Should I rat him out?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My roommate will screw anything that isn't moving, which is why our cat never lies down. Right now he is juggling 4 girlfriends and yesterday a new girl showed up and he had sex with her too, only he said she wasn't a girlfriend. That makes 5 girls he is juggling right now. ... (410 words)

I'm attracted to a woman who looks like an actor I like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This will probably sound really weird, but i feel like i am attracted to a woman !. She resembles this actor that i have a crush on, she looks like she could be related to him. I can see that their features are similar. Does this mean i am a lesbian or bisexual ( i am attracted ... (225 words)

Hand fetish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, so guys have anyone heard of hand fetish before? well, i did not :S but the thing is that i really feel i am so, i always tend to kiss my husband's hands.. and every time i see some girl kisses a man hands i get those butterflies on my stomach... it really makes me ... (71 words)

I'm being used by guys for just sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - it seems as though im being used for sex by guys...im tired of it...this guy tells me were making love and i told him i took it seriously...and all he says is his job is very demanding and he's not ignoring me or wanting to hurt my feelings... i find this hard to believe.... (181 words)

Is it wrong to want to go out and have fun like my friends do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been with my partner since i was 15 im now 18 and have a 1 year old child with him but alot of the time i feel like i dont love him anymore and i look at all my old friends and they are either at collage or university doing what they want and having fun and i ... (155 words)

How do I tell my husband that I want to end the marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married woman who is in love with another man. Sexofone is his name and we met 8yrs ago while were still in university. We were crazy about each other but things changed when he introduced me to his family..the prblm was that we come from different cultures and his family ... (176 words)

Blood in my semen -- help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Guys, pls help me. I am 20, i am virgin. Never been in any sexual relationship. The problem is , i musterbate. And when i masterbet yesterday i bled, i bled a few with my sperm. Then again, when i musterbet i bled few hours ago , my sperm came reddish. It was ... (99 words)

My ex girlfriend accused me of cheating and now wants me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a gay girl. I met a girl a year ago whom I really liked. It was supposed to be only a ONS, but we agreed to go on a date after she returns from holidays. The date only materialized few months afterwards, on my instigation. However afterwards I felt that I didn'... (1057 words)

How can I keep my correspondence with my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm 16 years old and in love with my English teacher, who is about 3x older than me. Well, it's more of a crush. I love the way he talks, the way he walks, dresses... I answer all his questions in class and talk to him as much as possible and one day I've even told him that ... (202 words)

I am going to the homecoming and I need tips! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Need help! Going to Homecoming and I need some ideas! My gf is going to wear either a purple or red dress. Need help!... (24 words)

How do I leave my husband so I can have a happy life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 5 yrs now. My husband never flirts with me nor he never takes me out. We always have sex but we have never made love. My husband has got lots of cyber relationships which i have lost count of. Each time i find out we have a big fight and he would ... (167 words)

Does my ex still want me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well this might take long so bare with me. my ex dumped me 7 months ago because she thought i was being a bit pushy towards her. but then 2 days after when she dumped me she started going out with someone else and i was hoping it would be a rebound and i think it was. because ... (992 words)

How do I tell my wife I am bisexual and want to bring a man and a horse costume into our bedroom?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a married man looking for some advice on how to break the news to my wife I am a bisexual and that ontop of this I have been attending furry nightclubs. My wife seems to think they are anime conventions, but in reality they are furry meetings. I have tried to sit my ... (131 words)

What can I do about this without having to go see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i know this isn't a relationship question but seeing as how you guys help me with everything else i thought I'd give it a shot. I am having sleep issues. for example when i lay down to go to sleep at night it takes me about 3 hours to fall asleep. last night i was up ... (105 words)

Should I call him to check if he is really coming?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys well i was having this situation where me and my housemate who was living with me for the summer made out a few times, we were really good friends with a lot in common and he told me all about his ex who broke his heart. However I thought he was over her when he got ... (323 words)

Is my best friend using me for sex or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a bit of a problem with a boy i like. he's one of my closest friends and he knows that i like him. he told me once that he likes me too but doesn't want to go out with me because it could ruin our friendship. he used to flirt with me and we even had sex at one point ... (122 words)

Why does my stomach get bigger during my period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey.I started my menstrual cycle recently and i noticed when i'm having my period,my stomach area and breast area tends to slightly increase in size.However,i weigh myself and realised i didn't put on any weight.Can anyone help me and explain why?... (41 words)

Am I wrong for wanting her to stop being friends with people she made out with in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee had a very wild, promiscuous past, with guys and girls. I have dealt with that and moved on, enjoying the present. However, it recently came up that she had been with one of the girls who is still her friend today. I told her it made me uncomfortable. Turns out she ... (131 words)

Is it psychologically normal to have feelings for an older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, was just wondering.. I'm 20 years old, and am currently seeing a man 11 years older then me, is there anything wrong with dating older men? I know each person is different and so but from a psychological point of view is it normal to have feelings for a older guy or younger ... (61 words)

My insecurities are driving me nuts. I just need to hear some good advice really.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf and i broke up and got back together but during our 30 day breakup she had sex 4-5 times with another coworker of mine. i have to see him 5 days a week. even though we WERE broken up and im the one that broke up with her to begin with, she knew how much i regretted ... (329 words)

I felt lonely because he was committed to another woman so I slept with another man. Is there a chance he will come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - last year i was deeply in love with a guy whom it was love at first sight, he jumped when i ordered him to and didnt ask how high. we did so many things together and he even broke my virginity. our relationship was starting to be serious, we even promised each other wedding ... (319 words)

We fight all the time because I am so busy and don't have time for him, what can I do?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend but all time we quarreled on the topic i cant give much time to him n we all ready maintain long distance relationship..so he just wanted that i give him more time .. im busy in short period but at that time he understand me but he wanted that i at least ... (125 words)

Does he have any intentions of making a life with me or am I just a booty call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So let me start off with a little history. I met this guy right out of high school, we had this connection that was so strong its unexplainable and we hadnt even had sex, After about three months he got into some trouble and ended up in jail, I kept in touch through letters and ... (254 words)

I don't know if I can do everything he has asked of me but I love him so much! How can I get the old him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. Please help me, I don't know how to decited now. I have date with him for 2 years and we just broke up for stupid reason.(he don't spend time with me). So, i got mad and i left him. He cried first day (i know because he call me) After that he become strong. We ... (398 words)

I feel like he is using my lies as a way out of our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i met this guy online. and he and I have talked for over a year now. we got to the point where I loved him and he loved me, and we never hid that. we'd say "i love you" quite often. Im from the states and he from Canada. Im 20 and he's 33. the age was never an issue. its ... (244 words)

He has become much less affectionate with me, do I stay with him or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I really don't know what too do, I met my present partner back in March 09, we had a great sex life and he was very physically affectionate and loving then but over that time he had a male flatmate who was a control freak, that flat mate has left late September as he is on... (241 words)

I'm questioning whether I should marry him because he clearly does not want to have this baby with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age - I am 4 months pregnant and due to marry my fiance in December. I am in my middle 40's and really wanted another child but thought it wouldn't happen at my age but it did. My partner told me that his child rearing days are over and that he never wanted any more children, as he ... (281 words)

His empty promises are starting to make me think that he doesn't care about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive always thought people are in a serious relationship when they "want" to do special things for each other. ive been seeing this guy for the past year, im very attached to him, probably in love with him. i know for a fact that i mean a lot to him...but he never does anything ... (161 words)

My husband cheated whilst we were engaged and had a baby with this other woman, how do I accept the child in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 3yrs now and I'm not happy. My husband cheated on me while were engaged and 6 months later after we got married I found out that his girlfriend had just given birth to a baby boy. This came as shock to me, I was hurt so bad and I spent day and night ... (122 words)

I'm in love with a woman I cannot have. Help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with a woman I can't have. I'm married. She just got married. We work together. I don't want to ruin my kid's lives. I have not done anything physical with this woman and in fact we have barely even talked about it. But we both know how each other feels. I kn... (275 words)

Is talking on chat lines a form of cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2831 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has recently been talking on this chat line invu, he stay up all night talking to women about things that are inappropriate,i have talked to him about it and he is staying on it. he say it isn't cheating because it is not real, I think it cheating, can you tell me ... (76 words)

My girlfriend is a compulsive liar and I don't know what to do, she will only answer my questions with more lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey so im going to get straight to the point. ive been with my girl for exactly 6 months in 2 days and im really worried because shes a compulsive liar to everyone, i didnt think it was to me until i found out her ex has been giving her hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of ... (164 words)

What can I do to make myself happy? It just seems impossible!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused about my life right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend who i found out was sending text messages to my best friend they apparently never did anything together but my trust in the male gender has been destroyed! I hate my job long hours and no pay off. I ... (87 words)

How can I be more confident around guys and possibly get my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question1: i used to go out with this guy but broke it off because he was way into himself and it didnt really seem that we were actually together. a few months ago he was dating this girl kep... (346 words)

The perfect girl is too close to me to have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been playing in a serious band for almost a year now. One of the members of the band is female. Her and I have become very close, and have pretty much everything in common that we possibly good. The fact that we have the same passion (music) is a good start. I know tha... (419 words)

He put his lips on mine, but didn't move his lips when I started kissing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy that I'm casually seeing/sleeping with and me were laying in bed the last time we saw each other...our heads were close together and he was kind of caressing/massaging my cheeks and jaw. Then he turned his head and he put his lips on mine so I started gently kissing ... (142 words)

She finds it difficult to open up to me and have any physical contact with me, I'm worried we will get stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am almost 31, a single father (never married) and a business professional in my community. I have a 4 yr old little girl that is so well behaved. I am very blessed, and grateful. For 2 months I have been dating a 27 year old woman that I think the world of. I seem to always ... (460 words)

Why do I feel so insecure about my girlfriend's bisexual past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've known my girlfriend for almost 16 years. We've dated off an on during that time. She comes from a troubled background and in her teens and (during the time she knew me up until now) she was cheating on somebody (guy or girl). We never got as serious as we are no... (579 words)

I feel like I am competing for attention with her online guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently posted pertaining to my ex girlfriend who I have been hanging out once again after a 5 year hiatus. Here is a piece of it: "She communicates online daily with a guy she used to be CRAZY about back in college 6 years ago. I mean CRAZY about. They never went out, ... (322 words)

Why can't she just leave her girlfriend and be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 and the girl i love is 18. she is bi and has a girlfriend she claims to love even though they never talk. she also says she loves me. is that possible? well i love her, i left my gf for her and its been months and she said she wants to be with me but she cant just break ... (148 words)

Am I gay (honest opinions only)?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i'm a 27 year old and have been thinking bout men since i was 17. it started as a little bit here and there like one day think about men the next i think about women. i had a sense of guilt when i masturbate thinking bout men when i blow. at the age of 19 i started masturbating ... (204 words)

How do I control him and get him to not listen to his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I need help for my relationship with my boyfriend who I date 2years now. We've move to his home town 2months ago and now I came back to Arizona because he been listen to his family. He take advice from them and fight with me.Especially his mom. She don't like me ... (127 words)

Should I tell her it's over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

13 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and her roommate (male, also my childhood friend) are getting too close. He is getting sexual and crossing the line and being disrespectful. We both met my girlfriend about 4 months ago and I started dating her, but then he moved in with her and her friend ... (228 words)

Should I give it a shot and hope for the best?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up 2 years ago. He moved across country but we've still maintained contact over this time period. We both started dating other people and actually discussed with one another that it was preventing us from moving on as we talk, email, text, etc. everyday. I... (141 words)

My girlfriend is not able to get pregnant! Any suggestions?

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13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I been together for 10 months we have our up and we have our downs. Lately I been putting alot of thought into one particular thing within' our relationship which has been worrying me. Making a baby... Why it's a problem? "sigh" We have sex 3-4 time a day ... (367 words)

Any sites that address missing someone in the military?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a girlfriend of a marine, and I'm having a hard time adjusting to his second time overseas. I know there are a lot of spritual or patriotic support systems, but as an atheist and pacifist, my emotional pain is not easily alleviated. Neither my boyfriend or I believe in the ... (136 words)

I don't want to ruin my marriage but I love his company! Am I wrong?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married with 2 kids. My marriage is a mess. To makes matters worse, I was at a family get together and started talking to my cousin’s husband’s brother. He respects my situation and claims to want to rescue me. We live in different states which is great because I’m not ... (321 words)

What do we need to work on to better our sex life?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - three years ago I brought up a sexual comment to spice up the night and my husband threw me off,maybe we had a fight before, i dont know. Today I feel that he is not the sensual guy. There are other times that I see that he is not into the sensual talks or never brings up any ... (183 words)

Is there a chance she's pregnant? Yes or No.

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13 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was just casually having sex with someone up until September 30, 2009. She is supposed to have her period on October 1, 2009. Admitedly it was unprotected. I only had vaginal sex with her for 3 minutes and did not cum inside her. I didn't cum at all. I was not close ... (178 words)

How do I get happy?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem is simple: i'm miserable. i'm a junior in college and stressed out with school. i also don't have a lot of friends neither in school nor out of school. i also commute so its hard to join clubs or anything else that might get me socially involved with other peopl... (229 words)

What can I do to fix our sexual problems?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age - im a 51 y/o female my partner is a 54 y/o male, we have been together about 8 mths and at first our sex life was FANTASTIC, as usual, he said he had a high sex drive which suited me just fine, he has been on anti-depressants since before we met, and now he doesnt want to have ... (225 words)

He says he does not need a girlfriend. Why the mixed signals?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, and it is great for the most part. He just still does not want to say we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He says that he has his kids and he does not need a girlfriend. He is sending me mixed signals. When we are together ... (194 words)

Why is my boyfriend bad mouthing me? I feel so betrayed!

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is always looking for validation and sympathy from his friends and family. I found out that he makes me sound like a bully to everyone around him!? I am not a bully!? I notice his friends and family ignoring me and giving me bad attitudes and I have only met them ... (144 words)

Any ideas on how I can slow things down here?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been single for about a year now and suddenly everyone I know wants to set me up with someone! My brother keeps hinting at his dream that me and his best friend will get together and my best friend wants me to be with one of her close friends, who we'll call Ben. I don't ... (205 words)

I'm so confused over whether he likes me or not?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I have a guy friend who I met in college of last year. Ever since I met him..I've liked him but I wasn't sure If he liked me. We only hanged out in school and everytime people see us together they would think we're dating. But sometimes he confuses me. Las... (385 words)

Meeting girls in the gym- a good or bad idea?

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13 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't have a huge social scene these days,I'm getting too old for clubs etc, really (I'm 35 but an told I look alot younger) and am not too keen on them if I'm being honest anyway. The only social thing I do regularly is that I go to the gym almost every day. There are ... (213 words)

Is there a way I can get the truth without looking crazy?

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13 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I had just read an article where someone was mentioning that 30% of brothers and sister experiment on each other. My girlfriend was very close with her half-brother who was about 5-6 years older than her. They had went though very though times and he had been sexually active, ... (123 words)

How can I match her homecoming outfit?

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13 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My date to homecoming has a completely white was, 100%. So what color do I make everything, like my tie/wrist flower thing.... (22 words)

How do I get out of this abusive situation?

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13 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my boyfriend for about 18 months. we have a 6 week old daughter together. he has: called me every name you could imagine - slut, whore, bitch, skank.. etc. has compared me to his ex girlfriend stating how she was so much more better than me. compare... (366 words)