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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to fix my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey I have a problem and I don't know how to fix it. I don't trust anyone, not my friends, not my reatives... like, I wouldn't put it past anyone to sell me out or anything. Any time I like a guy and it's going well I tend to sabotage it beore he gets too close and then h... (159 words)

Would a baby be good for our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I've told him no, but he's acting... (146 words)

What gift can I get my online boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have an online boyfriend, the only problem is I want to get him something for his birthday, and he's isn't comfortable giving me his adress. Any ideas for what I can get him? ... (36 words)

What should I say to get him to really understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my fiance is sneaking and talking to his ex behind my back. i've confronted him about it but he still does it anyways. what should i do to get him to understand how much this bothers me?... (37 words)

Will she forgive me and date me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex gf had sex with another guy while we were dating. When I found out I called her a whore. I was hurt bad. I felt like I was justified at the time for callin her that but now I know I wasn't. We havn't talked in almost a month. I want her back. Yes I know yall may think I'm ... (99 words)

What do you do if someone wants to control and own you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know what people think about this if possible. If someone wants to control and own you - what do you do?? and they say things like - you do what I say or am gone...which I think is a form of emotional manipulation.. Anyway do you put up with it?? cos you lik... (257 words)

14 and pregnant...Help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP... (51 words)

Why is the father of my baby so stingy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What to do if your boyfriend is stingy but earns three times more then you?? I just broke up again with my boyfriend cos the little things started to eat away at me. First - am pregnant and he is being totally unsupportive. Well he had bought me some food to cook for him pri... (430 words)

What should I say when I write him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey there we broke up 3 month ago ,, i cant get over him , he already did i moved in my life , but i still love him and keep thinking of him any way i have a lot of spams on my e-mail and i receive a lot of junk mail ,, so he got e-mail from me , which i didnt send it ... (168 words)

My boobs are already too big...how do I stop them from growing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

27 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - heyy :) ok soo my names Lacey. im 16 and a junior in high school. this is my first post sooo bare with me haha. well im 5'1" and103 lbs, i have a pretty tight body, theres jus one thing... my boobs wont stop getting bigger! ever since i was 13 they jus wont stop growing! im a ... (219 words)

Help, I need information about losing my virginity!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My new bf has been wanting me to have sex with him, but im still not too sure that i want to. I dont no if it will hurt or if i will get caught by my parents but they are never there tho. I'm still a virgin and i don't no about how anything feels. we've been kissing and stuff ... (77 words)

I've been an emotional zombie ever since my fiance passed away.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - 3 years ago during the summer of 2006 I met my fiance at a family get together she was friends with one of my sisters and we hit it of great. We got engaged in Spetember 2008. we got in to a car accident coming home froma news years eve party 2008 and she passed away as a ... (184 words)

Can anyone explain why a healthy 28 year old has no desire for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with the same person for 8 years, and we actually almost have the perfect realtionship, we pretty much best friends. The problem is the sex. I have NO desire what-so-ever. Im 28 years old. Im off the pill because I thought that was the problem. There is a couple ... (162 words)

If he shouts abuse at me, I see red and lash out! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my partner argue alot over stupid things like eg house work and animals etc i love him to bits but if he shouts abusive words at me i see red and lash out please please help me before it gets serously out of hand i am scared ive got scitzophrenia i am currently diagnosed ... (64 words)

Does he act like he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy at school. We are both in the band. I like him alot. My friends say he likes me to but idk. He stares at me ALL the time. At a football game about a month ago he told me i was pretty, but he has NEVER talked 2 me since. When he sees me his face turns all red and ... (144 words)

The whole time we were together, I used Viagra, and she doesn't know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a girl a couple of years ago for about a year, she went her way and I went mine. She now lives in a different city. However, recently we have been talking a lot on msn messenger and it feels like we are on the verge of maybe getting back together. The only reason we ... (220 words)

I suddenly have this weird feeling that I am gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13 and I have loads of girlfriends and about a month ago I have been having this weird feeling that I am gay and I don't want to be, I want to straight! What is happening and when will it go away? Please help, I don't want to be gay, I have nothing against them I just ... (100 words)

Public place and PDA?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for five months now and we are going to an nhl hockey game tomorrow. I'm excited but i don't think that she is and i know that she wants to make out at least a little. We have season tickets so the people i will be sitting by will be the ... (82 words)

Should I propose to him... or should I give him more time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Everybody.. I need you opinion, been dating this guy for about 4 months. I am in love with him, i think he is the one for me. He makes me so very happy. Last week we decided to take a break because he is going thru something at the moment and he said he needed some space/ ... (293 words)

Is there any point...???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, here it goes; I've known this guy now for nearly 2 months and at first we're getting on well and then suddenly he turns odd. I do like him and feel he will ask me out but now he's confusing me by giving these mixed signals! It's highly frustrating and I have considered ... (91 words)

Is he, did he, will he cheat? At a loss...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Never thought I'd do this but here goes... any advice appreciated... My husband and I have been together over 3 years. I spent the 1st year drumming it into him why constant sexy emails, calls and texts from EVERY ex he's ever had is NOT cool. He even seemed to think I shoul... (650 words)

Help! Why did he change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old woman and have worked with a man who is the same age as me for around a year and recently we have become good friends. Around 4 months ago we shared a kiss but because we were both drunk I put it mostly down to the alcohol. Although after the kiss it was ... (319 words)

My girlfriend had a rebound during a short breakup now wants me back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My relationship lasted for 1 year then I broke up with her. I apologized within 24 hours and wanted her back but she said no she needed more time to think about getting back together. We got back together 1 month later. I asked her if she did anything with any other guy, she... (105 words)

I really like her but have trouble starting a conversation with her... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend in my sociology class who I just recently started talking to, I really like talking to her and I like her a lot but more than just a good friend. I have feelings for her but haven't said anything. I am a junior and she is a senior, I don't know if she has a ... (154 words)

What is worse - being blocked or deleted from MSN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What is worse - getting deleted or blocked from MSN? My ex deleted me from MSN because I was getting on her nerves but has not blocked me but I know we are still friends because we had an argument but forgave each other and she is giving me one last chance. She still has not ... (89 words)

I don't want to be gay but I keep getting this feeling... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

How can I get rid of these lack of trust and anxiety issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys :) I've been going out with this great guy for over two months and I really really like him. I've been in horrible relationships prior to this and unfortunately these have left me with bad trust issues and anxiety. I can't seem to enjoy the relationship for... (306 words)

I am in love with a married woman. What can we do about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - been married for 14 years have 2 beautiful kids but i'm not in love with my wife anymore i'm in love with another women who is also married 20 years. went to school and graduated with this women her marriage is bad also she is not happy we want to be together what do we do... (56 words)

Can I help unstress her? How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 18 and the girl i like told me she does'nt think we should get together because shes so busy at uni we now only see each other at wrk and wknds but txt all the time is there anything i can say or do to help relieve all her stress shes been pulling all nighters non stop n ... (98 words)

Did he ever have feelings for me? Or was I used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been involved with someone for around three years he is Indian and I am British.He deceived me and went to India and got married and he broke my heart,we split up nearly a year ago and I still think about him sometimes.The biggest thing for me is that I feel he made a ... (123 words)

Is sex overrated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - As the scrren name may suggest i have done a lot of things in my short life, however there is one important thing i am yet to do , and yes , it is to lose my virginity . I am purely writing this looking for honest answers to the question, that is sex all its cracked up to be? ... (80 words)

Should I give him time? Or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please read this although its long i really need someone to help me. i was with my boyfriend for three years, ten months into the relationship he cheated on me, it lasted for three weeks until i found out. we stayed together, and his cheating was more or less swept under... (656 words)

He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had had an affair with a married ... (266 words)

Is it ok to give a guy a handjob when he has his back to you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it ok to give a guy a handjob when he has his back to you? I spent the night with a guy and we were quite nevous so we fell asleep and when we woke he had his back to me so I reached round into his pants and gave him a hand job. He didn't turn round and I never got to finis... (100 words)

Good girl or bad girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hii.. oh im 19 do i have a bad past or what? when i was like 16 there was a guy i go to church with and i made out with him one time after that i cut him out my life i didnt really wanna be with him... it was bascially me feelin lonely... up to this day we are friends and jus ... (206 words)

I have a big crush on my boss.. Help Me Please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old and i just started a new job not too long ago, i have a huge crush on my boss and i dont know what i should do about it. we talk very friendly at work and get along great. he even bought me coffee one morning when i was coming into work. he is very easy to work ... (147 words)

When should I start my birth control pills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I had unprotected sex about two and a half weeks ago. I've took pregnancy tests and they all came out negative. I went to the clinic to get started on birth control which I chose to take the pills. My period came about a week ago. They also gave me a pregnancy test which ... (154 words)

Torn on the inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I don't know, I'm just confused... the guy i like has a girlfriend - that doesn't bother me because he goes through a lot of girls really quickly... I like him even though I should not because the relationship would only be a disaster. I tend to ignore the bad things his ... (244 words)

Do you think he is just taking things slow or is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy about a lil over a month ago we have hung out eight times overnight at his house. He is a very busy guy with work mon thru fri and is training for mma fighter. He has a set routine all week and on the weekends is when he sees his friends and family. He hasn't ... (296 words)

Was her sick behaviour justified?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My names David, I'm a 21 year old white male. I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months. I have a serious problem with abusive. I have abusive patterns such as name calling and violence. By violence I mean I hit her once. So I felt bad, very bad and was told by her to leave ... (210 words)

She let ME down... so why do I feel I have to make amends with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys A few months ago I confessed feelings I had for a female friend. Initially, she accepted it and was pretty cool about it. I thought our "friendship" would survive, and she reassured me I could trust her. So I did, and of course, she let me down very shortly after te... (200 words)

Not being able to help my husband in his time of need is killing me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with this wonderful person who i just found out is a very sick man, he has a few mental issues, anger managment has helped him get over his anger but worst of all the doctors think he may have testicular cancer. I love this man very much and had to leave him to ... (230 words)

His cheating has left me feeling so insecure...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a little confusing but here goes... I am 6 months pregnant and really don't enjoy having sex. My partner cheated on me before, and I'm worried he will do it again if we stop having sex. I've spoken to him about it and he said that cheating on me was a moment... (170 words)

What to do?? I am I being too possesive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Am i being too posessive? i was with my boyfriend and he got a text of this random number, that hadn't been saved on his phone. when i asked who it was, he replied, " i don't know it's been texting me all week".so i started to text the number to see who it is. As i began ... (255 words)

What is happiness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was in a serious relationship with my ex-girlfriend few months back, I was not happy being around her....constantly thinking about our relationship 's future since she was from rich family and I was from middle class having no secured job in my hand. Right now, when ... (76 words)

Does my girlfriend's dream mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, My girlfriends has had many dreams that have come true once she dreamt her father passed away and a week later he did the next time she had dreamt something about her ex. Now she has had a dream where she has been locked up in a room and im with another girl doing thing... (84 words)

Is there anything I can do to win her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when I lived in palm springs I had ... (1565 words)

What do I do to get it into his head that I do not want to get into a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - theres this guy, call him David, i had got to know him during this camp thing from our school which was for 11 days in june last year. we had got pretty close and after we got back, he asked me out sometime near end of august. after eight days i had broken up with him because ... (248 words)

We have decided to move it together. Good or Bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i turned 18 last month. Me and my bf have been together for 9months and hes 22 and has a secure well paid job. I live with my mum and sister but everything i have they pick at we dont get along what so ever and i spend majority of time in my room with my dog. I see my ... (160 words)

Why am I avoiding romantic relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm wondering if it's weird to be basically an adult but just dated one guy for 2 months. I'm scared of the whole dating thing and feel uncomfortable with the fact that someone wants to be with me? I feel that because I am so against the whole relationship idea, I'm... (139 words)

Does she think she is not worthy of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex gf cheated on me and then broke up with me the next day. She didnt tell me til about a month later and said that was the reason she broke up with me. She said she felt guilty. I forgave her and we remained friends. We even discussed hangin out sometime. I was actually ... (162 words)

How do I overcome the bullying? I feel so ugly compared to her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sat here in tears thinking over the events of yesterday and I really just need someone to listen and I would welcome any sort of advice on how to move on... By way of a brief introduction I'm 27, single mother, working part-time with my mums business and also teaching a ... (721 words)

How do I find the hole with the lights out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have recently started having sex. we lost our virginity to each other and its all amazing and that, but i have 2 kinda embarrassing problems that i'm hoping more experienced guys/girls could help me with... 1: When we're naked and about to get down to i... (200 words)

Should I have an affair on my husband?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I can. However, lately I have be... (382 words)

How do I break up with my "back-up" boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I wanted to break up with him because there was so much I didn't know about him - we met on the internet and you know, people don't really like posting personal information about themselves. So yeah, I got prepared and got a "back-up" boyfriend just in case I really did break ... (108 words)

Should I date someone better looking than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - should i date someone that is more better looking than me. could my insecurity cause the relationship... (17 words)

Do you think I should trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner of 6yrs went on a night out for a big game so lot's of drink consumed and when the team won partying didnt stop.... he went to a female work colleagues house who lives in the opposite direction to our house with two others after a night club,(gay male and another ... (172 words)

I'm only 34 but I feel like my life is over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey everyone i really need a sympathetic ear here. im 34 years old and feel life is over. im in a dead end job, in a debt programme for the next 4 years and am alone. everyone around me is happy engaged or married and i seem to only be with people that use me for money-hence ... (139 words)

I don't think I can stand to have him in my life anymore, should I just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is kinda a followup to something i logged in April. The guy that i am seeing on and off as friends has again being going through a rough time. I have tried to be supportive but he just keeps pushing me away. We were supposed to be meeting up and asked him when we could so ... (173 words)

How do I tell her I want her to initiate sex more often rather than leaving it to me all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi ive been with my gf a bout 4 months now. we have sex every day which i am very happy about but i wish she would initiate it some of the time. its always me and although she almost never turns me down i cant help sometimes feel i want2 do it more than she does. she alway... (249 words)

Is being a close friend a turnoff?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont understand people sometimes they say they wont go out with someone because they see them as a close friend. But people usually say to have a good relationship friendship should be there. I dont understand why being a close friend is a turn off. People say they don't want ... (69 words)

My boyfriend's friends make fun of me for my beliefs and he always takes their side!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

- My bf's friends put me down for my Christian values and beliefs. They always make fun of me and put me down. My bf doesnt say anything to them. He lets them get away with it. In fact, he basically defends them and takes their side!!! He says that it is my fault because I ... (286 words)

He never mentioned he was going away to Europe for months on end, should I cut him out of my life completely?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I split up with my ex around 2 months ago after living with him a year and seeing him on and off for 5. When we split up my ex banged on about us not working now but didnt mean we couldnt work in time, so on so forth. However I discovered via an internet forum he had been plan... (153 words)

Is it normal to have feelings for a same sex friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a girl and i have had feelings towards my bestfriend for about a year, she is also a girl, i told my other friend who told her about my feelings, now it is awqward and she is really against lesbians, i feel sickened with my self at it and im really worried that she will ... (84 words)

Now I am single my married friends have cooled on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

- I am in my forties and have gone through a divorce. I have female friends both married and single. Since I am newly single some of my married friends have cooled on me. Not sure why. Any thoughts?... (38 words)

He initiates "eye romances" with other women

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age - My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 3 years, and I have been putting up with his ROVING EYES the entire time. ANY time that we go anywhere, he ALWAYS finds another female that he is attracted to... and makes no secret of it. He first makes eye contact with the... (222 words)

He's made excuses not to spend the holidays with me, should I see this as a lack of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (?) age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 6 months. We are serious, and have even just come back from a week long trip together. Now Thanksgiving is around the corner and he is not sure what his plans are. Says if he goes to his grandparents' house that I may not be ... (251 words)

My boyfriend is embarrassed to be dating me because of my age!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a 14 year old and i´m currently dating a 19 year old, but he wont tell anyone because he´s embarrassed of dating some one so young. Do you think the age difference is a problem ? ... (37 words)

Could I be falling for another sex addict or is this just a strong attraction to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am divorced and in a newer relationship with a nice man. I really like him a lot because he is very attentive. He makes me feel like I am #1 in his life. unlike my ex husband who wouldn't even carry a cell phone, this man will answer his phone no matter where he is ... (655 words)

Should I ask her if shes into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I've met and I like her a lot! I've never liked a girl in this way B4..We talk on the phone all night and we hangout almost everyday! we talk about our secrets to one another she's so easy to talk to and I'm getting feelings for her I know she's not into ... (75 words)

Can someone contract diseases such as HIV and others during kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Cupid,I asked question here before and i got a reasonable answer. I appreciate that. my question is, can somebody contact diseases like HIV and others during kissing? it confused me sometimes. i don't know how to kiss and i want to try that. Please help........ (46 words)

I always used to turn boys down but now I am ready for a boyfriend! How do I let them know that I wont reject them this time?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I'm a decent looking girl who has always frequently been asked out by boys. However, having just hit the age of 15 (which I consider old enough to have a boyfriend) - I also had enough self respect to refrain myself from the previous offers and concentrate on my ... (247 words)

Is this guy using me? Or does he like me back?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so theres this guy who ive known for years and i didnt relise how i felt for him til not so long back wen sumthing happened to him and it hit me hard. Basically i love him but i dont know if he feels the same because he laffs at me wen he's with his friends but wen were on ... (202 words)

Is she breaking up with me? What does she mean by 'needing time alone'?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - If my girl friend said to me that we are not breaking up but she ask for time apart is she breaking up with me?... (25 words)

We had an affair together and he ended it. Why is he still calling?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can I havw advice on how is is acting, should I give up on him. Met a guy, liked him, he got married, we then had affair for many years, he kept promising to leave the wife etc. He said he would get a place for us never did, was still living with her, we carried on, I ke... (142 words)

Should I end our relationship? Is it too stressful for him?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 1/2 months. I have kids and he told me initially that he wasnt ready for a relationship which I accepted because neither was I. We went out and since then I've gotten closer. He says that he didnt think he would get so close to me ... (174 words)

Why do I feel guilty about ending her emotional affair?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had what I figure was an emotional affair a few years ago. There was a lot of texting. I don't think there was any physical contact and she came totally clean about it in the finish. It devastated me at the time and had a pretty bad affect on our marriage but she ended ... (176 words)

How do I approach her about the lack of sex in our marriage?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for a little less than 2 years and we dated for a little over 2 years before that of which more than a year was spent in different continents. At the outset I must say that I love my wife and feel fortunate that she is in my life. I can't dr... (490 words)

My husband cheated on me again while I was pregnant. Should I take him back?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm currently 9 months pregnant with my 3rd child. Around the 8th month of pregnancy I found out that my husband of almost 9 yrs was cheating on me with someone from another state (he's in the military and travels a lot). It started when I was about 5 month... (898 words)

Did he cheat with his child's mother?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - sorry to write such a long story. i believe my bf cheated on me with the baby momma on saturday, i phoned him late that nyt the lady picks up and said my bf was asleep and cant speak to him, i hang up.. he called me the following day to say that someone answered his pho... (262 words)

My girlfriend and I are 14, we want to have a baby, any opinions?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and want to have a baby. Were 14... (16 words)

How does one delay ejaculation?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so here is my question. I am confused about the concept of premature ejaculation. I am a virgin but am talking about sex with with my GF. I can ejaculate fairly quickly by myself if the mood is right and i put my mind to it. Obviously timing isn't an issue when you're ... (139 words)

He wants sex, I want to wait, how do I tell him and not get him angry?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend and myself have been talking about sex he keeps saying he is ready and i an to but i want to wait a little longer what should i tell him so he will understand and wont get mad at of... (44 words)

I only want friendship. Am I doomed?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ARGH!! Hi Aunts, Why is it (nearly?) impossible to have JUST a friendly relationship with someone of the opposite sex!? I've been hanging out heaps with my best mate, playing video games and just chilling out, and just the other night he kissed me, which totally just was... (202 words)

Does it sound like he isn't interested?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a man who I connected with very strongly the first time we met. We had so many things in common and confided in each other. We realized we lived 3 1/2 hours away from each other. He got my number and said he needed to take me on a date. Its been a month since we ... (128 words)

Out of all of my dates, I don't want to date any of them again, am I too picky?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In the past month I have been on numerous dates. Out of all these guys I don't want to date any of the guys. They all have great qualities and I have a great time with them but I don't want to continue dating any of them. Does it sound like I am being too picky? ... (59 words)

There is a guy who lives a long way from me, but I like him a lot, how do I get over him?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is one guy I want to date. He lives a ways away and its hard to get together. I am trying to get over him because I don't think it will work but ever since I have met him there have been numerous guys who want to date me. I find none of them comparable to him. I am ... (100 words)

Did I do the right thing by calling my ex back?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-convince-my-boyfriend-im-not.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/men-are-you-able-to-forgive-your-lady.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-did-my-ex-call-then-not-pick.html These are links to what led to this. It... (154 words)

I am broken hearted, my boyfriend's children and I do not get along, should I stay with him or leave?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age - I have a serious problem. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. His children say I am a horrible person and not good enough for their father. They have made it clear that I should not be in his life. They are mean, rude and disrespectful. They are 14 and 19, Never ... (89 words)

...but should I stay with him??

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been dating this guy for like a month and a couple days now and i think i really like him but like im not sure and usually wen i go over to his house his best friend is over there and me and my boyfriend got into an argument because supposively i was all over his ... (181 words)

How do I tell her I have a thing about feet?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend love each other very much and I trust her a lot, enough to maybe reveal my secret to her. I have foot fetish, she has the cutest feet I have ever laid my eyes on, and she makes it so I can't keep my attention off them some days by wearing heels or ... (167 words)

How do I deal with my unhappy marriage?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - helo.im married for 8yrs now.i have 3 daughters with my husband.my husband was employed at first and in those days had many affairs with other women which resulted in him having two kids outside our marriage.we managed to work through all that and stick together.he lost his job ... (140 words)

How do I change my name legally and what would be the cost?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear all friend, can anyone tell me how to change a legal name? and how much it will cost me to change the name? i immigrant to California, usa, about 5 years now, and i just got my citizenship so i decided to change my name. now i got to many things going on, i have to change... (81 words)

Help! My Husband is confusing me!"

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband sometimes hides things from me like when other women he calls even his ex girlfriend who hurt him he talks to still. And the fact that he still looks at porn and yet he tries to hide even when we have a baby on the way any day now? how am I to feel? I've told him to ... (72 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I am attracted to another guy?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating the same guy for almost a year now. i can say i truly love him and i have never met anyone like him. he cares about me and i care about him too. i love him with all my heart, but lately i met this guy i am attracted to, i cant stop thinking about. me and him ... (81 words)

What should I do and what am I doing wrong?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been together with my girlfriend for 2 years and we lived together for 8 months and she recently told me that she wanted me to leave because she felt we should be apart for a while till we are more grown up. She just most recently told me that she thinks we should both ... (264 words)

Why do I want this to happen to me?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is very aggressive when we have sex and I'll admit that I am too, but I want it to go farther. It's almost like i want him to rape me... There must be something wrong with me for me to want something like that. He doesn't want to and I don't think that I actually ... (99 words)

Is it normal for my tail bone to hurt so bad this long after having the baby?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i just had a baby a month ago and i have been trying to do my pelvic floor exercises but when i do i about die from the pain in my tail bone. it hurt the worst while i was in the hospital but i thought it was my back. now when i sit done for a long time it hurts and at ... (87 words)

He wants his space and thinks I need it too!

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our lease runs out. He says he still ... (137 words)

How can I tell my friend of 7 years that I like him as more?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I just recently got out of a relationship that lasted for 2 years and we lived together, so pretty serious, but it didn't work out for us. We mutually decided to break up although I was the one who brought it up because I started to like one of my best friends and I got ... (193 words)

What is so gross about breast feeding?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do other girls give me looks when i say im breast feeding my baby? why does people think its gross? i mean thats way babys are ment to be feed. i think with it being flu season and babys die from the flu it would be selfish for me not to breast feed since a doc will tell u ... (67 words)

How do I get my husband to feed the baby?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had a baby a month ago and my husband worKs alot and when he is home i wont him to care for the baby to bond with him and also so i can have a brake to get things done that i cant do while i am holding a baby. well the baby does not realy know him and he also is very ... (128 words)

Where can we have sex without being interrupted?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm losing my virginity to one of my guy-friends really soon, but i don't know when yet.....i'm really nervous, and i dont know what i need to expect, because i literally know nothing about sex....i don't want to get down on the bed with a guy on top of me, and not know ... (288 words)

What is behind his accusations?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has accused me of looking at other men in a sexual way and of cheating on him, for a little more than one year. I have officially gone insane and the other day I freaked out on him and shouted that I finally understand why he says and thinks those things abo... (212 words)

Should I clear the air with him?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm very confused why I can't stop thinking about him. We are both married with children. My spouse could not be more perfect for me. We are both so alike in so many ways. The "spark" left our relationship once our first child was born. We go months (3-6 months or so) with out ... (311 words)

How do I sweep him off his feet?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the guy i love has loved a girl for 15 years,and he told me that he wants to forget her,and that he thinks that im the one who could make him do that..can anyone please tell me how?please can you help me think of something?i wanna sweep him off his feet!... (51 words)

She adores me but isn't ready for a relationship. What does this mean?

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27 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I to a girl whom I have been seeing for a while now that I love her and want to be with her. She paused and told me that she can't say the "l" word back because she has been through so many bad relationships and said she needs some time before she can love someone back. I to... (184 words)

I have cheated on my husband resulting in 3 abortions and now he wants a baby!

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - its been 10 weeks since my abortion im trying for a baby but it keeps coming negative.iv had 3 abortions. Due to careless behind my hubbys back.but now my hubbys really desperate for a baby.please help.... (36 words)

Will I ever get closure?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy two 1/2 years ago. We dated for 3 month on our last date we said bye like normal but he never came back. I need closure. I want to understand what happen. we speak alot through emails but i'm afraid to tell him how I feel. He ccntinues to say he will see me soon ... (105 words)

I am cramping long after my period ended. Please Help!

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i started my period on 12oct 2009,an finished on 17oct 2009.its weird because i usally have it for 4-5days. On the 25 oct i started getting cramps and every time i eat a meal i get diarria.and its 26oct today and im still getting them on an off.please help.... (49 words)

I can help but think my boyfreind's ex is a better lover than me!

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've written here before, but I'm afraid I just can't get past it. I (20 years old) have been with my boyfriend (22 years old) for a little over nine months now. Everything is going fine, though we're both very busy holding down full-time jobs and going to school fill-time as ... (975 words)

Is it possible that I can be pregnant even though I'm irregular?

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27 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i need help. im 2 months late and i dont know if im pregnant or not. i had unprotected sex a couple of days after my last period. my periods are irregular so im thinking thats the reason why im late but then again i could be wrong. i havent taken a test because i have no ... (112 words)