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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there something wrong with me for feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 17 and I haven't had a boyfriend, I've masturbated thinking about guys I like and although it gives me a war happy feeling, it doesn't do much for me sexually. I have fooled around with guys at parties (I've never had sex but done enough to get an orgasm) I'm not proud of... (106 words)

Am I considered "too skinny?"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 20 yrs old, i am 5'6 and I weigh 110 lbs. Would most guys consider this to be too skinny? Ive tried gaining weight but im a runner and i cant force myself to overeat. thanks.... (38 words)

How can I get on friendlier terms with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so, im 14 and i am going to a new school new school now and ive been talking to this guy Randy for a while now and we have become pretty good friends but i could tell that he kinda likes me and i kinda like him. The other day he told me that he likes me and asked me if i ... (176 words)

How can I come off sexier and more girlfriend material?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey, my problem is that guys don't really seem to like me. Like I've been with loads of guys, at parties and stuff, (I don't have a reputation as a slut cos i have too many different groups of friends and i tend to give off a very good girl persona) but like all my friends h... (111 words)

Are breast implants attractive to men?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age - I am in great shape and all natural. As women we are inundated with images of women with the perfect breast implants. Women are getting boob jobs all the time. Honestly, to the men out there are breast implants attractive. Do they look fake? ... (45 words)

He said he can't trust me... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently just broke up with my boyfriend. We were dating for a year and a half and were very serious we even moved to another state together FL. We had a lot of trust issues in our relationship. In the beginning of our relationship we were madly in love than my ex started ... (379 words)

Advice needed for a fellow Agony Uncle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend who is a gay man (I am too btw) has tried to dump his boyfriend 6 times to date. Each time he does this the boyfriend cries his eyes out and tells him (my friend) that he can't live without him, etc etc. My friend gets sad and takes him back and says he shouldn't just ... (154 words)

Don't know which guy to choose. HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was around 13 years old, I got together with my first real boyfriend "A". We dated on and off for over 2 years. He was my first love. Then I moved. But guy "A" got back in touch with me. We had a long distance relationship for about a year. When we first got together he ... (274 words)

He moved in immediately with me but I think it was a mistake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently moved a guy into my house that i didnt even know. The first day i met him he moved in with me. He told me he wanted to be with me and stuff and i am a sucker for beleiveing stuff like this stupid i no but ive always been the same. When he first moved in the first ... (403 words)

He says he wants to be friends but is now avoiding me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Is it a bad thing that I feel as if the guy who wants to stay friends is avoiding me now? We do not have any of the same classes but we pass by every morning and he never says hello anymore. When I asked him out he said he wanted to stay friends but I feel as if we are not even ... (77 words)

My girl friend dated my best friend before me and I find this difficult

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have dated for about 5 months now and I love her but she dated my best friend just before me and her. They dated for about 2 months. She told me it was not a big deal at all and it was not serious but if it was not a big deal I don't get why she still gave ... (130 words)

We had a tiff, he's ignored me for 4 days, is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had a minor tiff 4 days ago - and he's ignored me pretty much totally since. We've been together 7 months, and don't really argue much. To cut a long story short, I was invited to a family lunch over the weekend. Something came up in my family and I w... (245 words)

Her mom thinks a 2 year age gap is too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 17yr male in grade 12 and ive just started dating a girl in grade 10 who is 15. im having a hard time convincing my mom that its ok that im two years older... how can I convince her that its ok, or rather, is it actually ok?... (50 words)

Is it ok that I am 21 and she is 15?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK... If i am 21 can i go out with this girl that is 15 and she loves me and i love her. her parents like me and trust me, they don't mind if i go out with there daughter. I am a Cristian and i wear a purity ring and i am faithful to my promise with God. is it OK. please help... (64 words)

I'm pregnant but my fiance insists on having friends over all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, My fiance and I have been together a little over 2 years. He asked me to marry him in April and we found out that I was pregnant in May (good timing huh?). We both have an interest in poker and kareoke and before we found out I was pregnant we would frequent a... (590 words)

Exposing the girlfriend for cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I wanted to expose the events that happen in the last 5 months or so with my 4 years girldfriend who has a 9 y.o. kid. We meet up +4 years ago. She moved from her country to look for a better future for her and her son who was in her country. When we meet up and started bein... (1569 words)

My best friend has been acting weird!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend has been acting weird! Sometimes when I stare at him he stares back then smiles. I love talking to him but lately I’ve been to busy and haven’t seen him. Today I said that the bus driver’s son was so cute and he said well I’m cute. He talked about being cute. A ... (202 words)

Do girls pre cum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i got 2 questions.. 1.do girls pre cum? is that like the wetness u get when someone is pleasurin u before u actually orgasm? 2. i always thought my area down there was a bit smelly but iv realised dat as i go thru the day, i get lots of discharge so maybe its d... (100 words)

Should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age - After three years my Ex and I broke up. The reason was because he is an alcoholic and the disease became progressively worse. He sent me a text that stated that he must remain distant from me because every time he thinks of me and how he failed me he wants to die. We have ... (79 words)

Pleas from a friend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a female colleague, who is in a relationship and has a young son. Things have not been good in her relationship for a long time. We started spending time together outside of work and became really close. We have so much in common and get on so well together... (380 words)

I feel like there's someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we are very serious. i go to his house and spend a lot of time with his family and all that. However, in those 2 years we basically fight everyday break up once a week but always get back together. The longest we have ... (257 words)

Second base worries!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok guys! so theres this guy and we're seeing each other, sort of going out but not quite made it official. anyway, im 17 and obviously me and him hanging out and stuff will eventually lead to other thingssss.. but the thing is im really nervous because i havent done anything ... (191 words)

Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my boyfriend – someone special.... (123 words)

Any idea what he thinks of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... durin the summer went to a party with a bunch of my male friends ..there is one of them that i have a little crush on we actually liked each other at the moment... at the party we all started to drink ...he asked me to dance with him i said no and went on to dance with ... (101 words)

Is it possible to fulfill his fantasy but keep him out of it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid. I have been in a relationship with a wounderful man, I love him very much. We should have met years ago! He is very much into women. matter of fact he makes comments often. i say he is infatuated. That is ok to a point, sure I tend to get a little upset. B... (160 words)

In love with the father of my child! Could it be real even if I haven't seen him in a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you believe in love at first sight,, well i did and it was with my ex who i was with for almost 2 and ahalf years. when we first got together i ended up moving in with him and his parents. moved out and ended up 8 months down the road i was pregnant and moved back in. We ... (733 words)

Am I just bored and single or do I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! ok theres this guy i think i like im not sure if i like him because im bored and single right now... but i knew him for a veryy long time and i was attracted to him when we were younger but the feelings disappeared recently the feelings came back.. i think.. he has a new ... (173 words)

Overhead my boyfriend say he would have sex with some girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and am almost 6 months pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We love eachother very much. The pregnancy was planned, we both wanted and talked about it before it happened. I have a hard time tusting him because we were best ... (418 words)

Do you think I stand a chance with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl about a year and a half ago in college, and I asked her to eat lunch but we never got around to it till around last month. There was absolutely no planning involved...I saw her randomly one morning while I was waiting for class and we decided to go eat ... (505 words)

Will there ever be a proposal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I started dating when I was a freshman in high school and he was a sophmore in high school. We broke up shortly after I started my senior year because he cheated on me. We were broke up for about a year and a half then got back together. We dated for about 6 ... (182 words)

Is he using his son to cross the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well thing between be and my boyfriend are going good now but he is moving out of his apartment this friday with no where to go. He's goal is to find a new place but hasn't yet. Until then he wanted to stay at he's sisters house whom he had lived with last year and because of ... (168 words)

I enjoy his company but the passion is gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age - Im a 49 year old divorcee. I've been going out with this man 18 years my senior for 4 years right after my divorce. I enjoy his company as he fills the empty place in my heart. Four years on, the passion has gone I feel like he is my dad more than a lover. This feeling comes ... (74 words)

Is this complete rubbish or is he being honest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i broke up and have recently got back together ..he told me durin this time apart he had no contact with other women because he only wanted me which was one of the reasons i took him back...then he opened up his facebook account in frount of me where i was a ... (159 words)

Do you think my driving instructor likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think my driving insructor fancies me and told me he loved me by text. he is a joker and a few of my mates go to him. he slaps my leg when he gives me orders but also does this to my freinds. when he texts me about my driving lessons he sends me 3 kissess and even tries to... (134 words)

I'm too shy to go to the doctors, what could this personal problem be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old and i have very good personal hygiene but i have a very itchy annal hole which is very annoying, when i scratch it bleeds and looks as if im on my period, when i have a feel i can feel a few pimples up there somedays it so painful i can hardly walk. what is i... (71 words)

I've only just realised my feelings for him, am I too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He listened to all my problems and ... (355 words)

I wanted to understand what men think when a girl rejects them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had met this guy that was a dj and he always asked for sexy pictures, I gave him one because I thought we were dating. I know how dumb that sounds but he convinced me. But now he wants to be friends and I stopped sending him pictures. I basically am a total bitch to him yet ... (96 words)

Does he have an inside agenda... or what...???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Aunts please help? I've had sex with this guy twice. I've known him since childhood, but not personally. We didn't use protection but he pulled out the first time, this second time he didn't. What's up with this... I didn't know until after the fact... We discussed th... (120 words)

The Love Triangle

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I have two best friends that are not necessarily friends with each other. One of the girls was my aquaintance for the past 4 years and has now become very close with me. I go to her for advice and she comes to me with her problems. We can count on each other and rely on each ... (340 words)

Why won't she give me head? She doesn't realise we guys need these things!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I started out having sex all the time. Lately we have stopped doing it, like once every 2 months. She said she's scared and i respect that. She used to give me head also, but now she completely hates it. I do everything for her. I drive her everywhere, ... (386 words)

Will your first love ever come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My girlfriend recently broke up with me during the first two weeks of her three month internship. We are both young and she wants to find herself and do her own things with no strings attached. She wants me to do the same. She doesn't want me to wait for her and I wont. ... (291 words)

How do you get out and about and back on the market?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Hey all, I've asked questions here before and always gotten a good response so here goes again. Don't be afraid to be forthright, I'd like the truth. I broke up with a girl a few years ago and realised that I hadnt developed myself as a person at all. I had no hobbies and had... (217 words)

I don't love him any more, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone, i'm 20 years old and i'm with a 27 year old man. we have been together for a year and a half. my love from him is fading away. it is a long distance relationship, different countries. at the beginning everything was good, and we were all lovey dovey.. but the ... (281 words)

Am I right to be bothered by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I would like advice on what must be a very common issue. My gf text me to say she was just finshing at work and that we would meet back at home. I went back from my work and arrived after about half hour. My gf came back 3 and half hours later. I asked her if anything was ... (191 words)

When to say I LOVE YOU...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I have a question about when to say I love you. I have read that women should never say it first. Fair enough. But what if your guy is always saying things in regular conversation like, "You know I love you babe to do this or that for you." or "That's why I love you baby." ... (97 words)

Is it over between us... or not???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with another guy for about two years we were just friends with benefits and now we see each other at work and occasionally running into each other. He is seeing a couple of other people and still gives me that look like he still wants to mess around.. I really like ... (90 words)

I'm still in love with my high school friend, should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a crush on a classmate when I was still in high school. However, I was too shy to admit those feelings to her and so we left our graduation as friends. We lost touch in college and we did not see each other till very recently. I reconnected with her through Facebook... (245 words)

It can't possibly be mine as I didn't cum inside her!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old guy. A couple of months back i was seeing this girl. We had sex twice. One time we used a condom the other time we didnt but I didnt orgasm (i pretended that I did) just to get it over and done with. Now she is claiming she is pregnant by me. I dont see how ... (110 words)

3 guys... who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really confused, i like 3 guys and 2 of them are claiming they love me and the other one is my best friend. They are all really different, yet they all care about me in the same way, they all hate seeing me upset and want to help, they all make me laugh. guy1: I went o... (358 words)

He said we shouldnt think too much, that we need to live in the moment. How can I do that if I don't have security???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well.. i'm in a difficult situation here so i need all the advice possible before i do something stupid. my boyfriend and i met in high school once, but at the time i was with someone else. then i saw him like 5 years later once i was single through a friend and we started ... (685 words)

Help! Am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together over a year now, everythings been great, but just recently he's been texting other girls.. he tells me who they are and that they're just friends, but he never spoke to them at the begining of the relationship, so why start now?! Weve had ... (110 words)

My friend's girlfriend tried to seduce me, now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last Friday I went to a small house party… The usual, got off with some girls, caught up with some old friends. Night took a turn for the bizarre near the end… I noticed my mates girlfriend, Kim and some of her friends were at the party. I had been with some of her friend... (713 words)

How do I break free from this abusive relationship I have with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

- How do I break free from this abusive relationship I have with my boyfriend? When I am not with him, I feel strong and am ready to end it, but as soon as I see him, he changes my mind, he starts being sooo nice and says sorry etc and makes me have faith in him that he CAN ... (103 words)

He ended our relationship after I accused him of flirting with another woman and now he won’t talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My man ended our brief relationship after I accused him of flirting with another woman and now he won’t talk to me…. This behaviour is very out of character for me and it probably only happened because I had one glass of wine too many but I am afraid that he has been left th... (143 words)

Why do I keep getting this feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is one of my male friends who is in love with me. Whenever I'm not with him I miss him to the extreme, I feel like I love him whenever he's far from me but whenever I'm with him I don't feel the same. Why do I get this feeling? Am I in love with him, or what?... (62 words)

How do you know if the reason you get back with your ex is you, or the new baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am 16 wks pregnant. Broken up with partner. He is unsupportive but acting weird. When we were together - he would buy food cos he was practically living with me and I would cook it for him. He didn't want to go to any scans or hospital appointments though he was given the ... (457 words)

Should I give it a try?

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically i met a guy (guy A)via the internet nearly 5 months ago it was great he would give me attention and it wsnt fantasy. i recognised his good and bad bits... but it was a bad time espeically for me and i ended up leaving him or trying to push him away. i had started to ... (265 words)

She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I will treat her well. Well, I'v... (394 words)

She seems to prefer the company of her dogs to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I could really do with some help, I have been dating this girl for about 12 weeks now (Which I know is still early days) and I am starting to feel like I am loosing interest in her. Its not because I am no longer attracted to her because I am its because it seems to me a... (236 words)

The stress of juggling him and my friends is making me consider breaking up with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey basically i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 months now. It started off very happy but there were some problems with the people surrounding me towards him (some of my friends). My boyfriend Jack was having a fling with this girl i knew and after a 2 we... (191 words)

How can I make a girl fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello to everyone well i saw a girl on dating website i really like her,i wrote her couple of messages but she dind't reply me,i wanna make her mine as she is already looking for her prince charming,so plzzzzz i request u help me out if you can,i really like her i don't kn... (76 words)

I don't like my stature...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a low self esteem problem.it's got to do with my height (am short), abt 5ft. i have been a radio presenter for a long time and people love my shows.besides am a good communicator and in journalism school now. i should be happy and proud but......i cant exactly say i ... (133 words)

Can online romance be real?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I just want to ask you guys question. Do you guys believe in online love? I met this guy who have same birthday,same satuition about pass relationship and almost everything are same.We chat on the internet for couple times. Yesterday he told me he love me and he ... (141 words)

What next for someone like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (M)

age - I am a divorcee. My current girlfriend of 10 years standing now seems to have become indifferent to me. I moved to another country to live with her, leaving friends and family back in UK. Now she tells me she would be happier if I left. I feel stressed at the thought of going... (231 words)

Why does my man have moodswings??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello Why does my man have moodswings? well you see my man is like very romantic with me then in 5minutes time he is rude again or tells me dont you have something to do? i meen then again 30minutes later he want to be all romantic again with me. he is always worried a... (268 words)

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this wierd kind of relationship.i ... (539 words)

Did he appreciate my honesty and my regard for his health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a question for men, but ladies feel free to answer too especially if you had a similar experience. How would you guys react to a woman you previously dated/ seeing casually informing you after a month or so of breaking up/ parting ways (especially if it was not an of... (351 words)

What should I do if something happens between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so weird talking about this. Here's the back story: My ex (we'll call him seymour)and I were best friends. We started dating when I was a senior in high school and he was still a junior. I fell for him and well let's just say it didn't end up like I had hope. we broke... (318 words)

Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between them which I believe. He ... (250 words)

Does he just want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5288 days ago

28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how often does man need sex with his gf? i live far away from him, so he come to see me very often now. anytime he come to see me, he starts to lust me and want me to have sex with him, eventhough i refuse he still give me a sence of sex. after he having sex with me, he will ... (233 words)

Have we just grown too far apart and should we call it quits?

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and a full time student. I work part time at my job and also clean houses for extra cash. I am a very stressful, anal person honestly. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him deeply and things were going very well for quite a long time. About ... (471 words)

How often do girls fantasize about their boyfriends?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a serious question. Im just curious here...... I, being a guy can honestly say I fantisize sexualy about my girl friend every day. I am not a sex pig. I am very considerate and a caring bf. I am just curious.... how often do you girls fantasize sexualy about your ... (80 words)

What motivates Peeping Toms? What can I do?

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, I have a peeping Tom. The police can't catch him. I can't sleep at night. What makes him tick? Is it because he wants me to fear him and to have control over me? ... (41 words)

Why is she picking fights all of a sudden?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Um worried about my girlfriend because she has been complaining alot lately. She says that her breast keep getting bigger for no apparent reason. I also notice that she has been really short with me lately and she's had to use the bathroom alot. Is she upset with me? I... (90 words)

I'm married and in love with a younger co-worker. What should I do?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I'm a 30yr old Married man for 1 year now, but have been in the current relationship for 10 years. After a very long engagement we finally got married, not because we didn't want to, it was just a money thing. We have 2 kids. One form My Partner's First marriage... (668 words)

How do I get over my first?

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am 22years i had sex for the first time in march ,but it's like dis i think i like dis guy more than he likes me,he said that he has feelings for me but too me it doesn't show.since we started having sex he had sex with two other women and came back and told me, huh?how do i ... (118 words)

My girlfriend hasn't talked to me about getting an abortion. What should I do?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Girlfriend is going to the abortion clinic without me she is making all these decision without concerning me what should I do?... (23 words)

How can I hurt him the most to get back at him?

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28 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My ex was stringing me alone, giving me false hope that we were gonna get back together so he could keep me as either an option contract, a booty call, or so that he could keep having so much power over someone to make himself feel good, or maybe all of those reasons. He was ... (244 words)

How do I handle inappropriate questions from guys?

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 and at this age guys are complete pervs..They are always asking you to go down on them or to let them fingure you.,,and it feels so weird because sometimes you like the guy thats asking you but u dont know how to say yes with out sounding all weird so u say no.And guys at ... (87 words)

Is my teacher interested?

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season and he said for some its mating ... (546 words)

Am I repulsed by men in general? Or is it my past?

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i'm reaching breaking point, i'm trying to bottle things up but i know soon enough it wont work anymore when ever i get close to guys i get scared. i was abused by a family member from the age of 11 however i repressed memories until my first sexual experiance... (267 words)

How do I pass my algebra?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been having trouble in collage level algebra, and i have posted on here about this before i struggle even when i really try thus i studied for 3-4 hours for our last test and still failed, you ask why, because my teacher counted off on many problems for little things in ... (291 words)

Could this mean I'm pregnant? I have no symptoms.

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28 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my last period was on sept.19 and finished on the 24,had protected sex(condom)2 days after my period ended,2 days after i had sex i started spotting,light bleeding then it turned brown and had it for quiet a while that i even had to use a pad or tampon,i took a preg... (106 words)

Is this normal if you like the person?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, just started seeing this lady, 31 years and I'm 39. Before she was on the scene I was having sex up to 3 times a day. Now I have seemed to have lost the drive. We like each a lot and spend all awake hours together. She also used to have a high sex drive and now she isn't ... (96 words)

Should I persue this girl and our internet "relationship"?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and this girl I know have been in a sort of internet relationship for about 2 or 3 years. Well actually we were in one for about 5 months and then we lost contact. So I guess you can say it was over. This was in 2006-2007. Forward to may 2008 and I found her again. We stayed ... (1554 words)

How can I tell if a woman wants to have sex?

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28 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i tell a women wants to have sex with plz respond hurry.... (14 words)