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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why did he break his silence? Why is he pretending nothing ever happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met someone quite frankly five years ago. And from that day I have always liked him. It wasn't a strong feeling, but I was attracted to him and have been attracted to him from that first day. Throughout that time that I have seen him in school, and seen him in the hallw... (785 words)

Is it possible for us to take things to the next level in spite of our differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a man that I like, but there is one problem: he is the teaching assistant for my college philosophy class and therefore is responsible for grading my work. I am 23 and he is 28. I am a senior and he is a Ph.d candidate. Had we met in different scenario, the "take ... (215 words)

Should I go back to the person I first liked? Do I even like him anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a group trip to Colorado and grew very close to a guy on that trip, who was 2 years younger than me. I started to like him a lot, but people got in the middle and when he asked if I liked him, I said no because I knew he wasn't ready to be in a relationship with me, ... (193 words)

How can I convince myself to trust my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having trust issues with my boyfriend. i know he loves me because of the things that friends tell me and how we are together. however i cant seem to stop myself from thinking he might cheat on me. he reassures me all the time but for some reason i cannot get it out my head ... (195 words)

Is this relationship appropriate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age - Is is appropriate for an adult friend of my husband to be pals with my son who is 7? They play and sometimes email funny stuff. He asks my son questions about me sometimes. ... (34 words)

Is he an alcoholic? And if he is, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I am worried about my bf of two years. He drinks alcohol alot but I don't know whether I should class him as an addict. sometimes he'll go for weeks without drinking but others he drinks every night of the week and even when he has hardly any or no money he will spend... (319 words)

Was what he did during oral sex wrong?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

12 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend always wants me to swallow after giving him oral sex. he says its sexy and it feels better for him. so i dont have a problem with doing this, but just last night, right when he was about to cum, he PUSHED my head down and held me there by my hair while he ... (199 words)

What do I do about my controlling mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i have been having problems with my mom lately and this is the full story......... my dad and her split up about 8 years ago because she had invited 3 men home when he had gone to play for a christmas party (he is a musician) and she told me to lie about it. my dad found... (584 words)

Is it normal for me to question the future of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 months and he's already talking about how he wants to be with me forever and how I'm the only one for him. We're both each other's first relationship and we're young (17), but I feel our relationship is genuine -- we trust each other ... (257 words)

Why does he talk to me online but ignore me otherwise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Really need some help with this. I've been speaking to a guy on msn for months. I know him. He lives in my area and he's a friend of friends. We speak a lot on msn and he basically won't leave me be. But when I see him at school I swear he avoids me. For weeks he's b... (250 words)

Is my girlfriend a little too friendly with her brother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

12 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was just out with my girlfriend and her brother the other day. Her brother is homeschooled and a pretty physically friendly guy, but the other day when we were walking around, he had his arm around her a good part of the day, even when I had my arm around her waist. This felt ... (109 words)

Was he put off by no sex? Why isn't he calling anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am dating an interested guy. He told me that he is interested and he was acting like that but also shyly. Normally when he talks to others, this person doesn't act shyly. He was surprised when I told him that I am a virgin and don't want to have sex until I am sure tha... (234 words)

I still want to be his friend even though we messed around. So what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Ok i have something i need a little advice on ... Have known this guy for years, used to talk to him on the phone at work as worked in another office for the same company so had to talk to him sometimes, and on work nights out we'd get on well. Just thought he was a ni... (439 words)

Did I come across as jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I mentioned to my ex about reconciling..he said he can't just jump back into things which is fine..and also that we'll talk on the phone and then meet...its been almost 2 months of talking which is fine but i'm getting nervous about what if he loses interest b/c there is only ... (375 words)

Does he really like me? Or will he cheat due to his porn habits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I've seeing this man for 2years and he never have girlfriend before.He is 30 years now.But I don't believe it.Its imposible never had girl before.Do you guys think he lie to me.And his family said that's true.He dating some girl before and they never been ... (172 words)

Should I take full custody of my two year old brother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 2 year old brother that I have Temp. custody of. I am 18 myself....I'm getting a job, he has medicaid, and I'm going to be going to school online at some point in the future. I want full custody of my brother because my mother is a horrible parent. My fiance is not ... (195 words)

I started having an affair due to long distance. How can I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in such a mess and really need help. I live with my partner of 3 years. 2 years ago he left me to go to Australia for a year, we decided during this time we would have an open relationship because we are both realists and know a year is a long time. I can also ... (977 words)

What symptoms should I expect while pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - at 8-9 weeks pregnant what symtoms should i expect and what should my stomach feel like + look thanks first pregnancy here x... (31 words)

How can I show him I'm interested without going overboard?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - GAAAAAAAAAHHH!!!! I'm so confused and need help! This guy I like who I've known for 2 years from my sports club apparently likes me, and at times I think he likes me since he's always friendly and jokey and chatty with me and not so much to other girls. he'll 'steal' my i-pod... (281 words)

My guy seems turned out about hearing my sexual past. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it ever a good idea to give details of your sexual experiences???? My boyfriend is turned on by listening to the details. Is this normal??? Also, to his credit, he is never jealous or angry. Just turned on.... (39 words)

How can I gain a guy's respect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you gain a guy's respect? I just want to know, seeing as many people have different opinions...... (20 words)

Can this long distance relationship work? Is there hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl and I live in France.I think I'm bi but not really sure. I went on a myspace group about bisexual teens and picked someone randomly. I fell on a girl who loves the same things and has the same conception of life. She's really great and beautiful. W... (220 words)

Should I change myself in order to win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16. i'm a normal high school student, well i'm not that normal, i look kinda emo and goth, wear lots of eyeliner, i always wear black, and sometimes i could be annoying. ok so i like this guy for about a year now, he's really cool, and i like him a lot. well last year we ... (202 words)

Should I approach him in spite of what my friends think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this one guy in my class who is really nice, but really shy. Whenever I talk to him, he smiles and blushes a lot. I secretly think he must be socially retarted or something, because as of late I've been dropping quite a few hints to let him know that I'm ... (269 words)

Should I give her space or give into her commitment standards?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

12 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, Ok, here is my problem... I was in a relationship for a over a year. She has a son and was never really happy with the level of commitment I gave. I wanted to take things slowly and she wanted me to move in. She broke it off 3 or 4 weeks ago but I still love her. ... (171 words)

Is she showing signs of interest toward me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a girl who is a little younger than me, and I'm 14. I'm not sure what the real signs are when someone likes you but, I'd like to know if maybe the following is a possibility that she might like me. She sits very close to me. When she wants to pick a song for my ipod, ... (146 words)

Is my depression the reason why I feel our relationship is going sour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think im depressed and my bf isn't taking me seriously. he says that its all in my head and i need to just forget about things. problem is i can't...and isn't depression medical aswell...i know a bit about it and have read up on symptoms and i have most of them...he says t... (150 words)

Can a relationship happen between me and my boss despite age differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I travel for work. I am the only woman on a 40 man gang.A little over 3 months ago I was assigned to a new gang. I began dating my boss. He is an intelligent, kind, focused, driven man. He is very well respected in his field.We have so much in common it is eerie. My concern is ... (77 words)

Is this love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! Really sorry about the rambling to come; if you don't like long questions, it's best to stop now! Well, lets start with the basics: I'm 20, I have (in my opinion) the best bf in the world whom I met in county badminton and at the moment I;m very confused; We've... (454 words)

Husband angry because while seperated I slept with someone else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband and I were separated. While separated I slept with someone else. I now am trying to get him back. How do I keep my husband. He read some stuff on my computer and got very angry. Again we were separated. What do I do ?... (47 words)

Do bad boys every change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do u think bad boys ever change? What do u class as a bad boy? Im hooked on this man who i have had an on/off relationship with 4 3 years! He always let me down. Put his mates first. Sleep with lots of woman b4 i met him. And continued to when were on breaks! Which was never ... (422 words)

Why can't I meet a guy who likes small breasts?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have small breasts, and as it is known, *most* guys like big breasts better. Some like small, but I have yet to meet one of those! Most guys just settle for small chested women. Like Salma Hayek is hot because of her big boobs, but Kate Hudson is hot in spite of her small ... (624 words)

Why does everyone say sex is so good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'll just come out and say that i am not a virgin anymore. There *phew* :) anyways I'm almost 20 and I've only every had sex 7 times in my life. This happened like 4 monthes ago with my no ex boyfriend. And I just want to know why does mostly EVERYONE say sex is sooo ... (257 words)

B/f doesn't work and takes money from his parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there! My problem is that my boyfriend does not work and takes money from his parents that live in The USA to live here in Panama. He pays all the house expenses (rent 200$ a month)electricity ($50 a month)food (200$), except cable and internet ( I pay it myself). I pay al... (223 words)

He broke up with me because of his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with him for 2 years and we broke up for stupid reason.He listen to his family, his family give him wrong advice me.Cause they don't like me.We fight everyday. So,I left him but I still miss him and I love him. I called him and tell him get away from your family and ... (202 words)

I'm tired of trying to make everyone happy but me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To understand my question, i need to give you some background. I'm 23, my husband is 28 and in the military. We've been together for 7 years and married for 5. My family see him as a golden child, second son and that he cannot do wrong. In our first year of marriage, he che... (370 words)

Whenever I call my b/f I get his voice mail, never him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever i call my boyfriend i get his voicemail and he only text me back ever once and a while i dont want to seem desperate but i want to show him that i care but how do i do that and how do i make him pay me attention or should i just let it go... (57 words)

I'm in love with his best friend, so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, i am having a little bit of trouble.. i am going out with someone, but there is someone else i love, who is my boyfriend's best friend. i dont know what to do! i meen, i sort of love the person im going out with now, but i like the other guy a lot more. what sh... (66 words)

Is he trying to get revenge on me for something I didn't even do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - is he cheating?i've been with this guy for over 2 years we've been through A LOT. at 18 i got pregnant and he cheated on me ever since theres been lots of problems.were abusive to each other, we dont have any trust in each other, we dont respect each other. Things have gotten ... (608 words)

Does every woman have the ability to have a g spot orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has recently taken a turn down a path of simply stressing me out and making me feel bad because I have never had one. He has said and done things to make sex not fun (that to have sex with me is like having sex with a doll or questioning every action I make or ... (170 words)

I feel like he can't stand me at times, but why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am experiencing difficulties in my relationship and quite frankly I am having a difficult time wrapping my head around some things and I am hoping that someone can give me a clearer sense of direction because I am lost somewhere amongst the muddle. I seem to be caught up ... (680 words)

How can I get to see my siblings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my mom got pregnant with me when she was 18 and my biological father was 22!when she told him,he told her that he was goin 2 tell his parents she got pregnant with some1 else and out of sympathy he was goin 2 marry her!my mom said no!so he told her 2 meet him 1 night ... (219 words)

What should I do so he won't get jealous of this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 2 long distance friends with whom I keep in touch,but more often with one than the other b/c I really have feelings for him and the other I just see as a friend. The thing is that my crush is a little jealous whenever I mention I have male friends or keep in touch with ... (162 words)

I want to see a black guy - how do I tell my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met my online bf a month ago, (he's 15 and I'm 14), I love him a lot except there is one well two huge problems, 1.My parents don't want me talking to people I don't know online and 2. My parents are extremly racist and my bf is black. He wants to meet up over winter break, ... (146 words)

What do women want in a man? Women are so complicated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

12 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - 12 October 2009: What woman wants in a man? when i was with my girlfriend, i used to love her like hell ....sometimes i used to struggle to find out that what would make her happy being with me. sometimes my wacky sense of humor would leave her laughing like crazy and ... (114 words)

Does sex play a huge role in dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How long do you wait for sex with a guy so he doesnt think you are a hoe or slut?... (20 words)

I'm beginning to think I am pregnant by a very jealous and controlling man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I tried to make this short but...couldn't. I kind of already know the answer to this but..thought I'd ask for advice. I have been dating someone for several months. We have had a argument every month except one about my ex husband. I have been divorced for over three ... (634 words)

What do good guys look for in a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I attract good guys, I dont know what I am doing but I always seem to attract bad guys. Lots of people think that I want bad guys but the truth is I dont notice their bad behavior til later on and I do leave always. So my question is if I did have a chance with a good ... (72 words)

Married but can't shut off the feelings I have for a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married 28yr old. Been married for two years. I’ve tried to be concise here as I have a tendancy to ramble on! I used to chat to a male friend of mine on facebook last year and what started off as just having the same taste in music chats and recommending bands to ... (884 words)

She changed her mind about loving me, is there anything I can do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have known this girl a long time, and she had said to me that she loved me, i felt in the same way, however she said a while after that that she didn't. She says she "cares" about me now but i'm not sure what that means. When i confronted her about it she didn't want to talk ... (70 words)

How can you tell if someone is a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I work as an event host for local clubs and I meet a lot of club promoters. How do you know if he is sincere? And how can you tell if someone is sincerely interested in you and not just see you as a one night stand? I'm curious. Because I respect myself and dont want to waste ... (73 words)

Is there hope to change mistakes and still get with someone you care about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im currently single and I really never had female friends so I hang out with guys, I get hit on by guys and shame on me I do love to tease. But I realize Im wrong so how do I change it now and convince him I am not this wild child. We still never went out on a date because I ... (84 words)

I am 37 and my husband is 64, but I want to try for a baby! Please help before time runs out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Help...... Im getting crazy now and nearly to the depression. I dont know what to do. My Husband is older than me 29 years. He is 64 and i am 37. He has 1 son and i have 2 also both from the first relationship. same situation as he is. The problem is im getting crazy now hoping ... (237 words)

Is there a dodgy underground sex trade?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is gonna sound like a weird question but does anyone know if there are any working girls who cater to very weird or risky fetishes-such as unprotected anal sex or scatophilia-the reason I ask is because I know someone who was threatened by a pimp because she refused to ... (132 words)

People make fun of me because I have only had 1 boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid i am a female and i am 13 years old, people make fun of me because i have only had one boyfriend, we went out for 4 weeks and all we did was talk that was it! i don't know how to get myself out there and to gain the confidance to just make a move! could you please ... (63 words)

I'm confused over whether he loves me or not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months now and I think he's a liar. There was this time when I read his text messages and he was sending flirty messages to his "friend". And when he went out of town for 2 weeks, he said he was going to call me but never did, like ... (89 words)

Are we heading into rocky territory by texting each other so frequently? I have never had a friend of the opposite sex I was this close to!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been very close friends with another couple for years. We spend holidays together, birthdays together, take vacations together, etc. My husband and the girl are very much like brother and sister and have had this relationship since long before we met. She ... (278 words)

My wife likes to pleasure herself, is this normal? I only thought it was men that played with themselves!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

12 October 2009 (M)

age - hi we have been married for over 25 years and there is very little my wife and i have not done in the bedroom department. we both enjoy sex and are healthy. recently my wife is more into self please of herself, its something she as done for many years and we have always fo... (144 words)

Why has he all of a sudden started to ignore me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hope you can help me out because im so messed up. A guy mate of mine has always been a bit strange with me. All throughout college we didnt talk much because people used to say stuff about us and they didnt like us being friends(a girl in particular didnt who has fancied him ... (575 words)

I'm having major confidence problems at school and I get upset over the slightest thing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have confidence problems at school, all the time I feel paranoid about my figure and If I look ok, what people are thinking about, if it's about me, If someone has said something about me. I feel like I don't fit in and it's making me hate school, it has effects on me at ... (153 words)

How can I get my mum to give my new boyfriend a chance? She still prefers my ex who cheated on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - A few months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. He was my age. A few weeks after that, I started dating a guy who I had been in love with since I was 12 (I'm 14). He is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and what makes it even more incredible is that he feels the ... (162 words)

Can you call this an affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age - My husband had dancing and talking to each other in a bar one evening and she was also sitting with the same table as my husband and his employers. Can you called it an affair?... (37 words)

How do I tell her I'm okay with whatever she decides?

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my Muslim female friend told each we liked one another about a month ago we havent talked about our feelings since. so tomorrow i'm planning on telling her to face to face that i have fallen in love with her however i don't know what to say after i do this, but i want to ... (91 words)

We split up a year and a half ago and he is still messing me around! I need to give him an ultimatum but I don't want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend split up with me 1 1/2 years ago. He never gave me a specific reason. From then on, because i wanted to get back with him - i tried everything. Then we'd argue and he'd say - 'I was going to say we should get back together, but now its stupid'. I'd do the sli... (390 words)

I'm becoming increasingly concerned about my brother and husband spending too much time together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently become concerned about my brother and my husband. They're spending too much time together, and they've also keep going to Wisconsin quite frequently, which is strange considering we have no friends/family up there, and the fact we live down in Fort Worth, Texa... (123 words)

When the going gets tough he always bails on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this sounds so stupid and i know ive figured it out in my head, well nearly but im a 40yr old woman who should no what to do. i met a married man who wasnt happy he left his wife of 28ys and we built up a relationship. we have been together now for 17 months but when the ... (403 words)

Even though I am happy in my new relationship I am still uncomfortable about my ex bringing another woman to the wedding we are both attending!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After an on of relationship of 4 years my boyfriend and I broke up. Because he could not decide weather he wants me or not I decided to break contact as much as possible (we share lots of friends). He told evebody how I could not move on and that it is my fault that he could ... (287 words)

I'm petrified my past is going to come back to haunt me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

- Im 26 and just recently have turned my life around. From 21-25 I was heavily into drugs and partying non-stop. I done some things I regret. I know everyone does silly things that they regret when they are young but I cant seem to stop thinking about this. Two years ago I lied ... (288 words)

The father of my 4 kids could be going to prison for a rape he didnt commit, and it is all my fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i was with my partner for almost 8 years we have 3 children when he just comes in from work one day and leaves, I thought he'd be back cause he always did. But a week went by and he wasnt coming back, I asked him why and he said he was fed up with all the arguing, which was ... (567 words)

I'm uneasy about my boyfriend's attractive female friend, do I have a point or should I just get over it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a female friend he's known since university (he's now 29). She's very attractive (as he's said himself to me) and he used to fancy her a lot several years ago, when he was with his previous girlfriend. She liked him too, but then started going out with another ... (404 words)

How do I tell the father of my baby that I want us to be together?

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12 October 2009 (F)

- Hi, Im 26 and Im pregnant by someone who I was just seeing for a few months, nothing serious. It was a mistake - I was taking the contraceptive pill although had missed a lot. I did not want the pregnancy at first however he said he was really happy and that he would support ... (259 words)

How can I stop myself loving this man? He is a manipulative monster and a perv, I just want to stop loving him!

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12 October 2009 (F)

age - My heart is broken, I have been with this "wonderful" man for three years now, a hairdresser, he has pampered me and took me away on breaks, i have been taken to all his family birthday meals etc. Last weekend, my birthday weekend, we were at his flat, he had bought a new phone ... (537 words)

I've met someone but I cant stop thinking about my holiday romance!

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I met a guy on holiday and we really hit it off. I've never met anyone like him before we were like best friends and more. We said when I go back over there for uni we would get together and that we would see each other on holidays and he would come visit me sometimes. when ... (107 words)

My ex only wanted to give me oral sex and now it is affecting my new relationship!

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I had been seeing my girlfriend for about 9 months and although full sexual intercourse is not so often she prefers to perform oral sex on me. The first time she did it I thought wow very experienced and a bit much as we had not really been intimate in anyway. As time went on ... (299 words)

Should I hold onto the hope that he might come back to me?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age - i am still very confused in what to do my boyfriend and i broke up just before last christmas after 11 wonderful years. he met someone else who has a child of 8 years old and moved straight in with her. he kept texting me right up to aug of this year when one day he turn up ... (291 words)

I think he wants "space" to really break up with me but he doenst have the guts

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive been dating this guys since january this year.. and everything has been perfect... i mean we had dumb arguments before about why we werent going out yet, or why he did that.. nothing serious because we always seem to get over it pretty fast... a month ago he finally ... (1341 words)

I've realised I married my husband for the wrong reasons and the feelings for my ex are still there, I just don't know what to do!

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is extremely long, sorry... ive been keeping this all inside for a very long time and it felt really good to finally get it out... I need help. I have really gotten myself into a pickle with this one. I have know my best friend for about 9 years now,(we'll cal... (776 words)

How can I help my mum? I think she has an alcohol problem

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life in general. I've become concerned about my mum lately, as recently she's began drinking a lot of alcohol, and several times tried to start the car before my dad has physically stopped her from getting in. I'm worried she'll drink and... (201 words)

My boyfriend told me he doesn't enjoy sex with me and thinks of his ex instead!

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi last night my boyfriend and were cuddling in bed and we got talking about our sex life, which i believed has been good so far, ( we have been dating for a yr now) he said he doesnt enjoy sex, even though its been yrs since he broke up with his ex, every time we have sex... (109 words)

Does loving someone change the way sex feels?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, To the men out there, this is one I hope you can help with, although I'd of course like the ladies' opinions too. I have been dating a man for over a year now and have always known that he was sexually much more experienced than I am. He is older than me and it w... (332 words)

Does my girlfriend's friend fancy me?

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for about 6 years now and although we are happy i keep getting mixed feelings about her friend. Her friend has a boyfriend who i am starting to get on with really well and although i have no intentions of acting on my ... (431 words)

Will a long distance relationship work for us?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with a 20 year old man from America and my problem is i AM 27, have a child and i AM living in England We talk every night sing talk on the phone and tell each other how much we love each other We haven't met yet and i wish i could afford to fly ou... (104 words)

How can I get this apartment rented??

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that I am probably about to be kicked out of my apartment because my boyfriend and I can't afford the bills anymore. When we first signed the lease, we were both working full-time and I was going to school (still am, but working part-time), but now my boyfriend ... (195 words)

Am I in over my head with this girl and baby?

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am talking to this girl and i Really like her but there is a problem that my friends have no answer for shes pregnant(not for me) and the father wants nothing to do with her or the baby hes your typical coward. i want to start a relationship with her eventually b/c shes a ... (201 words)

Should I cut my losses early and run like the wind?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age - I am very recently married to a man who has a number of children by different women. These children and their mothers cause constant friction and trouble between us, there is always some drama and he is constantly called away to hospitals, police stations etc etc. Yes i should ... (374 words)

I want my boyfriend and his brother too!

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I'm a mother to 2kids and have been with my boyfriend for almost 6years now. Just last week when we had a drink at one of his brothers girlfriends aunty and when we left home me and his brother started txting eachother. My boyfriends brother wanted to meet up and so ... (157 words)

He lets his family tell him what to do about me

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody please help me.I need help.I'm so sad and confuse.I have been date with him for 2 years and we live together.Past 2 month ago we move to his home town. when we live before we don't have no problem. After we moved to his home town he changed.He don't spend time with ... (454 words)

Why can't he contact me even once a week?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my Bf for over 3 years. We lived together for 2 and 1/2 of those 3 years. We have both been through a lot together, even illnesses. My current problem is that right now we are many many miles apart due to different nationalities and he can not seem to get i... (283 words)

Did I say all the right things?

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How can I get my family to believe me?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was the bad girl and very promiscious from the tender age 12. By high school, it was very well-known by everyone that I slept around frequently and had a thing of going after other women's men, especially the married ones. By the end of my freshman year of high school, I had ... (435 words)

Troubled girlfriend looking for a way to make my boyfriend realize what he's got before it's gone...

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is going through a divorce, but still talks to his ex ALL the time. They have a daughter together, so I understand them having to talk some, but not about how eachother's day went, etc. He is constantly texting when he is with me, but tells me it's no one. I got ... (257 words)

I am in love with my ex-teacher in highschool, what do I do?

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with someone which is possibly a huge plus. A problem with this love is its for my ex teacher from high school. I am now in college and have known him for three years. He has no clue, but i think he sees us as friends or at least more than strangers. I find myself ... (181 words)

I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am horrible at these kinds of things...never really had any relationships in HS, had 2 in college so yeah...Im pretty much new to all this. I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out??? He... -Pokes me (though yesterday he poke someo... (476 words)

I am confused and am unsure how I should continue with my life?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know if I should get a divorce. At this time my husband is not living at home. I made him leave a few weeks ago after a drunken rage caused him to threaten me and his boys. He is an alcoholic and relapsed. I have been dealing with this sort of situation for almost ... (226 words)

He asks me over and then makes out with another girl right in front of me!

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy/friend i used to sleep with calls me and hes like please come see me..so i go over there were making out hugging holding blah blah i mean its obvious he likes me cuz he told me he cared about me and he thought i was so beautiful n stuff right..(i mean like before i met ... (187 words)

Am I just being paraniod?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - AM I JUST PARANOID? well my boyfriend an I are having problems because of this girl named Amanda, when I come to think about the 'breaks' we took away from each other it didn't really take him a week to go to another girl's house.. I'm really confused about this, I went thr... (141 words)

Do you think there's a chance he'll want to hang out again?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy the other day while volunteering, and we hit it off right away. When I was about to leave, he asked me what I was doing later, and we exchanged phone numbers. We hung out that night (him, me, and my friend) and watched movies. Although it was a little awkward, I ... (203 words)

Vicious Cycles of personality?

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my girlfriend for quite awhile. In that time we've been evolving and had our ups and downs as any couple have. We split up for a couple of months this summer, and then got back together, and I've since started realizing where the real problems lie with myself ... (464 words)

Is it jeolousy or is it her?

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend I have been together over 4 years. We were planning to get married this december, but we had been having some arguments/differences, and I had started to have some serious trust issues with her. She started to hang out with a single man quite a bit, and tried to ... (536 words)

No presents from my children?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age - Is it juat me or do other women never get a birthday present or a christmas present. Over the years it has always been me giving and giving. Lately I notice I give but do not get anything in return particularly from my children who are 17 and 15. My birthday went by... (101 words)

I'm married and I know I need to end this relationship

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am involved in a emotional affair with a man that I have known off and on for 4 years. I have become very close to him and have fallen completly for him. I am married and I know that I need to end this affair. I have tried to just be friends with this man. I cant help my ... (126 words)

I like my ex's friend

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12 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my ex broke up bout 5 months ago.ended pretty bad, we were together bout 3 months.not long at all right, but i happen to like one of her friends that's in my class.she's not her best friends but one of her good friends . I kinda think this girl likes me but im not ... (137 words)

Has he backed off because I said no to sex?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known a guy for 3 months and been dating him for just over a month. Three weeks into the relationship he told me he wanted to sleep with me and I told him I wasn't ready. He was ok with that and said he was prepared to wait. Ever since then we haven't been making out like ... (259 words)

Boyfriend makes me so anxious its affecting my body

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 and my boyfriend is 31. I am very happy sexually, my boyfriend is not. He says he is then he says he isn't. We've been going through a rough patch (and I mean he's been very verbally abusive) and my mind and body have been thrown very out of whack...that bei... (353 words)

Does the guy I am interested in like me?

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12 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy, and I think he might be interested in me too. I think he flirts a lot with me, like he: - Squeezes my sides - Squeezes my knee - Gives me high fives - Gives me hugs - Teases me, Says, "Your Gay!" All the time. - Talks to me a lot - Walks with... (143 words)