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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I caught him watching porn again despite him telling me he quit! Should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 yrs old, im latina, most of my friends says im a vey pretty women, i am living with my bf, he is from usa, i love him so much, i left everything to be with him (my family, friends, job) . the fist time i caught him watching porn was because i was sleeping naked next t... (404 words)

How do I let him know I miss him as a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been kinda hanging out with this guy for a month. I got to meet him through a very good friend of mine who told me that he was a really great guy. In that month (August)everything just seemed perfect we would take walks together,watch movies together, jog, talk and ... (731 words)

The love of my life adds pornstars to his facebook!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is the love of my life, an utterly lovely man, but also a very naughty, horny man. He likes his porno films and has tons. I've never minded this as I do like it to, but recently he's started adding the pornstar girls on his facebook.. By the handfull. I've lost ... (133 words)

Sex still hurts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know if your cherrie has been completely poped or all the extra skin has broke??? please give me sum answers becouse im 16 iv had sex about 25 or more times w/ the same guy and it hurts every time and i hate it!... (48 words)

I feel like I need to get away from him but I'm doomed alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to think anymore. Ive been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. When we met he gave up going out to bars every night because I wasnt old enough (him being 10 years senior my new adult status). A few of his female friends were strippers he would go see while they ... (718 words)

My ex reappeared after telling me to back off, only to leave when I asked questions!

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex kicked me out of our home 6 weeks ago, but after a week gave the impression he wanted to work on things we saw each other, and slept together, only for 2 weeks later to turn around and tell me he didnt know his feelings anymore.In that time I have found my self a house ... (194 words)

Is she thinking about someone else during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - On three occasions while having sex with my wife, I've noticed that she turned her face sideways, not looking at me ( our position was that she was under me,while I was on top of her ). She closed her eyes and turned her head side ways. Does this mean she may had been thinking ... (63 words)

I'm not sure if he really is into me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21yrs an hav a 7mth old baby, my baby's daddy an i are not the best of friends now, but presently i occasionally see my ex beginning since over a year ago, i havent seen him since i was pregnant though but we do hav plans to see each other soon, the thing is that im not to ... (154 words)

Should I listen to my heart or my head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'd like some advice on how to get my heart to listen to my head, or whether I should carry on as I am. A month ago, I split up with my bf of 9 years. We were happy for 7 years, lived together for 5 years, but then split up in May 2008 when I found out he was "messing ... (650 words)

Why haven't I had a boyfriend yet. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey :) i am 15 and i would say i am kind bubbely and chatty.But my freinds say i am stuuning i dont think that though and they say i have everything eg the looks,the body and the persanality but i dont agree! Becouse i have never had a boyfriend not even a first kiss i mea... (130 words)

I can't figure out what's wrong with my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 11 months now. We both graduated college. He has a job and Im still looking for one. He lives about 45 minutes away from me so we get to see each other about 2 times a week. Other than that all we do is text ea... (262 words)

I'm confused, depressed and possibly pregnant. I need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well me and this guy have been and on and off relationship we dated auqust to november and after we broke up he told me its cuz he was 17 and i was 14 nd then he said he didnt wanna girlfriend for his gradution but then he tried to get with all my friends. and they are the same ... (1220 words)

His family are very religious and I'm not. Can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't been one to have many good realonships, over a year ago i had a break down last year over my ex which i had nearly died from as i was treated so badly by my ex but now i have moved on and in a realonship with another guy whos more mature 22 years old and a christain ... (910 words)

Let down by my sister and her buisness.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So" hello to all of you. I just really, really need an advice to make me calm down. Here"s d" story. Me and my sister in law was use to be very close 3 years ago even all my family doesnt like her it didnt stop me to be friend to her. After 1 year she said she wanna open a b... (445 words)

I'm at a stand still with someone I love who doesn't know what she wants.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm kind of at a stand still right now, and I need someones opinion. I'm 20, now ex girlfriend is 31, she is married, and has 2 kids, and says she loves her husband more than anything, unless they are in a fight. Her and I dated for 2 years, and I lived with her and eve... (708 words)

What is true beauty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you think true beauty means? Someone said I had it but wouldn't explain what they meant. So what do you think that means?... (25 words)

Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we do plan to meet each other ... (198 words)

How to deal with my love for her and my trust issues, including her smoking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for five and a half months and we recently moved up to the same college together. We have been having troubles in our relationship, she has bad ptsd which makes her very angry and very stressed very easily! She started to take it ... (667 words)

My boyfriend has this theory that because he works longer hours and makes more money, he shouldn't have to lift a finger at home?!?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this normal? Am I crazy? OK so I have been with my man for almost 4 years now. Right now I am between jobs so I pick up most of the slack with the housework. Here's my problem. When I am working full time I am also responsible for the housework. Now, I am not lazy. I e... (477 words)

I need tips on oral sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I need help from all woman who know what they like when it comes to sex. My problem is how to give my lady the great adventure of oral sex. I need tip on how to do so! I love to give her oral but every time I do I feel like I'm letting her down. So help a man out and send ... (69 words)

We aren't together, but I still feel let down. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really attahcd to a guy that lives about 2 hours away. Im going to university next year and il be living about 20 minutes away from him. Im so attached to him, i think about him all the time. I met him at a festival and we got on so well, instant chemistry and we swapped m... (272 words)

Now that I'm pregnant, he doesn't seem around anymore! How can I get through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and I am expecting a baby In December. Our life used to be great together, we would have so much fun and i felt so loved and cared for. We spent all of our time together and he treated me amazingly, always showing that he ... (199 words)

I have lost my self esteem. How an I get it back again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and have real self esteem issues. I have been with my boyfriend for just under a year and for the first half of this year he built up my self confidence from basically nothing. Now I can feel myself slipping back to where I was. I don't believe him when he ... (106 words)

Does he really care for me? Or are my friends right about him being a 'player'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the past few years I’ve developed strong feelings for a friend of mine. We originally met over the internet, but we’ve met up a few times since, sometimes I go to see him, and sometimes he comes to see me. Every time we meet up, we act like we’re a couple, hold hands, hug, ... (770 words)

Is this truly love? Or is it just the flavor of the week?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i know this is going to sound very stupid but i think i am inlove with the guy i met during the holidays.well the thing is when i first saw him i was very attracted to him my heart shot through the roof! somehow along the way we started dating and he is everything i wan... (205 words)

Had his baby and I still can't get over his cheating. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of three years cheated on me i then found i was pregnant, we now have a 7mth old baby and i cant get past the cheating, he has alot of excuses the ones we hear all the time like it wasnt suppose to happen, it meant nothing etc... but after i found out, he promised ... (92 words)

Why do kids like me so much? What makes them like one person over another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - kids and espercially female from about 7 to 12 do find my company loving and will like me me to be with them all the time.when ever i visited a family only for a first time with their little female kid at home they'll like me to stay with them and spend a little time with ... (110 words)

Do guys wait for their girlfriends if they are virgins?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I told to my bf whom I dated for one month that Iam virgin..He respected me and said he wait me until Iam ready.. and he wanted to be with me forever. Do the guys wait their gf or change their behaviors toward gf when the girl told to bf she is virgin and she is not ready to... (64 words)

How can I get over being so controlling? Is it justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This woman was my first real relationship. Real as In a person I could see myself marrying. I grew up with no father and my mom a abused me and ditched me. My best friend who was also a chick ditched me. And my first real girlfriend used me cheated on me with my friends and ... (320 words)

How do I fix this after cheating with her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So the other night my brother and I decided to go drinking, we drank... heavily and set out (in a cab) to hit the bar. We get to the bar, hang out, life is good, we met some cool people. Now that being said, I woke up and a girl was leaving my apt. so I pretended t... (215 words)

Does she still have feelings for him? Or should I forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my gf of one year on our anniversary. i was apologizing nearly 3 hours after i did it and wanted to talk to her and make it better, during our one month split, we were still contacting each other and she even let me keep some stuff at her house. little did i ... (421 words)

He regrets knowing me...so how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Thank you for previous replies to my posts http://www.dearcupid.org/question/follow-up-on-emigrating-to-oz-while-my.html and wanted to update that today my boyfriend basically gave me an ultimatum that it was not acceptable for me to come and go out his life (i.e. go back to ... (213 words)

What are some ways that I can spice up our sex life? Getting bored!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for the past couple of months. We were both each others firsts and so far our sex has been mind blowing. BUT I'm starting to get bored of having ssex in the same positoin each time. We always have sex in the missionary posit... (234 words)

Should I go back to her or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Im stuck and dont know what to do, I'm in a realtionship I thought I was happy in and now my world has been turned upside down. My ex has come back to me wanting me back. Now the long story. We been together 3 years, Was very good relationship but near the end ... (283 words)

What are some tips in lasting longer during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - so I met this amazing person, and we care for each other deeply. But when it comes to sex, I cum too fast. Not even like, I dont last long. But, Literally, I came as the condom was put on. I cant control this, I have tried "dont focus on it, dont think abou... (79 words)

She says she needs space, but is she really looking for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I posted earlier that my girlfriend of 5 years left for her internship 3000 miles away about a month ago and will be back in about 4 months from now. After a week and a half of leaving we got into a little argument and told me she wanted a break and space. After a w... (250 words)

Ex doesn't believe the baby is his and treats me very badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex was supposed to pay half a deposit for a pregnancy antenatal visit. He had agreed (prior to breaking up) to pay half then 1 hr before the appointment today he decided to go back on his words and not pay...meaning I am now trying to get any appointment I can, since missing ... (626 words)

Could pop and juice make vaginal odor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok sometimes i have i bad odor in my vagina but i was wondering if it was from drinking alot of pops and juices and not enough water? But now i'v been drinking more water my pee is coming out clear instead of dark yellow..... (53 words)

Why didn't the nurse ask me more questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just come home after having my flu jab done... What i was wondering: ever time I've had it done so far I have always been asked if im on the pill, if I'm pregnant/ if there is a chance of being pregnant, if I'm allergic to eggs or if I've been ill recently... But the nurse ... (165 words)

Is it good that my g/f tells me whenever guys hit on her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dear reader. I’m 4th year of Med school I’m 22.Yeah my studies are really difficult. So I met a girl this summer don't know how to explain: but everything just went too fast. We kissed first day, we had sex 3 days after. And we went to have vacation together, and other ... (287 words)

To get attention do guys send random text messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys send random text messages to get a females attention? Mine broke up with me, after cheating twice, with the same girl... it ended a week ago... I have not spoken to him and then this morning, he sends me a text that said "lets go to the honda store today".... I'm stew... (93 words)

He wants to go from 1 to 10 with no inbetween?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing someone for about a month. We get along great, see each other often and many times we just spend time talking, playing sport, going for walks etc. He's been very slow to make a move on me and even after he did he's been slow in progressing things. But then the ... (282 words)

Crushing on my married doctor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I changed my doctor last year based on my neighbor's referal. He is good in his profession but I instantly liked him , he is very cute. I also came to know that he lives in the neighborhood. He could guess that I had crush on him. To avoid any misunderstanding ( or rather ... (284 words)

Was I too forward and ruined things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Some advice needed men/women!! I need to know if i have been too forward and ruined things???? Ok i met this guy and we would bump into eachother a lot! he would always come over to speak to me, he would stop what he was doing to come and talk to me, so this went on for a... (332 words)

Should "hot and heavy" turn to "cool" in just a year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay Uncles(would like a male opinion) and Aunts here's one that I really need advice on quick! My man and I have been together for about 1 year and I'm noticing a few things that are Greek to me, I have no idea why. I understand when it's "new" things are hot and heavy so... (555 words)

I can't get over his dirty magazine habits!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, i cant believe im am writing and asking for advice, ive always been the one giving out advice and never needed any before. I am one of these that tackle any problems i have had in my life and then just get on with it. But im at a loose end on this one. I have been wit... (1142 words)

Dreams of cheating on my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep having dreams about cheating on my boyfriend. Whether it's just kissing, or going all the way, it seems to be happening at least twice a week...and with different people! Every time I have a dream like this I wake up feeling physically sick. I love my boyfriend more than ... (185 words)

Which would be the best opportunity for my career?

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6 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, i'd like some advice on this please.I have been offered two Au Pair jobs in Spain, and i'm not sure which one to take. I'll tell you about both, and see what you think. One is in Pontevedra in Northern Spain. I have seen photos of the family and the house they live in, an... (442 words)

What do my dreams mean? Is it guilt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently graduated from hs. there was this girl who ws infatuated with me since 8th grade except i didn`t know her as well. we had classes together she was shy. one day she told me her feelings but i didn`t respond it caught me off guard. i guess she thought i rejected her ... (111 words)

She tells me I blew it. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a big problem. my ex and i were together for almost 6 years. we broke up in june cause i thought she didnt love me anymore. i soon found out that i was wrong and she did still love me. in july she tried to get me to take her back but i wasnt ready. now its sept and i am ... (210 words)

I really don't know what he wants from me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been fooling around with a guy. We're close friends. He's told me wants a relationship but I've mad it clear from the start that it won't happen and that I just don't want to get into anything that deep with anyone again. He's happy with what we have as casual play buddies ... (117 words)

I need motivation, and he just doesn't seem enough.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here goes.... I'm a bit confused... When i was about 6 years younger i want a good life, a life were i could look after myself and be me, be rich before 20 and know what i want. Then things changed, i met a guy that messed me around, i then was dumped and then went out ... (204 words)

Can you get pregnant from grinding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were naked and grinding each other's genitals. He was hard, but he didn't release. I was in my second day of menstruation that time. He also didn't even enter me (we're both virgins). What are the chances that I'm pregnant?... (44 words)

I can't stand his ex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am obsessed with my partners ex girlfriend. I keep on looking at her web site, her facebook and myspace account. I call her on private number and text her pretending to be someone else to try and get information and to make her think that i don't care and that my partner has ... (315 words)

She just wants sex, but I want marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years old man and one of my best friend's sister likes me. she is very hot sexy and her figure is very attractive. i also like her and i want to be married with her but she does not want. she want to have sexual living relationship and nothing else. many times she has ... (228 words)

I know I can't ask him to stop having contact with her. Any suggestions?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age - I am getting married very soon and currently my fiancé and I live apart due to selling houses etc. My fiancé has a close female friend whom he has known for over 15 years. I also know her as we all used to work together. My fiancé and her have always been close and she used to ... (215 words)

How can I get my netfriend to be in love with me rather than just lusting after me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, Im 24yrs old and met this great guy on the net.We had started off with cybersex ,but our chemistry was so bang-on.Its fireworks each time still.Moreover he's so romantic.he leaves me the most amazing messages each morning telling me something different everytim... (229 words)

Questions about my first cylce of IVF treatment

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering if anyone could give me some help. My husband and i are about to go through our first cycle of IVF Treatment. Does anyone know in the UK how long you take the medication for? and how long after finishing the medication do u have to wait for the egg coll... (63 words)

Is it normal to have a period and then start spotting once back on the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I've been on the pill for years, and came off the pill for a week to allow my period to turn up. However a week later of being back on it again im having another period- it was spotting to start with and now its heavy? is this normal? its never happened befor... (67 words)

How do I get over losing the girl of my dreams?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Everybody sorry for the long story but, I am desperately looking for your help, please answer and please don't pull any punches, I have just recently split up with my girl friend of a year and and half, we have had major trust problems in the past and have split up and got ... (243 words)

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. my period was suppose to come over the weekend (i could really tell it was close) so on saturday night my bf and i had sex he did come inside me. suddenly all of the premenstrual pains stopped cud this mean that im pregnant coz i still havnt gotten my periods. thanx... (55 words)

I don't want to ruin her marriage but I cant help the feelings I have for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i am completely in love with this girl that i have been best friends with since high school. We never really got the chance to date because every time i was single she was dating someone. Every time she was single i was dating someone. I went to alaska for six months to ... (204 words)

I don't feel comfortable with my boyfriend spending time with his close female friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i always feel really uncomfortable with my boyfriend spending time alone with his one close girl friend. i know some ppl will think im being paranoid, but please hear me out. i never put my bf in that situation where he feels jealous/insecure about me being alone with another ... (187 words)

Do you think she has changed her mind and wants to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I am 21 years old and this is a question directed towards the girls... (but if you are a guy who has had the same thing happen please feel free..) My best friend is a girl and we have been friends for years. We have always back and forth over the years had crushes... (436 words)

Why would he want me to abort his baby if he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants me to have an abortion because we are still young, and his mother does not approve of a girl who is not married to have a second child. I am confused whether he loves me or not, why does he want me to do abortion?... (48 words)

My ex and I are trying to rekindle our relationship, how can I show him I wont hurt him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a very complicated situation with my ex boyfriend. we are having a baby together. the baby is due in february. and right now we are trying to rekindle our relationship. right now, it feels that we're only doing that for the baby, which isnt a bad thing, but at th... (412 words)

How do I give my boyfriend a good blowjob?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hmm... Well where do i start as many of you may know i dont see my bf so much but i will see him tomorrow... ?? And i was wondering whats some goodways to give a good blow job to him i want him to leave with wanting more thanks much love :) ... (53 words)

I want to plan our future but he thinks I'm thinking too far ahead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my boyfriend and I go to seperate colleges and he plays baseball. We have been together for 3 years and were planning on getting married the summer after graduation. Everytime I bring something up that I'm concerned about I.e. Money or something along that line he gets mad ... (146 words)

For the twins out there: How does it feel to have such a close relationship that you cant be seperated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this question is for twins or anyone that is a twin, im just curious how it feels to have another with the same appearance and if you and him/her have a close friendship so much that you cant be separated? do you always want to know where he/she is at all times?... (52 words)

What does having a casual relationship mean?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does having a casual relationship mean? I think that is currently what I am having with a man that I have known for awhile. I was really trying to get over him and he dragged me back in over the weekend. I went out on Saturday night and he was at the same bar I like t... (434 words)

Could I be pregnant even though my boyfriend is on male enhancements?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 18 and i think im pregnant because ive been having unprotected sex but my boy is on male enhancements do you think that will mess with his sperm and cause him to be shooting blanks because he has busted inside me many times over a three weeks and i was also ... (109 words)

Big questions about life and guys......

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been put together into one post] Question 1: How do I get over a guy whose made fun of me many times to my face and behind my back to his friends that can become very agressive in the littlest situations. We go to th sa... (282 words)

I'm really frustrated that I'm a virgin at 20 when I had the chance to lose it to a really hot girl when I was a teenager!

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6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, hi. long story short. back in the 7th grade, a girl asked me out. this girl was hot. big boobs, nice glowing skin, nice butt. she was one of those girls that was very sexual and flirtatious with the boys. anyway, she wanted to go out with me, but i never said yes... (509 words)

Should I worry about getting pregnant even though we have been having unprotected sex for a while now?

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6 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - me and my bf have sex usually 4 times a week, but almost every time it is more than once a day in those 4 days, so its more like 7 or 8 times a week. i get my period fairly regularly. we do not use condoms or any sort of birth control. he just pulls out. yet every time we have ... (162 words)

Is it ok to sleep with a woman I hardly know?

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6 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I meet a woman 2 months ago, through the Internet.We talk over the phone just about everyday. The problem is she wants to spend the night with me.The problem is that I am scared of her showing up un-announced, Is it ok to sleep with a woman I hardly know? Should I even let her ... (84 words)

After being in an abusive relationship I'm scared that maybe all guys are like that and I deserve that kind of relationship

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am 16 and I was recently involved in an abusive relationship with a guy a year younger than I am. I normally don't date younger do to their immaturity level because however I am on a higher level then most my age. Everything was perfect couldn't have been better for ... (587 words)

Did he think he was going to get sex again?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I recently decided to be friends again after one year of no communication. I quit talking to him because he didn't want to commit, stringing me along and messing with my feelings. He contacted me asking if we could still be friends and we met and talked recently. He ... (219 words)

Could this really be it after 8 years?

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6 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok after 8 yrs my girl said its over .yeah we had or problems in the past just minor stuff arguing nothing crazy shes the girl that changed everything about me over that time. she has always gave in when we argued before but now she wont even return my calls or text so should i ... (88 words)

How can I get him back without pushing him away?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help... I'm in love with a guy, our past is pretty messed up... (he's cheated once while drunk, etc) ... we've fought off an on since then about petty crap and the same issue (cheating). He made amends when it came to cheating, though I always have questions to ask... (158 words)

I feel stupid for letting it get so bad, we have to fix this or we break up

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not really used to this whole blogging your feelings thing but here it goes: -takes deep breath- I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I truly do love him. He is honest(tactless but honest nonetheless), a great provider, and shows plenty of affection tow... (845 words)

How do I keep our friendship without feeling this discomfort around her?

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6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - To start: I am just over eighteen and still inexperienced with matters of the heart, I have dated quite a few girls and they all said they loved me but I never really felt it back. Now there is this girl who I have been friends with for maybe four years, I always thought s... (322 words)

Should I confront my 'friend'?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If you have found a guy you have been involved with has been sending text messages to one of your close girl friends and the friend has not mentioned this inappropriate behavior to you, what should you do? I definitely feel I should confront both of them, but I'm not sure I ... (110 words)

He says he's going to cheat on me - should I chase after him?

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6 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - to make a long story short, me and my bf of 3months have been fighting lately because he tells me hes going to go chill with other girls and cheat on me and stuff and i get pissed and he gets mad and says im insecure. so now he said he needs to think, and he is having ... (138 words)

Should I text her or tell her face to face?

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6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a senior in high school this year. Ever since the end of my Sophomore year I have really like this girl. She did something really nice for me, which I wont go into detail. But it really touched my heart, and I've liked her ever since. So that summer (before my ... (222 words)

Is this girl playing me?

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6 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. After months of no contact, my ex called me and said she missed me. I still have feelings for her, but I feel strange because she can't just come back to me right? When I think of it, she's way higher class than me, and I get even more puzzled. Why me, w... (166 words)

He never reaches orgasm with me. Is this normal?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I've been casually seeing and sleeping for a while with has never been able to cum with me. He says that it's been a long time since he's been able to finish with a girl, whether it be actual sex or oral. He says that I do a really good job, but he just can't cum ... (80 words)

I have sex with guys - does this make me a whore?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am 16 and I lost my virginity at like 13. It was with someone I had a relationship with for 11 months. I don't regret it but it's brought me to like to have sex and do more things with the person I am with. I have had sex with more than one guy. Does this make me a ... (184 words)

Why did he delete the photo album?

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6 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm going crazy, i really hope someone can help me !. I'll try to write this briefly. I like this man who is 19 years older than me, i dont mind about the age gap. I heard that he liked me, and once when we were out he winked at me a lot, and other times he bought me a drin... (632 words)

Is this 'relationship' worth pursuing?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! I've recently met a guy a couple of weeks ago. We went out for a drink a few days after meeting, and he told me he didn't want any kind of serious relationship and just wanted a bit of fun. I've been having relationship problems myself lately and i thought at the time... (473 words)

How can I end this cycle?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd been seeing this guy i work with for about 2 months when he decided to go back to his ex. We weren’t sleeping together because i don’t believe in it, and this was an issue for him. We’re different in our backgrounds-religiously. But we are very attracted to each other. W... (260 words)

My boyfriend is turning 21 soon, and I'm stressing out here! How can I make it super special for him?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 years is turning 21 in a month's time and I'm stressing out here. The issue is, I want to make this day super special for him. I have a lot of things planned for the day...now I don't know what to get him. I know dat some would suggest that spending time is ... (297 words)

I'm a chinese guy who has broken up with my indian girlfriend...because her parents don't approve

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6 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im a chinese guy and i met this indian girl at work a year from now. i felt this strong bond with her so last month i asked her out and she felt same way so she became my gf. i know most indian parents want arranged marriage or people from the same ethnicity to marry their ... (328 words)

I just can't be with him anymore. How can I get him out of my head?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to move on and I know that. The man I was seeing (fallen in love with) was separated and going through a divorce. He asked me out and I accepted and we had the most fantastic 5 months together. His ex started threatening to move away with the children (she didn't know ... (209 words)

Do nice guys even still exist?

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6 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and I have never been kissed. Or even been on a date. Now that I am in college I want to date but all the guys I meet are more interested in partying and meaningless sex. I do not go to parties and I obviously don't have sex so I don't know where I am supposed to meet ... (112 words)