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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I reconnect with this girl and motivate her to talk to me online more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl online and we have been talking for a while now. It was really great, we connected so well and I always loved talking to her. Ever since she started her job she has been working a lot and doesnt really go online that much. We have been talking on the phone and ... (189 words)

Will I miss my chance if I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - It's been a couple of years since I was last in a long-term relationship, but there's a girl I've been getting to know over the last few months and I feel like something could happen between us. Here's where it gets complicated. One of her best friends is a girl I've known ... (253 words)

Should the guy always lead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been taught that on dates, the guy does all the leading. Leading toward sex, cool. But do girls (the types who can get any guy) have to have the guy leading everything else too? I guess it's not as attractive if the guy doesn't feel like the leader...... (49 words)

I am upset over his actions! What do they mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this guy a year ago at uni and we were basically just having sex and seeing eachother and have been for the past year and in the summer he called me up and told me he liked me and that when we got back to uni he would like me to be his girlfriend. so we carried on texting ... (203 words)

Why do I want to be with someone who shows little regard for my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and i broke up more than a year ago, and moved away from each other, we were together for a year and half, and it was a very passionate relationship, we definitely loved each other a lot, but i hurt his pride, and that was it for him. A few months ago we started talki... (421 words)

How can I prove that I love him? I'll do whatever it takes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help from anyone that can relate. I am compleately head of heels in love with my ex. We broke up less than two months ago and I've tried and tried to get over him, but at the end of the day he's all I think about and the only person I want to be with. We had a pretty ... (110 words)

I am starting to feel more possessive after our 'fooling around' sessions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 suffering from bouts of depression. Started talking to a friend over a phone who, I don't even like that much but, suddenly we started flirting. I went over to his place and we fooled a bit. No intercourse just oral sex. He does'nt love me neither do I but, we just kee... (135 words)

His retreats are hurting me! How can I bring us closer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and get I get very close and then he retreats again. Pushing himself into work to maintain distance. Is there anything I can do to help him alleviate his fear. He was married once and he said it took him 3 years to get over it. I know he is afraid of being hurt ... (98 words)

I am getting abuse for dating a younger guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have rencently got involved wit a 16year old boy... i have only been seeing him a few days and he is so old for his age. i have alot of feeling for him and he is such a gentleman and makes me feel good about my self. the only problem is i am getting abuse from everyone... (94 words)

If I left it up to him, we'd never talk again. At what point do I give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend, we have a history together and that does mean we are more honest and volatile than normal friends but i really dont think this is about that. He has had a pretty troubled life and no-one that has come into his life has ever stuck around for him. He doesnt ... (395 words)

Is it not normal to mention an absent partner as a way to put off unwanted attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. Last night, my boyfriend called me, drunk, after attending a wedding. He told me I should be proud of him as he had been sitting next to a hot woman who had been hitting on him all night and he hadn't done anyt... (169 words)

What does it mean when he constantly pulls his pants up when he's around you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just a quick Q..... What does it mean when a man constantly pulls his pants up when hes near you? I talk to this man and about 70% of the time hes pulling up his pants or adjusting them (hes not wearing them so low they show his boxers....)... (51 words)

Is he a manipulative bastard or is he just afraid of his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't understand this man. My once boyfriend then ex then friend then boyfriend is driving me crazy. . He wanted to remain friends and we did he was there for my every time I needed him when my other friends were not. We got close again,and once again he draws me back in. ... (420 words)

He can be abusive and uncommunicative but I don't want to hurt him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my current boyfriend for almost two years now. We have had many rows over the past yrs and they have ended miserably. He can be very abusive and uncommunicative. I feel like he brings out the worst in me. I did break up with him and told exactely why. Bu... (158 words)

Could my fantasy happen or is it just wishful thinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Thanks for taking the time to help. Ok so at my center of work there's a woman who fancy's me, I think... I am woman and I have only been with men, the thought of another woman turns me on but I have never acted on it.. I am dating a nice fellow who works at the center as we... (597 words)

He hooked up with my sister so did I do the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been casually seeing a guy since June. We started to get closer in July, and when i hooked up with another guy, he felt hurt. We talked about it, and made up. At a graduation party a week later, i was there with my family, and he was there as well. I left early, and we ... (297 words)

How do I know he's seriously interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A guy i like ( a good friend at my university) gave me some clear indications of a possibility of something promising, but I feel he doesn't really take the pains to make me feel special. I am somewhat shy, maybe I didn't jump at his signals, but I do like him a lot. How do I ... (89 words)

Has my temper killed this marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age - I've been married to a kind,patient and gentle man for 9 years. We've had problems in the past with my being negative and having outbursts regarding things that I can't change i.e.traffic, weather, etc. I just quit my job after bering frustrated for several months. He just ... (159 words)

Can you like a guy but not be attracted to them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was wondering can you like a guy but not be attracted to them? Hope that doesn't sound rude... I like guys for their personalities, but most of the time I also consider them somewhat attractive. But I met this guy here at college...he sits behind me/marches beside me in ... (142 words)

I think my fiance might be cheating on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my fience is cheating on me. we've been together 3 years. we havent seen much of each other,one day a week because of work commitments...but hes been strange,distant and doesnt want to kiss me anymore (apprently because my breath smells) (IT DOESNT BTW) anyways me... (223 words)

I cheated, and I'm afraid my b/f is going to find out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need urgent help, please. i made a very big mistake. i cheated on my boyfriend. it started off just texting and emailing, then lead to meeting up and kissing. the guy i had an affair with has kept all the texts and one photo. he wont delete them. people have been talking and ... (146 words)

Are there stereotypes about cowboy boots I am unaware of?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 26-year old young professional and I have been dating a 30-year old man for almost two years. I recently mentioned that I wanted a pair of cowboy boots to wear over jeans just to go around the town with him because I liked the look. He proceeded to tell me that onl... (127 words)

Is it possible to get a fresh start with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. We had been dating for a little over 2 months at that point when she did it. Her reason was because that she was scared and it may have been going a little too fast paced for her. I know I messed something up though told her ... (420 words)

Should I have sex with her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi iv been out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and she is a little bit older tgan me and she wants to have sex but im not fully comfident with my body i have muscle but iv got a bit of fat on my belly only a little and it knocks my confidence with her and to be honest she ... (158 words)

What do I do about his twin hitting on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I happily married to an identical twin and we have children. His twin brother who is also married with children came on to me the other night (not the first time, it has happened about 5 times before). What I don't understand is why he is always hitting on me and why he would ... (83 words)

He wants to take things to the next level. Will he dump me if I don't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am totally in love with my bf and he loves me but he thinks we should move on to the next step and that is sex what should i do? me and my bf have bein going out for 6 years i was in six grade and he was my brothers friend in 8th grade. i am 16 and he is 18 right now and he ... (107 words)

What can I do to stop this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Someone plz give me some advice!!! I have no trouble talking to guys ... I can flirt just fine and ive had guys like me before and some even ask me out.. Not to brag but alot! So i have no troublemaking guys like me but the only thing is when i decide in my head that i like a g... (116 words)

Is it weird to love the taste of a guy's cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

4 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - is it weird to love the taste of a mans cum? i have been giving oral sex since i was 14 and i have always loved the feeling and taste of when a guy would "finish" in my mouth! i was talking to my friend about it and she said that she would never ever give a guy oral sex and ... (91 words)

What is my ex really up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for about 5 years and broke up in the beginning of this year. We slept together for months after the break up and were talking about getting back together when we had a few months of arguments and things fell apart. We still slept together a handfull ... (219 words)

I crave a better body!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hello, i am 16, have a bf of 3 months now who is 19. he is so supportive and i know he loves me and always tells me how gorgeous i am. the problem is, i crave a better body! i am 5'2" 104 lbs. i workout constantly, every single day i go to yoga and then to cheer practice. i ... (219 words)

Can someone help me with several questions I have about my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance and I are truly in love, soulmates, friends and we are very attracted to each other. He arouses me and I feel very sexy, gorgeous and desirable when I am with him. He has a very nice size and this would make sex perfect but for some reason he when he has an erection ... (371 words)

Is there too much history or could he still be interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does he want??? Ten years ago me and my friends hung around with a group of guys, one of them, Pete was always quite flirty with me and the attraction was mutual. Pete always had girlfriends so our freindship never developed. I started to date another guy who was friends ... (371 words)

What will be the effect of taking Viagra?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 21. I want some help here. I ejaculate within 4 to 5 minutes after entering her. What will be the affect of taking viagra? Will it give me more time to enjoy sex?? Will it delay ejaculation? U want to enjoy for 20 minutes. Thanks.... (48 words)

I'm confused and scared but he's playing games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and this guy have been kind of a on and off realtionship for a year and a month. we finally had sex after a year and the third time we had sex the condom had busted, and we arent together. he told me he would step up and be a man if i got pregnant but then he told me things ... (100 words)

Am I cheating on her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 21 and I have a girlfriend for the last 2 years. Here is somethng that is wrong. She is never ready for a physical relation and I have been craving for it. She says that it would be "cheating and ditching her parents if we do it before marriage". I love her but I am a ... (154 words)

At what age can I legally move in with my mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Right, my problem. I HATE my dad. I really hate him! My parents have divorced and they now live only a couple of streets away from each other. My brothers and i spend half the week with mum and the other half with our dad. I was wondering, what age can i personally... (84 words)

I am broken hearted and will never be okay again....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone... I wrote about a week ago about my ex who was sick and i ignored him. Well, I got good advises from here and I realized I was wrong timing to be ignoring him. If i was to be his friend again, I should really be his friend and not bring back our bitter past. So ... (182 words)

How can I help my younger brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My brother is 14 and is just starting highschool. Over the summer he has gotten into cigarettes and weed with his friends. I am worried about him because i didnt think he was like that. I understand he wants to experiment and that its a normal part of life. I want to know if ... (135 words)

My ex: do you think I should meet up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Something wired happened yesterday .. the whole day I was thinking about my ex boyfriend and how I missed him. Its strange for me to dwell on something so much, especially since we broke up last January, hadnt spoken in months and i've been in and out of another relationship ... (396 words)

My teacher offered to tutor me sexually. Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a highschool graduate who took a fifth year and just turned 19 when school ended. In January of 2009, I started liking one of my teachers. We started chatting casually over the internet throughout the school year and we really connected. He bugged me a lot infront of the ... (252 words)

How do I get rid of my 'easy' label?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 13, I became sexually active with my brother's 18 yr old friend. He didn't force me but he did presure me and say things like if I loved him I would do it. Since then I have been sexually active with several guys. I always go out on dates and end up doing things I ... (168 words)

How ridiculous is this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy I like have been mates for years and we've been flirting for a couple of months and everyone said he liked me, so I finally got up the courage to ask him out and he said he couldn't be with me because I was white and it'd be too embarrassing! WHAT THE HELL! Ugh ... (82 words)

Will I ever have sex? Please help because I'm starting to panic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi friends! Actually I thought a lot before writing this message but finally decided to do it. Maybe my situation will very common and not interesting for you, but I really hope for your understanding and help. So I am 20 years old guy and still I am virgin. Before this day ... (359 words)

Is he playing emotional games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've being seeing this SWAT officer for over a year, it being a rollar coaster. I'm starting to think that his emotionally unavailable, his 40 years old with no kids, never being married. When we once started seeing each other everything was fine, until I ask him, were do we ... (188 words)

I want my ex back - how do I speed up the process?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up 4 months ago on his terms. But recently he has spoken up and thinks he still loves me, he says he misses us and that he couldnt see himself with anyone else but isn't sure yet. He is going away for a week in the October break ... (141 words)

How can I win his trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for four years and i have never lied or cheated on my husband. he on the other hand, has. i forgave him and he promised he would never lie or cheat on me again. yesterday i decided to hang out with a high school friend that i hadn't seen in over 10 years. i... (260 words)

Why would he laugh at my suggestion of us getting together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I talk to this guy every day at work, if im sad he does something funny to make me laugh. He tells me all about himself and asks about my life as well. We get along so perfectly. We're both single and he doesn't talk to any other girl half as much as he does me. I gave him my ... (136 words)

How does a guy get that kind of attention?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a guy and I'm 24. The thing is I'm still a virgin and at this point it really feels like I'll never have a girlfriend. Is that wrong? I'm more likely to believe that I've got a better chance at ending world hunger rather than landing a date. It just feels impossible... (165 words)

Why would he want to cum on my face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

4 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok so i hope no one will be offended by this question, i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. at the beginning of our relationship, he said he did not like receiving oral sex, he said "its just not a turn on for me" but then last night, he asked me to do it for him so i agreed and ... (194 words)

For how long should I keep it in my pants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and recently started dating again. I was with my previous girlfriend since I was fourteen and have not been with another woman since. I dated this woman a few weeks ago who had been on the singles scene and dated quite a few men. Anyway we went on a couple dates and ... (179 words)

Am I going crazy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was happily married with two kids when my husband got mixed up in drugs. Around this time he also began seeing a guy he worked with and going to gay clubs. We divorced and he spent the next eight years with a guy he picked up in a gay club. Recently he moved back to town ... (183 words)

What if he rejects my advances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i go to this school where last year during a trip to france i fell in love with this boy hes smart athletic and to me really really cute, but im just really ordinary i dont have a modal figure im not really popular and im not that confident either but this boy isnt that ... (124 words)

Why6 do I find it annoying that he tries to look cool in front of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend texted me for the first to tell me that he got his license. Me and him have been on and off sometimes he is so sweet to me and texts me all night and other times he ends our conversation. Why if I compliment him does he not say anything? He seems to never ... (254 words)

Is 9 years too much of a gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i like this girl who i don't know i know that i should go up to her ask her out but she is 9 years older than me and i am fine with that but i know that some people think it's not right for people to get together and are a good few years apart i wanted to know ... (193 words)

How do I get him to instantly respond to my emails?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - it takes my male friend over 2 weeks to reply to my emails, sometimes more. He says it's because of his job. He works in a hotel as the manager, but I just can't get my head round it as he works in an office with a computer. I end up emailing him back and being annoyed as he ... (161 words)

Will I ever want to jump his bones with lust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I love my current boyfriend, he is super sweet and so kind to me, he's my best friend, and I'd do anything for him. We were good friends for about a year before we dated, and then randomly started going out. The problem is I barely ever lust after him, is this a problem? ... (176 words)

How does one get over a break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok guys...I'm right now going through a breakup. It's my first real relationship, and it's been a very genuine and passionate one, but now it's over. Please, no sympathy for me. What I would like to do, though, is get your excellent advice for me and every other reader of ... (127 words)

Should I pack my bags and the kids and leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About 16 months ago i found out my husband of seven years was having an affair, we also have young children together. currently we are working through it and trying to make the relationship work! im so low i dont know who or where to turn, i can't remember the last time i ... (255 words)

How do I tell if he's losing interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys help only please! What are the signs a boy shows if he is losing interest? ... (19 words)

I love my ex. Deeply. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have dealt with this conundrum for about 4 months, and truthfully, I find it draining and frustrating. I broke up with my ex in January, after almost four years of joy and arguments. We were good, actually, we were great, until about 6 months before our break up... Around 5 ... (317 words)

Can love come without respect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm asking this because I broke up with my boyfriend some time ago. He had given so many red flags that I thought it was time to let go finally. When we were going out, he called and texted me regularly, came over quite often, and bought me presents and stuff, would give ... (520 words)

11 months and the honeymoon period is over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my bf for 11 months now and the honeymoon period where he used to text lots with cute things and text as soon as I left his company...has gone. Does it mean he cares or thinks about me less than he used to? ... (48 words)

I kissed one of my mates - should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well... i started seeing this girl who i really like the other day, and we really enjoy each others company, but the other night i got drunk with a load of mates and ended up kissing one of them. i dont no whether i should tell her and let her decide what to do, or keep it ... (68 words)

Maybe I've grown up and it won't be a fairytale ending

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi can someone give me sum advice!!! When i was 16 i met my boyfriend, he was 30. I have been with him since, i am now 20, soon to be 21. I have very strict dad, he knew i was seeing someone, but never met him. he'd kill him - he doesn not agree with age differences. an... (251 words)

Single for a year and just can't stand it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i'm so desperate.. i dont know what to do i've been single for a year and i cant stand it anymore.. is it me?? thoe guys do tell me that im pretty but i don't know whats the problem i need someone there for me when i need him to be..what should i do?? do i just give ... (63 words)

Too big of a crush to just move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here goes. I am 17, 18 in January. I live in th UK, so he is my college teacher, lets call him Jamie. I'll tell you the parts that i can't understand, and then i will ask the question. I was 16 when i started college, of course, and i knew instantly, i felt something. ... (1140 words)

I love him as a brother but sometimes feel attracted to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this guy for almost a year and we have lots of things in commun, i love him so much but as a brother but sometimes i feel attracted to him, sadly he has a girlfriend and he's been with her for almost 3 years but he keeps sending me mixed sognals..what should i do ?... (57 words)

Why don't my nipples get hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was with my last boyfriend for 3 years and I never thought that I was particularly abnormal but now I've found he told his friends how my nipples were never hard when we had sex. I feel so self conscious about it now, I've just started seeing a new guy. Is there anything I ... (88 words)

Guy I cheated with is suddenly texting me do I tell b/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Wot do i do!? About 8 months ago i cheated on my bf well kissed another bloke nothing more. I confessed everythin 2 my bf almost lost him (serves me right i no) i realised after how stupid id been and couldnt believe i could do that. Anyway, the bloke who i cheated with has txt ... (132 words)

After sex I always feel guilty and disgusted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello i am an 18 year old male. Whenever I have sex, Afterwards I always feel guilty and disgusted. Howver, having said this. I am quite a deep thinker and am wondering what this could all be. When I say I am a deep thinker i see things like gurus and spirits. Now you might ... (99 words)

Is it considered rude if you don't swallow?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recentley started having sex with my boyfriend (we've only been together 2 weeks) so, i know people say swallowing is a way of showing them you love them. but like i just .. can't.. it makes me gag, so like, at a guys point of view, what would you think if your ... (77 words)

The break up problem is never solved

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. The long distance relationship ended after a year. We have no contact for months and last week, she called. We have great conversation and out of blue, she said she miss me. There is no official statement but I think we are back together. I love her but I believe we both ... (300 words)

I'm bi but attracted to girls easier than I am to boys

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,I am bi... and I like this one particular girl at school (who is bi also) but i have gotten over her because she has a boyfriend and there is nothing i can do about that. If her situation was to change then I would probably attempt to tell her. Anyway, I was just wonderi... (239 words)

Falling in love when you feel like a broken doll

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i found mister right but i have major trust issues from previous relationships and he says everything i want to hear and treats me like a princess but I'm scared that i will get hurt cause of the distance he has to go to Florida for college and he wants me to go with ... (283 words)

Loving your best friends crush?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay Cupid, here is the story. I am a 14 yr old boy, and every tuesday and wednesday i go to an athletics club. There is a girl (lets call her Lucy) there i fancy. However, Another boy (Lets say Dave) in my group one year younger than me also fancies her, and i know that as ... (169 words)

I always fight and blame him that he's cheating on me, what's wrong with me?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ! Its quite long but il appreciate if you'l spend some time and give your advise. I was 9 when my parents died. After that we were staying with our grandparents....and year after year my grandparents also died. Left in my family were three of us...my elder bro, my elder sis ... (219 words)

Cant he find himself with me IN his life?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Long story here, but I'll try to make it as short as possible. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We met online, and were great friends, he always had a crush on me, we were friends for about 2 years before we really started talking on the phone everyday... (762 words)

Should I risk going to see him unexpectedly?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing this guy over the summer. He was a great guy, so I guess you can say I had a little bit of feelings for him. A few weeks ago I got a call from him, he was suppose to be coming to see me. But he never made it. After going weeks without speaking to him I figured ... (209 words)

My cousin and I have lots in common - should I take things further?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age - I really like my cousin an she is 17 an i am 15 and we started hanging out more lately an she comes over once or twice a week. An we like the same stuff an we will just sit an watch scary movies for like 6 hours at a time, an just talk an we have a lot of things in common an we ... (89 words)

Do I reject her?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help im 16 and i've just broke up with my girlfriend because she said she has mixed feelings about me and now 2 weeks on she wants to get back with me, i feel like she doesn't know what she really wants and i still love her but at the same time i don't want to have my ... (81 words)

Why would a guy stop chasing a girl after they kiss?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why would a guy stop chasing a girl after they kiss?? but still seems to be intersted yet not as eager as before? is it because he has the girl and doesnt need to chase?... (36 words)

Should I give up on my abusive boyfriend?

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4 October 2009 (F)

- My bf has broken up with me for the 2nd time now. He would always abuse me. Now he wants me back again. My head is telling me not to take him back because he will just abuse me again and I will end up in the same horrible position I was before, if not worse. But my heart is ... (232 words)

Is my brother normal?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, you may feel like i'm interfering in this situation but realy i am just curious as to whether this is normal. My brother is now 21, i am 15... and i no for a fact that he has never had sex, not only has he not had sex but never had a first kiss or a girlfriend. By the age ... (107 words)

If you have an open relationship, is it possible to cheat?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanted to have an open relationship with my boyfriend because he would start getting really clingy and jealous and started alienating me from everything. He said he was okay with the open relatinship because he wanted to do "anything to keep me even if that ment hooking up ... (170 words)

How can I boost my bosom?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 years old and my breasts are too small they look like one cup! What should i do to make them grow or atleast to make them look bigger without using medical stuff??... (35 words)

Is my boyfriend right?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I just agreed to let my cousin live with me while he gets his life in order cause he's family and I don't want to see him without a place to go. Trouble is my boyfriend think tht my family is always taking advantage of me and doesn't like the idea, I had just done ... (137 words)

Could this be classed as consensual sex?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend always wanted to have sex, and when i told him no, that i didnt want to, he would would always guilt trip me into not actually saying yes, but still let him go through with it. Is that even considered consensual sex? ... (45 words)

In love with two men, so confused, any advice?

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4 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I have been married for 4 years, and have been with my husband for almost 8. We also have a child and have a good life. The thing is I am also in love with some one else. The guy doesn't really know, I'm sure he has some sort of idea. We text and email here and there, but I ... (247 words)

Is divorce inevitable? Any way I can wake her up to our situation?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Ladies, please tell me what to do. My wife of over 8 years seems to have lost interest in me. She spends almost all of her time talking about how much she hates her work, and the rest of her time sleeping, working out/running, or fighting with our 6 year old. I'm near the ... (459 words)

Please someone tell me how I stop all this negativity and hurt?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been batterd and beaten I've been in fights I've been hurt physically and emotionally. my first love was killed and the murderer got off because I broke his nose ribs and hurt his neck. I got severe probation, house arrest and was court ordered therapy. from then on, all I ... (252 words)

We have become good friends, and I'm too shy to ask him out. Any ideas?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, last year some guy asked me out a few times and I said no. We've been talking a lot and have become really good friends. we have sooooo much in common and i think i might like him. Some of my friends think he's mean and that hes not good looking. He's nice to me an... (84 words)

Confused about how (physically) close she wants to be!

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So im in 9th grade, im 13(but look 15-16, occording to alot of people)and this girl that asked me if i wanted to go out with her is 16(but looks like 14-15 to me) and were both getting along good, but shes sending me pretty strange messages about how close she wants to be to ... (202 words)

Should I wait more after my break up or take it slowly with this new guy?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello again, everyone... I ended a 4 years relationship about 2-3 months ago, it was awful for me to go through that, but everyday im feeling more detached from it. I started college a few weeks after my ex and i broke up, and although i made friends pretty much instantl... (294 words)

My problem is that I don't think he is attracted to me anymore...

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i need some advice please my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months we get on quite well and i do love him im 27 hes 32... And my problem is i dont think hes attracted to me anymore..i know its only been 8 months but thats my point surely he cant be bored al... (171 words)

Is it wrong for me to go over my friend's house and why?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, I have been with the same girl for about two years now and like all couples we have had our ups and downs. We lived together for about a year and after I neglected her she started to "act" like she didn't care anymore about us or our relationship so I would go out with with ... (382 words)

Is it right for me to help my unemployed boyfriend financially?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend and i really want to be with him but he does not have a job i feel like as a girlfriend i should have his back and help him as much as i can but i dont want to be taken advantage of he has not asked me for any money or any help but i feel obligated to help ... (65 words)

Is he just saying what he thinks I want to hear?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for almost two months and a few weeks ago he told me that he was in love with me and that he wanted me to move in with him although we are both young im 19 and he is 22 we both have our own places i like him alot and could see a future with him but i ... (73 words)

Is a blow job actually sex?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and me and bf dont have sex but he fingers me and i gave him a blow job....is a blow job actually sex or do you have to put the penis in the vagina??? plz answer me soon!!!... (40 words)

Is every single girl obsessed with looks?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. Im 16 and male. I am quite intelligent, although lack in strength and im not the best-looking person one could meet...although im not the worst. I dont understand teen girls much as you can probably guess but whenever I get my hopes up it just doesn't seem to work out...is ... (98 words)

He made a move on a girl right in front of me

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months now...well let me refraise that we are friends with benefits sota speak...i no not the best relationship, but we keep eachother company. Anyways my question to you is....Not more than a day after he left my house after sleeping over ... (158 words)

Just "bad parenting skills"???

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If there is anybody out there in the legal profession, I would truly like to understand this. No, on second thought, I have no desire to understand this at all. Please tell me what I can do to fix this because it is sooooooo wrong! While I don't agree with everything in our ... (631 words)

21 year old son in over his head

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4 October 2009 (F)

age - Please help, I think my 24 year old son is in over his head. In July of this year my son met a girl who he started dating, in September he told me that he wanted to buy a new house in a town 30 minutes from us, I figured it was because his new girlfriend was from there. The ... (328 words)

Could this guy from my past be the real thing?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a friend 20 years ago while serving in the Army. He was working with me and my husband too at the time. I am now divorced from that husband and seperated from my current husband. When we were in the service together, we often hung out at my home, and my (now ex) husband ... (857 words)

Should I take the internship or move in with my boyfriend?

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We've been apart now for 8 months, and I will see him first in 3 more months. We both want to be closer to each other, and I would love to move in with him after New Years. However, I am a student (he is too) and for the ... (252 words)

She's not particularly pretty, so should I end it?

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4 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl over the weekend that I've been talking to online since then. I think her personality is absolutely AMAZING. I LITERALLY can't remember the last time I've had THIS much fun talking to a girl. Ever. And we've both made it clear to each other that we like each ... (143 words)

How do I get rid of an annoying friend?!

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend... We've been friends for, like, two years. But I'm starting to get fed up with her! I hardly talk to her during school because we don't have any classes together. We ride the same bus, but she sits in the back and I sit towards the middle, so we do... (387 words)

I don't understand how people have sex

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is kind of a strange question, but i don't really get how people have sex. Like, I understand the penis going into the vagina, and there are different positions, but then how can you tell if some one is good if that's all there is? also, i hear on telly people saying th... (77 words)

How do you tell if someone is good; and what exactly are 'moves'?

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4 October 2009 (F)

He broke up with me, started seeing another girl, but says he still loves me

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4 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, heres the thing: I had this boyfriend for about four months. He was like the best. But he was also a flirt. There was one girl (who was actually my ex best friend) that he always flirted with and hung out with more than me. One day, he broke up with me and started goin... (170 words)

Called me "darling"..is he interested?

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4 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - If a guy gives you a hug, calls you darling, says " i'll not be two seconds " when he walks away from you, comes back to speak to you again, and then asks what you are doing later on and gives you his mobile number, is he attracted to you or could he just be being friendly ?. ... (75 words)