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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What's the biggest age difference that won't make society feel awkward?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm almost 18. there's a guy i like right now who's 23. we have decent banter and tend to stare at each other, but that isn't going to work out because he just got engaged. there's another guy who's 30 and we have terrific banter and i always feel better when i'm arou... (101 words)

How do I deal with my negative housemate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been living with my housemate for 3 years. At first all was ok as we were friends before we moved in. Slowly over time though we have become distant. We have very opposite personalities and politics which at first was fun but now is just irritating. I have tried to work ... (189 words)

How do I prove to her I'll never cheat again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my girl friend that I have been with for a year and 8 months. I was more drunk then any man ever should be when I cheated on her and barely remember doing it. I wouldnt ever cheat on her normally because I love her with all my heart. I told my girlfriend about what ... (119 words)

Why won't my husband let me go anywhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - To start off I am 27 years old I just got married 3 months ago to a Cristain man that I have known for about 1 1/2 years. I had a problem the time a met him and he has been a blessing in my life but we do not have anything in common. There are times I want to see my family or ... (190 words)

He doesn't want to talk me, why is he being so distant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a festival and we swapped msn's. He lives about 2 hours away and im going to uni next year so il be near him. Nothing happened between us, like not even kissed, but when we met we got on really well and we liked each other. The weeks after we both go home, h... (189 words)

Was he offended by my comment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so unfortunately slept with my ex "i know shame on me, but it will not happen again" and after the sex he asked me how it was i said it was okay, i mean i was being honest it was not amazing or anything and he never asked me that before when we were together, why do u think he ... (91 words)

Can anyone assess this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 23 she is 21 .We both r in college.I am in deep love with this girl who was in relationship with 2 boys before me.I am a really intelligent guy who has a balding problem and an irregular shape(i ll fix that). the last boyfriend ditched her after sex without offering... (412 words)

He is controlling and jealous, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, A bit of background knowledge - I'm 19 a gay guy currently living in the UK. Last year I lived in Australia, and was in a relationship with another guy. I returned to the UK recently, and have been saving money to return to Aus, and start university there... (598 words)

Should I call his bluff and take a chance on losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A very old friend has recently turned up again. We have known each other for years and he is a friend of my brothers. we have in the past had a kiss here and there and some flirting. Recently we have been talking alot and over the years have gotten to know each other well. The ... (510 words)

My friend is acting weird....what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today my friend was acting weird. I hadn’t seen him in 6 days and he was on vacation in New Hampshire so he didn’t text me. Today I went to my teacher’s class in the morning to find out what I missed and its right next to his homeroom class. He told me later on the bus when he ... (181 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant a week after your period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I have a question for all you women I try searching for the answers to my question and couldn't find anything that was helpful enough. Hope yall can help me. I would greatly appreciated....ok so the week after my menstrual period I had sex with my husband what are the ... (141 words)

What is the maximum age I can go for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right i am 16 years old and a girl and i want to know what is the maximum age limit i can go for before people think its weird. Because i know this guy who is 22 nothing has happened but he is soooooo nice (: But i also had an emotional affair with a 42 year old woman which ... (76 words)

Is this LDR for real or will it pass?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So basiclly i'm 14 and hes 19 and hes my bf hes a dj and stuff quite rich has his own house 5 bedrooms big garden pool ect..Hes living in another country atm and i'll be seeing him soo i've spoken 2 his aunt , uncle one of his brothers and their a really nice family and ... (468 words)

It's getting harder and harder to trust her! Is she cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is acting suspicious, is she cheating on me? She tells me she is going to sleep at around 11 or 12 and we hang up, but when i log-in to facebook or myspace it says she is online. I have never said anything about this. But when we hang up at night she tells me... (213 words)

How is possible to make money by having an information website on a specific country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I maybe be dumb!, but I do have a question. How is possible to make money by having an informationa website on a specific country? My bf is saying he will make good $ by puting this website with info of the country we live in. He is a foreigner and he cannot get a job here '... (119 words)

I'm in an LDR and need help figuring out my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, well i'm new to the forum but i have 2 questions. i'll start off giving a little history. i'm talking to this girl (lesbian relationship) and she broke up with her ex to be with me (long distance relationship for now) but after talking more and more with her i fi... (290 words)

Do you think my husband has noticed she is gorgeous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are friends with another couple. He and the other guy hang out a lot but I know my husband and the guy's wife get along well, too. Problem is she is GORGEOUS. Like model-gorgeous. Fairly lean, big boobs, good legs and butt, clear skin, pretty face, blond hair. ... (126 words)

I feel there is something wrong but I have no proof! Am I stupid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for 7 years and i have 1 child. its been some years now that i accidentally saw a message sent by him to his unamarried colleague 'kisses everywhere'. we had a fight over this and he told me that nothing is happening. it was just a stupid msg. even though i didnt ... (361 words)

Could he still be interested or am I just crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey aunts, I am 24 and rather inexperienced for a girl of my age. Earlier this year, I met a guy I really liked, but after a month I still was not ready to have sex with him and we parted ways (it was not cordial). Over the summer I saw him at a party and after that we start... (246 words)

Was this guy a schemer all along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - There's a mate of my husband's who has been really nice to me and is a great guy. He's called me nicknames, teased me, and has been really nice in little ways. He plays with my son and my husband has noticed him sometimes asking my son questions about me that seem unnecessary 2 ... (411 words)

He's a great guy but he lies and cheats! We are engaged...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my fiance for 3 years we have been engaged for 2 and living together for 1. I just found out he cheated on me with a girl I had suspected him of cheating on me with.He lied and lied about it until I told him she gave me information she would only know from ... (201 words)

I'm asking for too much with this married guy, right?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

14 October 2009 (?) age 41-50 - hi... i am in a very happy relationship for past 4 years.. everything is just right. I met another guy, a married guy on a trip n had great fun wit him!! After d trip, telephonic conversations started(bf knws).. thenn started d phone sex, n i am hooked... i only think bou ... (93 words)

I like them both! Should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone ilike this girl who used to go out with my best friend at school but me and him haven't spoken for a while as we have chose different career paths. she is a year younger than me and we keep in touch over facebook and msn. i have told her that i like her but r... (130 words)

Was she showing signs of flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14, female, and bi. I like a girl, I don't know if shes straight, bi or gay. These are the things she's done: When she sits with me, she starts off at the edge of the seat and within 1 minute she is sitting very close to me, and as if she isn't close enough, whenever she ... (314 words)

Should I worry if he doesn't want to see me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for 8 months now; We saw each other every weekend and things were going great. He has been very slow with work and seems very down lately. I think he is pulling back a bit and doesn't seem like he is "so into me" as much. Believe me I am giving him ... (152 words)

How do I help him to bring this relationship to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is that i am 33 but i look like 20.it is strange because every one wants to look younger as i do but the problem is that i can't the guy of my age to marry him.i am very beautiful,successful and educated woman.till now i didn't date any one and i am still virgin this ... (233 words)

Is there any particular way I should word how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am feeling so angry and unloved and also stupid. i have been with my partner for almost a year and a half, and at first he was great, everything seemed good. but for the last five months or so, i feel like i am practically begging him for time. He works alot fair enough but ... (389 words)

Is he hiding or trying to avoid something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 5 months now. He is in his late 30's and I am in my early 20's. I can say that I have matured faster than other women my age. When he approached me, I had the assumption that he "grew that side of the brain" and had his stuff ... (535 words)

How can I get back the attention she used to give me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 10 months now and for the first 9 months or so everything was perfect but lately she seems to be pushing me away. I understand she is stressed due to her ex not paying the full child support and she works 40 hours a week ... (203 words)

Food-a-phobic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i hate food. i eat the same food daily. my diet is based around plain pasta and im pretty sure that is unhealthy, i have no sorce of dairy in my diet atall. i curently go to a dietition and have been attending that for about 1 month and made little progress. i have been try... (195 words)

Is it possible for a man to love two women equally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is an american soldier and I am an arabic women who he married and brought back from iraq. We have been married two years but have only lived together for 8 months before he was redeployed. I recently found out that he fell back in love and has been having an on ... (254 words)

Am I having orgasms in my sleep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - First of all, what actually is an orgasm. Secondly after I have slept at night and wake up in the morning I have a very uncomfortable feeling in my 'fanny'. At first I wondered if I had been raped or milestered, it felt so weired, it didn't hurt but I didn't want to have it. I ... (96 words)

I think my parents have started to smoke but they've always told me that they quit in their youth! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a weird situation at the moment and I'd really appreciate some advice on what I should do! I'll try to go through this in a logical order. Here goes... I think one or both of my parents have started smoking. I think this because: 1) I found an unused cigarette ... (374 words)

I dread having sex with him because I don't enjoy it. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i need some advice, ive been with a guy for 2 years, hes my first boyfriend, and it started really good and i moved in with him within a few months, but recently ive been felling like i want more. i dread having sex with him because i dont enjoy it. i dont know what to ... (75 words)

I'm 17..any suggestions on how to have phone sex with my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone i need some help. My long distance girlfriend of 6 months wants to have phone sex with me but the problem is i have no idea what to say while doing it, i don't wanna look like a complete moron while doing it. Like she asks me how bad i want her some times how do ... (73 words)

Vaginal flatulence - Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The title says it all really. It seems that every time my boyfriend and I make love, that I have this problem. He does notice, laughs a little, and we carry on as we were, but it's a serious mood killer for me. Do I feel attractive when that happens? No. I don't feel attra... (107 words)

Will she give me another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everyone and thanks agin for the help. ok i finally got to talk to my ex after 13 days away from her.mind you i did most of the talking. i did alot of thinking during my time without her.i figured my faults out and what i was doing wrong in the relationship and what she had ... (455 words)

Did my text ruin our chance to renew our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry that it is a little long, anyway i dated this guy for a few months he lost his job and i helped him out but after a while i could not take it anymore he just started asking me for money over and over again i felt like his mother, but i still stayed with him i have no idea ... (597 words)

Should I be concerned that my boyfriend is texting his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend text his ex twice saying "I dreamt about you last night" Should this concern me...or is this just friendly?... (24 words)

I'm pregnant and I think he's wanting to cheat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half we live together and i am pregnant with him. i dont think i have ever trusted him even though i wish i could because i truly love him but hes always on his phone and out but he has a wide circle of friends and had a ... (135 words)

Surely he must be really into me if he doesn't mind that I had a baby with someone else?

This question has 62 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

14 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - there is this guy i know for about 5yrs we dated at one point in time, prior to that we were friends so we had known each other on that level before we became intimate, however we broke up, we both were seeing other people, we then met again about a year ago, i was still with ... (203 words)

Does this quiz on Facebook prove my girlfriend cheated on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently i have found that my ex-girlfriend who added her childhood friend on facebook two months because of that we got apart. recently I added my ex-girlfriend's childhood friend. i have been to his wall. in two days time he took that rendem quiz of faceback" Who is your ... (185 words)

Going further making out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Girlfriend might come over to my house Saturday. I would like some advice on how to take it a little further without possibly scaring her. We've been together for about 11 months and have done nothing sexual at all. Ohhh, and by taking it further i do NOT mean having sex. I ... (74 words)

Why does this girl keep bringing up our past, she sleeps around!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I just need to Vent a little... I really can't believe how rotten some people can really be... I was seeing a girl for about 5 months in said time she just put a good game on and really is a terrible manipulative rotten person.. Slept around ALOT... and this was someone whom... (230 words)

The Doctor thought I could be pregnant, but the test came back negative. The symptoms are still here - what's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, A few weeks ago I went to my doctor because I was having pain in my right nipple. He told me I had a blocked nipple duct and gave me some antibiotics so I went on holiday and forgot about it. The blocked duct was fairly erect at first, but it has now disappeare... (171 words)

I keep experiencing a strange pain in my vagina. Could it be something serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i have been experiencing a strange pain in my vagina...i wouldnt exactly call it a pain because it doesnt actually hurt..it's like a strange twinge feeling that lasts about 2 seconds. it doesnt happen very often..its probably only happened about 4 times over the ... (109 words)

I'm scared of the one I've fallen in love with and I hate it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend was extremely emotionally abusive (and occasionally physically abusive) for about 18 months. We both want to be together and he has been trying very hard to work through his personal trust and esteem issues that he blames for his actions and words towards me. ... (472 words)

I get the feeling there is something wrong, but my girlfriend won't talk to me about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys me and my gf are having a little problem and its a bit stupid..==" neway today we were talking on msn and then suddenly she started to sound really sad and depressed so i asked if she was and she said yes and then i asked wats wrong and she said its nothign and she ... (172 words)

What can I do for us to get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A year ago I met a guy who had just moved to my city. We started dating, but I always wondered if he had a gf back home. He said no, but after a year of dating I found out that he did - I overheard him on the phone with her. At first I was devastated and angry. This man... (404 words)

Is there anything I can do to rectify the broken rifts in my family and help them to be proud of me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sitting here right now in tears, needing someone's advice on my life. I'm wondering, have any of you ever felt like you've lost your way in life? That there was a path you should've chosen, but instead went way off into the dirt roads into a ditch? I feel like my ... (974 words)

What do you consider the upper limit in physical contact with friends? I'm worried I might be too affectionate and lead people on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there Aunts! So this question definitely won't have just ONE answer, I'm interested in people's views. I would say that I can be a pretty affectionate person with friends I know well, and most of my friends are guys. I don't flirt with them (no innuendo etc.), but I do ... (107 words)

I'm in love with my bestfriend....should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm in love with one if my best friends. It started last year: I had a crush on him ever since I got to know him. That crush slowly turned into to liking him a lot and wanting to date him. Then I realized that I loved him. Everything about him I loved. That loved ... (212 words)

Do I need to take the morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive had unprotected sex 5 days after i finished my period can i get pregnant and do i need the morning after pill or will i be ok?... (28 words)

Could I have lost my virginity whilst dry humping?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm a virgin but i'm just wondering... me n my ex were dry humping and i was wearing really thin pj pants and his pants were undone so it was just his boxers.... well it felt really good but i could kinda feel this pressure/ pain like he had actually went in me, just a ... (102 words)

I'm having a confidence crisis, how can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Good morning, Just a confidence issue here. This is nothing major but I really want to get to the bottom of this. When I was younger my dad used to shout and yell at me which used to intimidate me a little. As I grew older the imtidation went away but soon as I rea... (174 words)

How can I get out of this messed up relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im not sure what to do every time i try to distance myself from this boy and get over him somehow we end up messing with each other again. i want 2 leave him alone but somehow i feel like i cant. i dont want to be in a messed up relationship but sometimes he is the only person ... (84 words)

How can I tell if she likes me? She has shot me down in the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i tell if a flirty girl likes me. She touches me and goes out of her way to find me often and when she hugs me she does it longer then with others. She has hesitently shot me down before. ... (43 words)

If we spend a lot of time together but have never kissed, does this mean he has feelings for me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age - If my friend and I go on trips together often, eat together also, just hang out a lot, but have never kissed, is he into me or not? He's never said he loves me, but, he always ask me to accompany him to places, to travel, etc...He's a pastor and I'm a member of his church. I'm ... (76 words)

I'm in love but I'm scared to tell her! Advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in love with my girlfriend ive been with for 2 months. I have recently had fallen in love with her but im scared to tell her. We already had sexual relationship but besides that its been going perfect. We enjoy each and we miss and think about each other all the time. We ... (127 words)

We are both sexually inexperienced, can you help me figure out why he cant feel anything during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, this is the first time i ever post something...and... i must admit i am a bit nervous. My boyfriend and have been together for about a year and a half. We truly believe we are meant to be. Since the beginning of our relationship we have always had trust to talk to each ... (146 words)

Whenever I call him my good mood turns into a bad one, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years... On and off - he has cheated on me twice (just a kiss both times) and he has broken up with me three times for no reason... I know he loves me although this makes him sound really bad... I love him with all my heart and ... (99 words)

How do I keep the door open for him in case he does agree to be in a casual relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is a lot of details in this story but I will try to keep it short and only give the facts. - I am 25, He is 32. -I am not American and came to the US 2 years ago. HE is American. -I am not religious, he is practicing Irish Catholic. -He helped me out SO ... (1252 words)

I'm too embarrassed to show my face to his brothers in case they think I am a boyfriend stealing whore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and this friend of mine started hooking up... at the time he had told me he had broken up with his girl.... so we went out lunch , ice cream walk on the beach.... we start having sex .... so one day idk how but i found out he was still with his girl.... then t... (252 words)

Why would he tell me he wants to see how things go with this new girl before he gets back with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my ex text me asking if I was okay. We broke up Thursday and Saturday I received the text. So I asked him today why text me when you said you need space? I told him to be open and either way its lose lose. So I said what are you trying to see if the grass is greener... (189 words)

I thought my ex and I were working things out, but he's disappeared again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I thought my ex and I were working things out. we were each other's first love, me at 23, and he at 25. We were together for a year, and then on and off for about another year, and then finally it didn't work and moved away from each other, but always kept in touch somehow,... (450 words)

Is it OK to add her to my FB friends list without asking her first?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, right now i like a girl and i dont really talk to her. So i keep thinking if i should add her on my facebook friends list so i/we could talk a lot. But the point is if i should add her without asking or asking first. Whenever i look at her my shyness comes out and ca... (124 words)

Am I selfish for not wanting to settle down just yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi to all. been a long time since i last checked my dearcupid. i just want your honest opinions and/or comments. im in a gay relationship right now. he's 43 and im 19. we are going for 1 year in december. yes, i am happy with him. we are exclusive, well he wants it that... (159 words)

Brother and best friend getting married on the same day

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Question:What should I do? My best friend is getting married on a Saturday next July. She's had it booked for 4 months. When my brother got engaged, I told them that particular Saturday was "off limits" if possible because my best friend's wedding was already set and I alread... (166 words)

I'm drowning at university, and feel like I don't have the strength to paddle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a senior in college and I just transferred to a new university. The semester started at the end of August so I am about 2 months into the term and it is not going well at all. Midterms have just ended and I have received most of my exam/essay scores, all of them averaged ... (199 words)

Is he just keeping his options open?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a advise..I've been dating this guy for about...4 months now..and he shows all the signs that he's really into me..calls just to see how my day is Funny,nice,romantic, I feel silly but cuddles after sex..looks into my eyes tells me I'm beautiul. He introduced me to his g... (111 words)

I'm unhappy and he doesn't listen

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I stay or go?? I'll try and be brief with this, i met my partner 4 years ago, it was great at first we travelled the world together, and used to do a lot of things together. We moved into our own place but a year ago he decided we move back into mum and dads which i ... (200 words)

Broke up with my b/f, can't stand living with my parents, no job -- help!

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I am broken hearted girl now. I just broke up with my boyfriend for 3 days. I used to live with him and now I broke up with him and I moved back to my parents' house. My life is kind of mess now. I have no car, no job, no money. My parents are too much ... (209 words)

12 years later and still clueless in the sack? Is it time to pack my bags?

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Here's my situation in a nutshell. Mr X and I have been dating for 12 years. We have never, ever, had good sex (for me). We have sex twice a week, he gets off every time and I get off once every six months only because I am so frusterated at that point that even his ... (388 words)

18 year old girl unsure about her sexuality

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (I'm an 18 year old girl) For the past few years I've been unsure about my sexuality. I find certain guys (usually gay guys or metrosexuals) goodlooking, but I'm too scared to have sex or get into a relationship. I always blow them off..I was in self-denial about liking girls ... (144 words)

Is playing hard to get a good thing?

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok what does a guy mean when he says "your playing hard to get"?is that a good thing?... (18 words)

I'm losing interest in my b/f. What can I do to get back "into him"?

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20 years old and I'm starting to lose intrest in my boyfriend of 2 years / 4 months. What can I do to try and get back "into him"? He is in college so we cant really go out because he's away. This is his second year of college and the first year he left I didnt feel this ... (80 words)

Is she cheating or am I just paranoid?

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14 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, earlier this year i was involved in a very nasty break up that resulted in me being admitted to hospital after an attempted overdose, because of this the relationship ended, during my time in hospital i became close to a girl who had had a very similar experience ... (1013 words)

I thought she was The One, but she's recently changed

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14 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Fascinating relationship problem! I am in a highly charged relationship that has been just bliss until a few weeks ago when my girlfriends tone, frequency and mood in her communications collapsed. This has left me dumbfounded and hurt. It has never happened with her before s... (366 words)

Sex is still very painful after five years, and he's frustrated

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, my problem is completely enfuriating and I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex for ages but it really hurts me. I know I am being completely rubbish and probably entirely selfish in not just getting on with it but I am trying to "ge... (300 words)

Almost 15, pregnant, can't tell my parents

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im almost 15, theres a really good chance im pregnant, and i cant tell my mom. Me and the "father" aren't talking right now bc hes mad at me for thinking im pregnant. Me and him are illegal. He's over 18, and i love him and i dont want him to get in trouble. Idk what to do. I ... (117 words)

I'm in love with him, he's not in love with me. Should I wait for him?

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am sooo in love with this guy and we talk every day and night, he's all I think about, all I talk about, and I really think I'm in love with him, he flirts with me and he always gives me advice and he always tries to make me feel better when I'm having a bad day. He doesn't ... (105 words)

What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas? Please help

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 1/2 years now you would think I would know what to get him for Christmas by now. I have read suggestions on other posts and they don't help very much. We live together at college so we share movies and video games so we have ... (227 words)

I need tips and Ideas ASAP!

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14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got a few quick questions here and I would love it if you guy's help me out with this one, ok so it's a new school year new people new class, in one of my classes there is this girl I am interested in getting to know her and what not, I actually started talking to her in ... (245 words)

Never been kissed!

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My 13 year old friend hasn't had her first kiss yet, but all of her other friends have. She thinks there's something wrong with her. I want to help her but I dont know wat to say to help her understand its okay and that her time will come. When I try to help her she doesnt ... (88 words)

So hurt and Confused!!

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf/ex (not sure yet) just found out that we were pregnant about a month ago. We have been arguing like crazy lately over stupid things. His actions and the way he acts around me have totally changed. (IE wont cuddle, talk, or do anything with me anymore. He said that he ... (225 words)

I can't forget about his ex!

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have always had trust issues but we have seen we cannot live without each other,he had a gf while we broke up 2 months ago after being together for 13 months. I never ever expected him to get a gf,but he did and thought i wouldn't find out after until i found ... (160 words)

I'm in love with my cousin! What should I do?

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14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have become more attached to my cousins over these past couple years. We see each other 3-4 times a year and over this past summer we saw each other a lot more than we usually do. We talk to each other everyday on the phone as much as we can and I have come to like her a lot. ... (207 words)

If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?

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14 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?... (12 words)

I had lots of sex without any protection and I'm worried I might be pregnant!

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14 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend (im 16 hes 18) have been together for about 4 months now. we have sex a lot, every weekend and sometimes during the week, and almost always more than once on these days. i am not on the pill and we dont use condoms, he just pulls out. please dont give me ... (171 words)

Is there a foundation to launch a relationship from here?

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14 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i thought id give u some news - I met this reali kool and hot girl. But she was reali trashed so she didnt reali remember anything. but we had a reali kool conversation. Anyway, by odd coincidence, my friends from high school happened to meet her that night elsewhere as ... (325 words)