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Is my best friend using me for sex or does he really like me?

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Question - (13 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey I have a bit of a problem with a boy i like. he's one of my closest friends and he knows that i like him. he told me once that he likes me too but doesn't want to go out with me because it could ruin our friendship. he used to flirt with me and we even had sex at one point but now he flirts with other girls in front of me and doesn't even look at me as more than a friend. one of my other friends said that he likes chasing after girls and that he's not interested because i'm making my feelings obvious. i don't know what to do. is he just using me for meaningless sex?

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A male reader, Delboy69 United Kingdom +, writes (14 October 2009):

Steady On !

Have you told this guy you are just friends ? If so - then this is normal behaviour is it not ? And your jealous ?

If you've told him that your open to more than friends and he's still doing this then, yes- lose him ... waster.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009):

Yes he is and he doesn't care about hurting your friendship either, so the guy is full of you know what. Dump this loser.

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