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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it just him, or did I damage something with a vibrator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid! My ex was really good at oral sex and i orgasmed everytime. We've since split up and i turned to vibrators to stimulate myself which also made me orgasm every time. I've recently met a new guy and we slept together for the first time about 2 weeks ago, but when he ... (97 words)

Will we have enough cash to survive on if we move in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have started new jobs and we both get just over £13k a year but want to get a apartment in the next couple of months thinking about £500 pcm fully furnished and close to our jobs about 15mins drive from work. we obviously are gonna split the rent and bills. But ... (89 words)

Is it more common for a guy to text a girl he likes, before bed, or after school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I go to an all-girl school, and the only way to go to homecoming is to be asked by a boy at the all-guy's school right next door. My friends set me up with one of their guy friends that I'd never met so that we could all go as a group. He was extremely sweet, and by the next ... (130 words)

It's been 21 weeks, and I'm still in agony

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thanks for taking the time to read this..im a 33 year old gal from London, i went through a divorce 4 years ago from the father of my 2 children, until May 27th this year i was living happily with my partner of 3 years. we hit off immediately, we were totally besotted wi... (960 words)

I have a bf but can't forget the other guy. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've made such an incredible mess. I was with somebody for 3 years (lets call him D) and threw the whole relationship away for someone who I had so much in common with, he made me feel wonderful and he was ever so good looking, my tall dark mystery i secretly referred to him ... (196 words)

I like someone who is going to have an arranged marriage..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy who i like for almost 2 years now, he's indian and I just found out the other night that he's going to have an arranged marriage. The relationship we have is kind of weird, were not friends but we talk sometimes on msn or facebook. So this all started from ... (543 words)

I thought we were flirting, but she was getting serious

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem I know this girl,she's 22(and has a child) and I'm 18.She really likes me and I like her too.Anyways we started to flirt.This I didn't take serious as I was only joking and also thought she was joking too. Because I kept saying saying to myself... (261 words)

Where can we go, where we don't have to spend money? Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - To simplify -this is a conversation I have ALOT with my girlfriend: ME: I don't feel like staying in the apartment tonight, let's go out someplace and do something. GF: I don't have any money. ME: We don't have to spend money - we can just go someplace to be out of th... (171 words)

I'm afraid I have a UTI

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, this started about 2 days ago i had a burning feeling when i urinated, it is still going on and i am positive it is a UTI, but now when i pee i noticed some light blood when i wipe and little drops in my urine. i am only 16 and im really scared. why am i bleeding!? my mom ... (102 words)

How do I stop taking out my anger on the wrong people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, over the last month I have been through a lot. And after my dad telling my he doesn't want me in his life, me deciding my life would be better if I just forgot about him, and my dad not telling me that my great grandma died and having to find out on myspace I am very ... (121 words)

I think deep down he loves me -- any ideas about what's going through his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why I can't forget him while he seems to me just a liar? He knew that i am elder than him for about 14 yrs but he continuously showed his love and jealousy for me .I am an educated , unmarried and pretty woman.I have my reputation and position as a young succeeded woman.... (322 words)

He's constantly jealous, I can't go anywhere or talk to anyone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 ive been in a relationship since Jan 25 of 08 a little over 1 1/2 and already have a 8months old baby by him and i live with his parents. i gave up everything/everybody to make him happy and to be with him.he is constintly jelious of everything i do to the point where i ... (113 words)

Is my diet good for my general health, overall?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there. ok well for about a year now i have been going without eating lunch everyday .and eventually got use to the routine of not eating until the evening. (due to work ) i moved in to a flat 4 months ago so when i get home from work i could eat what i like .( i love s... (325 words)

Why would he want to spend time with an older woman when he could have me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently turned 21 I haven't had a boyfriend in awhile. I consider myself mature and I met a guy a few months ago that is 12 years older than me. He was in a long term relationship so he doesn't want to commit right now. He talks so sweet to me and calls me loving names. He's ... (304 words)

Ladies, how do I get 'the edge' ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm particularly interested in hearing responses from straight women in their 30s and 40s on this one. I appear to have a problem with women, and without being immodest, it seems that I'm too 'nice' and I don't have 'the edge'. The N word has become the bane of my existence.... (262 words)

My busty wife is going to pose nude on the internet, any opinions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife very busty buxom 40DDD and she is going to pose nude for a site on the internet. Its not a hardcore site site , but it is a fully nude site. Its not the posing nude on the internet that bothers me, she can blur her face but i do not know. Tell u the truth the ideas... (103 words)

I really loved him but he's just dumped me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend or now my ex had been together for a year.We got on like a house on fire when we were together and i think we loved each other dearly..well i know i loved him. We were in a ldr and saw each other every other weekend i had plans to move closer to him in 8 months ... (263 words)

Manager dating an employee?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My parents own a restaraunt here in town and I moved up here (about an hour away from my hometown) to come up and be the store manager. It has been difficult for me as I am only 21 and didn't know anyone in this town, but I started becoming friends with some employees to help ... (296 words)

Is two years at this age a big deal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so there is this girl i like but she is 2 years younger than me so im not sure if that is ok or not as in im too old or shes too young. Is two years at this age a big deal?... (48 words)

Younger men, can you tell me if he is telling the truth, or is he trying to control an older woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Well here is my drama I am in a strictly sexual relationship with a man 14 years younger than I am and he has told both while drinking and sober that he wants to take our relationship further. He has told me that he wants to take things slower as far as sex is concerned and ... (183 words)

I asked him if he liked me on facebook, and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy who i used to go to school with when i was at primary school and i liked him for the last two years of it. then we left for different seccondary schools and i rarely saw him but everytime i did i realised that i still felt something for him. i've only ever ... (514 words)

Surprisingly old for a raver!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age - I'm not attracted to women my own age, either socially or sexually. I'm a healthy, tall and well educated man, single but looking after two children who are now both teenagers and quite independent. Over the years relationships have tended to last as long as it takes to disc... (331 words)

Why does he keep showing up when I'm dating a new guy, and get my hopes up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex were together for near 2 years, we broke up about 8 months ago.. Because well, he changed basically.. He wasn't like the guy i fell in love with. I still love him and think i always will, but everytime i get into a new relationship, or he finds out i'm seeing s... (269 words)

I'm big, she's tight and it really hurts her. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so the problem is my penis is a bit bigger than average and my girlfriend is fairly tight and we had sex for the first time a couple of weeks ago and when i tryed to put it in her she said it was stretching her which i figured was normal but after i got about an inch she ... (103 words)

Do you think a man who lies about watching porn will lie about other things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think the man who lie about watching porn can lie about other things? I have never thought that my husband lie until I married him. We were in different country before we got married, I knew he was watching porn because he had no women back then. but after I came to ... (417 words)

How can I get over my past and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - after been in a 3 year relationship which ended badly as he was seeing another girl behind my back for i have stayed single for the last 7 years. now i have meet this lovely guy but i am so frightned of getting close to him because of my past and its pushing him away. how can i ... (65 words)

I think I have ruined her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, im not normally one to post my issues for the world to see, but im seriously heading downhill extremely fast. Let me start with a little history. I have always had major battles with depression. My last relationship took a serious toll on my mind. I fell for a woman that... (1566 words)

Are any women actually trustworthy?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress planning the wedding, having ... (897 words)

My EX boyfriend wants to get me pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - He broke up with me about 2 weeks ago and I ended up moving out. He said he was unhappy and needed space. He said we both had realtionship issues we had to figure out before we could try again. He wrote me a 4 page letter telling me how much he loves me and how sorry he was. He ... (174 words)

My boyfriend doesn't acknowledge my hurt feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over two years now. Last week, he left to go out of town. We made plans earlier in the day to see each other that evening. As we were talking, he stated to me he was going to call me back. He never did. He left the ... (191 words)

Is his financial irresponsibility a sign of things to come?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been through ups and downs. We just started semi-living together. We stay together 3-4 times a week. He lost his job a few months ago and is just getting by with the unemployment that he receives. In some ways, he is very kind and considerate, but in ... (248 words)

Why is he so bothered about remaining friends with me now that he has a new girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I finished about 3 weeks ago. He had admitted to having feelings for another girl so I ended it with him. We still kept in contact for a couple of weeks even talking about trying again. However he started going out with her a couple of days ago. I was shocked seeing ... (153 words)

My husband always finds reasons for me not to visit my family, how can I make him see that I want a relationship with my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Everytime I have the opportunity to spend time with my brother, sister, dad who all live out-of-state, my husband seems to find a reason why I should not visit or take part in the event. His main argument is that they don't plan well and don't give enough notice, which is not ... (143 words)

Why does my husband feel the need to lie to me about silly little things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - its been like 1 year for my marriage and now for few months i have come to my moms house for some work and i talk to my husband daily over phone and we chat online also but sometime he lies to me. Like, if i ask him what are you doing now he says nothing, whenever he is on ... (162 words)

My ex seems to have moved on but I cant get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Well Broke up with my GF about 2 months ago. I still see her every day /second day, and we are trying to be friends. She basically told me she isnt interested in sex/kissing with anyone, and yea. Anyway, lately I have been swamped with uni assignments, I am stuck at home... (287 words)

I dreamt I was getting married, what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...its me again.lol.Well I have a quick question its probabaly a dumb one put yesterday I had a dream that I was getting married I don't know what this might mean do you guys have any idea what this dream might mean?? Thanks to whoever takes the time to answer my ... (55 words)

Should I tell him how I feel? I think it could work because I am moving back closer to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend passed away almost 4 months ago and since then I have not really felt like moving on up until about a month ago. I told a guy in my school that I have a crush on him. I'm a bit scared to start a relationship now becuase I'm moving in December. I can't seem to stop ... (156 words)

I'm really hurting from our break-up, I need to know how to get over it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex split up with me nearly 2 months ago. I have been doing the thing that everyone keeps telling me to in the last few weeks, giving him his space, not talking about the break up etc etc. But deep down im really really hurt. In the first few weeks he acted like he wanted to ... (187 words)

Why won't he leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Theres a boy "mark" who i used to like and we hooked up once but it didn't work out so we stopped talking and avoided each toher for a while. Bout a year ago we started talking and became good mates again. Bout a few weeks ago i started seeing this other boy, and "mark... (171 words)

Is there such thing as love at first sight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there such thing as love at first sight? Iv met this girl and only been out with her a few times and something just feels right about it and like we have a connection, i didnt want to sat anything but she said thats how she felt the same way i do... I think shes the o... (75 words)

His female friends seem more suited for him..should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I've just started going out with this boy who i met through a friend, hes really nice, friendly and polite. He's kinda emoish but likes mainstream music and stuff as well. I'm not really into either of them. He has alot of friends who are girls who are alot prettier... (108 words)

My name is being dragged through the mud! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I recently asked a question regarding my ex-girlfriend and my new girlfriend. My new girlfriend wanted me to change my facebook status to "In A Relationship" after dating her for just a couple of weeks. I met her less than a week after me and a girl I was seeing during th... (223 words)

I don't want my ex to call because it causes her difficulties with her husband, I wonder whys he still calls me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age - I have an ex-gf, which we have remain friends for years after we broke up ( yrs ago ) , which it was due because a mutual understanding. one day she calls me to tell me she was getting married, i wished her well and told her i was happy for her. later she contacted me again ... (264 words)

In love with my friend who lives away and is 13 years older!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl who was like my best my friend but then she moved down to london less than a year ago. when we hung around i didn't feel a romantic connection with her i loved her as a friend but now she has gone i feel that i'm in love with her now she has gone. becaus... (321 words)

After 3 and a half years and a child together, we hardly ever have sex, help us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and we have a child together. He says he loves me but we hardly ever have sex anymore ( almost never) and he used to be very, very sexual ALL the time. At one point he told me he loves me but he is not in love with ... (359 words)

What would you do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Your gf/bf of 1.5 years had sex with his/her ex (multiple times) after a week and a half of being broken up. he/she really regrets it and wants you back. would you take him/her back?... (35 words)

We have been dating but I found him back online asking to meet up with other women!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here goes Typical story, one of which I have not been in before and kinda need advice I met a guy around 3 months ago from a site. Chatted for a good while and then met up. Got on great and he asked to see me again. Had another date. Date 3 slept together. I had to ... (391 words)

My mum has just been diagnosed with cancer but I'm supposed to be moving to Oz next month - I want to be there for my mum but I don't want to lose my boyfriend either!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I would appreciate any advice.. My Mum was diagnosed with rectal cancer last week and has to undergo chemo and radiation therapy combined before an operation in January. She may have to have chemo afterwards too. This has all come as a massive shock as Mum was a fit and ... (535 words)

Why would he get an erection while we were out walking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went for a walk with my boyfriend just like everyday we did in the evening. but yesterday i saw something from his pants. I do think that it was an erection. we are dating for 1 months now never kiss before just hold hand sometimes and he never had that kind of think be... (126 words)

I'm getting bored with my 6 month relationship, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for six months on the 13th. Things have been kind of rough for us (I cheated on her in the beginning, I told her, we worked through it; I'm experiencing impotence lately that's putting a strain on us; There's more, I'm sure, I just can't ... (341 words)

Is this age difference too big? And how do I overcome my shyness so I can date her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, well, there is this girl i like.....her name is emma( not actual) anyway....ive just turned 17 and shes 14 turning 15 early next year...the gap is about 2 years and a few months.....firstly is this gap to big? we have discussed it and agree it isnt...but id like some ... (172 words)

I need help figuring out who the father of my baby is!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My last LMP was August 15 2009 and my period is regularly at 30days interval. I had an affair Aug 20 and he cummed inside me twice. After that I got back with my hubby and we have promised to work on our problem with fast ejaculaton. So we worked on it August 24, 25, 27 and 28, ... (108 words)

Before we got married we would talk for hours but now he is only interested in sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married last month. my husband is not communicating with me. he is just like machine. before marriage he spoken to me hours and hours.but he is interest in sex. i feel only sex is life i feel very bad. he want to consider for each and every movements in his life bcoz no... (80 words)

How do I stop my girlfriend from hating me once she has lost her virginity to me? And is kissing her breasts a good thing or just stupid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] 1. Whenever i make love to 'a lady, i like giving her a kiss on her breast. Now i wanted to know or ask, is it a good thing that i am doing or is it just stupid? 2. My girlfriend is still a virgin ... (141 words)

Does anybody else suffer from IBS?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - This is more of a health question, I realise that, but I am really desperate. The thing is, I have irritable bowel syndrome. I was diagnosed when I was 18, and I'm now 23. I take an anti-spasmodic, which helps, but every so often I get bad "flare-ups". I am going through one ... (143 words)

Was this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok im sure all the adults are going to say the same thing they say to every other kid that askes this question. but im different then other kids my age. i was raised only around men betwean the age of 30-60 so i have the mind of an older person. my question is this. was i/am i ... (442 words)

Should I confront my girlfriend about her behaviour with other men or just believe that she is telling the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i always find my girlfriend in the act of relating with men claiming she's got nothing intimate with them and it hurts. what if she's telling these guys that i am just a figure around her that i pose no threat at all? I'm confused and wondering if i should confront her and ... (67 words)

He can't stand that I have a 'past' -- will every other guy be the same way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Are all men obsessed with their partner's past? My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. In the beginning everything was perfect, obviously. Until he asked about my past. It wasn't wild, I made out with some guys, had crushes on others, others crushed on me...... (932 words)

I think I'm in love with my 3rd cousin...I'd really like some feedback on this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - k...to break it down... i grew up with her, were pretty close, her parents are my god parents, and our families are close since we manage a church together and i started having feelings for her since i was in high school... i thought it was just a crush like how you develop ... (404 words)

Am I being stood up? Or are the texts really not going through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - First off, thank you all who take the time to read and respond to my question. I really appreciate it. Ok, so my ex-girlfriend and I have been split for about 3 weeks. She initiated the breakup so I agreed and went my separate way for about a week and a half. So around that t... (329 words)

Why does she refuse anal sex with me, her husband? She did this with her ex...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my wife and I have always had a very honest relationship, but one night I asked to have anal sex. She denied me access so I asked why. We have attempted it once before, however I stopped because she really wasn't enjoying it. Her reply was very vague. After thinking I remember... (79 words)

Am I right in my decision to try and start my life again?

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1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,I need you guys advice for my relationship.Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years.After 5 months dating we moved together and 2 years we moved to his country (puerto Rico).We met in United State(Arizona). I love him that's why I leave everything behind.My house,my car ... (248 words)

I can't stand my husband anymore and I don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

1 October 2009 (F) age - I'm so sad, I feel I can't stand my husband anymore, and I don't know what to do. I tried everything to try to improve things , but nothing has happened. He feels cold loveless, and passive. Yet he keeps saying he wants to be with me. I don't even get it why. He works all the... (148 words)

Its so hard to communicate sometimes with her and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

1 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this girl for almost a year now and I truly care for her. She means everything to me, but sometimes its really hard to communicate with her. She gets high and drinks sometimes, and when I talk its hard to understand what she is saying. But even when she ... (177 words)

I just don't feel that buzz anymore..feel more rapport with male friends than him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I get along well enough. But, I just don't feel that BUZZ anymore. I have a hard time relating to him and don't know why everything (for me) seems more difficult than it should be with him. We didn't start off like this and I don't like how I'm feeling about ... (97 words)

He's head over heels in love with me and I don't feel that anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - And it has caused me to withdraw emotionally from the relationship. I do loving things for him and behave in loving ways, but the feeling isn't there anymore and that makes me sad. I don't want us to split up, but I'm stuck. I don't enjoy sex w/ him anymore and I often find ... (140 words)

My friend made friends with someone who intimidates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid: I'm hoping someone out there will have some advice for me. This may seem like a stupid question to you, but a good friend of mine has made friends with someone who I feel very uncomfortable with. This person is a very cliquish person. I feel very intimidated... (249 words)

Why would he just come up and hug me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was going to sit in the computer lab to get some work done, and I saw this guy that I had a huge crush on from last semester, sitting at the piano and singing. I did not say anything to him because he was talking to this guy from his class...I was sure he needed to ... (228 words)

Is he in love with me or a pedophile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - He is always talking to me at least more than 20 comments a day. He's a couple years older than me though. I know this isn't safe, but I met him online. Well anyways, each time we have a conversation, he'll be talking about how he wants to see me in real life, what we're going ... (152 words)

I keep thinking we could be more ...

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1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a 16 year old girl in my second year of high school. ok so hears my problem, i really likke this guy. i mean like i really like him. i always think of him and i'm always jealous when he talks to other girls. well at the end of last year we almost went out, but in the end we ... (166 words)

He broke up with me, I don't see how it was my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We were fine , , quite and peace life , sometimes he was ignorant other time he used to be nice .. but we were fine .. until the black Thursday night came without any warns .. I wish the day didn’t come ,but there is something waiting me on the corner . In that black night... (805 words)

All this chemistry but never been out on a date!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I need some perspective on this, as I am in far too deep emotionally, and I have fallen for him hook line and sinker. I really like him, I think he is an incredible man, but am I just bashing my head against a wall with this?: We email all the time, long random missiv... (235 words)

He broke up with me because he was too impatient to wait for sex

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1 October 2009 (F)

- My ex bf broke up with me and hurt me really bad during the relationship. He broke up with me because he was too impatient to wait for sex. I wouldnt have sex with him because I didnt feel he respected me and I had a feeling in my gut that he was only with me for sex so I ... (305 words)

He doesn't know any of my friends but I invited him to a party, was that the wrong thing to do?

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1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known a guy for 2 months and been dating him for the last month. We see each other about 3 times a week and he always initiates getting together. I've been invited to my friend's birthday in a week's time and I told him about it. The other day he was asking me what we ... (115 words)

What does it feel like to lose your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how does it feel to lose ur virginity?does it hurt?how does it feel when guys come?how does it feel wen a guy is hard?how does it feel wen a girl comes?how do girls come?help me please... (36 words)

Should I try and initiate sex?

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1 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, So I have to admit, I'm 23 and when it comes to dating, sex, relationships and love I'm a complete and utter rookie/noob. SO here's my question. I'm dating a fantastic girl and she says in one conversation "Its desperate times" (in reference to sex). I have been i... (264 words)

Cheating-my husband knows, his wife knows, will our relationship go somewhere?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

1 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having an affair with a married man for 14 months my sister informed my husband of the affair last year and my husband confronted him but the relationship with my lover continued since then his wife had found texts on his phone from me.The worst possible thing ... (119 words)

Scared to trust again

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1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - iwas with my ex for eight years we weren't even broken up agood month and he was with someone else whom he got pregnant its been two years now and we seem like we were never apart and I happen to love his baby. him and the girl split up and he realized the grass isn't always ... (84 words)

I married him to be accepted, but don't feel passion

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1 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I married my brother's best friend. We have been married for five years and now have a one year old child. I was the black sheep of the family and in a lot of ways, married him to be accepted. We get along well, as friends. But I don't feel passionate about him. We don't ... (295 words)