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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm a married woman who is in love with another man. Sexofone is his name and we met 8yrs ago while were still in university. We were crazy about each other but things changed when he introduced me to his family..the prblm was that we come from different cultures and his family didn't approve of this relationship.So we decided to keep it a secret and we didn't contact each other during school holidays.After we graduated we lost contact and I decided to move on,thinking that will help me forget about him.I'm now married with no kids and my husband cheated on with the other woman and they have a baby together.I have moved to my home town now where I saw Sexofone by luck.All the feelings I had for him came back and we were both excited to see each other. so in love with him and the worst thing is that I don't feel guilty when I go out with hm.How do I tell my husband that I want to end things between us?
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (13 October 2009):
 The same way you just told us; short sweet and to the point. Like Gina says, he's made it easier for you by having had an affair and a child with another woman.
I wouldn't bring up the other man in your life.
Before you tell him, I recommend getting yourself sorted and ready to leave. If you need any marital documents, bank statements etc. it's easier to gather them now as his wife than afterward as his ex.
Good luck to you!
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reader, k_c100  + ♥, writes (13 October 2009):
 Sexofone?? Really?? Even in South Africa surely that sort of name does not exist! If you want people to take your question seriously you really should not use such silly names
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reader, sarcy24 + ♥, writes (13 October 2009):
 Sexophone, what a great name! I heartily echo Gina's words. Tell him for you it is over and you are starting a new life without him.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (13 October 2009):
 I would have thought that would be quite easy considering he has went and had an affair with another women who has had his baby!
You tell him for you that it is over now and you want a divorce to enable you to start a new life.
Good Luck.
Gina
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