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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Pregnant, and one side of my belly is bigger than the other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey there, I'm 6 weeks pregnant. and my left side of my belly is harder and is bigger than the right side. I got an ultrasound already so I know its not an ectopic pregnancy. has any of you had this problem?... (42 words)

Since the divorce, my bipolar ex has made life hell for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age - I am in dire need of help!!! I am a 47 year old female. I divorced my bi polar husband and we have been seperated for five years. I have not moved past the pain of the divorce. I have not accepted it and regret it. My husband was the love of my life. My husband told me he had a ... (464 words)

If he ejaculates quickly does that mean he is cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i use to be sexual active but no longer... Well if we do.. he ejaculate very quickly (in seconds). I kno he feels back but i always told him it was alright. Dont worry its not a big deal, it can be fixed. I just love him so much that i feel as though he has ... (149 words)

Girls, how would you react if your partner had a 3 inch penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering for myself since mine is about 3.5 inches in length and 4 inches around - when it's erect. Both sizes of which are well under average. I'm not sexually active but I'm worried that when I get to that point, I won't be able to satisfy her because of my size. Do g... (90 words)

In love with a meanie?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to homecoming last night, and it was amazing. We were dancing like crazy and the whole place was crowded. A guy in my geometry and bio class is when grade above me, and he's always been mean to me...but he's stopped since 4 weeks ago...He's been look at me all the time, ... (218 words)

If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?... (12 words)

Have I been to harsh on him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is a long prob! but any advice wud be gladly appreciated. Am 16 wks pregnant. Partner is being difficult. One min dying to be with me the next rejecting me constantly. So things were not great at dinner and he said he was going home to his family. I said great enj... (1590 words)

How to erase the ex from my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age - hii so my ex boyfriend is a total jack ass. like he is extremly sick and mean. he used to like verbilly abuse me and he liked seeing me get hurtt. he would call me fat ugly and useless alll of the time. he even made me drop myy best friend for himmm. i am so regretfull. i hate ... (121 words)

Was she jelouse that I got back with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when my ex found out i had got back with my other ex she sounded suprised cause i was speaking to her on msn. anyway she kept asking how did this happen and she also wanted to become friends with my new girlfriend etc. then the next day she tells me she hates being single and ... (479 words)

He tells me to call but he never picks up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone,i went on a date with a guy that i really like and we had a great time.He said he had a ball.We talked on a regular basis for two weeks and then he jus stopped so i waited a couple days and called him we talkin until the morning he told me to call him back and ... (102 words)

Will my gf be put off by my problem I think I'm not what she thought I was

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. Ive been with my gf for about 3 months. ive known her for years and shes always really fancied me. Iv always suffered with acne and i dont go out when i get a bad flare up. Most people dont realise i have bad acne because i dont go out when its bad. before we came a... (518 words)

I'm feelin g lonley no boyfriend and all my friends moved out of town

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi! I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago but now I have a hard time meeting new people. I joined a few clubs but I'm shy, so even though I go to the meetings, I don't really talk to new people. A lot of my close friends have left the city. I'm basically starting from sc... (82 words)

My boyfriends addicted to porn and barley has sex with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and i have been together for years,we live together and i knew he liked porn,but now,he is putting porn under the sink,in his mp3 player,everywhere.we have sex like once a week and i tried to come on to him,he declined,later that night he is on the internet downloading ... (82 words)

He says he needs space and now I'm confused should I let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - On july 10..i met the man of my dreams. We fill in love very quickly and they kicked off pretty good. We both said we loved each other and we did alot 2gether. I even found out i was 6 weeks pregnant on sept 7th. We were both happy about that ( i already have a 11 yr old) and i ... (681 words)

Dealing with certain personality types

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I have a good friend, and he introduced me to his other friend (let's call him dick). Before I met dick, i'd heard some negative things about his personality. finally, i met him. sometimes he's nice, he pays for drinks and stuff, and is sort of well informed but at other ... (289 words)

How do I be romantic in a quiet way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my female friend admitted we liked each other a month ago but we didn't do anything after wards nor have we talked about it. now things have gone back to normal whenever we are alone it gets a bit awkward as in we have nothing to say. I want to take things slow with her ... (111 words)

Is he just usuing me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - he asked me to treat him to dinner. unlike before he would never ask me for anything. is he not serious with me anymore? does that mean he doesn't love me anymore? I also occasionally give him load even sometimes he doesn't really seem to want to talk to me or communicate wit... (197 words)

Will he consider me again if things don't work out with his wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I dated a man 3 years ago. We dated for right at 2 years. We went through the whole break-up, get together thing for about the last 4 months. I met him at a football game. I went down and got his number, we talked on the phone every single night until 2 in the morning. ... (790 words)

Why would he turn against me? And what does "one-nill" mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went out with this boy in April, i finished him after a week because he was really clingy. Then a few months later i got feelings for him again, my friend told him, that night on msn he asked me if i liked him ; i said yeah, because he said he changed. then a week after he ... (164 words)

Does this mean it's a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This started about a month ago. (It's a long story) I just see him in my art lecture I started my second year at college. There is a new lad that I like. Every girl in the college like him. They are all clingy to him and always around him. I am not like that. I gave him... (280 words)

Does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, I went to my school's football game because the guy that I like--who's on the team--invited me to come and watch; when the game was over he met me over by the gate where everyone comes in and asked did I enjoy it amongst other things, eventually I asked him did he ... (201 words)

Does he really care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Im 18 years old and i just got back with my boyfriend after a 5 month break. He has changed to a very sweet person and regretted everything he has done to me. and i was good enough to forgive him, since im not so perfect either, but the break was good enough for me to... (432 words)

What're the best ways to see if she has any interest in me at all? And how to lose this infatuation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Questions: Reading interest/body language of a girl. Getting over an infatuation. Background Info: I'm infatuated with a friend I've known over a year now. Even now, I still get nervous around her. We're pretty good friends now. She's generally a shy/reserved p... (575 words)

I'd like to kiss her again, but I don't know how to bring it up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm 14 years old, female, and bi. Yesterday my friend and I were planning to kiss so I could experiment. They've once questioned their sexuality, which makes me wonder even more about if they may be bi now. We did kiss, and then we talked about it the next day and things ... (205 words)

I only touched it twice and he came right away! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have very little experience when it comes to guys, but me a this guy were french kissing and his hands were everywhere and I could feel he was exteremely turned on, next thing he had his pants down and put my hand on his penis and I only touched it twice and he came, is that ... (65 words)

Is it me or am I right to think he is lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi maybe i am thinking to much of this one so i would be grateful for any outside views. my boyfriend cheated on me two years ago, it ended once i found out, he is flirty by nature but i knew that when i first met him. he doesnt really have close friends but alot of work c... (320 words)

I want to be a girl...and I crossdress...can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - please help me i am intrested in crossdressing i have all female like desires growing boobs and wearing bras now i am 18 my parents not know of this i want to be like a female anyone please help me please ... (43 words)

I don't want to causing cheating, but I'm still in love with my best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known my best friend for 2 years now, starting freshmen year of college. He is now my roommate. We hung out every day, have many inside jokes, nicknames, and we used to say I love you. We never really went out because we had communication issues - we are both really shy ... (408 words)

I am an overweight shy guy and love a girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am an overweight shy guy and love a girl. What should I do to impress her or make her my girlfriend? I wonder how would she love me as I am fat and get nervous when she comes in front of me? Plz tell what should I do? I will be very thankful to all of you! Thanks!!... (62 words)

Is my boss looking for action or just playing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I work in a place that as long as customers aren't around we don't act very professional. One of my managers seems to have taken a fancy for me. He talks alot to me, bumps into me alot or touches me (hair... side... back, nothing crude). But he also jokes around alot with... (107 words)

He wants to be exclusive, but I'm not so sure... can this work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a male friend of almost two years who I'm pretty sure has been interested in me the entire time. We've been getting closer and in the last month he's been up front about his feelings for me. We've slept together a couple times since then which has been great (no sex). We ... (240 words)

Boyfriend wants oral, but I have memories of being forced...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old now, and have met a guy I really like. He wants me to move in with him, and I am really looking forward to it. But I am really troubled about it to. Since living with my Mom at home, I have had the excuse not to do to much sex stuff when my boyfriend wanted ... (369 words)

My BF really scares me because he can be sweet, and then extremely abusive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - [Note from Mod: Two questions from same poster] I have run out of options. I feel so run down. I am dead inside and so confused. My boyfriend will curse at me...accuse me of infidelity...throw things at me...spit on me...call me derogatory names...and then when I ... (401 words)

What is this white gunky stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ok i have seen other people ask but the anwsers were stupid and from people who just don't know??? i have been having during sex this white clumpy/gummy stuff coming from my vagina?? there is no odor and i have never seen this before?? any doctor or nurse out there who has a ... (57 words)

Does he have a crush on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - well there this boy that i am really close too and we tell each other pretty much everything and he always wants to know who i have a crush on. he basically stalks me if i don't tell him and asks me over and over again. We always exchange so i tell him who i have a crush on and ... (216 words)

I don't know how to snog, so I keep making up excuses for not snogging!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and yes i dont know how to snog, but theres this boy in my class who likes me and i like him an he always goes in to snog me but i have to make up excuses for not snogging him and its getting frustrating. Any advice? x... (50 words)

I don't want his ex wife to be involved with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with this guy who also says that he loves me and I know he does through his actions and all however, he was married about 2 years ago and has a baby from his ex wife. The thing is that she is always around; calling him, coming to his workplace and what not. He says ... (114 words)

Should I feel guilty about watching porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I watch a lot of porn and can't help myself everytime I try to stop. Should I feel guilty about this?... (21 words)

Should I end my marriage or stay in it for my son ??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - 37 years old, successful doctor, married for 8 years and have only one child .. he is 6. I am in love with another woman for sometime now .... she doesn't want the role of being mistress ... she want a full relationship and to divorce my wife if I want to be with her .... I... (151 words)

How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for a little over a year our begaining wasn't so good. I have learned to trust him but he still don't trust me. How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?... (40 words)

She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her how i felt cos i dont think ... (356 words)

How do I ask my sis for help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi, my one year younger sister has boyfriend and she is not virgin...she enjoys sex with him. i have a girl friend now but I m virgin and now i want to learn how to carry out sex in order to get max. pleasure... I know that my sister can teach me, as she is experienced and s... (110 words)

Would it be cool if I got our mutual friend to give me her number? We really hit it off but I didnt get her number at the end of the night!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last Night I went out with a friend and we met up with his ex-girlfriend and a couple of her friends. Well, hit it off with one of her friends, but for whatever reason at the end of the night didn't get her number. Do you think it would be cool if I called our mutual friend and ... (82 words)

I need tips on how to talk dirty to my partner!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All I need help, my man wants me to talk dirty to him in the bedroom but i dont really know what to say? Can all you guys and gals out there who love talking dirty give me some tips plz? Or is there a website, book or something i can look at? Thanks J... (71 words)

Why am I so depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey fellow aunts. Im going through rough times in my life..well my whole life. And it's really depressing and i dont know what to do. Nothing seems to ever come easy for me. Im always the one that always has to have the bad out of everything. I dont know i guess it's bad ... (188 words)

Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to it. i was laying down so he ... (604 words)

Husband doesn't want me to touch him because he's ticklish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can feel my second marriage is failing again.My husband refused to make love, he doesn't want me touching him and his excuse is being ticklish.He won't discuss things as he always said I want to start arguments.I was badly hurt from my previous marriage and I have so many ... (99 words)

I cried in front of her and I don't think she trust me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, so yer i met this girl about a month, 2 months ago, we get on great and really enjoy hanging out with each other. Anyway we was out last night, having a good time but for the last few years i've had a few family problems and i'm one of these people that does... (460 words)

I'm still in love with my ex and I don't know if I should try and move on or wait around for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - some of you lot have probably read my posts from before lol. but basically i have dumped my boyfriend now, and i know how much i love my ex. and now i have been talkin to one of his best mates for a while now, and she is quite new to the town, so i have known my ex longer t... (291 words)

I love him but whats going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have dated a boy for nearly 2 years now.I truley thought that i loved him.But it seems all the wrong things i have done by him in the time that we have been dateing has taken its toll.I dont no what to think Due to the fact that he has started doing stuff what i have made ... (206 words)

What does this body language mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi .. can anyone enlighten me? i was just wondering what body language it means when my bf of 4 months looks quickly away with his eyes at the moment when i kiss him goodbye.. its just a quick kiss on the lips, eyes open but his eyes flit to the side. he's been doing this since ... (82 words)

Is it normal for a guy to like you but not text or compliment you anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has been showing signs that he likes me. He stares at me when I’m across the room, talks to me, remembers what I say. On the bus if I don’t say anything because I don’t want to talk he will just look at me then look away then look at me again like he’s waiting for me ... (242 words)

He always flirts with girls, but I thought he found me special. He is so confusing, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so there's been this guy I have liked for a few months now. We are extremely close, and always open up to each other. He has a reputation as a ladie's man, he always flirts with girls and then leads them on. All my friends thought he liked me, and alot of people thought we ... (292 words)

Why is my ex acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'd like your thoughts on why my ex is acting the way he is. We were together 9 years, lived together until 1 year ago, when he moved out abruptly (I later discovered he was 'messing around' with a female colleague, though they did not start a relationshop after he ... (524 words)

I don't want my baby around his dirty family and now they hate me, am I in the wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant stand my boyfriends family. they are so nasty and i met them after me and my boyfriend had been dating for a while. there house has roaches and flees and he said they have had them since he was born. also they have 35 dogs in the house not house trained. they have junk ... (120 words)

Why does he text me so much? Does he feel bad for me...or does he have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend just broke up with me a few days ago and that is when me and one of my guy friends started texting on our phones around 7 at night and we texted until 12:30 in the morning and the next night we texted each other until 1:30 in the morning while also texting each ... (234 words)

My sisters say I am going mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - HI!! I am a Pakistani muslim girl of 26 years. My problem is that i recently got devorced from my husband who was a complete jerk. We didn't have any kind of relationship and i only spend 8 days with him. I am now doing my ph.d in genetics and somehow i am very happy that we ... (155 words)

Does this mean I've been dumped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has just told me she needs some space to sort her life out, because it is in a mess. We have bee going out for 11months. She is currently going through a divorce. Does that mean that i am dumped. I told her that i will wait for her, but she said it might not hap... (85 words)

Should I expect him to take care of me and the baby seen as I lost my job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just had a baby and my bf who i live with and plain on marrying is paying the bills right now. he complains becouse every thing is in my name. only becouse my family helped us get on our feet since we was living with his family for over a year. should i expext him to take ... (73 words)

Does it matter if the girl is taller and older than you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I am in love with a girl who is ten months elder than me. Most probably, she is taller than me.. I am 166 cm, where she is 173 cm.. Keeping this barrier in mind, I didn't propose her yet.. I met her before two months and we are working together in a same concern.. Please ... (64 words)

Russian brides? Con artists?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Here is my story about Russian Brides and would like to see if anyone can help me out I am 19 and in Feburary 2009 my father passed away at the age of 63. In 2006 he met a woman named Viktoria from Tibilsi Georgia, in Febuary 2006 on a dating website. She wa... (772 words)

Why only 2 or 3 dates and then nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age - I am a lady in her mid fifties ,divorced and told that i am still attractive and look young for my age.I use dating sites a lot and get a lot of response , some good and some bad. I am pretty choosey who I date and usually the date goes well and we both chat and are quite op... (186 words)

Husband's friends take advantage of him should it bother me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I had a fight last night, about a few of his friends. I like them, but I feel like they use him; they're constantly asking him for things and taking from him, without a thank you or any reciprocation. It really bothers me that they don't appreciate what a kind ... (395 words)

I'm 15 and online friends with a 40 year old

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i recently became online ''friends'' with a man and i think everything heads in the wrong direction.i met him through an online game.he told me he needs someone to explain him the game,so i agreed to help him and added him in the buddy list,as he was from my country.he told me ... (418 words)

I like her but how to play it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My first time doing something like this so I'd like help please. I met this girl through my job a few months ago. Every week we got talking and chatting a bit more and more. I found that we got on really well and she liked me for who I am and she found me funny, interesting and ... (480 words)

Did she disappear because I said I love you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - please help on this case i wish some experienced aunties would give me some fullfilling answers me 33 yrs and a girl 37 yrs both married but she intiated the flirting atmosphere with me, in other words she was persuing me for a long time before she got my attention and ... (182 words)

I want group sex with 5 men

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this might sound crazy, but I have a long-running fantasy to have group sex with 5 men - I guess what you would call a gang bang. I would like it to be 5 men I don't know too well but who have been "pre-screened", maybe by a swingers group for example. But I don't want ... (211 words)

I hate my new stepmom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my dad re-married in august 2008. i hate my new stepmum. she is mean to me and everything! i tell my dad but he says that i'll just have to get used to her. but she is always talking about my weight and she thinks that i just want to have sex with a boy and i dont!!!!! just ... (76 words)

I'm tired of all the collections at the office!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. i have an issue thats been building up and really frustating me lately in the office. We have always done collections for people for their birthday which is fine-there are 22 people in the office. Now someone recently got engaged and we had to do a collection fo... (180 words)

Husband cheated on me with an escourt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just caught my husband of 4 years cheating on me with an escort girl; we have been together for 12 years total (since 17). I fully trusted him, never thought during his time at work he would be meeting with one particular individual. I went through his e-mails and foun... (421 words)

Drving test anxiety!

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi,this isnt a "love" question but im hoping to get some help. My 1st driving test is coming up soon and since i've booked it in i havent had a decent nights sleep because of the worry. Im constantly feeling sick and keep crying about it. Im so scared im going to do so... (174 words)

Is it my hormones or do I have a right to be worried?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months and we have a baby together. He has 2 daughters with his ex wife and I have 2 children from a previous relationship aswell. We got chatting on a internet site and he lived over 100 miles away, but we just clicked straight away. I ... (380 words)

B/f says he called ex for homework, that's all

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I gave my ex boyfriend one chance after he cheated on me with one of my friends. When he cheated,we had been together for a year and three months . He lasted a whole year trying to get back with me; I was really hard to qet back and i thouqht it over a thousand times and i ... (381 words)

Don't have money to get out and I'm getting depressed

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm very unhappy I just graduated from college, have no significant other, and a part-time job that pays little. Since I don't have a full-time job I'm at home alone alot and don't get the opportunity to interact with others much and because my job pays so little I really don't ... (135 words)

Ultimatium from family: Your ex or us!

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my best friend for a few days now. We dated about two weeks ago, but we broke up and he dated his ex girlfriend. Then he cheated on his ex girlfriend with me, left her, and now we're dating. My ex boyfriend comes back in town. We we're dating for ten months, ... (137 words)

Nice guy has turned into a jerk! Now what?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well here goes nothing..I have nobody else I can talk to and I need to get some advice. First I am going to ask people not to put me down for my decisions, because i could never regret them. I have 2 beautiful children who I love very much. My son who just turned 6. I had ... (851 words)

Why am I the abused in this relationship?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very confused. Currently sleeping on the bathroom floor after being called a liar, being spit on, having multiple small objects thrown at me, and I was the one called the abuser. When I heard him say this, I stepped out of the washroom and told him that he's allowed to ... (442 words)

Do ladies masturbate to guy's undies?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering, do women like to masturbate with guys boxers or briefs, like guys like to masturbate with girls panties?... (21 words)

We have a FWB relationship so why does he keep asking about other guys?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know most men are literal, but maybe I've been out of the dating game too long to read the signs. I joined a dating site earlier this year and reached out to a man that I felt was someone that fit me. He responded and we spent the summer just enjoying the city togethe... (309 words)

Alcoholic husband is never there for me!

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24 October 2009 (F)

age - i am married to an alcoholic. my son and his family of six live with us. i work 96 hours a week to try to make ends meet. i have bone cancer and i get so wore down. i am forever being told by my husband all the things he hates about me. he has left me twice but comes back. i do ... (197 words)

Girlfriend wants to immediately end sex after an orgasm?

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf wants to immediatley end sex after she orgasms. what should i do? ... (14 words)

Why did he have to call his ex about my STD?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke it off with a guy I was seeing LDR for 7 months. I got myself tested since I always want a clean break from everything before dating again, and found out I had Gonorrhea. I never had symptoms which was weird. I told my ex about it as he was a really nice man ... (288 words)

Do I play his game or just let this go?

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24 October 2009 (F) - my ex and i started talking after i reached out to him after a year and with him knowing i want to try to work things out and also that i cant just be friends. He said we will exchange calls and then meet we have been talking for almost two months and have been taking turn... (307 words)

How do I deal with this girl I got pregnant? She won't stop hanging around me.

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24 October 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Yeah I kinda did it with my little sisters best friend awhile back, couple of months, and now she says she's pregnant and wont stop hanging around me like im her boyfriend. Im perfectly willing to help raise and pay for the kid and everything but I dont really wanna get... (86 words)

LDR: feeling neglected!

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately, I feel my boyfriend doesn't make an effort to talk to me. LDR. Even though he calls, but sometimes I feel he does it 'cause he thinks he has to since I complained about it before. Just recently, he slept over his friends house out of the blue. We had an argument and he ... (200 words)

Boy equals Stupid.

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy that I really like. He likes me back. But he wants to ask me out, but this guy in our class who is retarted and hated by everyone made fun of him for liking me. Im not ugly at all, normal weight, popular... (if that matters?) He always flirts with me, sends m... (222 words)

How do I tell my mother about my heavy metal, rocker boyfriend?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Big issue here. In April of 2009, i was working in this teen job called clean and green. And i met this wonderful guy named _____. We got to go out to The Grand Canyon from working there. During that trip we got together. And its been 6months since then. Him and me are ... (210 words)

I am not happy in my relationship so should I leave?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a fiancee that had a relationship with his first cousin and they had kids together 3 and one died. when i first met him he had a picture of his cousin in his wallet, after we started our relationship, i told a few of my friends about him and what he did. they just ... (128 words)

Sex hater.

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and have been with my bf for 2 years. before we got together i enjoyed sex alot. but now i hate it we start and after a few min i ask if he is almost done. i hate oral sex and i hate for him to touch me. i thought maybe it was him so i left him and it was the ... (79 words)

Is it likely my friend is dating this girl?

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A new girl joined our year at UCLA a few weeks ago and I've developed a real crush on her over the past while. She was initially befriended by a friend of mine who is also in our year and that's how we met. The two of them hang out a lot and apparently went to the cinema ... (180 words)

What would be the best way to deal with this work situation?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I was talking to one of my (male) workmates the other the day when I noticed that he kept staring at my chest then flicking his gaze back up to my eyes for a moment. Its not like my breasts are large or I had a low-cut top on. What would be the best way to deal... (84 words)

Should I stay with my lying husband?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been so upset about my husband lieing.He would lie even when I seen it for my self.I left him for four mouth,well I went back to him about 2mouths ago.I thought I may have made him lie and it was all me.For a mouth now I that every thing go what has happend between us,I ... (383 words)

Is he only with me because he likes my stuff?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got in a new relationship and my boyfriend doesnt act like a boyfriend at all. Whenever he comes to my house hes always on my laptop which i understand since he doesnt have a computer at his house, and he likes to check his email and so fourth. But when he starts playing ... (234 words)

Is there a chance I might be pregnant?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The last 3/4 days i have noticed brown discharge. My period is not due for another 10 days. I never get discharge a week or two after my period. I get some either on the day its due or towards the end of the period. Never just randomly. I did have sex on Friday 1... (274 words)

Did she just kiss me to help me out?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - (I'm 14, female, and bi. My friend is 13, female, and she has once questioned her orientation.) Around 2:30 in the morning my friend and I were talking about how I've never kissed anyone in a game or anything. So she said "that's going to change, because I have a plan" So I ... (450 words)

How do I stop being so insecure?

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24 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I really need some help. I've been dating a guy for just under 3 years and I love him very much. We get along great, don't have too many disagreements and we've had an excelolent friendship throughout the relationship. I really love this guy and he tells me all the... (419 words)

Losing interest in an LDR?

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm in a LDR right now and i have been for about 3 months now. I love her, a lot, but i only get to see her about 2 times a month. I feel like im losing interest but i think it's just a feeling of not being able to be with her. I dont want to end anything because ... (152 words)

How do I obtain a dildo?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want a dildo, I am 17 and i want a dildo very badly. Every website i go to says 18.. and every store i have been to asks for I.D.. There is no way i am asking my mum to buy me one and i have tried other homemade objects and it's not doing the job. Help please!!... (68 words)

How to live with a liar and a cheater? Do they change?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my husband and my 3 children dearly. I thought we had a happy family in 23 years. We are both French and live in US. He is 56 and me 43. I am a teacher at school. One day I found out my husband had a mistress in Asian in years. He went to online dating website chated ... (469 words)

Young, free, and single but not ready to mingle!

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 28 year old female. Three months ago I was heartbroken and had moved on. I feel like a complete different person. I'm happier, in control and excited about new challenges ahead. Although I'm free and single and I get asked out alot, I cannot bring myself to actually go to t... (211 words)

Do looks matter?

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Does look important when you want to appraoch someone ? I don't feel confident at all because I'm not a good looking guy. I really want to know if look matters or not in a relationship.... (39 words)

How do I talk to my younger sister about sex?

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24 October 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi, I am elder brother and my sister is 2 years younger to me, and she behaves as if she is elder to me and knows more than me in the matter of sexual relationship. I want to help her in carrying out safe and good sexual relationship, but when i take up the topic she just s... (126 words)

Will this addiction to sex ruin me?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think Im addicted to sex. I was molested when I was 6 by a classmate. I remember masturbating from such a a young age even before I was molested I think. I lost my virginity at 12 with a guy about 8 years older than me. I've been sexually promiscious with atleast 14 part... (114 words)

Do you think the situation is unsolvable?

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24 October 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have big crush on somebody, who is almost impossible to be or just to start conversation with. One year ago we ended on a sofa kissing in the house of his neightboor. But it was extreme situation, that can never happen again (because of a bit different circumstances) . He ... (379 words)

Could this really work?

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I recently discovered I'm bisexual and now I've got a crush. There's this guy at my school who is good looking and really friendly towards me, he's one of my favourite people in the world. I always felt some form of love for him, even before I started questioning my sexuality. ... (374 words)

Girls: should I be worried about my small size?

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I myself have a smallish penis that's around 3 inches long and 4 inches around... Now I haven't had sex before, but I've read that the size makes a big difference to the girl. Should I be worried about my small size?... (46 words)

Why would my ex tell me she is not happy with her new guy?

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend but i think she is not happy in the new relationship. because when i was talking to her on msn she said her boyfriend called me a rude name. so i knew her boyfriend doesnt like me for some reason and my ex said she was not happy about it and ... (96 words)

I want to participate in a beauty pageant but my parents won't let me.

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well ever since i turned 19 i had this strong urge to go into modelling and then acting.all my friends,family and even the people who just see me outside think that i am an actress.but i am not bragging ot anything but my family will never let me pursue a career. there is this ... (147 words)

Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex after 4 years together?

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong for me to not be ready for sex when my boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years on and off? My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me for the non-sex part and than wants to get back together with me. We had around 5 breakups. Each breakup would tear me apart inside ... (242 words)

I won't let anyone get close to me any more.

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24 October 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - for some reason i find my self incapable of letting anybody become to close to me now. after me and my ex broke up i just dont trust people getting that close to me. it seems girl after girl that i become involved with i mess it up intentionally or find an excuse to say it wont ... (69 words)

His parents call me a predator!

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24 October 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all ty for reading this and please your comments will be so welcome.. I met this guy will be 2 years soon .. We were instant friends and started off talking every day it was crazy how natural it was and innocent. He loves with his parents who I always thought were amazing ... (631 words)