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anonymous
writes:My husband and I have been married for 2 years. We ended up having a four-some with his friend of 19yrs and his wife. Since then me and the friend have had a connection like non other. I love my husband very much and will pick him over anyone but i think i love the friend too. Can this be true? Can I be in love with two people at the same time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): sorry to be rude but i think you are "in love" with this other guys *ick instead of him.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (9 August 2009):
 I think everyone is capable of entangling themselves into the kinds of webs and messes that mixes up their hearts and forces them to live a life of deception, calling it love. In a woman's mind it is very hard to seperate the meaning of love and attraction because they are both very intricately wound together. I think you love your husband, but are attracted to the other guy. It was probably a bad idea to do the foursome, it can lead to messes such as this. So while you may be told that yes, it is possible to love two men, it will be a life of complication and heartbreak for everyone involved. Figure out what you want and make a choice. It won't be easy, but it is necessary if you want to have a somewhat peaceful life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): It's possible that you also love the friend. Whenever you have sexual relation you get attached to that person. We are human, no matter what anybody says, we do get attached to some extent. Oh well, now you have to do more 4some and have fun. You started it now you can't stop.
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