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I'm nervous about giving a blow-job for the first time... any tips?

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Question - (8 August 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am planning on giving my bf a blowjob for his birthday but I have never done it before and am a little nervous about doing it, I want it to be amazing for him but I just don't have a clue what I am doing and what to expect, I have been reading stuff on the internet with hasn' really helped just making me more nervous. I am especially concerned because my teeth are straight and even when we kiss we bump teeth a lot. Any tips.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

Relax...guys like it wen girls make the first move. Just flow into it as in taking his pants off...make sure to deep throat him and corkscrew with ur hands:)

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A male reader, rom United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2009):

Something that everyone has forgotten to mention is to look at him as you do it as when a guy can see that you are enjoying giving him pleasure he will get even more turned on.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009):

A lot of men also enjoy the balls being sucked/licked so don't ignore them!

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A female reader, Kaysha_Smith_1994 United Kingdom +, writes (8 August 2009):

Kaysha_Smith_1994 agony auntHey i was the same as you =) i was too scared 2 boyfriends finished me becasue i wouldnt do it. then finally i told my partner how i felt and then wen it came to the time he helped me through it giving me little pointers i still dint manage to get through it i gagged so he kissed me and we had sex insted but then the next time i new what to expect so i was fine =) i no what the fear is like but i promise it isnt that bad x x

hope i helped xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009):

Yea I agree don't bite lol. But um it's not as hard as you think. I researched online how to giv one too but nothing helps. You just have to go in and do it. My boyfriend loves when I sick on the head of the penis and play around with it with my tongue. Just suck hard they like it lol. Don't worry he'll likE it either way. It's a blow job no guy cares what you do just do it haha. If you have the balls to deep throat it, do it. I gag a little but just hold your breath haha. And your cheeks might hurt a little from sucking but once he starts going crazy you won't care lol

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A female reader, young and opinionated United Kingdom +, writes (8 August 2009):

young and opinionated agony auntI suggest you grab the shaft of his penis with one hand and suck on it. Get a rythmn going. It's that simple!

You can also lick the length of his penis and just try to vary the sensation your giving him.

As your doing it, ask him if he wants you to go faster, slower, more gently or with a firmer grip etc

Trust me, he will be elated your doing it in the first place!

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