A
female
age
30-35,
*elples
writes:my boyfriend and i are in what i think a good relationship... i also like to think we express our loves differently. for example i call him a lot more than he does and he says i love you more. but last night we had an argument that lead up to me not calling him sweet nick names or saying i love you as much. i like to call him by his name because i always thought a guy would like hearing his name from that special someone but he wants me to call him baby, sweety, etc.. and to say i love you more. i said ill try. i want him to call me more too. but i dont want to complain about it because i mentioned it before but it doesnt change by much... i have been thinking, should i not call him until he calls me? i know i call him too much. yet he always seems happy to talk to me. he was never once annoyed. but this one night, he said he was going to eat and call me back afterwards. next day he called me not giving me an explanation until i told him it bothered me that he had me waiting. he said it was late and he thought id be sleeping and just continued to read.. ugh, i just dont know what to do. should i even be making a big deal out of this?
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reader, Helples +, writes (8 August 2009):
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 August 2009):
 Looking at this from both sides. Maybe it was late. If so, he may have thought he was doing you a favor by not calling. Then from your side, that late night phone call would have been better than no phone call at all.
Unless this happens often, I'd write it off as an error in judgment, not something he intentionally did to upset or hurt you. It's where frequency comes in where you have to decide what his intentions are. People make mistakes and the wrong choices. If it's one time, I wouldn't get upset about the incident.
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