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Caught up in a love triangle... what should I do?!

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Question - (8 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2009)
A female age 26-29, *ocker_grl_96 writes:

damn it! I am so mad at myself now! i just relized the other day that i am in love with my best friend!

i dont know why i am but i just relized it the other day when i found out he broke up with his latest girl friend, which happens to be one of my best girl friends.

One time i had my friend over, ok lets just call him bob i dont like to just keep saying 'my friend' over and over, so one day me and bob were hangin out in the basement of my house, cause thats were my room is,we were playing ps2 and messing around on the computer look for some cool cheat code for the game grand theft auto, then we went out on my trampoline and after jumping alot we got tired so we rolled around.

then i challenged him to try to pin me down, not even meaning anything by it i just wanted to test his strenghth and he mostly got me. it was pitch black and all we had for light was some tiki torch's and my family was inside.

then we went back in and my mom said that bob was staying the night cause it was already 11(our family's are really close cause we have been bff's since 4th grade)and our older sisters are friends and his sis was staying over anyway.

we went to my room and watched family guy on demand while we ate some ice cream. then i want to change into my pj's and i dont care if bob sees me with out a shirt or pants on(as long as i am not butt-naked) so i just changed right there.

but as far as i knew he was to busy playing my nintendo DS to even look. then when i was done i went over and stratled him and got really close to him and asked what he was doing.(we have alwyas messed around like this) i was whereing a tank top so i was makeing sure to show ALOT of cleavage which is not hard to do cause i am a 38D cup.

then like 2 seconds later, i could tell he had a massive boner. we kept wresling and messing around alot that night we almost kissed like 5 times, but never did.

now i dont know what to do! i think he likes me cause he always kinda acts like he does but i dont know! plus as if things weren't bad enough his best friend, lets call him joe, is in love with me!this i know for sure cause

1. bob told me

2.every year for my birthday he gives me 50 bucks and he only gives bob 20 and

3.he always asks me to go every where with him and everyone, like all our friend, our parents, our friends parents, even random people on the street, say we look like a good couple and ask if we are dateing!

so i think th he may like me but if he does i dont think that i will go out with me cause of joe

what should i do? help me plz!!

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A female reader, iloveyhoo United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2009):

iloveyhoo agony auntyou should get with "bob"

but if you feel like something won't go right you need to talk to him, and don't let anything come in between your great friendship !

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