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writes:Hello, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now. However now that college has come around, I am living in my dorm room. She told me that she was going to go swimming at the ocean today, and said she had a new bikini. I asked her if she would send me a picture of herself so I could see it and she refused me pretty harshly. I feel pretty weird at the fact she would go to a public beach wearing it, and not show it to her own boyfriend of 3 years. Should I be worried? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (12 August 2009):
 nah.. nothing's to worry about..she just doesn't want to..
I also dislike taking pic of myself in bikini, but i love spending time in bikini with my boyfriend..LOL! :D
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 August 2009):
No, you have nothing to worry about. She probably wanted to enjoy herself at the beach and not worry about sending you a picture that she may think you'll end up analyzing or showing to someone else. There's really no meaning behind it.
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reader, Loah  +, writes (12 August 2009):
 No need to be worried. Some of us do not feel comfortable taking and sending photos of ourselves in barely there outfits such as swimsuits. Wearing it is one thing, being photographed wearing it is another. Im sure she would be less likely to refuse showing you if you were there, or in private.
Hopefully this makes some sense. I may be wrong here, but I'm going with what I said above because I am one those people.
Well Wishes,
Loah
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