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writes:we're in highschool..and in love. and honestly,after two years, i feel like our relationship has been structured perfectly. i'm just worried..because next year hes going off to Boston for prep school..however will be returning before college. we've already been seperated..and now go to different highschools. but we're young, is this shooting too far for our age? and we trying to become too committed? and if he says he promises to be faithful..can he really know he will? please let me know what you think..or if you've been there! i'd really appreciate it! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): What has age got to do with anything? You two are just as capable of having a successful LDR, as the next old guy down the road. How will you know that he's faithful? Well we can't help you there, but that just depends on the trust between the two of you. Has he ever done anything that would give you reason to suspect him? If not then, well you're probably fine.
And can you survive the distance? Well unless the distance is mind and personality altering that would cause you to stop living each other. Distance is NOT a reason to break up. It's what the two people do in each other's absence that is or is not a reason to break up.
Take the distance thing from me. Trust me i've been there and am happily married.
~Sy.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (12 August 2009):
 I think it can work out if you and him are commited enough. Try to see each other at every possible moment e.g. in the holidays. Ask your parents if he came say for few days or you at his.
This is also matters on how much you trust him. If i were you, i would try to get to know his new friends from boston( get their msn addresses) and get to know who he is hanging out with. His friends could influence him in anyway and you need to know how they could.
Hope this helps X
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