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My head is all mixed up in this affair I'm having.

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Question - (12 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I met a man two and half years ago. I was going thro a divorce and he said he was leaving his wife. having had affair for a year with him he did leave his wife.He has become obsessive and controlling to the point he has turned my room upside down. he has done some great things for me and we have great fun together but he just turns and throws everything back in my face. he kicks up a fuss if i want to meet friends. i've notice i seem to be losing contact with them and he stops me from doing things. my head is all over the place. any advise

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (13 August 2009):

birdynumnums agony auntI would give you this advice - go to this link and take this quiz. I think he has all the signs of being abusive, and I would bet that his wife has been abused and controlled too. If you can see him TOO OFTEN in all of these questions, you had better sit YOURSELF down and rethink being in a relationship with him.

http://www.familyshelterservice.org/assess.html

Good Luck Hun. XXX

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