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writes:I had been with my boyfriend for over a year and i was pretty happy, although at times i felt so controlled by him like he didnt like me going out to parties and drinking or anything and he'd get really overprotective. At a friends party one night he had been at a friends drinking beforehand so by then he was really drunk and got really violent and angry at me and i was so terrified i called his parents to come get him and told him afterwards i needed a break. So we broke up and i was okay for a while i saw this other boy a couple of times and he really liked me, but after 2 months i missed him and couldnt help myself and started seeing him again.4 months later i started to feel bad about the boy i had dumped for my ex, and started to talk to him a bit. Everythings so confusing and i dont know who i want? I still feel controlled by my boyfriend i barely see my friends i dont have a life. What should i do? Should i still be with my boyfriend even though i feel so overprotected and restrained?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2009): I suggest you see more of your friends.
For one thing, boyfriends come and go but good friends are worth their weight in gold.
For another, you would not be left to work this out all on your own. Your friends could help you.
As to your boyfriend controlling you, don't let him.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (12 August 2009):
 Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Try to comprimise on who you see and how often to make you both happy. If he loves you, he needs to trust you.
If he continues to be overly protective, then yes dump him. But be prepared that he may chase you.
Your happiness is the piority here.
Hope this helps X
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