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writes:Is it right for a man to be quiet when his wife leave him alone in the kitchen to go outside when she heard her ex-boyfriend was around ?and is it right for her to tell the husband that this is her house she can bring in anybody she likes or talk to anybody she likes just because the house belongs to her just because the husband was telling her it wasnt right for her to just abandon him in the kitchen to go outside and be talking to the ex
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reader, mima  +, writes (25 April 2009):
 hi, well, i dont think your wife is right an inch. marriage is about sacrifice. sometimes one has to overlook somethings for the sake of his/her oartner. this time, she has to stop seeing him at all if thats what u want. you can not be shoved away with all the rights u have over her. what good is the x to her? u have to stop her. seat her down and talk to her. tell her u are not ok with the situation and she has to respect ur opinion. besides the house is not hers, it is for both of u. marriage is sharing ones life talkless of a common house.
she should reconsider
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reader, Mikados are lush!  +, writes (25 April 2009):
 It doesn't sound right no, but obviously we only hear one side of the story. In some ways she is right that she should be able to talk to who she wants to. I wouldn't have someone dictating to me who I speak to, and I do get on as mates with a couple of my exes. But if she is literally leaving you mid sentence to go out and speak to the ex, or anyone, then tell you she will do as she pleases because its her house, that sounds like a bit controlling behavior to me.
Nothing wrong with a bit of respect ey!
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