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writes: I am so tired of this selfish, heartless man ive been messing with him for two years and i just lost a baby i feel hes been cheating on me the whole time now he comes in my house at 5am and claim been over nephews im so tired of this man liein, using me and abusing me emotionally. Im already emotionally messed up because i wanted my baby but to keep stooping on my heart i just feel as this pain is never going to end. The bad part is i still love him after women callin my phone tellin me his not shit! I just need to stop loving someone that honestly doesnt love me. Help me realize this disrepectful man is not going to change. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): I appreciate your answers to my problems. I do love this man and its so hard to do the right thing. I know eventually I will get tired of putting up with hes bullshit. Right now emotionally I need him because of what Im going through. Some days he can be such a help getting through this pain I'm feeling from the lose of my child. Then on the other hand some days he can be the dog he is. I just really wish he'd change because I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him. If he does not change when I get strong enough I'm moving on!
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reader, Mikados are lush!  +, writes (25 April 2009):
 If your instincts are telling you he is cheating and you're getting these calls, why aren't you running as fast as your feet will carry you?
It smacks of lack of confidence. It must be like being on a rollercoaster all the time, you will end up making yourself ill! Get out whilst you can. It sounds like you are letting yourself be a doormat.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): This question has already been answered earlier today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): It sounds like you already know the answer, and you know what to do...but you are finding it very difficult.
If you love someone, it is not easy to let go of them. But I think you need to think of yourself here. This guy is causing you a lot of pain. Life must seem pretty awful at the moment. But if you was to remove this guy from your life, eventually things will improve, you will begin to rebuild your confidence and feel better about yourself, and life will seem much more promising.
Is there anyone who you could get support from? Friends or family?
You already seem to know what you want to do, now you just need to reach in to the strength that is inside you and do it.
Good luck. x
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