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He's talking about marriage to me but he's checking out guys!

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Question - (25 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i think my fella is bi,,he has never been in a poper relationship with a girl before me and he is in his thirtys,but he has had many one night stands with females, when on a night out i see him checking guys out all the time,,he always coments on how fit certain male clebs are,,and passes it on as a joke,,he went out with his brother and ended up in a gay bar whee i watched him look men up and down,,when we get intamate,he loves bum fun and has sugested,,me to use a strap on,,and the mad one is he braggs to his mates how he was repulsed at ridge back moutain film,and i found aneversary special copy in his dvd collection,and when the lady boys from bankoc was doing a local show he said he woluld of liked to go,,,i have been with him a year ,and have asked him outright,and he says no ,but since ive mentioned it,,he back tracs and eg saying the only time he has been to a guy bar was that one night,,ant tranvestites he finds,disterbing,,what should i do he is talking about marrage,,and when i discuss it with my close freind she says im paranoied,,its making me feel like im going crasy and seeing things ....

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntI would be worried if I was you! It sounds as though he isn't telling you the truth, ask him to tell you the truth and if he doesn't then leave him. Tell him all of the things you have noticed too, then you have evidence against him! X

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