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writes:Hey, im in secondary school and really like this girl. But, she has been with this guy since the middle of February. Some of her friends hate him, and they knew i liked her before he asked her out (she never knew that i liked her). But I've been spending alot of time with her recently and the feeling have come back. This is the 3rd time in 1 year that i've liked her. I dont know what to do, kind of falling to peices there. I have really low self-esteam, so i asked my friend and he said to hold it out cause if her friends dont like him, then they will just bitch him out. Any advice as what to do?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (26 April 2009):
 If you hold out for her friends to get rid of him it will never happen because people are stubborn when they are with someone. No matter what her friends say, it will never be enough to make her dump him.
Unrequited love in a bitch, I know that, but this is doing you no good.
My opinion is that you should just try and forget about her for the time being. If her relationship ends of its own accord and she likes you then great! If not, it's not the end of the world. But don't interfere because it will probably only strengthen their relationship and make her dislike you.
Good luck :-)
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