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How do you tell if your bi or not?

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Question - (25 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do you tell if your bi or not?

i have a weirddd fixation with breasts like i cant help looking and i wouldnt mind kissing a girl.... but the thought of BEING with a girl is too weird... and i dont think i could ever openly go out with one but i read this article about places girls can go for "experimentation" if your bi-curious, and i was like hmmm i can imagine myself going there in my twenties (im 16 atm)

but... i dont see myself as bi and definately not gay (im way to interested in boys for that!)

so im really confused....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

i have the same feeling except im a guy. i live with my friend and his auntie, i knew him for about 5 yrs and a we always joke around pretending were gay. i have a gf but whats weird is i wouldn't mind kissing him. i always feel stupid for thinking that though

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

I have the same problem. Im 17 by the way.

I actually had sex with a girl when I was 15 but wasnt that great however I do still like to look at beautiful woman and their breasts. I have had odd fantasies about kissing woman and maybe you wouldnt mind the fantasy but not the real thing? As people say us teenagers have hormones going all over the place and this is normal for us to feel this way. We just want a little excitement in our lives especially seeing beautiful woman. dont worry about it you`ll probably get over it. if you dont and you decide you do want to experiment maybe you could find some girl to kiss and then see how you feel and take it from there.

and also no i dont think your bi just want to experiment.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

I think a lot of girls have fantasies about being with other girls but thats what they are fantasies. I know I wouldnt mind having sex with a girl for fun but i could never have a relationship with one I love men too much.

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