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*ngie421
writes:Ok I am a mess! I am 26 and married, I love my husband with all my heart and can't see myself without him. I also am inlove with my best friend (famale), we have been best friends for 12 years. I am not attracted to girls, I am straight. It's not so much I am sexually attracked to her, we have just been through some much together and I have literally fallen in love with her. She is a very open person and is ok about same sex relationships but I am scared of what will happen if I tell her how I feel. It's not like I want her to my self, she is straight and wants to find a man and I want her to find a good dude too, but I want her to know how I feel without freaking her out. She knows I love her, she says like sister but it's more than that. If anyone has advice please help, if not I understand( I told u I'm a mess).
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): the opposite is the case for me im single and in love with my married friend. I too love her deeply but because she is married and has a family I know nothing more can ever happen betweeen us so Im willing to keep my secret to myself for the sake of our friendship. My advice is keep her as a best friend and if she wants anything more let her come to you rather than jeprodise your friedship. Put the ball in her court and see how she plays it. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): I liked my best friend and we had a special relationship until we crossed the line -we kissed- to me because of my feelings I saw this experience as the best kiss ever. I never kissed a female before or felt attracted to one. I figured that because of our closeness is possible I love her as much emotionally as a partner but she doesnt feel the same.. One day I told her what it all meant to me and now she wont speak to me... Ive been distrught over the whole thing and can not fix it.. She decided for us not to have contact..So my suggestion is to keep it inside what you feel and enjoy your relationship with her because at least she continues to be part of your life. Good Luck and I hope I was able to give you some insight.
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reader, angie421 +, writes (4 October 2008):
angie421 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wouldn't want a sexual relationship with her, I would like to be more affectionate with her but not anything sexual between us. Thank u for the help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): If she's straight and your straight. I really don't see the point in you telling her, it may wreak your freindship and for what? your married.
Would you want a sexual relationship with her? honestly if you do you really got to look in yourself, straight women don't fall in love with their freinds.
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