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*brea//babbby.
writes:It's been over a month and I'm still in love with this guy.We didnt have sex, but we came very close.We are perfect for each other.I keep hearing our song.. its becoming more popular daily.Our signs are the right match.He was the first guy to have the same step as me when we walk, I know that sounds weird that I know that but I always have been different from others. He just seemed sooo perfect. everything, always was. But he got caught up in school and met a new girl.. and I guess he decided since she went to his school that it would be better.Well, how do I get over the perfect guy. I know, in my heart, that he is the one.I don't know what to do. I've had two "things" with guys since we broke up.I miss him so much and I think about him constantly. I dont know what it is about him.What do I do? please, please, please help mee.much love xoxo.
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reader, *brea//babbby. +, writes (7 October 2008):
*brea//babbby. is verified as being by the original poster of the question but ohkay.
last night.
this will sound weird, but i hope you dont judge me.
i said to myself.. if the songs better in time, fall for you or one step at a time come on all before i go to school in the morning then we were meant to be together.
the song on the radio came on next; better in time. i was laying there thinking, so its a popular song, so what. then i heard previews for the next song. it was secondhand serenade. i thought, ohkay. thats a little bit of a weird coincidence. but i was almost asleep & i thought it was my phone ringing.
i heard the beginning beat to one step at a time by jordan sparks.
isn't it weird that i said three songs.. and then seconds later they played them in the order that i said them. back to back to back? i was like oh man. && said ohkay. so maybe thats just ironic. so if one of those comes on in the morning before school then its for sure. the bus pulled into the school parking lot & right after the song its not over by daughtry came on it was one step at a time.
i didnt even get to listen to the full song.
i think thats a major sign.
but im just weird.
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reader, florcolor  +, writes (6 October 2008):
I'm in the same situation and it sucks big time!, I just don't know if moving on or waiting for him, it's awfully painful cos' you feel you found the one, and then off he goes with someone else.
I'd say if you two are meant to be, then you'll be back together, maybe not this month, not this year, but at some given moment.
Just try not to be with any guy to forget him, don't become an easy target, and try to keep yourself busy to think less of him, I know it's difficult, I can't get him off my mind either, but do your best to get him out of your mind, don't get bored, cos' then is when the sadness hits you the worst.
good luck!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 If he's got another girlfriend then no. If it was him that did the ending, you will just end up making yourself feel an idiot.C xxxxx
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reader, *brea//babbby. +, writes (6 October 2008):
*brea//babbby. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut like..
do i tell him how i feel? & if i do.
how do i do it without sounding dumb?
& like.. i dont want to mess things up with him & his girlfriend.
but i can't pretend i dont still have feelings for him when i talk to him almost daily.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (4 October 2008):
I'm a big believer in what will be will be, so if its meant to be, at some point it will be.
But you dont have to of had sex with someone to love them, so yes you might well of done, but personally I also believe that there is more than one 'the one' for us.
So hang on in there and it will get better in time trust me. You sound frustrtaed at the moment because you saw you two as an ideal item. But I seriously know this wont be the last time you feel like that about someone.
And as I said, what will be will be.
C xxxx
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