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How do I tell her to improve her hygiene?

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Question - (4 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2008)
A male Sweden age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I have a problem wich is kinda acward... My GF´S... Private part smells realy bad and when im "downstairs", shure i can make it, I made it once but its realy a anticlimax, I cant tell her or suggest she could be a little "cleaner" its just... I can do it if i have to but... Yeah... So, can anyone help me with this problem?

What sould i do?

what should by GF do?

Thanks!

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A female reader, lovejunkie Canada +, writes (4 October 2008):

lovejunkie agony auntLet's assume she's not suffering from an STD, which can cause a very smelly discharge in the nether region. Because if that's the problem, then she'll need an antibiotic to clear it up (and so will you). But putting that aside, some women have been told not to use soap in that area, which may result in less-than-perfect odors down below. Maybe it would be fun to shower together before you turn in for the night (i.e. before you have sex) and you can make it part of your pre-sex foreplay to lather each other up. Then comment how good she smells and rave about what a turn on it is when she smells like soap and freshly scrubbed skin. Maybe she'll get the hint.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008):

I have never heard of girls smelling that bad that a room would smell. And frankly, I can't believe it. I of course don't dispute that all women have a distinctive smell, some more pungent than others. Askoldersister, you sound like the ringleader of some gang of bullies!

Did you know that USA and Japan are 2 of the very few countries that tend to find natural body smells unappealing? Most other countries love the natural smell of their lover (and if they don't, they probably aren't compatible). My bf hates it if I use perfume and sprays down there (I am of course clean), and he goes down on me regularly.

If your girlfriend washes everyday, and I would suggest that she deserves to be with a bf who finds her natural state attractive rather than repellent.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008):

Some women just can't help how they smell down there, but they're no different to some men in that respect. Same goes for sweaty armpits.

I know at least one woman, who 5 minutes after a shower is smelling almost as before.

One thing that might help is feminine hygiene spray, but if you're intending to go down on her I can tell you that the spray tastes just as bad. Talcum powder the same.

You may just have to accept that she smells how she smells, assuming she washes herself regularly. If she doesn't, it's no big deal to suggest she takes a shower at least once a day.

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