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writes: I am really really confused.. I dunno if I like this guy from my college.. I mean I liked him... although I didn't know him too well.. later because I realised.. he had no feelings for me.. I tried to forget him... but since I see him every day in college it's pretty hard. I dunno I'm feeling awful and sad. I don't even know if I like him or not and (this is Very random) I feel like I am fat and not pretty and I dunno my confidence level is just going down and down. He's nice to me and whenever we talk or pass each other I mean I get this strange feeling and I'm quite sure he's aware of it but since he hasn't really said anything, I figured he doesn't like me that way. Am really really confused and sad.
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reader, ThePrince  +, writes (4 October 2008):
 I completely understand how hard it must be, to be around someone you have feelings for every day. But, there really isn't an easy way to get around it, short of leaving college (Which you really don't need to do!!!!!)
However, I found that the best thing to do is distract yourself with other things, hobbies, etc. And, if that still doesn't make you feel any differently, just sit yourself down and think of all the reasons why he wouldn't be a good match for you. I know it sounds harsh, but a lot of the time it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy! You'll start to feel less attracted to him as a boif, without damaging the potential for a friendship!
I know it's long winded and maybe a lot easier said than done, but I hope it helps xx
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