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writes:Hi, i'm in a relationship with a 15 year age gap, i'm 19 and she's 34, we are very happy but, sometimes we both feel anxious over the age gap, is this gap too big to be realistic Reply to this Question |
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reader, blueykisses +, writes (17 March 2008):
my fiance is 35 and i am 20 we get along great i think you just need to calm down and take things abit slower becasue your making this a big deal when it isnt when your both mature about it and adults, if you get along dont be embrassed to be with someone older
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reader, xXBeccaTxX +, writes (12 March 2008):
 It's NOT unrealistic,bu you may find that as you both get older your life will become harder for you. Your both going to want to do different things and (sorry to say it) but the age gap means that if you pass away she'll be left with children or just plainly on her own. It may seem like a gr8 idea now,but you need to think whether your love is so strong that you want to put her through that when your both older. As i said she may want to do stuff like nightclubs and you may not feel up to it in a few years time.
Overall,i would say that if your love is that strong,than yu can make it through anything! so don't worry! Hope i helped
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Any age gap can get in the way if you have radically different interests and want different things in life.
Most people your age are students looking forward to a carreer, they like going out to night clubs, have no intention to settle down soon, but most women expect to have children in a few years.
Most men his age, on the other hand, are panicking about getting too old to be fathers, they want to settle down and prefere nights in and maybe the odd evening down the pub!
But then you have more settled youngsters and wilder grown-ups! So it's really down to your circumstances. Talk about your relationship and what either of you wants from the future. Read my article about marriage "Thoughts from a wedding singer". I go into a little more detail of what makes relationships work. No matter what the age gap, it's attitudes that really matter.
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, Variety +, writes (12 March 2008):
 I don't think it is a problem but you obviously have some hesitations about it because you have posted here. If you are worried talk to her. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): I wouldnt say this is unrealistic, no - I've seen bigger! (Pardon the pun lol). If you're in love, what should get in your way?
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reader, RealFunkyDudette + ♥, writes (12 March 2008):
 IF you feel that it is right then you should go for it...if you were 13 and she was 34 then yes that would be disturbing...yes but you are both adults you can do what ever you feel free.So yeah just follow your heart :D
hope this helped
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