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writes: I've been seeing a guy for just over 2 months now and have recently started to feel more for him.When we are together everything is cool but outside of that i'm not sure how he feels about me.We talk on the phone and text quite often but he has never actually said he likes me... he's said stuff like he thinks I'm cute/sexy etc... Is this his way of saying he likes me or is he just in this for one thing?He is quite a serious person and I believe that what he says he means, which is why I'm disconcerted that he hasnt said anything about maybe taking things to the next level... Isn't two months enough time to decide if you like someone enough to want to persue something with them?
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (12 March 2008):
 Two months is plenty of time to decide if you like someone, but most guys are reluctant to say they care and fear committing so soon.
He could just like you enough to date and not want anything more than a bit of fun, though!
Your best bet is to make sure you have lots of deep conversations and get to know his views on life and the future. Does he want to marry some day? Does he believe in the importance of family?
When he talks about his future, does he say "I'll do this and that" or "We will do this and that"?
If he's falling for you, he'll see you in his future, if not, distance yourself a little, don't get too close.
You could just ask him straight out, but in my experience men don't take things to the next level like you say:
they either expect to be on that level already, if you let them kiss you and take you out, etc. or they take it to the next level by proposing!
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