| A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I know that some people on here have gone through a similar situation and I know it is only likely to get better. I lost my virginity to someone who cheated on me and broke up with him when I found out a few months later. When we encountered each other again, he seemed to miss me a lot and we tried to work things out but another one of his "ex's" was in the picture. He even sought treatment and always told me that this ex was a friend. I know from emails, situations, etc. that he is playing his deck of cards. I broke up with him and have no contact with him anymore. I know in the past that he missed me very much and her emails were even about how he should "get over me." We had a really bad fight in the end because I was upset. I'm wondering if the person actually does miss you in the end or if they can continue on and move the ex in. I guess it's just an end feeling where you want to know that at least at some point you were important and that there was some type of love, even if it was limited. I don't understand how someone can have so many feelings and go out for someone and keep falling back on their ex all the time. It's so indecisive and hurtful. What is your experience with no contact?
View related questions:
broke up, cheated on me, his ex, lost my virginity Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, MadHatter214  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Well right now i'm kinda going through the same thing. Everyday I wake up remembering everything that happened and everyday I really truly regret what was said and what I did. Right now my ex is happy with a girl he replaced me with in 3 days. Well in my experience guys who constantly go back to there ex's usaully are really insecure and need that constant affection and love from someone. Do you really need that in your life?
A
female
reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (13 March 2008):
 I hate when people go back to their ex's when they are dating someone else. They need to remember that their ex's are their ex's for a REASON.
...............................
|
