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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My best friend happens to be a guy and we have been friends for years. We know everything about each other and we talk on the phone between 1-2 times every day. A few months ago, he moved far away and we still talk as much as we used to. I'm beginning to develop feelings for him (bad timing I know) and I'm not sure if he feels the same way. I know he genuinely cares about me, and we always say "i love you" but it's in the friendly way. I recently told him about my feelings and all he said was that he "could feel the same way but doesn't want to since we are so far apart right now" and that maybe later on something could happen. I got a little discouraged, but lately I have noticed he's very protective of me. Each time I put a picture on my myspace of me showing some clevage (they aren't skanky pictures, just V-neck shirts, ect) he tells me I should take them off because he doesn't want people to think I'm "slutty." He said he isn't jealous, but he doesn't want people to look at me like that. What does that even mean?? I'm sorry this is long but I am just so confused about everything! When we are on the phone we even do the stupid cheesy "baby talk" and he always tells me I'm his best friend. Someone help me try to understand all this!!
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reader, josien  +, writes (13 March 2008):
your both in love with each other and it so happens at a time when you both thoght it could never happen.
this apply more to the guy who has failed to admit that he had emotional feeling for you.
the baby talk is for people who realy have a thing for each other. take time to talk it over with open hearts and follow ahat both your hearts tel you to do.
feeling are from the heart and you both have them for each other. do not let the distance between you make the precious opportunity pass you by.
wish you the best and good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): Seems like he is making sure you stay single until he comes back. Seems like he does like you as well, but keep in mind, the way he is behaving now and the way he is reacting to the situation can tell you a LOT about how your relationship with him will be. Be careful, and take this situation as an oppurtunity to judge how a relationship with him will truly be. It sounds like he does like you, and as they say, the best of friends make the best of lovers 3
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