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18-21,
griffey901
writes:My girlfriend of 14 months just broke up with me. She is 15 and a sophmore in High school, while I'm 19 and a freshmen in college. I know that sounds crazy, but its not as bad as it seems she's not going to college after high school (hair cutting). She told me she just wants to be single and enjoy high school. I have never loved someone as much as her and I came home alot so that wasn't a problem. I know shes young, but i feel hopeless and depressed. I want her back so bad and just feel very lonely. Most people are telling me this is a chance to meet new people and have fun, but I have no appeitite anymore and haven't ate in a day and i really don't want to go though the dating stage I just want to have a girlfriend. What should I do?
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (12 March 2008):
 You should research 'addictive relationships' because you're coming off an addiction ... you have the signs.
It hurts, yeah. Truth is, though, you need to heal and grow ... alone. Really. I know you don't like it, but I don't need a PhD in psychology to see what's going on, in your post. Heal and grow, by yourself. Then, when you're ready for another relationship, you will be amazed at how far you have come.
Look up 'rebound relationship', too. That's what you're bound for if you don't take the time to get to know yourself without the distraction of a girlfriend.
Best wishes.
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