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I want to ask my friend out on Valentine's day, but I do not think she reciprocates my feelings. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - I want to ask my friend out on valentines day but I don't know how?!! I will tell her at college. But i dont know how to give it to her alone. Ive likd her for 14 months now. Im crazy over her but she doesnt know and i dont think she likes me. Please help. Were both 18. Thanks... (60 words

Feeling insecure, how can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi... ive been married for almost 6 months now but hav been with my man for 3 years. ive always been an emotional person but recently ive been acting so clingy, i feel like i always need him with me or else i feel so lost and sad. i dont know how to stop feeling like this.. i ... (116 words

How can I give my bf a good orgasm without full-blown sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, agony aunts. I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we've been taking things slow, but we're starting to think about fooling around a bit. Nothing major, we know we're too young to start anything too serious, but I want to give him a good org... (99 words

Lost after mothers Death and Wife leaving me for some other guy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi There, On Thursday my wife who i married only in april of last year told me it is over, we had been together for five and a half years. She started this process back in november by saying that she just wasnt happy in the relationship and that she needed to move out to have... (677 words

To break up or not to break up...that's the question!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating this man for about 9 months now. We work together which I do not feel totally uncomfortable or comfortable with. I am somewhat indifferent I suppose. I have never dated anyone which I work with. We go to lunch frequently, although around ... (200 words

I might be bi, or not

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, i have a bad problem. Right, i go to an all boys school, so girls are hard to meet, and i keep thinking about two boys in a sexual way(Not all together). I do still fancy girls and think they're hot. Am i bi, or is it just because they are like, the two most attractive ... (67 words

How to help her get in the mood.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi aunts, i'm really worried about my and my girlfriend's sex life every since she gave birth in october, nothing has happened since then, i know it must take a lot to get over giving birth but i know any longer and i'll just go and cheat on her. We're both 23, and had a WILD ... (122 words

What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - theres this guy dat hates the guy im datinn because he likes me...so i broke up with himmmm then he finally started to talk to him. i broke up infront of the guy i likeee den he started to laugh he told my ex "first is nicole now jamie....why dont u date a girl that likes you ... (113 words

How long do women want Sex to last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Do women really like Sex to last a LONG time? In the last relationship I was in... I say the last, it was actually my first ever relationship, when having Sex, I struggled to keep going. I would usually ejaculate rather early. On one occasion I'm ashamed to admit I lasted a... (150 words

Should I tell her I'm moving, now or later

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - I've been with my girl for 6 months now, and I'm totally in love with her. Things are really great between us, but I'm moving away in a few months for a year +. Would it be wrong to ask her to wait for me until I got back, I should I let her go so she can be with other people? ... (124 words

He wanted me to compete with the other woman for his attentions and then I got dumped anyways! I feel used and manipulated...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age - I met a man around the first of November and we started dating once or twice a week. We are both 45 years old. He said right off the bat that he wanted to take it slowly because he ex had dumped him by email about a month earlier. I agreed because I was coming off of a ... (534 words

He won't take his shirt off during sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and he has never taken his shirt off during sex. I've known him for 10 years, and we have been off and on since then. These past 2 years have been solid, and we're even talking about marriage. I know he has self esteem ... (95 words

She doesn't know if she wants a proper relationship with me because she is really worried about ruining our friendship! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi ok so im 19 and i fell in love with my best friend, who is also a girl!! i plucked up the courage to tell her how i feel and the response was great!! we got closer than ever after i told her, and we are really intimate with each other! we are practically in a relation... (296 words

Am I being 'screwed around' by this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been seeing a girl for about 2 months, first 2 dates, very passionate all going great but then it fizzled out, since then shes told me that basically she has problems being intimate with someone she cares about. What can i do? She says she still likes me but that she ... (87 words

HAd sex a couple days ago...is it too soon to have pregnancy symptoms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15 and i had sex for the first time a couple of days ago. We stupidly didnt use a condom and so theres a chance i could be pregnant. I cant tell anyone as it is a secret relationship. I am way too scared to go to the doctors to get the morning after pill but i'm also scared ... (84 words

Lost and alone...still in love with my ex gf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have just split up with my girlfriend from a six year relationship and im complteley heart broken now i love her more than anything in the world and ive gave her space that she asked for and tryed to show her how hard im willing to change so that i can make our relationship... (109 words

Husband tried to cheat with my friend. Do I forgive him and how can I look my friend in the eye again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - my husband tryed to cheat on me with my best friend we have been married 5 years and have a 2 year old son. my husband and my best friend was drunk she went to bed and woke up next to my husband naked and trying to get it on with her she kicked him out. do i forgive him and how ... (71 words

Bf is due back and I gained weight! I'm nervous as to hoow he'll react..any advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F - My bf of 2 years has been away for over a month with work He is back this week but im nervous as iv put on weight over the holiday period and feel podgy He is really into keep fit and im sure he will notice I also feel down about it but am working out and trying to eat ... (83 words

My bf has a strange problem...is there help for this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so this is really weird, but any help would be much appreciated..! I had noticed that whenever my boyfriend of 5 months(who is 18) and I(16) are on a night out together and have been drinking, he tends not to speak to me very much at all, and one of the only times he di... (218 words

I don't want him to be my boyfriend but I don't want to hurt his feelings, Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello dear fellows, I am with a guy about 4 months now. We both study but in different universities in different cities, so we don't share a place together. However we find time some weekends to meet each other, either in my place or his. He is really a nice guy (in a ... (608 words

Does my bf mean it when he says he trusts me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, sorry for how long this is first of all! I've been with my current boyfriend, officially dating for a few months now so not that long but we were seeing each other for a little while before this. However, when we had just started seeing each other, before anyone... (381 words

He's pretty rude to me around his friends..is it time to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 26-29 - I dont know if its time to dump my bf. We've been going out for about two months but its not going anywhere, every time i try to move our relationship forward be backs off. He also acts really different and rude when we're around his guy friends. Do you think its time to move ... (60 words

If my bf has never gotten a girl pregnant with the pull out method...does that mean he doesn't have pre-cum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is quite experienced sexually and has been using the pull out method for as long as he could remember. I understand that pre-ejaculates occur in some men but not others. If my boyfriend has never gotten a girl pregnant throughout his years of using the pull out ... (68 words

My new boyfriend has a very shady past, should I let it put me off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for a few weeks, and just wondered what people thought in regards to his past. I really like him, and he treats me like a princess, a total gentleman, but he has such a shady past and I guess I worry that it might repeat - I've never dated someone ... (334 words

Any advice what to do about the brother who always undermines me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age - My only brother and I have never been close. Since our father's death 4 years ago there has been an emotional struggle for mother's attention. My brother has done everything in his power to devalue me in Mother's eyes, to the point where she seems to hate me and will not... (161 words

What to wear for VERY posh dinner??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is taking me to a very expensive hotel in a couple of weeks. I know it's costing in excess of £200 a night, so my reason for panic is what do I wear? We're eating at the restaurant there, and I don't really have any knowledge of what kind of thing to wear to ... (61 words

What do you get for a new boyfriend for Valentines Day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy a couple of weeks. We've known each other 6 months or so, so I do know his likes and dislikes well-ish. (He's into cars, BMW's, enjoys drinking and going out, quite into his appearance - meaning he likes to look good/do his hair etc, quite a funny ... (80 words

Advice on sex in hot tub please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hiya abit of an awkward question but me and my wife are going to my sisters soon and she has a hottub thats normally outdorrs but it can be brought indoors which is what they have done in the winter. They have onverted one of the garages into a room to put it in and on the 2nd ... (214 words

My boyfriend won't communicate with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - When my bf does something that upsets me, e.g. keeps checking someone else out when he's with me, or whatever it is, if i say he's upset me/he picks up on it and asks whats up, if i tell him then instead of apologising/saying i got it wrong he goes really defensive as if it was ... (110 words

My son has been behaving sexually towards his sister, how do I handle it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi All, can someone please give me advice on the following: My 12 year daughter had left a note in her bedroom, which I found when I was cleaning her room, it said, Dear Mom, I think i'm pregrant with B...'s baby love S... This I asked her to explain has the name on the l... (402 words

I'm so sick of how boring our sex is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - I have a problem that's really getting on my nerves. Me and my boyfriend have just recently lost our virginity to each other, and have been having sex a lot... A LOT! since that time. The only thing is, we're both (obviously) quite inexperienced, and it's getting annoying... (167 words

My boyfriend is Jekyll and Hyde!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello aunts, hope you are all doing well! I am sorry that this is a little long, but it's just for some background info as well. I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, we have been living together for 1 and a half years, our parents don't know since we're both... (993 words

How can I help her get over it and forget the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I'm with my girlfriend coming up for 10 months now and we really love each other.. the only (big) problem is that she can't get over my past, no matter what...we had been friends for years before but she couldn't be with me because a friend liked me, I tried to get over her... (173 words

I'm lying to my whole family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - At the moment I'm lying to my whole family. My 14y/o sister is dating an 18y/o who I know well as have been mates for a while. The issue is the rest of my family completely disagrees with it as through past experiences within the family we are quite strict on ages. If yo... (137 words

I called it off, he wont speak to me, yet he isnt over me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - this guy jason and me were madly in love and then i called it off he wont speak to me now and he says he aint over me what should i do??... (32 words

Long distance love, not sure what is going on, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy I know, I've never had these feelings for another guy before. But he lives in another country and we communicate via telephone, text or the internet. He's sang and played the guitar for me, told me that we could move to another country together... (106 words

I love another man - should I stay in the relationship and work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a mess right now. I have a boyfriend of over five years and our relationship is really important and special to me. We have been through a few rough patches, which have all been from him wanting to get out, but we ended up resolving them mainly because of my de... (344 words

Could I be being used?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - hello im 33 and i am married to a muslim guy. we married after knowing him only 3 months or so. we married islamically.i think he is using me but his actions say otherwise. we argue a lot and he says he is in love with me , i would love a baby ad i know he would be a good ... (123 words

Does this prove anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl. Ever since school has started this boy in my class has been flirting with me which I think is nice. But this is when he gets confusing, he's nice and flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my locker and he rubs my shoulder ... (163 words

What would be the best thing for me to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am married but seperated for the past 8 years.Single Parent with a high profile job. Have had a serious relationship and broke off about 4 years back. I am choosy when it comes to dating and getting involved. Recently I started liking a colleague at office and after about 5 ... (371 words

Do men have to have an emotional 'connection'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've recently entered my first relationship with a guy (I'm 18) and we've been going out for about a week and a half (three dates). I know it's early days but I want to know how can I connect with him on an emotional level. On the past two dates we have ended up kissing alot ... (178 words

Do vasectomies work 100 percent?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Just a quick question, if a man has had a vasectomy does that mean theres NO CHANCE of getting someone pregnant?... (21 words

What does a smear test involve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello ladies, im due to go for a smear test soon and im really scared as ive never had one before. What exactly happens? Is it painful? Im very shy anyway and the thought of having this done makes me nervous. Any general info and advice would be nice please. Thank... (58 words

I'm not getting enough sex from my partner and an ex wants to see me. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I am a highly sexed 25 year old and preferably like to have sex every night however my boyfriend (who's 40 by the way) of six years (whom I do love so much) has recently started a job with a contractor and has to work Monday right through to Sunday from 7:00am to 5:00pm... (186 words

Shall I take revenge on my ex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear Helpers, I just found out my ex had been cheating on me when were together and not only that he had been kissing one of my friends and some of his own. I am so angry I want to take revenge but I know it's wrong to take revenge but for my own sanity I need to do something ... (129 words

I can't seem to cum. How do I squirt in his face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been masturbating ever since I was 12. I'll get to the point of orgasm, but I just cant catch it. I feel the "pee pee" sensation but I cant orgasm. I feel like I'm missing something. Ive been with my partner for 8 months, and I really wanna squirt in his face. Can anyone ... (61 words

My girlfriend is becoming more distant - what is my next step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years nearly and we've had some great times and some really bad times. I think trust is the biggest issue we have with each other. I'm almost 30 and trying to get into film as well but with no luck especially in the UK. My girlfriend went ... (439 words

Why does my ex wear my old clothes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello Out there, just a quick question. My ex left me for someone else 7 months ago and I am over her but during the 7 months I noticed she's been wearing my tops that I no longer wanted. I bumped into her at a bar and she wore my vest. I bumped into her with her new date ... (160 words

Is there another way to tell if I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Honestly how do you know besides a prenancy test if you are pregnant?And when do you notice your stomach about to rise? ... (24 words

If I'm pregnant, do I keep it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi im 17 years old.And i had sex with a 14 year old we both wanted it to happen but now i think im pregnant.my mother says we are cousins but we aren't blood related.And his mom wants us togeather.Im scared don't know what to do.And i don't want to have an abortion.I really ... (82 words

Should I ignore him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - He says he doesn't want the relationship anymore because his parents will not accept it.He says he doesn't want to get serious because his parents do not approve of love marriage.But he insists we still be friends,meet and talk everyday.I genuinely love him and want to continue ... (95 words

How do I tell my brother's friend that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My brother has a friend who goes to my school, and ive kind of grown to like him but i dont know how to tell him or even if i should tell him. What do i do?... (37 words

How do I deal with a compulsive liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend lies to me. we've been dating for a bit more than four years he lied once in the first 4-5 months of our rship. he went to a friends cabin for the summer and he spent the time there hanging out with his ex-gf. he lied to me about the fact that she was there. i... (955 words

My ex boyfriend does not know I acted so as to please another man only because this threatened me he would harm him... or us both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. Well I think I've got a huge question... I think about 3 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I took it really hard at first and then I just sort went on with things and didn't really care...because we weren't talking to each other... about a little less than a mont... (398 words

Is having a heart-shaped ass a good thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - he said I have a nice heart shaped a** I asked him what this meant and he said its hard to explain, but its a good thing. can anyone tell me what this means?... (38 words

My earlier girlfriend used to squirt a lot. Is this a "must" ? Is it normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - my earlier girlfriend used to squirt a lot and she produced a lot of lubricant when we had sex..but my current girlfriend doesn't..she just gets wet and nothing as such..is it normal or pls explain...sami from britain... (37 words

What advice can I give my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My friends have a problem. Okay,theyr'e both 17(well the guy is about to be 18) T(the guy)and A(the girl) are both virgens. They love eachother ALOT and have been dating since they were 13.So,they both talked to eachother(and me) about having sex but they're a bit stuck. "A... (262 words

Could extra viginal skin be a problem (thus have to be removed)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay this is gonna sound really wierd coming from a 14 year old virgin girl(and no this is not about me wanting to have sex now. I find that really nasty). Okay well, in my family girls have "extra skin" over vaginas.(like two flaps)My sister had to get hers cut when she was a ... (138 words

Should I let him go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am dating a man 16 years older then I am. He was in the middle east for a while and met someone while he was there. She send him texts and even calls him. When I am not around he will take the calls and even text her back. Today I found a text he sent her in December saying ... (104 words

My husband always takes the side of our children to the point they all become abusive! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age - help - my husband of 24 years does not stand up for me - he always takes the side of our children to the point of them being very verbally abusive and physical as well. He does not step in to support me. I am at the point of leaving - what should I do? ... (57 words

What do I do if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I fancy this boy and I'm not sure if he fancies me. I asked him to a dance "as friends" but I actually like him. He said yes and we had a lot of fun. We are friends, and we do theatre together so I talk to him at play practice. The other day he called while I was at school ... (135 words

My date received a begging message from her abusive ex and I'm scared of losing her, especially that she refuses to discuss this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - im totally in love with a girl ive been dating for a few months now. i know she had a pretty hard time with her ex, and he was horrible to her; abusive, cheating, patronizing, and generally making her life pathetic. however, i found messages on her phone from him begging for ... (108 words

What can you do when you're in love with your husband's friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - what do you do when your married and you're in love with your husbands friend? I have been sleeping with his friend for almost a year and now he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to see me anymore and I can't stop thinking about him all day everyday... (50 words

How can I put a stop to her being abused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - im close friends with a girl who is in an abusive relationship, but shes too scared to finish it incase things turn really nasty. what do i do to help her? he repeatedly beats her and has even attacked her with knives, resulting in numerous stitches. she wont go to the police, ... (66 words

19 years old...is sex with my 16 yo gf wrong??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am an 19 year old and im currently in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. I am in madly in love with her and i have never felt this way about anyone else. I've been with her for over 6 months now and we are ready for sex, but im not sure whether this could be consider... (70 words

Should I be worried about him looking at 'Granny Porn'?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - a few months ago i found about 20 videos in the recycle bin of the computer i share with my 24 year old boyfriend of porn featuring mature women. i thought this was a bit strange however i put it to the back of my mind. Recently I discovered that on 2 occasions while ... (169 words

I want to stay with him....but should I tell him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, My bfs just finished me after 2 months, i really really really like him and we always have a laugh together. I just thought we we're good together. I called him tonight and he said we should split up cos he doesnt feel right. He's 16 and i'm 13.. 14 in feb hes 17 in... (102 words

Why isn't she like she used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5942 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age 51-59 - Prior to my wife having our daughter (now 6) e had a good sex life, now if we have sex it is just get it over with, i can't touch her the way i used to, foreplay is non existent. I want to be a good lover and husband but when i ask why she doesn't want me to touch her down ... (70 words

We're trying to rescue him. Any ideas what we could do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

20 January 2008 (M - I am the oldest of 3 (22), but I get on really well with brother who is the youngest (18). I know it sounds weird coming from his brother but before I left for my year backpacking this time last year, he was a really nice and caring person who everyone liked. When I left he ... (208 words

How do you handle a lazy wife who has cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5941 days ago

20 January 2008 (M age - I've been married to her for 21 years. We have had marriage problems from her cheating years ago. Its been very hard to this day to let go of it mainly because I am uncertain if any more cheating has gone on or if it will happen again. We both held onto a lot of resentment, and ... (249 words

Should we allow our daughter to meet this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age - My daughter's 16, and in college studying beauty therapy. She intends to work in tourism as a beauty therapist when she's older, and is doing well on her course. She's got a 21-year-old sister who's at university in Nottingham. Last week she told me she has been chatting to... (253 words

How can I win the trust of my parents back and start living the life of a normal teenager??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

20 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey you guys, im 15 years old and i'm having problems in school especially in math. Well the problem is that my parents dont let me do anything infact they dont trust me...because i never used to listen in the past but now i wanna regain that trust like befo They dont let ... (198 words

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