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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I think I've made a huge mistake marrying him, any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - We have only been married for 50 days (before that we dated for three years)and I am already feeling trapped in this marriage. Over the holidays, I found out my brand new husband has been carrying on a phone/email/text message "friendship" with his ex of six years, that broke ... (221 words)

I'm so shy, the thought of meeting people terrifies me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

- I need help to get over my crippling shyness cos its ruining my life. i'm meant to be going on a trip soon with my friend and she has just emailed me to say we are meeting her friends and travelling with them, she says there's quite a lot of them going and its making me ... (231 words)

Am I plagued with bad luck?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

- Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. It wasn't a bitter end to it all (we only went out for a month) and we're still friends. However although she said she's not ready for a boyfriend, part of me thinks I screwed things up. My girlfriend before broke up with me and I had a ... (95 words)

Is he on the rebound? Does he love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - me and my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years have just split up..naturally i am crushed as he has left me for another girl. but what i do not understand is that we live on an island and he is going out with someone who lives on the mainland even though he said himself that long distance ... (142 words)

He blows hot and cold. Is it me or is it him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been together about 6 - 7 weeks and he's upset me tonight. He was being really weird on the phone with me - not talking much, being really quiet and he didn't say love you when I went and he always does. But when I met up with him he was ... (377 words)

How do I get motivated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - How do I get myself to work? I know that I need to work, but I just cannot get motivated. I've tried to deal with this myself but I haven't suceeded and it's really harming my relationship with my mother (I'm an only child, she's a 1 parent family) and it's killing me inside, ... (182 words)

How can anyone make her 'wise up'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I have had a lot of problems with a girl which im starting to think i was dumb to ever try to have a relationship with. Well she keeps going back to her ex even tho its so easy to tell that he doesnt care about her. Well he got her pregnant and she is 9 weeks pregnant now and ... (315 words)

He wants his money back - do I pay up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a male business associate and we unfortunately became intimate two years ago. Four months into the relationship he offered to lend me money for a breast augmentation. We had a tumultuous love affair and after his obsessions became apparent, I broke things off with him ... (195 words)

How should I act with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i need ur opinion so badd! this guy i like, i think he finally notices me in that way!! hes being more touchy...if i was passing by he wouldn't move...or if hes moving he'd make sure he'd bump into me...and he'd push ppl on me then look at me likes its my fault then smirk...so ... (73 words)

Why can't I get a boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have never had a boyfriend. Last year i asked out a guy that i liked and he said no. Ever since i have not been able to talk with boys face to face. The guy that i liked a month ago (i liked him for about a year) found out that i liked him and we havent spoken ever since. I ... (152 words)

What's caising my boobs to get bigger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am currently 20 years old and I have stopped growing a long time ago. That includes my breasts. As of late they have magically started to grow again. I noticed when I was not fitting right into my B cup. I am now a C cup. (although my boy friend is thrilled at this... (91 words)

What is going on inside his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

- 2/3 months ago i bumped into a guy who i havent seen for years but have always liked him. we sat and spoke and caught up on old times. he even bought me a drink or two.then at the end of the night we kissed and it was like electricity and he gave me his number. then for the ... (335 words)

Is clingfilm an adequate birth control method?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Is it good to use plastic wrap as protection for intercorse?... (11 words)

How do I get counselling without my parents knowing about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi after the sexual attacks that have happened to me in my past, and the names my parents shouted and called me weni told them really upset me and i will never tell them anything again. i now have my father in particular but along with the rest of my family going on about my... (151 words)

I could be in hot water. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - ok so leme start off by saying that I know what I did here was stupid, immature, wrong, etc, and I am not proud of it. That said, I would appreciate it if you would keep your talking smut about me out of your answer. Anyway, my ex girlfriend and myself have been talking abo... (377 words)

Why won't he be straight with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I was with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. During this time, he has left me a total of 3 times, the last time being mere days ago. I'll try to keep this short, but the first time was because of this girl, she spread rumors they'd been kissing in school, i'd been with... (697 words)

Any "domination" techniques you can recommend to spice up our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi am into being dominated but me and my bf are starting to run out of ideas. can anyone suggest anythign new we could try to spice our sex life up again even more?... (37 words)

Why do girls mess with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Alright, so I'm wondering what to do about this. I have been sort of going with a girl lately, we arn't dating, but we like each other alot, we talk all the time, we hook up on weekends, we act like we're dating. I was going to ask her out, but the last couple weeks she's ... (528 words)

Should I stick with the old or go for the new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2years but had one huge arguement. As an idiot i went out and met a friend and got very drunk. Me and my friend have become very close and have fallen for her. I still have continues arguements with my girlfriend but i do love ... (71 words)

I found my brother and his business partner making out, they are both married, should I say something?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I just went by my brother house to pick something up of mine, I have a key, so I went on in the house. When I opened the door, he was making out with his female business partner. I played it off like I didn't notice, and I don't think he or she thinks I saw anything. My ... (88 words)

What are the steps in getting an abortion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi all i found out im pregnant from last week and been thinking and decided to get a abortion , does anyone know what i have to do to go through this , im 26 and weighed the options of keeping itand the options of not out weigh it , please dont judge me on this as im worri... (92 words)

The condom split. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Well yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex and it was all going well until we finished and noticed the condom had split. We are always safe and have never done anything unprotected but this suddenly happened and i dont know what to do about it were both stuck... ... (51 words)

How can I get this other girl out of the picture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i am 14 and recently i really like this boy he is mates with all my mates he seems really nice. but there is this other girl who he is kinda going out with i really like him tho this other i added on myspace too see what she looked like and she commented on my pics saying i... (171 words)

Am I letting my sexual curiosity get the better of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating my current gf for almost 4 years now. Prior to this I was only with one other woman. I am 30, she is 28, both professionals. For the past 2 months I have become insecure about her past. Previously she had been with roughly 10-15 men and I had no cares ab... (209 words)

Why do I have no self-respect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Why do i have no self respect for myself? Long story short.. Me and my ex byfriend went out for over a year..we never had sex and he broke up with me out of the blue. I was so upset and had no idea what to do! We recently have been back in conversation and the normal flir... (173 words)

What can I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Im really scared aout my sister.. shes 16 and has recently had to go through having an abortion at 4 months..she didnt tell anyone apart from me..and i didnt want to annoy her so i didnt tell anyone Her and her boyfriend went to have the abortion, but hes a crack head..an... (115 words)

I'm addicted to him. How do I avoid ruining my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with my husband with just one look nearly 6 years ago. Then I met his good friend and fell in 'lust'. Immediately. This was probably 4 or 5 years ago. We recently started chatting online, and the flirting has gotten pretty intense. I love my husband to death ... (131 words)

Is it best to pass your driving test before having a baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi there, as you know i asked previously that i would like to have a baby with my new boyfriend and i am considering it as we are getting our own house and ive got my driving test at the end of the month and my boyfiend earns alot as he works two jobs so i wondered whether that ... (114 words)

How do I find out if they just want me for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i was just wondering. well i have only had sex with 2 people and just six times between the two. but it took me a long time to actually agree to have sex with them because i didnt want to feel like we had to have sex everytime we were together or feel pressured to have it. When ... (184 words)

She doesn't mind me smoking during sex but insists I wear a condom. Why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 10-12 - my girlfriend doesn't mind that I smoke but always insists that I wear a condom during sex-even though she's on the pill.Any blokes with a similar situation as to why?... (30 words)

Should I lose my virginity?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i am 14 along with my boyfriend of 4 weeks. My boyfriend is not a virgin and lost it with a girlfriend of 5 months. i know that he had it very young and i have told him that i dont really mind. (he was worried that i would) i am still a virgin and i do care for my virginity. i ... (272 words)

Another boy is also interested in the girl I fancy, how should I react?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I fancy this girl so much but found out some other boy fancies her too. I don't know what to do!!!! He's always flirting her but she seems to talk to me more.I'm not prepared to ask her out yet. Everytime I see them I feel like breaking his legs I just get soooooooooo jealous! ... (58 words)

I'm feeling low, stressed and depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - im really stressed out at the moment im doing my A-levels and have my first exam tomorrow and im shit-scared my parents arnt helping as all they seem to do is constantly shout and whenever i see my mates im reminded about what great lives they seem to have, its just getting me ... (81 words)

Does my friend like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 197 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Ive liked my friend for about 14 months now. We talk often been out as group of friends. Sometimes I feel she likes me but other te she does not. After Xmas saw her at college and she said hi first. Had a chat. My question is shall I tell her how I feel? Last time I've ask... (123 words)

Heartbroken that this guy loves somebody else...but what is wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, I really like this boy i thought finaly i have found someone who seems decent has no girlfreind and i have a chance with i started talking to him about 2 days before new years day. So about last week it was going great but then he had some other girl on his MSN addy say... (175 words)

Is it ok to be involved with your 1st cousin?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Is is ok to be with your 1st cousin ? i live somewhere where it is legal, but is it really acceptable in todays society, please give me your honest opinion. Thankyou.... (32 words)

I he serious or only toying with me? And if serious, how can I get him to make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I know Ive talked about this guy before but lets just say since I got ack to school the other day he's acting in a way that I cant figure him out. We flirt all the time and today he slapped my ass and he keeps making gestures with his tongue (I guess you can figure out what ... (121 words)

I found there is hope for us but I must leave her alone for some time, how do I stop thinking about her and how to stay happy even if things don't work out in the end?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 January 2008 (M) - I had a relationship that I'm trying to get back. I found that there is hope for us and i'm willing to take the chance. I know I need to try and dissappear from her for a while so she might have the time to miss me basically. That aside, my problem is in the meantime how do I ... (144 words)

I never got an orgasm, what is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - rite this is really embarasing im 15. when i masterbate i dont get an orgasim or come, i have never done anything with a boy before, just a kiss. i have never had a proper realtionship either. when i finger myself i dont get any pleasure out of it and when i am masterbating in ... (65 words)

How do I know if I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - my basic question is how do i know if i love him. i met my boyfriend in a 12-17aged nightclub. i am fourteen and so is he. we hav been going out now for about 4 weeks and i feel different towards him than any1 else i have been with. maby it is because he is the first guy wh... (203 words)

Does he have commitment phobia, or what is going on here??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am 23 and I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years now. The first year was off and on and off and on until this last time he asked me to move in and I did. Everything was going fine, a few arguments here and there but something every couple has. He is from ... (278 words)

The guy I like fancies another girl but I overheard her friend saying she doesn't like him, should I do something or just get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - There have been rumors about this boy who I like saying he fancies this girl, I over heard her friends talking about it. One of the girls talking about it said she does not even like him, and if he was going to ask her out I wouldnt want him to get hurt! Should I try t... (95 words)

Sex, and then runaway? Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - ok, so. I was with my boyfriend at a romantic lake. We there talking and making out. When suddenly I see him running towards the lake and tells me to join him skinny dippin. So i did. We were about to start having sex, when he suddenly ran off. Is he cheating on me or ... (70 words)

Do women cheat because they're not getting enough?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - This may be aa strange question, but do women cheat because they can't get enough sex, or is it for other reasons?... (22 words)

Why do I find it hard to get over people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - How come I find it hard to get over people? My last 2 girlfriends I'm having difficulty getting over and I still miss them (well, one!) and want her back. The counsellor said that it may be because I lost my Dad. What do you think?... (49 words)

Was there something else?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My friend's boyfriend dumped her after 9 months together because, according to her, he was fed up with her texting him and wanting to chat to him every day (thats what happens in a relationship!). I thought this was very strange, seeing that he said that she was his one true ... (75 words)

Why did he bother texting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend split up with me on friday, blaming me for the majority of problems in his life, and being quite cruel about me as a person. I told him what I thought of what he said and left it at that. It is now tuesday and I get my first contact off him since then, asking how I ... (171 words)

Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she was slipping away from me. I ... (507 words)

I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because I went from being a ... (252 words)

Me and my havent had sex for ages...and now I have ended up kissing and cuddling my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my husband for 10 yrs and married to him for 5 yrs, we have a 6 yr old son together and i have 2 older kids from a previous relationship. My problem is he never wants sex anymore, we used to have a normal healthy sex life but for the last 4yrs or so he is... (204 words)

Should I wash these men out of my Hair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids My current boyfriend is opening up a business that will be making some hair cosmetics products. My ex boyfriend works for an ad agency so a Chinese client that gave them a hair product making machine for free (as a gift) as a donation rather. I am in this di... (331 words)

Is he really focused on getting back with me in the future or is he just using me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive been with my boyfiend for over 3 years.. i love him to bits. Only for the past 3 months we have been arguing so so much! He says im controlling and wont let him have a social life, and although i tell him ill do my best to stop and let him grow, i havent honestly tried my... (251 words)

Do I contact him or should I wait for him to contact me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a really great guy online. He's a few years older than me, divorced - I was never married, just engaged, though both our partners cheated on us - both these relationships ended about 5 years ago. I have a kid which this guy has known about since day one. He calls al... (335 words)

I'm a rich man's mistress, and he won't leave his wife for me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why is it that the good ones get hurt? ive had a terrible experience with my previous boyfreind.abuse of every kind.just when i was getting back on my feet,which might i ad took me five years.i met this man.he was funny,sincere,kind..allthe things i ever wanted.i trusted him ... (464 words)

An older guy consoled her and she has feelings for him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my gf have been together for a years plus now, she is 16 and I am 18. I can honestly say I truly love her and she loves me. I was her 1st major boyfriend. We've been very happy together, we've been discussing about out future and we're ready to go through life tog... (289 words)

What is going through her mind?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hie there. recently i broke up with my first true love because of arguements. i have looked at the reasons for the arguements and i dont think they are worth the love we had.now i left her a letter the other day explaining how wrong i was and how much i still loved her.before ... (173 words)

What should I say to him when I see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex split up with me out of the blue. Everything was fine. All went wrong from am-pm the same day. I sent an e-mail about him cancelling plans with me (the first time in 7 months)which he told me has made him feel he doesn't treat me like he feels he should and that I ... (226 words)

Is he sneaking with other women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now, and we have had issues with his ex-girlfriend, ex-wife, and female friend emailing and calling him. It seems as though he just can't stay away from other women. He says that he no longer keeps in touch with these women, but, ... (90 words)

Should I be pregnant at this age?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend has had sex without a condom loads off times in the past month to hav a baby because last year we found out i was pregnant but got an abortion because we was not ready but now i dont no if i am pregnant now because i hav just started seeing blood in my wee ... (67 words)

If he's so attracted to me, why doesn't he want to get physical?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been VERY close with my guy friend for about 5 months(we seen each other EVERY DAY and never tire!). We've talked about dating, or fooling around at least, but when the kiss that I expected NEVER came, I called him on it. (I've tried once before, and he backed away) He s... (232 words)

How can I make him see how good I would be for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - These past couple months I have come to realize that Im falling in love with my best guy friend.We have been physical before but have never had sex.He refuses to kiss me on the lips though as he says its too intimate.Which confuses me because why would he want me to touch his ... (206 words)

I can't get over the thought of her having sex with this other guy. How can I get it out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, I really need some help. It all started 2 years ago when the love of my life walked into my house. I fell in love and we got together. My life was great for about 2 months until she started acting different. And she ended up breaking up with me.(we had sex one time. my... (527 words)

Would it be over the top to break with him over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and i went to a party with his friends. He did something that made me feel really uncomfortable - he was flirting with one of his female friends and then asked her (i assume as a joke) if she wanted to have sex with him. I was right there and felt really bad! then ... (114 words)

Should I tell my best friend who is homosexual that I'm falling for him? I'm afraid of my confession ruining the friendship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a gay best friend, and i think im starting to fall for him. i know he had previous girlfriends but its men that really interest him. should i tell him that i'm falling for him? but im afraid of being rejected and i dont want to lose our friendship. please help me... [A... (219 words)

Is it stress or faded attraction?... What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend is really busy with his work nowadays. He has project deadline. I dont see him interetsed in having sex with me nowadays. Is it because of stress? or because he is in pressure. Its been s lot of time now. We live together.. I dont know...I feel worried and I think ... (60 words)

Why is he being so secretive? Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner since September. It all happened really quickly. I am in my thirties and he is in his forties. We moved in with each other after a short while. Everything is going great. The last couple of weeks he has been very secretive when I walk into the ... (76 words)

Would it be unreasonable of me not to invite her to our wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My fiancee and I are getting married later this year and we are currently planning the wedding together. we are working on a guest list, and he suggested the other day that we invite this one girl who we havent really spoken to for years. Back when we did hang out with her... (385 words)

Why do I still love this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I met this guy in high school (grade 10) and fell in love a couple days into the friendship. He had a girlfriend but he flirted with me and we became best friends throughout all of high school. I never had the guts at the time to tell him how I felt. There were a couple of ... (607 words)

Every time we try to have sex it hurts her so I stop. What can be done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 10-12 - This isn't funny. It's true. I'm experienced, she's a virgin. We have 5 years between us and we are in our twenties.2 years together. I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off. I want to have sex with her. She wants to have ... (120 words)

We want sex but can't. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - This isn't funny. It's true. I'm experienced, she's a virgin. We have 5 years between us and in our twenties.2 years together. I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off. I want to have sex with her. She wants to have sex with m... (118 words)

My fiancee's ex is his secretary, she still works with him, how can I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

8 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated my now fiancé several years back and we broke things off because I got back together with an old boyfriend and he started dating his secretary. He and his secretary lived together for 5 1/2 years and their relationship ended over a year ago. My fiancé and I obviously ... (149 words)

He's alcoholic, won't help around the house and demands sex all the time. What can I do to improve the situation?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband and I have been together for 2 1/2 years and boy do we have drama. He's alcoholic and he recently relapsed, he's isn't as bad as he was before he started going to AA but it still bugs me because I've had past relationships with people who have abused me physically ... (195 words)

How do I get this affair out of my head?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been very happily married for seven years and have three small children. We live in a very social neighborhood and hang out with nearly all of our immediate neighbors on a regular basis. My husband and I became very good friends with one of the couples...and I became ... (312 words)

Do men need 3 seconds of eye contact before speaking to a girl?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 21 year old virgin and I've never had a relationship with a man, I don't know what to do, because I belong to the most shyest people in the world. All (3) guys which want me to go out were uninteresting for me (for some time I tried to "fall in love" with them but it d... (135 words)

Is there something wrong with the way we have sex?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a 20 year old female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a long time. This is a really embarassing question but I feel like I have no one else to ask. My boyfriend and I are both sexually active and have had sex many times (30+ times, heh) and i've never ... (101 words)

I know what an orgasm feels like but I can never get one through sex. Any advice?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, Im jus going to go all out here because I really need some answers, and its not making any sence to me. I masterbate, and I know exactly what having an orgasm feels like, but I never get one having sexual intercourse with my fiancee. I talked to my friends and they have jus ... (144 words)

My mother has disowned me. Waht can I do?

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8 January 2008 (F) age 18-21 - im a young girl that needs help!!!! my dad left 8 years ago so it has only ever been my mum sisters and brothers but now i have my own flat my mother has disowned me. a big argument kicked of with my sister and her ex in my flat my boyfriend walked out and i went after him a... (150 words)

Was she preoccupied or embarassed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

8 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello. There's this girl who I'm just starting to get to know. I like her a lot, and am hoping she likes me too. Can you tell me if you think she does, or if she's just being freindly. I skied with her for a while, and we rode the lift together (she chose me over some of her ... (172 words)

I'm very picky on who I will date, and have turned down many requests! What should I do?

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8 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello. I'm in jr heigh, and am the only boy in my class who hasn't had a girlfreind. I'm very picky on who I will date, and have turned down many requests. I'd be fine with it, except I'm starting to be made fun of. I don't want to date anyone who I don't really want to date, ... (69 words)

Should I warn my friend about using protection, as I am worried about him?

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8 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm worried for my freind. He and his girlfreind are both deeply in love with eachother, and they are both underage. They have been very close to having sex, and I'm worried that they're going to do so without protection. I don't know if I should talk to him about it or not.... (54 words)

My mum doesn't want my grandma at my wedding, what can I do?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I need help again. Please refer to my last question (about my controlling mother) for more in-depth background information. Really quickly- planning a wedding, mom and her own mother (my grandmother) do not speak. Mom has said she isn't allowed to be invited. (I don't yet ... (295 words)

My mother says the Bible does not approve of interracial relationships. How can I prove her wrong?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im engaged to a black man, and I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him, hes just like me in every way. My father is racist, and my mother claims that she is just "against marrying out of your race" because of her "religious Christian raisings" and the fact that ... (146 words)

Any way I can have an abortion without my parents' knowledge - at my age?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey i just found out i pregnent... i cant tell my mum n dad they will KILL me, is there any way i can get rid of it with out them knowing???... (32 words)

I love him but the spark has gone. How do we rekindle what we used to have?

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8 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. I am a 21 year old female who has been engaged for 4 years to my highschool sweetheart. He has been with me through some pretty tough times, including the revelation that I was molested by my stepfather. We used to have a very sexually exciting relationship invlolving many ... (207 words)