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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

What's up with these men I meet, any ideas from the guys out ther?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Any answers from men in particular would be appreciated. I have been dating again for about a year after eight year and I've dated a handful of men during that time who have behaved in a manner that I find irritating. On the around the fifth or sixth date - no sex involved ... (573 words)

She ended it but she keeps buying me gifts...what is she up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello A woman who I dated and loved deeply ended our relationship about 18 months ago but we both remained 'friends'. I was devasted but managed to 'pull myself together'. Recently she has has started giving me expensive watches and other gifts for my birthday and recent... (95 words)

How can you live with a bossy controlling man, the nice ones bore me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you stay in a relationship with a difficult man? And don't tell me they don't exist, I see them all the time. They're the guys who lose their temper over every little thing, think they have to tell a woman what to do all the time, are bossy and controlling in most ... (188 words)

Am I being to foward? Is there any other way to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Alright, Tuesday, I'm to see my crush I'm fairly sure he likes me. I've talked to him before, but I need a way to really get to know him. He always looks me in the eyes for what seems like forever any time we even see each other. I've talked to his friends before and they are ... (150 words)

My ex cheated, am I ready to hit the dating game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am reposting this as one of the agony aunts/uncles said it is better to post on a monday and I was hoping for more replys. Thankyou. I am a mum of two children, aged 24. I recently broke up with my childhood sweetheart (father of kids) almost a year ago (He cheated). Al... (278 words)

My bf wants to try bondage, is this a good idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi my bf wants 2 do some bondage he has done it a bit with his past gf's but i have never done anything like it i am a bit scared to try new things but want to please him sexually as we have become less interested in each other sexually we have been fighting alot lately and he ... (120 words)

I'm a faithful wife and mother, but there's this guy at work I cant get out of my head, advice please

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I can’t discuss this with my family, girlfriends or husband. Maybe someone out there can help to enlighten me. I am a happily married woman with kids. I’ve been married almost twenty years, to a wonderful man, that I love very much. He is a caring and loving husband a... (701 words)

Is he talking to his friends about me or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i was sort of seeing this guy who i meet down my local but everything was going ok then things changed, in the end i never did have sex with him and have not seen him since but this evening down the pub i felt that everyone who works there was watching me then out of no where ... (160 words)

How am I suppose to match her ex-lovers when I haven't done anything sexual my entire life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

- me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 6 months. I adore her and she adores me. Some of her friends and family say she seems much more happy and thrilled with me as her boyfriend than she has done with her ex's. I haven't told her I've never had sex with anyone b... (132 words)

She's going to Wales, should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, I am 14 years old in England. For the last two years, my feelings have grown for a rather nice girl in my class (not sexy but pretty, clever, friendly) but I can tell she feels differently to me. I was thinking of asking her out on Tuesday (when I go back to school) but ... (105 words)

Can't choose between these 2 guys..and I don't want to hurt anyone! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been having a tough period in my life lately trying to decide between two guys. One of them, i've known and dated for 4 1/2 years (guy #1) and the other i just recently met (guy #2). guy #1 has never cheated on me or did ne thing to hurt me, but he lives very far away from ... (366 words)

We had sex but I don't want to be with her...so why do I hate the fact that she feels the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - This is so crazy!!Sorry its so long I started at a new school about 3/4 months ago and instantly became really good friends with a girl Anyways, she told me she was Bi, And i told her i was too It was great, on new years she had a party and we made out sober and drun... (268 words)

How do I deal with this best friend of mine...who can't accept that my current bf didn't want her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend are very much in love we always have been but my friend is insanely jealous because she fancies my boyfriend although i did ask if she was ok with me going out with him and she said yes on top of this she has her own boyfriend and keeps trying to interfere ... (225 words)

Curvy girl lacking confidence, what can you suggest I should wear in the bedroom (apprpriate clothing for my body constitution) and what does a man want in bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi not really a problem here i just want to know whays that i can spice up my sex life. i am curvy girl and i lack in confidence A LOT is there any advice on how to help e.g. what i would look good in and what a man wants in the bedroom. any advice i would be really grateful ... (64 words)

Happy that she's dating my best mate, again-sad that I'm not! I'm crushed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi im13 and i posted a question middle of december about my mates ex and wether she was off limits. But ill start from the beggining: Basically the first time i saw this girl-lets call her emily-i thought she was gorgeous but at the time she was going out with my best mat... (188 words)

30 and pregnant, my bf does not agree to keep the baby, but my mother says it is my last chance to have a child, so what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 30. im pregnant but my bf says he doesn't want a baby. i told my mum and she said that it's my last chance to have 1. Is my mum right and what should I do?... (37 words)

It upsets me how he just won't do little things for me. Should I say something to him or just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey, well I've just got back from seeing my boyfriend and i'm a little upset. We were at his mates house and my bus was going to arrive in 15 minutes and he wouldn't just come outside with me and say bye properly or just walk me to the bus stop. It was dark and I wanted ... (258 words)

How do I get motivated to work at studying for my exams? Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - How do I get motivated to work? As I just cannot seem to motivate myself, I know how important exams are and I blew my GCSE's and I'm in the process of blowing my AS course which I don't want to do! Does anyone have any advice on how I can make myself work, and actually lea... (110 words)

Is it normal that I get very wet when my bf just kisses me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I get really wet and ejaculate when my boyfriend even just kisses me, is this normal? ... (16 words)

Had unprotected sex while drunk and took the morning after pill, I'm still scared though.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - i slept with a boy when i was drunk and i dont think we used any protection. i took the moring after pill about 48 hours after it happend. i havent had my period, although mine are always all over the place. please help i am so scared!... (48 words)

Do ALL men cheat under certain circumstances? Can you be intimate with one person and still truly love someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in an open relationship with a man I care about very much, I'll call him Calum. He's a professional musician and travels a lot with his bad so we have an understanding that when we are together we love each other but never ask questions about time spent apart. We've been ... (492 words)

My gf will not make any concessions, while I am not expected to want or act incongruently with her admission. What is going on here? How can we correct this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm writing because my girlfriend of about two years and I are having some issues. I would say there are lots of them, but I'm convinced the majority of our issues are consequential to a couple "core" issues. First things first. I'm 27, she is 20. We have one daughter (... (643 words)

How do I convince her to let herself fall in love with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My ex broke up with me at the end of November for a few reasons but mainly because she got sort of bored and wasn't in love with me anymore. However, she admits that because neither of us have changed she could fall in love with me again but doesn't want to because she 'knows ... (116 words)

I know she thinks a lot of me so will her new relationship last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my ex were solid for about 8 months but we broke up for various irrelevant reasons. After we broke up I sent her lots of texts, not urging her to take me back but just for her to not see other people and give it time. Anyway, she saw this one guy for a couple of weeks ... (171 words)

My husband wants me to sleep with a male prostitute to get pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 24, my husband's 26, and we've been married for 3 years now. We have a good lifestyle and our sex life is good. My husband is a very nice person, well-liked and popular and doesn't get jealous when I'm with other guys or on girls' nights out. We also both want children as... (473 words)

She won't reply to my messages...why is she so distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hi im 19, i met a girl(18) at a club, had alot of fun together, kissed, number exchange. she invited me out the next night (sat). we spent a lot of time together during the week including meeting all her friends and got along very well. after a couple of days i called her n we ... (203 words)

Is it ok to wait til your 18 to lose your virginity or do anything sexual?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - is it ok to wait til your 18 or so or at uni to lose your virginity or do anything sexual (other than kissing)? p.s i live in uk where everyone has sex before 16 [rolls eyes] id like everyones personal oipinions please, also not "don't be pressured into anything" or "any... (63 words)

What can I say to him to help bring his confidence back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - This is mroe advice for my friend. I have a male friend - he's one of my best friends and I love him to pieces - not in a romantic way, but as a friend. We're really close. A while ago he told me he was in love with me, and although I adore him, I had to explain to him we ... (212 words)

My mind tells me to leave because I'll never know if he cheats on me again but my heart says otherwise! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - My bf and I are both 19, currently at the uni, been steady for 2 years now. The problem started when we haven't had sex for 2 months already, because I was losing my passion for him a bit partly coz I'm busy with school work as I just shifted to a new degree. He said I told him ... (449 words)

My boyfriends ex wrote me saying he was abusive, should I take her advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating my current bf for a little less than a year now. When I got together with my bf, he'd just broken up with his gf not too long. He said she was unfaithful and they had problems long before the breakup. I knew that the girl wanted to get back together with him ... (229 words)

I love him but I dislike his whiney, grating voice! Am I too picky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This problem may sound silly but although I love my boyfriend very much I am not attracted to his voice. This seems ridiculous as I have known him 2 years and you'd think I could have made that decision on the first date but its not that it irritates me all the time. The ... (275 words)

We are just too different! But I don't feel right with him or without him! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts, I am confused and i seek help from those who are purely here to help me as opposed to 'friends' that only give manipulating oppinions. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years and recently for about 4 months i have always felt on n off that i... (547 words)

Do you think this girl likes me or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Alright just wondering here, do you think this girl likes me or what? She's in one of my classes, we've hooked up like 5 times now, we flirt all the time, and she always gets me to call her, but lately, the last two weeks now, she'll say we wants to hang out with me, gets me... (136 words)

My mum is always telling me off, when I don't even do anything wrong. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi,i'm 13 and my mum is always telling me off, when i don't even do anything wrong. If i play a game on tele, computer,playstation, phone or any gadget i am told of, and everytime i do play a game she always says to me on purpose could you do this job for me, and when my ... (406 words)

Sacred for her because some of the girls are going to do bad stuff to her! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I'm 15 and I'm really into sports. I play netball for my county and last year, my school netball team did really well @ national schools, so my team was invited to rain with the senior girls @ our school, after school. We did well i guess, cause the team was invited 2 go ... (280 words)

He's still visiting adult dating sites, but says its to boost his confidence, should I give him the heave ho?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Readers The man I am dating (for over 11 months now) - I found out by accident he has a secret email account with emails from other girls - I found out he has about 20 girls on his messenger list and an account on an adults sex site - I emailed one of the girls and sh... (195 words)

Is sex with an ex so wrong when you are both still in love or is this doomed from the start?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I dumped my boyf 4 months ago after a 5 year relationship, things werent going well and he was going through a bad time emotionaly and was pushing me away through lies, so I thought it was best to get out of the relatinship then and there. It was so tough and I missed him ... (440 words)

Is my girlfriend right to resent my best friend -who is a female

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend seems to resent my best friend -a female and it is affecting our relationship. We all work in the same company and my gf and friend live near each other too. Sue has been my friend for many years - we are very close, she is in an unhappy relationship and we ... (238 words)

Do any men like giving oral?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) age 22-25 - I have only ever been with the one man in my life and he does not enjoy performing oral sex on a woman. He claims that men just DON'T like it at all. This may be a stupid and very obvious question I should know the answer to, but because I have only been intimate with on... (143 words)

I find it strange I'm not presented to his family and acquaintances. There's also an overlap between our dates and still living with his wife, he is adamant they were not intimate though. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I am hoping you can help with some relationship advice. My 'boyfriend' won't invite me to where he lives with his Dad. Ever. I have never met his Dad although we've been dating for 1 year, and he hasn't told his Dad I exist. He has never met any of my friends (apart ... (259 words)

I believe we're meant to be together, again. She believes differently..any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my ex were the perfect couple for nearly a year. We broke up for a few reasons: - She was scared that I might be moving away - It was our first love and she wanted to know how good our relationship really was as we have no other experience - We got slightly bored of th... (144 words)

We broke up 9 months ago and I miss him. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im quite confused, me and my ex broke up around 9 months ago. I dont want him back or anything but sometimes i really miss him and i think about him i just cant help it no matter how hard i try. I just want to know if this is normal and if so how long does it last! Im also ... (77 words)

I accepted my husband back but I feel I am doing all the effort!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - for 2 yrs since my husband's dad died he has changed new job, selfish, wanted to do what he wants,lies. Anyway I finally kicked him out. 6 months later we are back together trying to work things out but i feel I am doing all the effort. A small amount from him i thought he w... (196 words)

I'm 18 and planning to have a baby. Do you think it is a wise decision at this age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi the as you may know previously i had a boyfriend but now we have broken up and i am with a new man, would you think it was mad if we decided to have a baby i am 18 and he is soon to be 21 please can you help us thanks lovesickpup... (57 words)

How can he be gay and have feelings for me? I'm really confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Iam a 20 heterosexual female. Ive had the same best friend since I was seven years old. He happens to be a gay man. He has always been my best friend. I love him and he means more to me than anything or anyone. He came out of the closet to to me before anyone else when he was ... (311 words)

I wake up to having tense feelings in the chest, and miserable thoughts. What IS this??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. Health related question. Some time ago, I used to wake up in the morning, be very tense in the chest area and feel miserable. Recently, this has returned. What is it? Could it be stress related? It seems that lately when I try to sleep, all I can think about is my ex a... (212 words)

I am becoming interested in him as he is nice and respectful, but is he too old for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm 15 years old, and a 19 years old guy likes me. He's really nice and respectful. I'm becoming interested in him, But I'm thinking it's not right of me. Is this guy too old? [Added] Hello, I've posted a question here recently, But another one just came to mind. I'... (105 words)

Will he react the same as before?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm pregnant. He is not my boyfriend, we used to date, he is 29 yrs older than me. He got me pregnant before and he convinced me to have an abortion, he said we could have probably babies in the future but not at that time. I haven't told him yet about his new pregnanc... (115 words)

Should I pursue this attraction or put it down to being a silly crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue. I am married, but I find myself attracted to one of my co-workers. We have to work close to each other everyday. He is just so sweet,really funny, super nice, and he tells me at least once a day something nice about me to make me feel good. I doubt he will try ... (90 words)

Is my teacher a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships are wrong, and this is all a product... (565 words)

I got overly-anxious over a rape scene I saw in a movie! Why did I feel that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I currently watched the movie Rob Zombies Halloween. I'm not very good with horror movies, but this one did not bother me as much, although the only thing that did make me feel like screaming gave me anxiety, was the rape scene. I am very confused with myself and why... (75 words)

I refuse to have sex with him but we cuddle instead. His wife didn't want him until he found me. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved with a man that is a neighbor in my apt complex he lives 2 doors down. He used to talk to me about how miserable he was with her,we were good friends and he said he loved talking to me and I helped him by listening to his problems, then a month later we had ... (252 words)

I believe he's telling me the truth - but is there any future in this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a 2 1/2yr affair with a married man. He is everything I have ever wanted. I didn't go looking for this, it just happened as if it were meant to be. He told me from the start, his marriage was broken due to infidelity,but he never left due to a child. He says ... (172 words)

My boyfriend and I have BOTH felt very rejected and let down by these two couples (our only friends.) They many times ignore and exclude us if we do not contact firstly. Your thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (F) age 26-29 - I was wondering if I could have some opinions as to what you would do in my situation. My social life consists of my boyfriend and his friends (2 other couples). I have tried, for absolute YEARS to consider both of these couples to be my OWN friends, but 1 of them has s... (1154 words)

I'm a bit rusty - is it too soon for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been divorced for about two years. I am in my late forties. I have recently started dating a man I met on line. We have been talking for about a month and have gone on three dates. The realtionship is taking a turn towards sex. I'm a little rusty with the ... (69 words)

His ex is pregnant and he doesn't love her...should I still date him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - So I use to go out with this guy for 2 months. Then we broke up and later on he got with this girl but then they broke up. During the time that he was with that girl, he would still try to contact me and try to keep it cool with me. So once him and that girl broke up, we ... (171 words)

I want someone who treats me lovingly. I'm not sure if this guy's the one! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am at an impass... I really don't know if I should try to work through things with my rather new bf. We're really different in a few crucial ways, but we also get along better than I've gotten along with most other people. I really love him, but there are issues and I'm not ... (340 words)

My boyfriend of 3 yrs don't want his father to know we are dating! How can I make him relax about this so that we don't have to hide??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been going out with the same guy for 3 years. He's very commitment-phobic, and likes to keep his distance so he doesn't feel too tied down, but I know he still loves me. We'll see eachother maybe 3 times in a month, which is fine for me because I am in college and need ... (229 words)

What can he or I do to increase his sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - How do you get a man more interested in sex and intimacy? My boyfriend aged 40 is only really interested less than once a week. If I say I am finding that really hard and not enough it increases for a while but then drops back again. What can he or I do to increase his sex ... (58 words)

She's broken my heart. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a problem. I really, really, -REALLY- like this girl. I've known her for over a year, and we both admit we'd be great for each other. I've never felt any kind of close connection to anyone like I do with her. The only person who comes close is her sister, who's al... (225 words)

This girl is notorious on chasing after other girls boyfriends, and now she is after mine! What do I do to make her back off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have some friends that I've had since elementary school (we are all in our 2nd year of university now). One of them has over the years turned into a bit of a party girl, and she's notorious for sleeping with other girls boyfriends. I'll call her jane (not her real name) I... (711 words)

I'm shy - how do I get her number?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - im 20 and i like the 17year old cashier that works at the same store as me, its a little "corner store" type place. My problem is im too shy to actually ask her on a date or for her number, i can talk to her and make jokes with her but i just cant ask the big question. And ... (125 words)

He drove 5000 miles to see me (that's a long way!) Should I have let him m ove in with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i have been chatting on line with this really great guy for about a month now. its like we think the same and get along great. i have chatted with him on the phone a few times. well he drove over 5000 miles to meet me. he has family , not to far away from where i ... (192 words)

How can I get to be more confident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

6 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - hi, ive been going out with this really nice, really good looking girl for around a month now, and ive tried to step the relationship up, but i find myself to nervous to kiss her and so all we ever do is hold hands etc... is there any advice that you can give that could ... (66 words)

How do I tell people I'm gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, im 17 yrs old and become a bisexual at the age of 15 but never told anyone! except people on msn and stuff....how can i deal with this? and tell people im gay? please help!... (36 words)

I woke up having sex with a friend of my FWB. I'm worried he will tell my FWB, whom I actually like!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - ive been seeing a guy for about 2 years he used 2 live near me when he was at uni but moved this summer, me and him are good friends and very close, and when he was here we used 2 be with each other all the time, we used to be sexual too. he's moved back home now so i don'... (224 words)

I can't find an opportunity to buy condoms as our parents are restrictive, and I am also afraid they will not accept my bf of different race!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - ok so it is not that we are embarrassed to buy condoms it is that every were we go our parents are there so we don't get the time to buy them and when we are alone we are not in a store to buy them.what should i do because if i tell my dad that i want to sleep with my ... (105 words)

We both said, "I love you". Now I am confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hi, i am 15 years old and me and this boy we're almost there..i mean we were very close to being boyfriend and girlfriend but we only knew each other for 3 months.One day he told me that he loved me and i asked him how could you love someone that you barely even know and he ... (262 words)

Underside of "member" is red. Is it a rash or what?

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6 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - hi I am a 15 year old male and I noticed for a while that the underside of my penis is red, its not red raw or a rash as it doesn't itch etc. I have had it for a while ... Does any one know what it is?... (49 words)

Is this long distance relationship worth persuing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

6 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a male friend, we've been friends for about almost 2 years now, we get on really well, but I wouldnt say we are super close - defo a good friendship there tho. When we meet up we just have such a laugh, he always asks me how things are going in my life, remembers ... (444 words)