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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I told her that the morning after pill is abortion, she hates me now, what should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear friends, I have been crying for a day now because of my best friend. I have known her for over 9 years now, and we've helped eachother so much. I moved in with her and her son from another state and lived with her for about 5 months and then moved in with my boyfrien... (313 words)

Looking for men who have been cheated on but worked it out????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Is there any male out there who was cheated on, but managed to work out your relationship? I'd love to talk to you about what happened.... (26 words)

First love...Does it ever end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I want to know if your feelings ever truely fade for your first love or do we hold those feelings for the rest of our lives!! I know the saying that you never forget your first love! My situation is that, I went out with a boy when I was 16 for 8 months, and I know that ... (342 words)

I am jealous of my boyfriends best friend that happens to be a female. Am I overreacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I think i'm starting to get jealous of my boyfriends bestfriend. We are in a long distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. He has known his friend, which is a girl, for a long time he says and I get sad because they go to school together and she sees him ... (104 words)

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look at him he blushes and looks do... (188 words)

Scared I am pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i would appreciate any help. I had my period on the 12th of January (Saturday) and it lasted until the 17th (thursday) I had sex that next day, Friday, and my fiance and I started out without a condom, but after like 10 seconds he put one on. I am so scared I am pregnant ... (140 words)

Was he playing with me, Is it my shyness or just a typical teen boy thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i need some advise! i like this boy who i've known for about 5 yrs now. about a year ago we started texting each other constantly and he told me he liked me a lot too. we went out a few times together but nothing really happened. recently he texted me and asked if I'd like to ... (112 words)

Is she stringing me along? Is her not contacting me even to ask how I am a bad sign?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi all, Back here once again, in pretty much the same situation. I was going through a horrible break up with the same girl about a year and a half ago. But she came back saying she made a mistake, and i let her back into my life, and we were happier than ever. But o... (392 words)

Its gone sour since she moved here to be with me but I'm worried about her wellbeing if we split, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 31 yrs old, I live with my g/f which is 26. we met on the internet almost a yr ago. We talked and emailed for a month, then I flew her to me in California. She stayed out here with me for 2 weeks. We had a great time. Then a month later I asked her to move in with me. She ... (153 words)

What to do with him...Do you think we are really broken up for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hello my ex and i been broken up for about 2 weeks now and sunday night i went to his house we talked..he basically told me that we're still young and that hes not ready to commit yet.then he said i'd be wasting my time if i waited for him..but i kno him, ive been with hi... (389 words)

Married women and sex toys. Opinions please....

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I would like to ask women who are married and using toys. Do you think these toys can substitute your husband? Why do you use them? and would it be possible that woman will get addicted to the toy and enjoy it more than her husband? I need an honest answers please...... (54 words)

What does a boy really want in a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm trying to become friends with this really hot guy who I'm head over heels for. But problem is I just can't figure out how to get him really into me, or at least I can't tell. I think he's interested in me but it's really hard because he's really shy. What does a boy really ... (60 words)

My friend grassed me up to my boyfriend. Do I become mates with him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - rite this is complicated ..... very complicated. where do i start - well ive lived next door to this lad 4 about 12 yrs and he was best mates with my brother, when my brother went to university me n him became very close n he was my bestest friend in the world. we were so close ... (386 words)

What is a good diet to loose weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey My Boyfriend And I Have An 'Intimate' Relationship... However I Feel Self Consious About My Tummy. I Am Not OverWeight Like Loads But I Am Not A Szie 6 Either :( I Have Been Thinking About Going On A Diet Of Rice Crackers (( You Know The Tesco Ones Like Snak-A-Jacks))... (142 words)

Info about birth contol pills, please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - If I take a pregnancy test while on the pill, does it come back positive because of the hormones in your blood from the pill?? Or, can I take one and get an accurate reading?... (36 words)

I feel bullied in my relationship.I want to leave, but I love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - For the past two years, I have fell head over heels for a man that just seems to not have the same emotional function as i do. Lately I have felt the pain and agony, of what it is really like, to have someone who you really care about just shove everything in your face. What do ... (337 words)

How can we get his ex to leave us alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known my boyfriend 12 years then we got together. I have a fear of losing my boyfriend because his ex (who was with for 4 years) messed with and is still messing with his head. She’s crazy, she stalks him and talks to friends and family about him…she tells everyone that ... (237 words)

The other guy wants me to choose. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy (Guy A) for about 8 months and I do think I love him. About 4 months ago I met someone else (Guy B). He is very good to me and I do enjoy spending time with him but feel guilty doing so. Guy A says he is not in a "hurry" having just gotten out of a mar... (134 words)

My vagina is too tight, sex is painful. How can I fix that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex recently told all my friends how "tight" I was. unfortunatly he's right. What can I do to stop being so tight? Sex is really painful, and its really starting to make me depressed.... (35 words)

How can I find out if he said it only because of a dare?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 13 years old. I just found out something. The boy in my class who said he loved me, he was dared to say it. what do u think?... (29 words)

How can I assure my boyfriend that I will never cheat again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 20 years old, and I'm in a 7 month relationship with a WONDERFUL man who is 21. I stupidly cheated very, very early into the relationship. My boyfriend just found out and i know it hurt him very badly as he's been cheated on before in past relationships. I feel ... (167 words)

Why am I attracted physically to the guy I'm not really close to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I think i have a crush on a boy,but when i am with him i feel like i am with my best friend,and i never think of us kissing or anything. But then there's another boy that i don't have a crush on (i think) and i don't know him extremely well,but i am allways thinking about him ... (98 words)

We both are too shy to become more physical. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - hello my gf and i have been going out for six months now...we both want to hug and kiss and have physical contact but we r both to shy any advice on this. ive been looking at other questions like this but they dont have the answers i need ... (99 words)

I am jealous because my boyfriend doesn't spend enough time with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having trouble with my bf lately. I feel bored, and don't feel like want to see him anymore. We've been together for 3 years. He seldom spends time with me during the weekend,he spends all his weekend on trespassing to take photos. I know he is really faithful, he will tell ... (78 words)

Do relationships with language barriers work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 20yrs old and went out of the country for my first time last week for a competition. I was there for 7 days and the first day I was there I met a wonderful guy, Nicholas. The problem is, he lives in Guatemala, I live in the US. We hit it off every day after and spent as ... (440 words)

I need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some encouragement to move on from a 6 year relationship with a man I still love. I'm 43 He's 46.. Talked of marriage in the past, lived with him for 3 years out of the 6 years. Living by myself now. My kids are grown, raised them by myself. Anyways its hard to ... (373 words)

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it makes me really horny,he doesnt ... (95 words)

An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had major depression. what should i ... (69 words)

We get on well on line but his relationship status on face book is 'complicated' what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - me and my friend here still dont know. so yesterday i really started talking to this guy. i talked to him from 11am, to 10pm. and he obviously enjoys making me laugh. he trys really hard to. (btw, i've never met him. he's got mutual friends with me though. and he lives in ... (194 words)

He lies about his bad habits and it pees me off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend of 1 year and my relationship has been full of instances where we express something minor about the other person that upsets us - i.e. smoking, viewing pornography. In both cases, he's promised to quit smoking, and quit being secretive about porn, both because he ... (599 words)

How can I learn to trust and show love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, My problem is that I am 'relationship-phobic' (be it friendships or relationships) and find it impossible to trust people, even if I want to. Whenever I meet someone I want to avoid getting close to them. My life is hell because of it. Sometimes I go whole days wi... (319 words)

I am shy and reserved, what are my chances for dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a very shy and reserved 29 year old male. I have always found it extremely difficult to relate to members of the opposite gender, despite having been told I'm good looking. I've longed for the day when I'd have the self confidence to ask someone out but that has... (189 words)

He is a pathological liar, his family hates me, I am trying to move on, Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for ten years with this guy who is a pathological liar. He treats me good in that he pays all my bills and takes care of my son financially. His problem is that he bad mouths me to everyone and his family hates me, currently they think we h... (355 words)

Does pregnancy cause a smelly vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 7 months pregnant, and my vagina smells really bad every day, it sweats a lot more than it used to (I don't remember it ever sweating before). I will shower daily, and wash and rinse 3 different times with soap and hot water. But by that same night, it stinks really ... (169 words)

I call my boyfriend, but he doesn't call me anymore. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (fiance) for two years and we're good together you know? But recently he hasn't been calling me during the day I mean I don't work because I'm in college and he's in University. But he used to text or call when he woke up or sometime during the ... (187 words)

I think I'm Pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) age 16-17 - I slept with a guy last year. We decided to stay friends but there is a big problem. I'm late and there is a oochance I could be pregnant. My friend says to wait and tell the guy who would be the father if I was pregnant. I thought I should wait to see if a test proves negative ... (101 words)

I am pregnant and in love with a man who is engaged.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. well i am still in love with the this guy who has a girlfriend who lives in south africa. he told me he couldnt answer my questions till he had seen her! well he went in october while he was away i tried to move on with my life i even started seeing a new guy but when he ... (133 words)

How can I stop the gossip about me and my crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I really like a guy from school and a few days ago i texted him that i like him and explained who iam. he doesn't know me so he couldn't understand,but a few of his friends know me.yesterday he saw me but he didn't say anything to me.the problem is that i told a few "friends" i ... (107 words)

How can I get over my body image issues ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (?) age 18-21 - I've always had body image issues, it's quite embarrassing. Ever since I was a kid I had bad self esteem, because my mom wouldn't let me wear my hair long (I had long hair up to when I was like 4 years old, but my mom got sick of me crying when she brushed it). So kids at ... (611 words)

My boyfriend can't come. How can I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Apologies for this being so long, but I feel that background information could help a little. I've been with my current boyfriend for over 10 months now, and we both love and care about each other more than anything. I lost my virginity to him after about 6 months of dating, ... (288 words)

Any Insight on Employment Tribunals anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Out of curiosity, does anyone know about employment tribunals, and how they treat unfair dismissal and discrimination. Has anyone won one and have a story to share. I may have to go to one and could do with a little insight. Also I'd like to know about terms and rates of... (64 words)

My Abusive Ex- Boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My Abusive Ex Boyfriend... The abuse started on my 21st birthday just last July. He beat me bad and I was really scared. I was new to the City and staying with him till I found a place so I did not know anyone yet. I stayed in the relationship, and the abuse seemed to minimize... (133 words)

Torn between my best friend and boyfriend...which one do I choose??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I ve bin dating the same guy since high skool....am working and done with college now..so we've bin dating for a long time(7yrs)although a long distance relationship.. I met some guy about a year ago and we have bin very very good friend...we became best of friends.... (121 words)

I confronted him about him giving his number out and now he is calling me possessive and sick.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) age 18-21 - Hi.. i've been having lot of problems lately with my boyfriend.. i've been with him for 8years now. He is a good guy but i got to know that he mailed a friend of his(female)gave her his no and never bothered to let me know... i happened to find out and questioned about it... (113 words)

Caught in an online love-triangle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm in a bit of a love triangle...See i am already in a relationship with a guy (online but i've met him, its an LDR) and its been around two years now. It was heavenly when we started out but i feel its fading away now. I still do love him though and i have no plans of ... (169 words)

How can I be neutral on this guy who I had a crush on from day one??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi... So I got married to such a great guy a year and a half ago when I was 19. He's so sweet and supportive and I adore him and we're so happy together! Before I started going out with my husband (2 1/2 years ago) I had a big crush on his best friend (who I knew a year bef... (234 words)

Been ignoring him after the sexual encounter as he is too silent in bed for my taste. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, I am recently a single girl again and very passionate in bed. I started seeing this guy, we had sex, but I am totally turned off by him because he does not make noise in bed. Sorry if I sound like a man but say something already, I like to know I am a sex ... (122 words)

Is it worth the wait? How do I allay all these fears? I'm 24, and a virgin.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi all, I am going to be 24 soon and still a virgin. I had two girlfriends before but didn't break through the last line of defence with any of them...however, I am in quite a complicated mood now. On one hand, I feel that I am very rare, at least for guys to still be a virgi... (235 words)

Happily married with a future in front of us...but I feel like I'm stuck in a rut.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) age 22-25 - I feel like I'm stuck in a rut. I'm happily married to a great man with our whole future ahead of us...or so you'd think. I hate my job. I hate it so much its stressing me out and making me ill. I've been ill all year so far and I know its my job thats causing it. I have bee... (148 words)

Been trying to concieve for awhile..and now I have to ask--am I pregnant ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) age 22-25 - ok here goes. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 18 months and no luck yet. BUT i feel pregnant this month...does that sound weird? I have a bad lower back, twinges and aches in my womb and more so towards the left around the ovary, I have broken out in spots and ... (116 words)

I want him to commit more--should I get his Mother in my corner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please talk me out of this, or at least give me an insight! I woke up this morning with my boyfriend's mother in my mind, and the urge to write her a letter. I think she thinks we're not going out any more and I want her to know how truly, madly, deeply I adore her son, and ... (133 words)

Best friend's boyfriend won't let her see me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - So I’ve known my “best friend” for six years now. From the moment we met each other we were inseparable. We hung out every day, lived together for two years, and were closer than sisters. Our boyfriends have always had this weird thing about us being friends, because they ... (432 words)

Is he playing with my feelings or being genuine??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay its me again...... I sent an email on 28th dec because i had broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months over whether he would support me if i got pregnant. We had used double protection (i went on the pill, he used condoms) but he had trouble getting....up so he asked if w... (345 words)

Did he really sign up on this dating site...just as a joke??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi i just recently found out that my long term partner signed up to a dating wbsite i used to trust him but after this i think i no longer can we have 2kids together and he has been bringing up my other 2 children from a previous relationship. i asked him about it and he said ... (72 words)

I had fantasies about my wife being slutty with other men, but now we're acting them out I'm not so sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well where do i start,im 35 and been married for 16yrs,i have 3 children with my wife,i have worked away from home for the past 14yrs and i am away for long periods at a time,for yrs we have had fantasies about my wife being a slut,as of recently they are no longer fantasies ... (146 words)

He just suddenly dumped me! Has he got someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I was with my boyfriend for a year and almost 4 months and we were fine, we argued a few times like people do. We always told each other if we didnt like something that one of us had said or done. He would tell me he loved me and i would tell him i loved him and he said he w... (230 words)

What do shy guys find attractive? How can a girl approach them and not intimidate them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - To all the shy guys out there! If you feel to shy to make the first move, do you/would you like it if a girl made the first move? What do shy guys find attractive? How can a girl approach them, and not intimidate them...? ... (53 words)

His ex wife does not leave us alone (harassing me, including at work, making my bf feel insecure etc.) What can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been dating a wonderful man since September of last year and things have been progressing really well until his ex wife met me. Instantly she chose to take him to family court and refused to let him see his kids. She is now trying to stop him from seeing the boys if I ... (266 words)

I'm afraid that if I tell her I want more than the sexual relationship we have, she'd stop seeing me (she's my friend's fiancee.)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My name's Steve, and I'm 35. *all names changed* I've been working with a guy named Ryan who's 25 for the last 12 months. When we first started working together, he invited me over to his house to hang out with his friends and have a few drinks. I met his friend Nate (22), an... (385 words)

How can I tell him how I feel about the "ex experience" without him realising I read his mail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in a great relationship but my boyfriend gave me his email password to check something for him in his account.I started looking at his emails from months ago partially due to curiosity and what I found worried me. He has been friends with this girl since school and they los... (197 words)

It's been 7 months and I'm not fully over her. What can I do to keep moving forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Still not over her. We're now over 7 months since my ex left me, and it seems I just can't fully get over her. I felt like I was getting there a very short time ago, but for whatever reason, I just can't get over her. I loved her so much, and was so devastated when ... (163 words)

How do you find the balance between loving too much, or not enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - How does one find the balance? I recently heard a theory that if you show women you love them too much, all you do is chase them away. But at the same time, if you don't show then you love them, they will feel unwanted. What the f--k is that!? With my first girlfrie... (161 words)

I want a GF, a good relationship. But how do I prepare myself emotionally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, This is my first post here, seems like a great community. :) I am looking for more advice then I am looking for an answer to a question. I am 19 years old and am looking for a girlfriend. I have been in several small relationships that most of you probably ... (562 words)

I prefer being silent during sex. Is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I always hear that when making love woman moan and breath heavy and what not, but i really cant breath or anything, it just feels so much better when i hold my breath, especially when I orgasm. is that normal? I don't like being strangled, just holding my breath. Does anyone ... (55 words)

I dread that he drinks too much, so does his family and friends. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been engaged for two years now and really happy except for the fact that my fiance's whole social circle, family and friends are all heavy drinkers. He has cut down a lot since meeting me, but still gets really drunk on occasion. I like a drink too, but know when I've ... (184 words)

He has a "long distance" girl on the side. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (?) age 22-25 - I have been with my current bf for 1 and a half years. He had a long distance relationship and told me he ended it. But, I found out they still keep in touch and he updates her on what is going on in his life. He denies that they still communicate. She wants them to work out ... (82 words)

How do you please a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to know some good tips on pleasing your man sexually? what will keep him coming back for more like a man would with his mistress. I am ready to end my 5 year relationship and experience other men. I have a vision to give him?(when I meet him) a night he cannot forget.... (55 words)

Is he just playing hard to get...Or just insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) age 22-25 - I made a big mistake last summer and had a no strings attached relationship with a guy for about 3 months. I started to have feelings for him so I called it off. I always thought that he did have feeling for me too but that he was afraid of commitment. One night he did admi... (351 words)

Went on vacation, met a guy, had sex,like him alot,we email, should I pursue this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I went abroad on a mini-vacation for a few days and met a guy. We clicked, but I was afraid to develop feelings for him, so I started to act aloof. That made him act the same way. I think he couldn't really understand the sudden change in my behavior and began to resent me a ... (283 words)

How can I get sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm a 15 year old boy who needs sex, and I don't know how to get it. Any Suggestions?... (19 words)

I like him as a teacher; his staring bothers me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi I have a problem to discuss need some advices. There is a teacher at my school he stares at me a lot, and everyday I enter the classroom he always makes an eye contact with me. I heard that he even got married a few months ago. I like him as teacher, we have NO relation... (82 words)

In the middle of the act he withdraws saying he ejaculated, when he did not. This problem is minimising our sex life. Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys here is a question 4 U women if its ever happened 2 U please please give advise. In the middle of sex all of a sudden he takes it out and says I came but there isn't anything there he didn't ejaculate but he says it feels like he did. Then it just goes limp and its over he ... (207 words)

He is getting divorced, and still wants children, I cant give him this but we are so right together, I'm sure I can convince him we are meant to be if we move in together, that should work ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid. I need help. Okay here goes. I started going with this guy, and we've been together for 6 months now. He's married and is in the process of a divorce. He and his wife are no longer living together. He wants us to get a place together.At one point and time he ... (288 words)

My friends tell me he likes me, but he won't ask me out. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help so badly right now. I am a college student and the guy I have liked for a year is graduating in May. I have known him for a year but we never really started getting to know each other until a few months ago. We flirted a lot and we hung out at a bar a few times ... (590 words)

Is there a way I can trust him after he cheated, I thought he was perfect for me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I could really do with some advice! I was in a long distance relationship with a gorgeous guy, who I love so much. He is gorgeous and kind - I loved seeing him at the weekends, and trusted him. Well, a year ago, he got a new job so that we could move in wit... (481 words)

How do you know if you're gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Okay, so I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bi. My first pornographic experience was near 5th grade, and I sorta got hooked since. I've been looking at boys from time to time, and I even thought some of the boys in my school were cute as I grew up. I now have a really great ... (170 words)

I need some major help... to deal with all the troubles.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Everything seems to just be going completly wrong and i cant seem to just be happy. I'm usually an EXTREMELY outgoing person, can talk to anyone, make anyone laugh, but that part of me is just being eaten up. My parents are going to be divorced, my dad screwed us over with ... (165 words)

I'm 16, I'm LATE, told my boyfriend, he's being mean,help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey I'm 16. Me and my b/f have been together for almost 2 yrs. Well we've had sex quite a few times... we're each others 1st and only. We use a condom everytime... but I haven't had my period yet, and since I told him I was late, hes been mean to me. I just need alot of help ... (60 words)

Struggling to trust after girlfriend's affair. How do I discuss my concerns without being confrontational or appearing to be controlling or stalking her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 years. I thought she was the one and we planned our future together. Due to work commitments we do not live together but often stay at each other's house. A year ago I started to set up my own business near her so we could start a ... (363 words)

From Friends - to Lovers - to Nothing... but why???

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29 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I was really in to this guy I know, and yes we did a sex a few times, both drunk and sober. He told me he liked me, but it has been over 3 months since anything has happend. I find myself getting jealous of him when he speaks to other girls and ignoring me. Then we both... (281 words)

Are guys immediately turned off by a slightly overweight girl??

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29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in college and have always struggled with my weight somewhat but I've never been overweight to the point of being unhealthy. I have always been a very active person and I love to play sports. I am 19, 5'5.5" and I weigh 175 pounds but i have always felt that I could be ... (248 words)

Does she like me, to have asked me to the school dance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I hve had this girl I like for a while now. we have been freinds for years. I couldn't ge the courage to ask her out. the other day she asked me to the school dance, I said yes ofcourse. Does this mean she likes me? o and while I was walking away I heard her say to a ... (70 words)

I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other girl for over a year and was ... (231 words)

What should be the right choice to make here?

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29 January 2008 (F) age 41-50 - This is a very awkward situation .I hope I can explain it as close as possible,and someone might be able to relate to this or give an advice. So its a long and troublesome marriage ,was real love i guess, but today, its an other story.. So the problem is huge... I hate... (475 words)

Cheated before, I have the right to know if she has after we got married

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My wife is an oral sex freak, by that I mean going down on guys. Before we were engaged she told me she blew about 12-15 guys and wasn't sure of the exact amount because lots of guys she did lots of times. I overlooked this because her reasoning was she really loved doi... (478 words)

I need help with a guy Problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Is it normal for a guy in high school to freak out if a girl likes him?I kinda got bit obssesed with him latley.i beleive he wanted to be my friend at 1st becasue he told 3 guys off that were stocking me nd wouldn't leave me alone.then he freaked out when he found out i liked ... (120 words)

She's experienced and I'm scared

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

29 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm dating a girl who is 15 and 17. We had dated but I know we will kiss soon, I want to so badly but I've never kissed before I know it sucks but she has had alot of experience. I'm kind of scared. Any advice for me?... (48 words)

Want bith control but don't wanna parent with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok im back with another question..now that i know i am gunna wait ti'll i have sex..i need to know how do i get on birth control without my parents taking me i think it well make them look at me different an not trust me..i have my medical card myself an all my informaton but ... (64 words)

Why do I smell bad after shower.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok me an my boyfriend have been going out for bout 3 weeks now we are sexuly active an dont use protection (im on the pill) but the last week i have started to smell quite bad down there evan after a shower.... why is this??? ... (46 words)

I want a baby, but I'm scared of sex, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

29 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi everyone, i have a problem.. i really really want and feel ready for a baby, trouble is i wont let myself be close to anyone as i fear sex so much, and as soon as i think things are going to lead that way.. i sort of freeeze! it sounds odd but its like i'm afraid of ... (100 words)

Two weeks later having my period.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) age 22-25 - I'm over 2 weeks late with my period and i just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated inside of me 3 times, what are my chances of being pregnant?... (32 words)