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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can fighting/arguments be good for a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. I just have a general relationships question that I've been pondering for quite some time now and I'd really like some outside oppinions. Okay so, do you guys find that fighting/arguments are helpful or detrimental to a relationship? Is it better to get everything out ... (104 words)

I found out my boyfriend is married, but his wife doesn't care, he still wants a future together, should I bother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - please help is there anyone out there who has been involved with a married man? I met the most wonderful man almost two years ago. two months after dating him i found out he was married. I was crushed but couldnt drag myself away. His wife knows about us now. she didnt even ... (103 words)

I worked hard, she let go and is happy, I'm hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I came out of a relationship just over 4 months ago. I guess my ex just decided she could do better and wanted to enjoy the freedom of being single. Since she split with me it's felt like there's been a dark cloud hanging over me. People have told me that in the long run she ... (200 words)

I bring it up and she argues, Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my g/f for about 3 years now. Everything was great until about a year ago. Now, unless I initiate the sex there is nothing. But the lack of sex isnt really my issue. Its that she just really shows no kind of interest in me or sex. We Argue about it all the time. ... (173 words)

If a guy asks for a hug does this mean he is interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - There is a man at work (different departments, we don't see each other every day) that I have been friendly with the past few months and I believe there has been a spark going on (for sure it has for me, not completely sure about his side). Yesterday he asked me for a hug which ... (120 words)

Boy in class sexually harassing me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl, and i need some advice. This boy in my class has been sexually harrassing me again after he was suspended. he touched my bum. but the thing that scared me was when he zipped down my zipper. what do u think that he was trying to do? and don't you think ... (67 words)

Techniques to make it last longer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of almost 5 months have started to have sex. It was his first time when we did it a while ago but my third. We have only had sex three times but every time we did he came pretty fast. like 5 miutes or so. this time it was rele fast cuz i was playing with him ... (110 words)

I feel uncomfortable when he touches me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound odd, but I've had an interest in my accounting teacher for awhile now. He has always seemed nice to me, but only recently has it seemed like he's been intereted in me, which worries me. He asks me to stay after school to help correct papers, or to help me with ... (183 words)

I got so drunk and did something real stupid! Help

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am so overwhelmed with embarrassment right now. in my local bar i pulled a guy into the packed bathroom and tried to get him into the cubical.. i was so so so so so so so drunk and its completely out of charecter but it has really effected my reputation. i live in a very ... (162 words)

I don't want to make things weird between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay,i have a problem, this boy likes me but i like his friend, and his friend likes me and asked me out but i dont want to hurt the other boy because we are like best friends and i dont want to make things weird between the three of us...help please... (52 words)

I'm in the Navy , she wants to take it slowly, is this a real relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Here is my situation, I am currently in the Navy, which i dont think that this is a problem. But within the last 6 months i have started talking to a girl that i dated in high school, i was very much in love with her at the time. Over the time we have been talking we have ... (143 words)

Are my friends being mean to me or are they just lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - recently my freinds have been kinda of mean to me yet i have done nothing wrong to them its not all my freinds just a few. about three weeks ago my freind said the boy i like will say i am ugly. (all my other freinds said it was jelousy) 2.on thursday my freind said i wi... (156 words)

I really like this guy, he's a Jehovahs Witness I'm not, will there be any problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy i like at collage, and i have a sneaking suspicion that he likes me too (have been shamelessly flirting with him lol). He is a Johavas Witness and im not. I was wondering about the 'rules' regarding JW's and non JW's dating. As i have heard that it does'nt ... (99 words)

My friend assaulted his child!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - If you had a friend that you had known for a couple of years and then you found out that some time ago they had been in the paper for assaulting their child who was 3 at the time, would you then see that friend in a different light and would it make you wonder why he doesnt see ... (61 words)

We fell in love 5 months ago, now he wants to end it, why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i met a wonderful man 5 months ago and the way we met we both believed it was fate. we clicked straight awy and fell in love he was always making me feel spcial telling me how much he loved me that i was the best ting to ever happen to him. we made loads of plans done things ... (175 words)

How do I earn extra money and still have time to spend with my kids?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Quick question. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I could do on the weekends to earn extra money but still spend time with my children? I already work full time and my evenings and weekends are usually spent cooking, cleaning and tending to my children while trying to ... (124 words)

Once in a lifetime opportunity? Should I show my LD friend I'm sexually attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello again, I'm 15, I have been speaking to a girl over instant-messager for just about a year now, I've always found her attractive (seen pictures and webcam) and she has a amazing personality. We have spoken of sex and we share fantasy's with eachother. I have never met her ... (160 words)

I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I pulled away, although I know ... (132 words)

She won't speak to me now and I am confused and lonely. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i met a lady in september 07, in two weeks she was wanting to get married, took her mom and daughter dress shopping, told my mom we were getting married , set the date and everything,we spent every day of the next 3 months together,I wanted to slow it down ,but she would act ... (286 words)

I cheat on him to get back at him and because I am lonely! Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - God I am so stupid, well I know what everyone is going to think when they see this, "what a whore". Well here it goes... Iv been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and Im only 21. We love eachother and we have had a lot of problems but we have always made it through. Hes cheated ... (174 words)

Will I ever win my ex bf back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex around 2 years ago this may. However we still keep in close contact and see each other every day. I have been through periods where I've had another love interest and felt I was over him, but at the end I've always gone back to him. He gives me signals he ... (92 words)

Am I jealous of my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i was wondering if im jealous of my friend? you see me and her have the same classes together last year and this year.shes a alright looking i think.anyways this year a lot of boys like her.i dont know why? but she have big boobs.i mean larger than a a regular teenager... (233 words)

He's being used by his gf and I like him...but now he's ignoring me on MSN.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. But today he's been blanking me on msn, and i don't know why. I told my friend that i liked him and im worried that she's told him. How do i ask him if he told? And how do i make ammends to the person i like? Who, by the way, loves someone else- Who... (69 words)

Is he hitting on my best friends...to annoy me because he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - guys-this boy used to fancy me scince like the first day of secondary school[we are in year 7].when i rejected him,he moved to my best friend and now i have realised a pattern --which ever one of my friends i spend the most time with a week,he will fancy the next month.my ... (115 words)

Broke up with my clingy bf 3 weeks ago and he won't leave me alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with this guy about 3 weeks ago and he wont leave me alone recently i have got together with somebody else but he gets really annoyed when my ex rings me. he calls me about 50 times in an hour, this was one of the reasons why i broke up with him. Clinginess does my ... (80 words)

My girlfriend likes her jerk Ex as a friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, I just want a general opinon from people to see if I'm out of line. My girlfriend of a few years has a platonic relationship with her ex. The ex and I don't like each other because, I feel he harbors resentment for me taking her away and because he on occassion still asks ... (279 words)

Met a wonderful girl! 3 months in, we are both virgins. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! Last September I met a girl and we have been going out for 3 months now, she is everything I have ever wanted. We have been on a few dates and have hugged/kissed and that's about it. I am 21 and she is too, I would just like to know where I go from here. We're both still ... (73 words)

My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I have seen how boob jobs look. ... (246 words)

He cheated with his ex and dumped me because I am too controlling.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...Well, I've known this guy for about 8 years. We started dating 9 months ago but he dumped me 2 months ago...because *He* cheated on me and had sex with his ex. So after that day I would try to restrict him from going over his friends' houses or exes houses. He said it ... (130 words)

Is he cheating or was he really just joking??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of over two years likes to play jokes a lot. Recently, however, his jokes have included telling me he has been: 1. seeing someone from his gym for a few months and they really like each alot, then saying just kidding. 2. he is seeing a girl named Jen. Whe... (152 words)

Why don't I fancy anyone anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - about a year ago I really fancied a guy but he didn't even know i existed in that way. A little while before that I had a huge 6 month long crush on a fit mate and he never liked me or even considered me. Before that I have had crushes on countless guys and no one EVER likes ... (200 words)

20 years old...in love with a 51 y/o who wants a future with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old gal in love with a 51 year old man,who wants a future with me, what must i do? please help!!!!!... (25 words)

Can I trust my ex even after she stole from my mum??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, Me and my ex split in October of last year; we split because i found out that she was stealing from my mum. I confronted her and she denied it. She ran off to her mums with our 1 year old little girl and said i couldn't see her again so i went over to her mums ended u... (118 words)

What can I do to earn extra money and still spend enough time with my kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

He says he only got married to me because I was pregnant. How can I deal with this pain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 years old and have been married since November 2006 to the man I loved, thinking he loved me. I was about a months pregnant at the time. Throughout the whole of our marriage he has been distant and uncommunicative for the most part. I have tried to bring him out bu... (428 words)

My head is telling me it is not working. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend thinks the relationship is working but i really dont. theres like a voice saying 'its not working!' i need help. what shall i do?... (26 words)

What is trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you build trust? Is it just given or does it have to be earned? My girlfriend has cheated on me and i'm thinking about giving her a second chance. But aren't you core beliefs like not lying set in stone from childhood. I'm confused, what is trust?, i need help.... (52 words)

He thinks the relationship is ok, but I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My Boyfriend Thinks That The Relationship Is Working,, But The Problem Is That I Dont. Please Help Me! I Told Him Thats It Hard To Speak Now and and It May Not Work But I Dno...And He Has Not Replied. What Can I Do Because I Dont Wna Hurt Him! HELP! Hollyy ____0x... (57 words)

Does an age difference cause arguments?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?... (38 words)

Is he having or had an affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is an update to a post i put on dated 18.12.07 regarding a "Happy Birthday" text sent to my husband. I have as advised kept an eye on things this month. There have been phone calls between him and her, which would be work related. Last Tuesday evening he sent her a text ... (549 words)

Did she make the right choice taking him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Is there any truth in the saying eopards don't change their sports, once a cheat always a cheat? I now talk to my ex on MSN and she told me now she's back with this guy who she was with before me. I asked her why he hurt her in the first place; she said it was because he d... (148 words)

We have different ideas on how a long distance relationship should work. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past year, I'v been with my partner for 2 years and just recently things have gotten very weird ... He seems very distant! Doesn't want to visit due too lack of funds, i have no free time to visit him at the minute! He ... (180 words)

My boyfriend wants me to remain jobless, but I want to work. How do I get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I was wondering if I could get some help from some people to help me solve my problem. My Boyfriend and I want to get married. We aren't getting married anytime soon and know mostly everything we want. He wants to graduate and be a lawyer. I want to pursue my art ca... (218 words)

He is sending me mixed signals. Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy well his not really just a guy his one of my close friends. i've liked him for ages and he knows it as well it just i've asked him out before and he said no. since then we have had phone sex, weve gone swimming together and his he has flirted with me loads. he ... (172 words)

My mom lies to me, and treats me & my baby like we don't matter.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My mom is really stressing me out. She lies and is a very selfish person. I have a 9 month old baby and my mom never wants to see her. She never helps me out, if she has a week off work, like this week I asked her if she was off because she mentioned before that she took the ... (749 words)

I'm a single mom, and I need help getting over my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to move on helllllllllp! I am a single mum of three girls. A set of young twins and a four year old with special needs. I am finding it tough caring for the children and am still trying to move on from my ex. We split up last year as he cheated on me. I really want to... (385 words)

I'm in a relationship with a man, but get turned on with lesbian porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

- Hi, I am having a bit of an issue at the moment. I am in a relationship with a man but i seem to be really turned on by lesbian porn. I love it. When my boyfriend goes down on me I sometimes think he is a woman.. does this make me a lesbian. I don't find woman around me ... (61 words)

Does my boyfriend have a low sex drive or is there more to it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a lovely boyfriend for over a year now and we get on great only problem is we don't have sex very often. He is very shy about his body and to be honest i don't know why as he has a lovely lean body. Anyway, he insists that he has a low sex drive and that a his previous ... (124 words)

If I took antibiotics, what are the chances of me falling pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay.....first off let me say that I know I made a mistake. But, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while. I am on the pill. We both have been tested, so we do not use condoms. However, I took an antibiotic Thursday and one Friday. I told him that we needed to ... (110 words)

What happens when you take the pill?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

28 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm considering going on the pill, but I'm not fully sure what happens. Do I have to stop taking it for a week, or something, to have my period? I'm confused where to get it from too. Can any of you give me some advice on where to get the pill, and how to take it? Thanks :... (59 words)

Why would my fiance use viagra?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance is using viagra but we seldom have sex We don't live together and he gets a lot of free time to himself but I can't understand why he uses it Do you think he's cheating on me or do you know why men use this stuff when in a happy, loving relationship? I ... (66 words)

My older bloke will not meet my parents and I don't know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for nearly 10 monthes. He is 10 years older than me im 19 he is 29. The problem is he doesnt want to meet or talk 2 my parents andi was windering why? We are really good together and he looks after me and stuff, i will stay over 2 ... (122 words)

Penis problems, I need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, about a year ago, I came to the conclusion that my foreskin on my penis was tight. I now have realised its partially true, because the real reason is of the smegma on my penis head. The sperm and whatever else caught under the foreskin, has dried up and is sticking to my ... (179 words)

What are my chances of getting pregnant and some advice on Triphasil.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Please can someone give me some light on this situation: I started taking the birth control "Triphasil". I started it on the 15th January 08 (the same day that i got my period). When is it safe for me to have sex without any other protection? If i had sex on the ... (78 words)

My ex's best friend is getting on my nerves, how can I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I split with my boyfriend early December last year after a few weeks together, I've seen him, but not spoken to him since. I never had sex with him as I was not ready. Anyway, I always see his mate marc down the pub, and when ever I go there and play pool, Marc gets on the phon... (192 words)

Things were going well, then suddenly sour. I don't know what to think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear readers I have a question which i need some help and advice on. By not knowing me i think you can provide me with your honest and open opinion I met this guy off the internet in August. it was an indian dating website which i had no hope of working. we met up after tal... (406 words)

My best friend wants to take me to a hotel for sex, I need advice!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend and I have been hooking up. No sex. just kissing and stuff. But, recently he had the idea of going to a hotel and just having sex. I'm well up for it when he asked, and he isnt making me, but I'm so afraid I'll get attatched. He says he likes me, then he says he ... (104 words)

I want to go on the "Pill", how do I go about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - need advice on the pill really, i really want to go on it but ive never had sex and never had really bad periods really, thing is i dont fully understand it any advice on the pill plz ... (38 words)

Mom died, and my family is turning their backs on me, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age - I rang my Mom on Tuesday and was told by my sister on Tuesday that my mom had six weeks left to live. My sister had contacted everyone else in the family but me. My mom is in the US and I live in Ireland. I gathered up my resources and rang my Mom on Wednesday saying I would ... (872 words)

I'm a virgin. How can I get a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help. I've never had sex, I'm at the age of 23, and never really had a bf. Well, I kind of did, but it lasted only 2 weeks and he split with me. He was 34 and had loads of relationships. I never told him that I was a virgin.(I wish i had) Things went down hil... (133 words)

He wanted Phone Sex, I rejected the idea, now he doesn't answer his calls. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy very on and off for a couple of months. He is younger than me, but really nice, we get on really well but he has never wanted a relationship and has always been really bad with cancelling / answering texts etc. So clearly he only ever wanted is sex. ... (345 words)

I found messages between my husband and his ex on the internet,he went out with her, I can't get over the hurt

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advise on somthing that is tearing me apart. I have been happily married for 8 years and my husband and i have a great life together. I will get to the point, he has been using Facebook for the past couple of months and comes home and tells me how great it is, last... (623 words)

Do I need circumsized?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age - im 12 turning 13, i could never pull my foreskin back as it hurt to and now i see everyone saying i have to do it while having sex? when i get erected, the skin stays where it is and stretches a little, it doesnt move down at all, please tell me whats wrong ? and tell ... (69 words)

Confused...I still love her, but I'm not happy and I want to leave.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 years old and have been in a relationship for 5 years. We have a one year old daughter together and we have plans to get married. In the beginning it was rocky and I wasnt the best boyfriend. I cheated on her. But now I believe that I have changed for the better. I know ... (110 words)

He says it's tobacco, but is he really smoking weed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend smokes using a shottie bottle because he doesn't want his fingers to turn yellow from rolling cigarettes. The problem is, this method means he gets the whole hit of nicotine at once so when he doesn't smoke he goes absolutely insane. He's abusive and angry and can ... (132 words)

My boyfriend wears skirts, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend likes to wear skirts in the summer because he finds them more comfortable in the hot weather. I find it unbelievably embarrassing and my friends and family make fun of me about it. I told him I don't like him wearing them and he told me it's part of his identity ... (110 words)

I fantasize about sex with other girls, whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend that I really love, and we have a great relationship together, but I love the thought of a girl licking me out, possibly more than a guy... I'm so worried because the thought seems to turn me on more. It wouldn't feel right if a girl was physically doing it, ... (103 words)

I can't look at him the same way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well im fourteen and lost my virginity already iv not had any regrets,but ever since da day it happend i cant look at da boy da same way, and it is not in a good way, i dont like him anymore, i need major help... (45 words)

Fallen for my friend and afraid to tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, i will try to make this short. I have a friend who i talk to everyday, she shares her feelings with me. She has this big crush on another person and tells me all bout it. How happy she is and stuff like that. The other person is messing with her mind. Sending her emails ... (95 words)

Two girls are after me but I only like one

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 11 and their is this girl at school and she's liked me for about 6 months and i've had a few feelings for her but then there's this other girl who likes me and she's after me and now shes going through puberty she told me and she gets really emosional at everything i say to ... (140 words)

Threesome...the ins and outs!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is embarrassing. I am an attractive woman and my boyfriend and I have decided on a threesome with another guy. We've got that part settled. My boyfriend says that since this is a first for us all (the 2nd guy too) we should make sure what we want, in terms of the sex ... (162 words)

Love question about being happy in relationships

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28 January 2008 (F)

age - Is God really wants us to be happy with someone? if its true ,why are there so many people divorcing all the time. It's almost looks like ,that is not really the game,of happiness, but more of the game of misery. Love is so beautiful., but the end makes it very painful, it can ... (128 words)

I do stupid things, don't want to loose him

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28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So me an my boyfirend been togather for 4 monthes now we moved in togather like rigth away an it was ture love at first sigth every one said i was crazy my firends was like you don't even know this guy an i'm always the one to think things out but we had this vibe that just was ... (463 words)

I hate cheating, but why do I do it?

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28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, WHY when I'm drunk to I exit reality and hook up with someone.. ALWAYS. I know its wrong too... Self control sucks. Like I just lose it, and I'm tired or it. I'm not partying anymore, I love my boyfriend, can someone give some advice or ... (61 words)

How can I prove to her that I won't pressure her for sex like her ex?

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28 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well theres a girl that i think im starting to fall for. Well she a few weeks ago got out of a relationship because he kept pressuring her to have sex and thats all he talked about all the time. and she has been hitting on me. Asking a lot of personal and relationship based ... (233 words)

I'm thinking we're better of friends than lovers

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28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advise. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is 26 I am 31. I am very sexual and had great self confidence in bed until now. He always had issue with sex from the begining. Couldn't get it up or keep it up. I don't understand that at all. So we got ... (271 words)

Ask him before it's too late, what's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Recently i have been talking to this new guy i just met recently. he is 2 years older than me and is handsome. so far he has proven to me that he knows how to treat a girl by taking me out to eat 2 times and going to the movies together and treating me. i enjoy his company and ... (270 words)

Any thoughts of his behavior

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28 January 2008 (F)

- Hi everyone. I broke up with my boyfriend and at the end of November. He was kind of rude to me at a party I saw him at. I asked him if I had done something to make him mad and he said I had not but he was bummed out about something else. We have exchanged a couple of polite ... (150 words)

Two people in relationships kiss, touch another person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship that is bad-the past month and a half we have almost quit it about seven times. The other day, I went to watch a football game at my friend's house and we all ended up drinking too much and a guy kissed/touched me, as I did him. He has one of the rooms ... (147 words)

I'm confuesed and don't want to make the first move.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've known this guy for over a year and although he's lived a long way away from me for most of this, we've kept very much in touch as friends and have always had a fairly flirty relationship. now he is living much closer to me and i've gone to stay with him and he's gone to ... (220 words)

How long to get over someone

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28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How long does it take to get over someone? Its been really hard for me to try to forget about this guy...I haven't talked to him since October 14 2007 I know its been a very long time but I can't help it I still think about him every once in a while..Me and him always stop tal... (91 words)

My wife doesn't contribute much to marriage.

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28 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Who's responsible for doing what? I am having a very hard time understanding what is suppose to go on in my marrage. I am married almost four years and I get frustrated because I feel my wife does not contribute enough to this marrage. On the other hand I have expressed my ... (137 words)

What might this boy be thinking?

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28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just thought i would share this little problem i have. Basically I have known this boy since i was 11, met in secondary school and became really close. People used to say it was obvious we liked each other and we were cute together. we would hug and mess around every da... (493 words)

Feels like a fairy tale when we're together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship of seven years(which was failing)we were stuck in a rut, relationship was in a stand still.I was working and met this man(ten yrs older than myself)I was immediatly drawn to him! well a month later he asked me out for drinks, I said yes and then began to ... (532 words)

I love my married soulmate, but he is married and not to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well....I met my soulmate backin 1994. He was determined to get my attention, and when he did, we were instantly in love. We were both young, I was 17 and he was 19. Of course, at the time, I had no clue he was my soulmate, but did know that I was in love with him. Things ... (342 words)

This guy dumps me out of the blue and then runs after me to say "hi" Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

28 January 2008 (F)

- Well it's been a month nearly since me and my bf of 10 months split. I'm 20, he's 22, and his reasons for ending it were contradictory to say the least. He told me his feelings for me hadn't changed but that he wasn't ready for a relationship this deep. Silly really, as i'm in ... (763 words)

I've been seeing one of his mates for 5 months.

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28 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 5 years and we recently got engaged! But he doesnt know that I have been seeing one of his mates behind his back for about 5 months!I know what I am doing is wrong and we have tried to stop it so many times but we just end seeing each other ... (186 words)

I feel my parents see me as a fattie looser

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28 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...so bascially im a girl, pretty depressed cuz my brother is doing a sport and so is my sister, and that is pretty much all my parents talk about at all. when were having dinner, its all they talk about and it gets on my nerves!!! i mean, i dont do a sport, okay? lets talk ... (177 words)