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writes:My bf of 2 years has been away for over a month with work He is back this week but im nervous as iv put on weight over the holiday period and feel podgy He is really into keep fit and im sure he will notice I also feel down about it but am working out and trying to eat healthier although its taking time I prob need to loose about 1-1.1/2 stone I feel annoyed with myself iv allowed this to happen
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Men (horrible creatures!) are very visual. If he liked your slimmer appearance, he may not like the 'new' you. Love may be blind in many ways, but when it comes to fancying, then lust aint so blind. Of course, that's HIS problem, but, obviously it is by association your problem too. It doesn't seem like you've turned into a giant human blancmange (!), so it soesn't seem that drastic - and, I'm sure (if he is a fitness freak) he can help you with advice and exercise guidance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): If your BF loves you, then it won't matter, will it? You really shouldn't worry about it; I'm sure he'll still want you to be his GF!
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (21 January 2008):
 If he loves you he wont care you've put ona few pounds,m he will support you and help you loose the weight if you really want to =] x
message me if you want to talk x
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reader, Variety +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Well he should see you are making an effort to lose it. Anyone can put on a bit of excess weight over Christmas. It is not a big deal at all. If he doesn't like it then that's his problem. Only lose the weight if you feel you would be happier that way. Don't do anything drastic and stay healthy. Then he will see that not only are you returning to your original size but you respect your own body by not doing an extreme diet to lose the weight.
Hope this helps. Message me if you need to talk. x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 If he loves you , he may just tell you to lose some . Do not worry too much. Sometimes it happens. We gain some and lose some.You have recognize the problem and dealing with it. You'll be O.K.
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