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writes:I really like this guy I know, I've never had these feelings for another guy before. But he lives in another country and we communicate via telephone, text or the internet.He's sang and played the guitar for me, told me that we could move to another country together, wishes i could be there for him, he feels its worth waiting for me etc. But..I just found out last night that he likes another girl. Has he been leading me on for pleasure? Or does he like me too? And should I talk to him? What should I do?
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reader, pinkcat  +, writes (20 January 2008):
I'm sure he does like you, but since (I'm guessing) you've never met there's a limit to how much he'll be into you and just you... The thing is that you couldn't realistically move to another country for someone you don't really know. While I'm sure he's a nice guy etc you don't know for sure and while it's communication in this form you can idealise him somewhat and imagine him to be the perfect guy. It's nice to have someone to talk to and it can help fill a void but I wouldn't stop looking for people you can actually be with not online...this surely can't go any further with him and it would be more fulfilling past a point to be with someone you can see and hang out with - and know them for real. Best wishes hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much Natalie.
You are right ^^
Oh I know that he is who he says he is, I know his friend too.. who's a girl. I've seen them both on the webcam and spoken to them on the phone so everything is ok.
His friend has sent me presents and stuff :]
Thank you so much for your help though, I'll try talking to him.
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