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We have a kid, money problems, and always argue, is there a future for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (? age 41-50 - I need someones advice. I am 24yrs old and have been with the father of my child for 5 yrs. It has been a very long 5 yrs. At first it was all good then once i had my daughter it went down hill from there. We always have had major problems such as family cofrontations, ... (125 words

How do I approach her without feeling nervous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hi. I like this girl a year ahead of me in school. She only has half a year left untill she goes off to another school somewere. If we did end up going out, then I'd see her over the summer, and we might go to the same school (we're both CONSIDERING one, but that doesn't ... (189 words

I messed it up with her on the big date, we are friends now, should I try again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, First, my apologies for this being so long!!! I met a girl online via one of the dating websites last March, she was just finishing law school and studying for the bar exam at the time, so we only had 3-4 emails between us until we finally met in August. We went ... (866 words

I have had opportunities to have sex but I always withdraw in thought of possible pain and I'm also not confident about my body. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, im 19yrs old and still a virgin. im beginining to think that i'll never lose it, i don't believe in getting married before havig sex. i have had plenty of opportunities to lose it, but for some reason i always get scared and withdraw. i just want to get it over and done ... (82 words

Pink tinted discharge and mild cramps: signs of pregnancy or beginning of period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - i had sex on days 9 and 10 of my cycle... that'll be 4 weeks ago on thurs...my period was due on sunday it still hasnt come on..but today i had a bit of pink tinted discharge...other then that no changes cept very mild cramps... do you think there is any chance of pregnanc... (66 words

I plan to wait for a person to "discover" me and love me for who I am, but how do I find the strangth to wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've only been loved by one person...... And I want to be loved but, I know I need to wait and let it find me...... But I want to know how do I make myself want to wait?!?!?! I've been trying to figure it out for a while and I was wondering if any of you could help me.... I ... (84 words

What's the best way to dump him?

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7 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - need advice on how to dump my current boyfriend. I want to just be single for a while. hes cheated on me once with his ex, hes got a child, ive read messages in june-september to his ex ... i jsut never really had the balls and she confirmed everything earlier this month ..... (116 words

I invited him "as friends" to a dance, but in reality I fancy him. Now that he accepted, how do I save this experience from awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need help! I asked this boy that I like to a semi-formal dance, and I asked him "as friends" but I actually fancy him (he said yes by the way) What are some suggestions for conversation topics and general behaviour? Also, how do I make this experience not awkward? Thank ... (53 words

Period due in 5 days time, but I've had a blood test which was negative - could I still be pregnant?

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7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Help - I need some advise. My husband and I have just started trying for a baby. I feel awful - sore breasts, dizziness, reflux, fatigue, vomiting. I have done several urine pregnancy tests including the ones where you can test before your period is due, but ... (121 words

Should I be worried that I'm not as knowledgeable as him?

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7 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid: I met a guy at my college about 9 months ago. He is very well spoken and knowledgeable about a lot of social issues. He's quite an activist and I love that about him. Good signs right? The problem is that he intimidates me. I am all for meaningful socia... (127 words

I like my best friend's bf...a lot! Should I go after him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok i really like this guy but his girlfriend is like my best friend............and im best friends with him to.............but i really like him... i dont no what to do!!! i dont want to ruin our friendship!!! and he likes me to! and i really really want to go out with him.... (67 words

I thought we were both virgins, but she isnt , can we still have a future?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am just about to get married, and I am still a virgin. I just found out my future wife has had sex with a couple guys before me. I was hurt when i found this out...and still am...because I was expecting her to be a virgin too... I love her very much...but was it wrong for her ... (95 words

What's his problem? Wouldnt a boyfriend that loves you give you support in anything you do?

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7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi im 16 an me an my boyfriend have been together for a year now. we r happy. i am on a college course but not enjoying it and am decided to quit an start a new course which starts in april that im really keen to do! however when i told my boyfriend he is not giving me suppor... (169 words

We are both soldiers, but when I get home I don't know if I can trust myself, why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married a little over a year now and we are both soldiers and might be for a while(meaning frequent seperation) We are both deployed and I love my husband very much! But when I get home I don't know how to trust myself? Will it be like this every time he deploys? ... (82 words

He only wanted cyber sex with me! But I still want to be his friend..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - i encountered an old boyfriend. I'm 40. Now back then I was 15. He was really excited and he gave me all of his phone numbers so we chatted. A week went by and he decided to stop talking to me. I'm married he's married. In the beginning he only wanted to talk about sex. I ... (101 words

Every time we have an argument he kicks me out. Do I let him come to me or should I go to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year, we've lived together 9 of those months. We have been friends for 10 years, so we know each other very well. 3 months ago, he broke up with me, and because he pays all the bills, asked me to move out. I went home to my family for... (580 words

She's a bit bigger than I thought she would be, and I only half like her. Should I have sex with her and marry her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - i am unmarried and one girl loves me alot. we become friends through a dating site. but the first day i met her i felt very bad due to the reason she is not so good looking. Actually she is a fat girl and that to, too much. As, such i ignored all this and continued my ... (216 words

My bf said he could not see a future for us as we have two totally different career paths. Should I try to convince him or let go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and a half.its been going really good, but the other day he wanted to talk about the future.he said that he couldnt see 2 people(as in us) who have two totaly different career paths to stay together. ive tried ... (96 words

The second condom split but he did not ejaculate, does it still mean risk of pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - i had sex with my boyfriend today the first time we did it he ejeculated and he changed the condom to a fresh 1 but when we started again he didnt ejeculate again but the condom split does that mean i can still get pregnant and would i need a morning after pill??/... (54 words

I think this boy was creating a pretext to contact me. Am I perhaps reading into it too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok guys here's one for you. This guy phoned me up the other night asking if i took a subject so i could help him with it, i didn't and gave him my friend's number so he could ask her. However i am pretty sure he knew i didn't take it and also he didn't phone her. I don't un... (106 words

What can be done to dismiss the pain of first-time sex, apart from using lubricant? Is something wrong with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for a while...I'm a virgin, but he is not. We want to have sex and are ready, but everytime we have tried it really hurts me. I know it's supposed to hurt some the first time, but this is pretty bad...and he can only get in so far before the pain ... (81 words

Broken up with my boyfriend, but he's slirting with my friends, how do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F - My ex wanted me back and I jumped to it cos I still really liked him.I was really happy but about a week into it it all changed and went back to how it used to be - him making false promises, not seeming interested in me etc, etc. SoI finished it and I also removed him from my ... (180 words

My mother is making my life hell

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, i'm 13, and my mum is honestly after my life. she beats me up when she likes, she abusses me, then asks me to forgive her, well what does she think i can forgive her so esily. And the thing i hate most is i get beaten up mostly just cause of my brother, he swores he hits ... (223 words

Feeling so needy towards my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Lately I've felt supremely needy, I can't get enough of my boyfriend, I want to be with him and held all the time. Recently he bought his own house and no longer lives with his parents. Before we spent a lot of time at my house, frequently he would spend the night. Now that he ... (550 words

She consented to sex but is now crying rape

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

7 January 2008 (M - My friend was telling me this story about him and it has made me a bit confused. He and his girlfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. He asked her if she wanted to have sex (they were both sober) and asked her every now and then if she was ok and asked her she want... (116 words

My cheating husband, turning it around

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just found out my husband cheated. I discovered and accessed a secret email acct and saw he had a profile on adult friend finder and replies to postings on craigslist, most recently while away for work w/ a call girl. I confronted him, he denied cheating, says he was just ... (582 words

My boyfriend has walked away over jealousy of my ex boyfriend, do I try to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a year, we've lived together 9 of those months. We have been friends for 10 years, so we know each other very well. 3 months ago, he broke up with me, and because he pays all the bills, asked me to move out. I went home to my family for... (601 words

My boyfriend has so many issues, says he loves me but doesn't want a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years, 4 months ago we bought a car together and he proposed. We still live with our parents although we are in our mid 20's. He has had a lot to deal with over the past few years including two deaths and a months ago I ... (268 words

My long term boyfriend was caught looking at gay porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am 26 years old and have been with my boyfirend for almost ten years we have two boys together. I have caught him in the past watching straight porn which is fine but this morning I caught him watching gay porn. What does this mean it upset me so much. I feel like maybe ... (82 words

Why don't we get on as well as other couples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend over a year now, and I love him so much. But he's so awkward at times, and we have little arguments every 2 or 3 days. We may be in a mood with each other for half an hour or so, but then we're always back in each others arms. But it gets me down. H... (142 words

He's so good to me but I feel like I can't be that good back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend have sex, I sometimes secretly inside feel terrible. He can't see this, but it ruins the experience. I just feel like, every little thing the does, every look, every touch.. Evertything is perfect. And whenever he pleasures me, I feel so amazing ... (195 words

He is pressuring me sexually and now I don't want to have sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my partner now for 4 years. Sex was quite normal at the start but it's now becoming a problem in our relationship. We used to make love nearly every day but it's now only about twice a week. I'm the one that doesn't want to make love as much because I feel I'm ... (293 words

I have no friends, I'm so unhappy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm only 13 years old(girl) and I wanna run away because I can't take my life anymore. I'm really young and I feel like I have no friends. I'm sometimes alone at school. What do I do?... (37 words

We just can't seem to be happy together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - hiya, well my relation ship is at an end again. me and my fiancee split up on new years eve, over a rather trivial argument. i got really angry and told him to leave. we have been seeing each other for over a year, are very much in love, but there are regularly huge angry ... (145 words

I'm suffering from horrible mood swings

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7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Recently i have been suffering really bad mood swings, i know its normal at my age (14) to get them but theyre worse than normal. On Saturday I was really angry and snapping at everyone. But a secound later i was smiling and laughing. The same yesterday, I was happily playing ... (137 words

How can you tell if he genuinely likes you, or just wants your body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - How can you tell the difference between a guy liking you vs. a guy just wanting your body? I have noticed either way they flirt, compliment and just make you feel good. What are the differences? How can you tell if he is telling the truth when he says "I like you".... (56 words

I need a special idea for my boyfriends birthday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - My b/f and i have been together a year and a half and his birthday is in a few days and i always like to do special things for him like for example one time i hung tons of hearts from his ceiling on v-day and made a bunch of signs for him...i would like to do something special ... (77 words

I love him but he's finished it, how can I make him see we should be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - i love this man for 8 years have 1 child with him i have not treated this man very badly latley and it has caused our relationship to end for the 3rd time,but i can t live without him and i wish that he could see how much i love him.i dont know how to get him back please help?... (60 words

I like guys but am wondering if I could be bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

7 January 2008 (F - hey i like guys alot but i think i could be bi i think some girls are good lookin and when i think about it girls turn me on and guys dont that much i havet had sex yet with a girl or a boy trouble is guys dont turn me on girls do am i bi? or bi curious? or maybe even straight ... (79 words

I don't really like him but I can't stop thinking about him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F - hey im really confussed so please someone help me out i like this guy and have 4 ages trouble is i like him and think about him all the time but i dont wanna be with him and i dont like him like that i dont think when i really think about it so why am i so stuck on him is it ... (112 words

I terminated our child and ended the relationship, I'm very confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend somuch but we've come to the end of the road with our relationship. I have tolerated alot of pain from him. I yarn for closeness and committment from my boyfriend but he is never ready for me. He only yarns for me when he wants sex. He cheats on me with ... (442 words

Do I trust him or not?

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7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Confused, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years off and on. I already have trust issues with him for stuff he did in the past. I happen to look into his wallet, and I find a buisness card of a woman, I calle the # and I asked her how she knew him and she said ... (126 words

I'm in a serious relationship with my cousin, do I tell my family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - help, i have been in a relationship with my cousin for over a year (in secret) i love him dearly and want him as a life partner, it has come to a point where we need to say something to our family and friends or we have to go our own ways, but im scared, any advise? Do i tell?... (61 words

Is it legal to have sex with your cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Is it legal to have sex with you cousin (Fathers Brothers daughter) in the UK? Please help. My cousin has propositioned me and I feel the same. I'm not interested in whether you think its moral or not - I'm big enough to make my own decisions on that front. But what I dont ... (63 words

I am falling in love with a collegue but can't help being nasty to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi ive never asked for help like ths before but then again ive never behaved like this before! Any advice would be appriciated. Firstly im a Major in the British Army, a doctor and a lesbian. I dont hide my sexuality nor do i shout it from the roomtops. I recently perform... (437 words

Can I call it love or is she decieving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - My problem can be said not to be a problem some times. There is this girl of mine (can't really callher mine yet) i love her the way a guy can love a lady, and i told her about my feelings towards her, but as usual at first she obliged which she explain to be because she just ... (480 words

My wife is having an affair, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age - My wife and I have been married nearly 20 years. In the past month I suspected something going on and started checking her company cell phone for text messages. There is one person whom she works with who was sending her messages on how much he misses her and how much she ... (345 words

Troublesome daughter!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi i'm a mother of 2 one 17 next month and the other is 20. My youngest is my daughter and ther eldest is my son. Well my daughter has this friend and they have known each other since they were little and me and his mum are/were friends too. This friends and his mum have never ... (412 words

We're living together and constantly fighting, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F - Hi, I am living with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and we are constantly arguing. The house were living in is mine i bought it but i asked him to live with me. he seems to have a terrible problem with the fact I own the house. I can't take the rowing for much more. He is ... (157 words

Already a mother at 21, pregnant again, do I keep it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi i have a 1 year old little girl with my parnter who i have been with for 3 years now im only 21 my self and i have fell pregnant again with the same man of couse im not sure what to do do i keep it or do i get rid of it my partner wants it but im not sure i have my little... (100 words

I can't get over my fathers death

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi guys my father passed away this year im ohnistly down about it i never had time to grief i had to go to school 3 days later for some reason my mother thought after 3 days everything would be fine at school a week or so later i had to go to assembly where the whole school ... (298 words

I can't get over my ex, it's been a week, please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My ex andI broke up 6 dfays ago but I miss him terribly. He left me. He keeps saying that it's not my fault and there isn't anyone else in him life. He still says he loves me and he calls me sweety and says he wants me back but the doesn't want me back! I'm confused! Please ... (59 words

I'm 16 and in love with my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - i am 16 years old and im in love whith my female cousin what should i do??? ... (19 words

Do I wait for him to resolve issues with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years, and have lived with him for two. We love each other very much and would like to marry. He has one child from a past relationship, whom he supports both financially and emotionally. The child- who I think of as my ... (305 words

How do you know if you are in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hiya! i was just wondering: how do you know if you are really in love? cus the guy im with well i dunno if i love him. ive been with him for about 6 months. i dont really feel i have opened up but i want to know if theres a point in a relationship when you just know, that... (91 words

Does the contraceptive Implant hurt when it is inserted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I am thinking of using the contraceptive implant. I was just wandering if it hurt at all to have it put in, thats the only part that puts me off. Thanks... (36 words

I want to emigrate but it will upset my parents. How do I overcome this hurdle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi - hope you can help. I'm 31 and am so worried as I want to emigrate to Australia this year (asap) and have done lots of research and made plans but I have not told my family. I have hinted how nice it would be to live there after I visited the place last year but my Mother ... (300 words

I get dead answers to my questions and the conversation is boring. How do I get him to talk to me like before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - a while ago, i got dumped by my bf. since then we stayed really good friends. we talked alot, messaged eachother till like 3 in the morning and so on. now recently, he hasnt been talkling to me as much, and i have noticed that he has been getting close with one of my good fri... (191 words

I got in there first, now Delilah won't speak to me. Did I do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have known "George" for a long time, we've quietly been into each other for years although nothing ever happened before a few months ago. We hooked up at a party, it wasn't that serious, all my friends seemed happy enough for me, and George and i were on good terms. It ... (312 words

I'd like to go to Australia but I'm still in school. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey ive been dating this girl for 3 months. When i met her she already had plans to go to australia for a working holiday for 5 months. We were just gunna keep it chill but we ended up hitting it off real quick. We're now madly in love with each other. She ended up going cause ... (143 words

He's a big boy and I'm letting it get in the way. How can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok i met this guy we get along really well an have hooked up a few times, i like him alot... iam a slim good lookin girl an he is kinda a big boy, an for some reason im lettin that get in the way an keep thinkin what other ppl are goin to say, how can i get over this because i ... (68 words

Is this rape? Should I forgive him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy 8 years ago, I was madly in love with him however, it turned out he was gay! it took me a couple of years to get over him. I have then moved on with my life and moved into a differnt province. I lost touch with him about 5 years ago. Suddenly a few months ago he ... (983 words

My conversation dries up. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hey, I have a strange issue. Everytime I pickup my girlfriend from her place we always talk about things that happened the day before and our friends and whats been going on and the conversation lasts 20-30 minutes depending on how long it takes to get to wherever we're go... (139 words

I'm seeing a therapist and a married jerk. Why can't I get rid of the latter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age - I'm very confused and am starting to get depressed. I'm seeing a therapist over this, but it has not been helpful as of yet. A year ago I met a man online and we dated for six months. He traveled between three cities for work and so lived in my city 12 or so days a month. We... (704 words

I didn't give him his space and now we're broke up. How can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me the day after christmas saying that he wanted to be alone... but that weekend we spent the entire weekend together, and new years together... I had gotten him a really big expensive gift that he loved, and he got me something amazing as well. I'm ... (240 words

Should I let her move in next door with her roommate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband owns the house next door to us. Our friends are currently moving out and purchasing a house. A girl (whom my husband liked and lusted after 10 years ago wants to move in there). She is single and will have a girl roommate. He has told me how they never did ... (191 words

She's had sex four times before and I need a virgin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

7 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have waited all my life to have sex when i am married, with someone who also is a virgin. My fiance has told me that she has had sex before with 4 guys..I don't like this....what should i do? I was always taught sex was a sacred thing and should be kept before marriage... ... (55 words

Where do I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5952 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well, i used to live in Uk and had an English bf over 1 year it was just like a fairytale we were so happy never argued never hurt each other. however i have found out that he lied to me about things sometimes. and saw him when he went to a woman's house.his ex is still ar... (177 words

He sold me his phone and we kind of 'clicked'. Why haven't I heard from him in two days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

7 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunt, I have been single for a year now. The other day I called my friend to see a phone that she had for sale. She told me that a friend of a freind had the phone, but that he would call me and meet me with the phone. He did call me and we went and met at the b... (364 words

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