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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm quite shy - any tips on getting out and meeting people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm sick of the boys at my school and I feel like I need to meet new people, but I'm not sure how. I've spent too long waiting for fate, and I want to take matters into my own hands. I'm 18, so legally allowed in pub and bars but its not like I want to go out on the pull! I ... (107 words)

How do I make him forget her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy, who I've met once. I've been talking to him online a lot and I really like him. But i know that he's in love with someone else. And i mean IN LOVE. But she's using him, even he knows that. How do i make him forget her? And how do i forget him myse... (69 words)

How do I calculate when my period is due?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya! this is kind of stupid but here it goes... first of all ive been having periods for about 2 years. but i keep getting confused becuase theyre really irregular. they last for about 3/5 days. but do you start counting 28 from when your period started. so i had my peri... (98 words)

Is he looking for a polite way to leave me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. I have been dating the most amazing man I have ever met for five months. He is very sincere and upfront about his thoughts and feelings. He has told me he loves me, that he couldn't see himself with anybody else ever, that I can trust him and so on. I also have depres... (465 words)

Is it weird to be scared to say "I love you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been 1 1/2 years since i love you was first said, I'm wondering if it's weird that it's not easy for me to say it (to the same guy), like, i'm scared to and i have to build myself up to say it. i don't know why it's like that, since I don't think i'm lying and i don't ... (74 words)

Am I lazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old, and I take naps. Usually after lunch, I have never broken the habit when I was a little girl, nor did my mother try and break that habit. Now whenever my friends come and visit me around that time or later, they catch me in a nap, and consider me a la... (117 words)

We had a great first date - should I have thanked him for dinner? What next?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy and I have been getting to know each other for several (6) months. We have a strong chemistry and really like each other. We finally went out and had a fabulous time. We clicked. We talked at dinner for 4 hours about anything and everything. It was a two way ... (382 words)

I'm gay, he says he's straight - but is he?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in a straight gym in Essex, England and i fell in love with him from day one. I got to chat with him, and asked him to be my gym buddy, which he agreed to. While we were in the jaccuzi, i noticed how he was staring in my eyes with real admiration, that gave me ... (381 words)

What's the next step up the ladder from kissing, but not actually having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

19 January 2008 (F) age 30-35 - hey ok so this is just a question about where, and how to go from kissing, bt not leading to sex. I always have great fun with guys, kissing them, but i always get the impression during kissing these guys that they want more. and i know id like it to progress but i never real... (116 words)

I don't want to upset my best friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with one of my best friends i dont know what to do . Well basically we met at a party and became good friends then we kissed and stuff. We used to be really close like talking nearly everyday and stuff we would make an effort to see each other . But recently he'... (183 words)

I'm confused adn deluded!! Help/

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in a straight gym in Essex, England and i fell in love with him from day one. I got to chat with him, and asked him to be my gym buddy, which he agreed to. While we were in the jaccuzi, i noticed how he was staring in my eyes with real admiration, that gave me ... (453 words)

What if the grass isn't greener on the other side?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Need a little advice...it may be long. I apologize in advance, but it's best to tell the whole story. Okay, I am in over my head...I have this absolutely wonderful boyfriend who i would never deliberately hurt, but about a month ago a good friend of ours who I have alway... (462 words)

Am I being nosy because I'm trying to help her at a new school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My mate is being really strange: My friend called R fancies a boy called J, and J fancies R - but as soon as R found out she decided she doesn't like him. I know she likes him but I daren't push it because her mum seems to be a bit anti boyfriend, and R is a bit younger ... (117 words)

My legs cramp when an orgasm builds? Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks to some advice I'd been given from one of the Uncles on this site, I've finally started to orgasm and its wonderful! But, this that I'm about to mention has always happened and seems to still happen... Whenever I felt I might orgasm before, I would get this really ... (200 words)

Should I stay with him, or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do! i love my boyfriend and he loves mi too and we want to be together. everyone doesn't approve and they don't want us to be together. everyone says that he seems the jeolouse type and that soon he won't let mi go out with my friend and that he is going... (213 words)

I feel old at 15....is there any way to make myself feel better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have good friends, i have been told i could be a model you think i am lucky!! wrong!!! Last year was a great year for me i was 14 had great friends and had no worries and i went on loads of trip. Since November i had a dream of last day of school it effected me really b... (109 words)

How do I act with my ex as he wants to keep in touch??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl,aged 18.I had a boyfriend for 4 months,but because he had to leave for Portugal,he decided to leave me. He left in the beginning of the month(January,5th).A month earlier he said we had to break up,as he was leaving and didn't want to break my heart.How is it possi... (116 words)

What can I do about my long-distance gf going cold??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello there, i am in a long distance relationship that is going very very sour. I have fallen in love with a girl i met on holiday we have been going out for about 5 months and i get to see her a couple of times a month due to her work (cabin crew). We have spoken every nig... (517 words)

She's split up with he bf but not said a word...what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is someone i like and asked out a few months back. At the time she said that she had a bf but still liked me. She recently broke up with her bf but hasn't said anything to me. I still like her but i don't know what to do! Should i say anything more, should i just for... (75 words)

Could I have tips on how to spice up your sex life? All opinions welcome!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

19 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Could I have tips on how to spice up your sex life? All opinions welcome! No matter how strange. I'm just curious, and looking for new ways to impress in the bedroom. I know I could just google it, but I love this site, and thought I'd give it a go asking real people on here ... (64 words)

I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper easily. Advice needed.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend alot and he loves me too, but he loses his temper quite easily. He says he's sorry and that he loves me, but its hard for him to control his temper. we've been together 15 months and are in bliss when we're not arguing. How can he control his temper and stop ... (71 words)

I'm in love with my 'friend with benefits' and its killing me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - a year ago while i had a boyfriend i hooked up with this guy he happened to be my friends ex boyfriend and one of my other friends had a crush on him and all of the parents in our area knew about it so for these reasons the affair ended. but by this point we both liked each ... (371 words)

I want to know whether I should go to boarding school or not..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey iv posted loads of questions of all sorts on this site and would just like to thank you all.Hehe. Just one more question to ask- I really want to know whether i should go to boarding school or not- i know its a stupid question but all my friends go and they mostly lo... (131 words)

Feeling guilt for looking at porn while I am away from my gf! Is this normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship and I love my girlfriend a lot. She's always expressed that she doesn't like the idea of pornography or masterbation, and so I've never admitted to liking either of these things. We've been together a few years, of which we have been studying in different ... (119 words)

Ready to have sex but too embarrssed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 3 months now. I have sucked him off and given him a hand-job. As he is two years older than me, he says he doesnt want to have sex as i am not ready yet and he says that he is happy with waiting untill i am ready as he is happy ... (114 words)

His moods and temper is getting nastier. What is wrong with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have always argued and had many ups and downs, including him cheating x3) but still loved each other. Over the last year, he has been increasingly nasty when we argue. He has in the past told people lies like I have attacked him with ... (236 words)

We were to be married but he dropped me for a woman with money! Can love be sold out for money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I belong from a very conservative country where people still believe in caste and religion. I was in a relationship with this guy from last 4 years. He was from a higher caste than me. He always knew but he said he doesn't believe in all this and said he's a well educated guy ... (417 words)

Can you really be with someone you don't fully trust

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I know this will sound so stupid and idiotic but can you really be with someone you don't fully trust? me and my boyfriend have been through so much and i feel like an idiot when he doesnt pick up the fone and i stress out and get all tight chest feelings lyk... (245 words)

Can't get a man's attention....what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Well, here I am, a 25 year old woman and I have never had a relationship with a man, in all these years have never even held a man's hand. I don't know what I can do to improve my lot in life, because I feel completely rejected by the entire male sex. To them, i... (305 words)

She is my ex gf's sister and I am desperately in love with her...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my girlfriend in 1988. We had 2 children within a few years. It wasn't a very enjoyable relationship as she was never interested in anything including me. I was there for the kids. I started a small business and threw myself into that. Just over 5yrs ago I had an affair ... (445 words)

I cant tell him I've been sleeping with his best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - about 4 years ago i met this lad and fell head over heels in love with him i flirted my ass off but he was still a virgin and wouldnt make a move .We were both very stuborn and wouldnt make the first move, Now i live with his bestfriend who has been my bf for 3.5 years but he ... (180 words)

Help! I cant get him out of my head what shall I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Right where to begin...... i was in college 4 years ago and met this lad who became one of my very best friends, i started seeing his best friend who is now my bf of 3 years. my bf has changed and has been being really nasty to me and my friend (bf's best friend) comforte... (194 words)

I have a phobia about pain. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i ve a very strange problem....i couldnt have sex with my husband coz i was not able to bear the pain and i broke my marriage....now i go out with guyz but when we come to that point i withdraw making excuses coz i know i wont be able to do it....i m getting desperate and ... (126 words)

Is it right to date your step sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - is it right to date your step sister? things were good until i think sm found out a few years ago. i was in the military this has been an issue for 20 years. i never married she married 4 times when things go bad she comes to me. when things are good sm runs interference like ... (65 words)

What is a good lie I can use so my forbidden love can visit my house?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have no problem with my parents.They don't care what's going on either way. But my girlfriend's parents absolutely HATE me. They have no issue with me coming over there, but I would love to spend some time with her at my house. The issue is, they don't want her over at my ... (225 words)

I have cheating husband with debt --what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know my husband from age 15 but we dated for almost 12years before we got married. Married for 6 years. Recently i found out that he sent a vedio clip with love song to this girl and some communications with this girl. I asked him at that time he was in china. He ofcourse ... (609 words)

I'm afraid to go places, for fear that people will ridicule me or bully me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - sometimes i am afraid to go out, because i'm afraid people are going to make fun of me, laugh at me, and call me names such as ugly, EW, and etc.There was this one situation during summer I was at a store a random women told her friend that I am ugly, and they both laughed. I ... (150 words)

What should I get my good friend...for her birthday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

19 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - What should i get my friend for her birthday? We are not in a relationship,but i do have feelings for her. She got me something for my birthday so i feel that i need to get her something. Unfortunately i have no idea what to get her. I asked advice from my other friends, all ... (101 words)

Do most women go through this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know im only 20, but has anyone ever just thought that they were going to end up alone? Is this normal cause every since jr. high i have always been a little more mature than the girls my age. Im thinking this could be a factor, but do most women go through this? ... (54 words)

He says they're just friends. Am I wrong to be upset by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and we have become very close. I really care about him and he's nicer than any other man I have met. About a year ago he lost his girlfriend and he is very close to her sister who had set them up. She helped him ... (206 words)

Tony or Adrien - which do I choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I need help. I have two guys I really like ones name is tony and the other is adrien and tony lives here and adrien lives in new york. I've met tony and he's nice but he's very hyper he can't sit still for very long he's very goofy and isn't very serious. My mom don't ... (143 words)

Does he have any more than a professional interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

19 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please advice toward this friendship with married guy! Hi I met a guy around a year ago, he`s in the air force and I met him for business. He`s married so I backed off .We only met 2 times then he left. In those 2 meetings I felt he flirted with me and sense a certain attrac... (226 words)