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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She does not accept a relationship although we get along so well as, I think she is marked by her nasty break up with her ex. How should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (M) - Alright... I am a 26th year old guy. The first time I was on this website i was writing about one of my old relationships that I was having trouble with and i appreciated a lot of the feedback I got from my situation at the time. this time i am writing about an entirely diff... (355 words)

We broke up. I'm scared of what my exboyfriend might do with some nude pics of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F) age 16-17 - I'm kind of freaked out. My boyfriend broke up with me and he wants his stuff back (just his games though, none of his childhood things), and I want all of my things though. The other thing I want is for him to delete the nude pictures he took of me off his computer. (Yes... ... (553 words)

I'm still madly deeply in love with my ex. How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i move on when im so madly deeply in love with my now x partner,i cry all the time,i cant eat,finding it impossible to sleep,cant even be bothered to feed my children,and i dont want to be with anybody else,he is my bestfriend and soulmate and he knows this.... (51 words)

He loves his gf but calls me for sex...what's he up to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex and i were together for almost 2 years and we had an active sex life...now we have broken up and he has a new girlfriend and i have a new boyfriend...he tells me that he cares for and is in love with his girlfriend...but he calls and texts me for sex often..so i am ... (117 words)

She's muslim..I am not. What should I do, to help my family respect her religion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 111 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - hi i kind want to know how to respect other religon like muslim even i not a religon but what i have to do if i going to go out with a muslim girl and make sure that my family respect her as well thx... (51 words)

Help! My ex cheated on me but I cant move on after a yr!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi im 24 and live in the UK. In 2005 I met my first love. We were together 4 two years. 6months before we broke up he took me 2paris 4my birthday and proposed, then 6 months later he cheated on me. The girl he cheated on me he met a few months before at a party and i found out ... (459 words)

He's made too may broken promises and he's out of control. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have two kids with a wonderful person, but I am confused whether this is the person for me. Since we have been together, he has made me so many promises, and broken every single one of them. He is really violent, has never laid a finger on me nor the children, but breaks ... (130 words)

He loves me but doesn't trust me! How do I gain his trust?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Im going out with someone and we have recently just told each other that we love each other. The thing is though he cant trust me, how do i gain his trust? ... (34 words)

What can I do to get over my dilemma and my lovesickness.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 204 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - ok so i met this girl in the summer, I really like her but i only saw her for an hour because she had to go home . she gave me her screen name and i have been talking to her almost twice every week for about 4 months or so. i found out that we have many, many things in common ... (148 words)

What if a guy really IS decent?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm doing research for a novel. In this novel, a girl fixes up her older sister with a decent boy. Problem is, as I read the web page about "spotting abusive men," I noted that some of the signs were exhibited by the male character in the book, who is, in fact, decent.... (145 words)

After 25 years of marriage, he tells me I lack sex abilities and he's having an affair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and i were due to celebrate 25 years of marriage but he has just told me that he has been having an affair for the last 8 months made easy as he is an international truck driver and is away from home for two weeks at time. He also says that this is not the first but ... (195 words)

Worried, that I could be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, me and my boyfriend are both in year 10 and today we was fooling about and he cummed on my stomach. I put my finger in it and covered my finger nd pretended to feed myself (don't ask, its a joke between us) and then WITHOUT thinking OR wiping it off i fingered myself hard ... (79 words)

I can't get over my wife's affair - but do I have double standards?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age - I really don't know what to do. I have been married to my wife for 39 years. I worship the ground that she walks on but several years ago she had a one year love affair with a married man. I've been no angel , have had a few one night stands but no love affairs. I can't get the ... (103 words)

I sent him a photo of my friend instead of mine and recently he texted me to set up a meeting soon. I really like him, what can I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi can someone help me I meet a guy online and we seem to hit it off well. He asked to see my photo and I sent him one of my friend "I know I know" I should not have done that but I liked his attention, the problem is he thinks that I am from the same culture as him I did hint ... (231 words)

He is cold and argumentative, but likes kinky sex - how can I carry on like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - should I stay in my marriage? I have been married for 5 1/2 years (together for nearly 9 years) and we have one toddler. Our relationship has always required us to work at it, we are both independent people and it took a few tries before we could work out how to live together... (773 words)

Could the fact he is (one year) younger hurt our potential relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - The love of my life that I can't get off of my mind, well I'm thinking of another problem. He's one year younger than me, but it's not even a year, but some people take offence to it and I think he would be okay with it. We're not together yet, but would this hurt our possible ... (63 words)

Random questions about boobs, sex, love and clingy friends...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - A few random questions. 1. My boobs are really small I'm a 34A! How can I make them naturally grow bigger? 2. How can you tell (by appearance) if a guy is a good kisser? 3. What do you do when the person you love, doesn't know how you feel. And is happily engaged with s... (164 words)

I'm 13 and the man I like is married and has adorable children. How do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 13 and I'm in love with someone who's 36. He's married with two adorable children! I don't know what to do. How do I get over him?... (28 words)

She dumped me and just wants to be friends. I want more! How should I approach her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I had been dating a girl for about 2 weeks, and then last night she dumped me completely out of the blue. And today she told me the reasoning behind it was that she wanted some time to be single, but she really liked me, but she just wanted some time to discover herself.... (113 words)

He slept on the couch last night. Is our relationship worth saving?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

- hi I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I'm with my boyfried of 2 years. We moved in together in sept and this was our first xmas in our new home. And to be honest it was rubbish, and the final straw came last night when we had a massive row. I don't really know wha... (154 words)

I'm really not sure if he likes me or not! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 203 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm really not sure if he likes me or not! When I was in R.E this girl lets call her "EN" said in class "Oh I know (who I fancy) likes its SJ (call her that)" And that really brought me down becuase he talks to her alot, but then I thought a few stuff about it: 1. She could b... (240 words)

How do testicles change during puberty? Is it painful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - when you go through puberty, do your testicles actually drop downwards? and is this painful? please help!... (21 words)

Should I try to see if I'm attracted to men for my wife's sake, and what happens if I enjoy the experience?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My wife considers herself bisexual. I have no offense to this but was wondering if any one out there has the same problem as me. My wife enjoys women and thinks if I gave it a chance I might enjoy men. My feelings are open to most things. I'm having the entertaining thought of ... (84 words)

I have been apart from my ex bf for a year now, we have however maintained contact and he is always sweet and flirty! Should I ask him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I need help I have been apart from my ex bf for approx a year now but we continued to text and talk after the initial dust had settled, It was the most painful time of my life so far because i truly love him so much, i believe that we should still be together but i dont know ... (277 words)

My friend says he likes me but I am unsure about my feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i recently kissed my male friend as a dare ans a few weeks later he tells by text me he has feelings for me. the problem is i am in love with my teacher and my friend knows it. also i dont know how i feel about my friend. he is more to me than a normal friend as we are ... (140 words)

Are we in love?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Last night, new years eve, i was on the phone with my bf. he was at his cousins and one of them, who i know, got on the phone and started talking to me. shes only 12. she said to me "(his name)really loves you (my name). he didnt stop talking about you all day. he really l... (131 words)

Is she waiting on me to make the first move or...should I just forget her now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Please re-read my other questions to refresh your memory if you want, but the last few weeks the same thing has been happening but i do feel im getting closer if you get me. all her mates have been doing the same sort of tricks, by tricks i mean her mates always seem to let her ... (248 words)

Got way too drunk and did something stupid! How do I get out of this one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hi i have 2 questions. i know one of them isnt a relationship question but ive had really good advice on this site before so i need to ask. 1) last night, totally hammered, i text the guy ive been in love with for a year, and told i still have feelings for him! (arghh... (275 words)

I'm 16 and I've fallen for a 39 year old woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - so im a 16 yr old girl and i started crushing on my new neighbour, shes 39. as time has progressed its become more than a crush and i'v fallen for her. shes always on my mind. and its drivin me insane because theres nothing i can do about it. please help and give me some adv... (89 words)

I got out of the shop as I wanted to avoid an encounter with my ex, now my bf who accompanied me thinks I was embarassed to be seen with him. Ideas to correct his lack of trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

- im 19 my bf is 22 we are going out a year 2moro! we love each other deeply . we were shopping one day in a bookshop and i saw my ex at the till buying a book and we looked at each other and i ran out of the shop. my bf said he was embarrassed that i ran out and he thinks i was ... (178 words)

Are men really that unsure about relationships? Is it just better to maintain a strict no contact policy from now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Happy New Year everyone. Well, I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago and even though I made it clear that I couldn't be his friend- not now anyway- he calls often. Last night, he came to my place- we live three hours away by train. Said he did not want me to be alone. I... (231 words)

I'm being verbally abused by my mum. I'm so sad and want to tell someone but don't know who, I need help, what can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi all this isnt a love related question really but i didnt know where else to go. The thing is that i have a very bad relationship with my mam. She is mean to me says im fat even though im a size ten. She is always saying mean comments to me, tells me im disgusting, i dress te... (345 words)

AS soon as things get serious I freak out and start giving mixed signals, what can I do to stop this from happening again and again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i don't have a problem getting guys but i have a major problem keeping them. At first everythings always going really well and i'm this funny interesting girl.. and then when i realise the guy actually really likes me i freak out, i don't know what it is, but it's like the ... (99 words)

New year blues and so full of despair, what can I do to rectify this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - happy new year. thank you for your advice last year concerning "broken hearted (unemployed) and dreading xmas" question.all the advice is invaluable. i celebrated the new year with a couple of friends and although i quite enjoyed the company and the merry spirit, i ... (313 words)

Any ideas as to why my gf seems to be ignoring me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Heya, I have been seeing a girl now for just 1 month I no its not a long amout of time but i already feel that I realy like her as I have had a massive crush on her long before we started dating. The thing is I am already having doubts about her even so soon into the relatio... (330 words)

How can we tell if my gf is starting to orgasm??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girl had 1st time sex about 2 months ago[we're both 19]. Since then we've been having regular intercourse. Just recently ,during sex,my girl has started to "call out" and grasp the bedding. She says it's pleasure and just has to let go but isn't sure if she's started ... (73 words)

The love of my life has moved away away but we still love each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hey im 14, The love of my life literally jst moved hours away. I broke-up with him, but im still in love with HIM. What do i do? He wont answer txts but he tells his sister to tell me he loves me. im confused help me xx... (52 words)

My husband cheated with a teenager, we are trying to work through it but I can't get the images out of my head

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is trying hard to save our marriage after his affair with a teenage girl. I believe it is over and he is behaving now. He is nicer to me than ever and is going to relate with me. He still when explaining thing makes me feel it was my fault it happened. He isn't as ... (213 words)

My Mom snoops when I'm on the internet, I find her lack of trust very irritating, how do I get her to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hi i am 14 and in year 10 and my mom keeps on being nosy about what i do on the internet.i am not doing anything bad or wrong all i do is go on msn and myspace maybe play on games. she clearly thinks i am up to somthing which is wrong she always asks what i am doing and alwa... (123 words)

My boyfriend won't marry me, but I want marriage, should I walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married and divorced and have a child from my previous marriage.I have a boyfriend of 3 1/2 years. We have been living together for the last 1 1/2 years in his house - I do have my own house. He has also previously been married. He says he does not want to get ... (130 words)

I'm 14 and in love with a 30 year old and don't know what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm in love with a guy who is 30 im 14 I really love him he isnt married but he has a girlfriend with a 5 yr old son I loveee his son to death his girl I wish she would drop dead hes my cuzins friend I'm always at my cousins house seeing him he flirts with me I love it I'm not ... (123 words)

My mother does not let me see this boy because "the apple doesn't go far from the tree" (she dislikes his father.) Suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - dear cupid, theres a boy that i love very much but my parents will not let me see him outside of school and its really taking a toll on our relationship. they wont let me see him because he has a father (in which he never sees) that my mother does not like and she says the appl... (106 words)

I want to date a younger girl but her parents are against it. We are happy together, how to reassure her it's legal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i need help im 28 and i want to date a girl of 17 who i have fell in love with but her parents see the age gap as a problem. we are happy together but i want to reassure her that everything we are doin is within the law as her parents say its not... please help ... (59 words)

I'm going through puberty but I can't ejaculate, why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I can't ejaculate yet im already growing pubes though And I'm 15 How much longer will it take do y'all think?... (26 words)

I have sexual thoughts about underage girls and I disgust myself, how do I stop these feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

1 January 2008 (M) age 18-21 - Hi everyone. I'm in denial at the moment writting this, but I need help.. So here it goes. I have sexual thoughts about underage girls.. I'm 21 now, and it's been going on for probably the last 8 years. I didn't want to admit it at first, tried to hard to deny it, maybe ... (261 words)

I'm not gay, I have a girlfriend, but I'm turned on by gay men, why is that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I am a 14 year old boy and I am "turned on by gay things". I dont want to be gay I have had a girl we have been going out for over a month and she wants to have sex so do I but im scared i want be preparied for.... (53 words)

I'm going out with someone I met online but my friend also likes me and might break up with his girlfriend for me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm really confused on what to do and i really need some help. I have been going out with a guy i met on the internet got about a month and two weeks now. Only one of my Friends know about him because I didnt want everyone to know because they all think online relationships are ... (139 words)

One for the guys. Would you hug someone you are friendly but not romantic with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Question for men: If you were having a very friendly but not yet romantic relationship with a woman, would you like it or dislike it if she gave you a hug? And how would you respond if you didn't want it to happen?... (44 words)

2008 is here and I want to start fresh... But I keep thinking about my ex. What can I do to forget about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - We entered the new year 2 1/2 hours ago. Any advice you can give me? I'm 21 years old, I was with a girl (also 21) for 4 years, she was my first love, first kiss and first everything else. We connected well, shared looooads of great times together, and... You know what couple... (287 words)

How do I have her open up to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, im 12 and im in 7th grade.... I just got back with my ex,(who is also is in 7th grade and is 12 years old) Our love isnt as strong as it was when we first went out... I love her to death but, she acts as if she dosen't care about me, But I can see it in her eye's th... (134 words)

16, attracted to a 12 year old. Is this wierd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm a 16 year old male. Yesterday evening I was at a party with my family, a girl was also there with her family..I couldn't take my eyes off her, I felt extremely attracted to her...and I'm fairly sure she liked me too. Problem is...she can't have been any older than 12. This ... (102 words)

13, I really like a girl, but I can never control my nerves when I talk to her! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, I'm 13 and I really like this girl, we are friendly and see eachother quite often. When she talks to me I know what to say but I just cant get it out. This is strange because I am normally bola around girls but in this case its the other way around.Shes very upfront and im ... (68 words)

I want to be with him. How can get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm so falling head over heels for this guy who i'm very sure has feelings for me too. But I need a plan to make a move on him and really get to know him and his feelings for me.... (40 words)

Our marriage is a breaking point. He says he would be ok if I had sex with someone else. Could that mean he's cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

1 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR OVER SIX YEARS AND WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST TEN. LAST THREE MOTHS WE'VE BEEN GOING THROUGH HELL IN OUR RELATIONSHIP TO THE POINT OF BREAKING UP. HOWEVER WE ARE STILL TOGETHER, BUT NOW HE SAYS TO ME THAT IF I WANTED TO F...SOMEBODY ELSE, IT WOULD BE ... (100 words)