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How do I approach my mum on the subject of wearing make-up?

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4 January 2008 (F age 26-29 - i am 13 and i wan to wear make up all of my friends do i just dont know how to ask my mom plus she doesnt wear make up so i think it might be harder... (37 words

How do I get her interested in sex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5956 days ago

4 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - i have been with my gf for 6 years and we have a 3 year old daughter, i love her very much but lately our sex life has almost died, she tells me shes not interested in sex anymore which has left me more than frustrated. how do i get her interested in sex again? ... (55 words

I'm living a miserable existence. Must I put up with it just for the sake of our daughter?

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4 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - Can anyone help?I've been with my o/h for 10 years and we have a 5yr old daughter.Before our daughter was born he was kind, considerate but sometimes a little moody.When i became pregnant although he said he was happy he changed.The occasional mood became more frequent.When she ... (142 words

Why is he being so mean?

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4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend on Christmas Eve. He txt msg me on Christmas and told me that he loved me he also called, and I talked to him but was very short. He then txt me that night to tell me goodnight and that he loved me and our son. He called the next day and I said ... (368 words

He thinks I'm cheating but I'm not. What can I do to reassure him?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi i am a 20 year old and i am having problems with my boyfriend he thinks i am cheating on him with every man i know i use to live in a house where there were 3 guys living there we just rented a room and he always worked more then me and thats where it all started he thought ... (208 words

At what stage in our relationship should we be more comfortable around each other?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi! well my bf and i went our on 3rd date coupld of days ago and it was still kind of awkward. we didnt talk much and it was kind of embarasing. i dont know if it should still be like this. please help thanks ellie xxx... (55 words

Is it me - or does he fancy me?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i really need some advise. i work in a holiday park at weekends, and there is this dj, he is 37 and im 16. last summer we sent each other flurty texts but it all got out and he relised that i was just 16, other people that worked there were making things worse by saying i ... (129 words

We've been going out for 7 months but haven't had sex yet. He flirts with other women. Am I being neurotic?

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4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is my boyfriend scared of intimacy, cheating on me or is it simply a phase? I really feel like my boyfriend and I have lost our way and I am doubting our future together. He was honest from the outset in saying that he didn’t like talking very much and that he had told little ... (683 words

I would love to go out with him but I'm too shy!

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - i'm friends with this guy that i havent known too long. At first we hated eachother but now we are very close. He flirts with me alot, for example, today he came up to me and 3 other girls and one of em said to him go away and he said i came over to talk to sarah not you, and i ... (171 words

Is he stressed about being in the 'Real World'?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - I had been dating someone for 2.5 years. It was mostly long distance since we went to different colleges, but we would spend summers together and both graduated and came back to our hometowns and were finally together. However, right before graduation he started to talk to ... (247 words

My daughter just turned 15 and is having sex!

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4 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - dear cupid and everyone here, I have a daughter who has just reached 15 years old last month. She has just admitted to me that she and her boy friend have already had sex. I was terribly shocked and very very afraid and worried that maybe she could get pregnant. Her last... (130 words

How far do you have to go to be committed?

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4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been with the same man for over two years and he says he wants to committ yet we both have trust issues actually we have a lot of issues but always say we love each other it'll be ok, My main one issue is : IS it ok to say you want to be committed to someone and yet ... (94 words

Is it possible to just have a sexual soulmate?

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4 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am married. My husband and I are part of an open sexual lifestyle. We attend Adult lifestyle parties here and there. I have never made any connection to another man in years. I have just met a man and have been sexual with him 3 times now. I can't even begin to explain ... (194 words

How do we tell each other of our love? (neither of us will admit his feelings and I leave the country soon)

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok, here's the deal... I like this boy and I know he likes me back. But I won't accept i have a crush on him and he won't either. What should i do?? I'm really desperate! Besides I'm leaving to Mexico in 2 days!!... (44 words

I don't want sex but I want to do other things.

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Heya, I've been with my boyfriend about 3 months now, I'm 14 and in year 10 and he's 16 and left school. I really like him and he wants to have sex with me. I don't want to yet and I've told him, he's fine with it and said that he would wait until I was totally ... (135 words

Am I being made fun of?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - There's this shy guy who I like an I know that at least at one time he's liked me.......Over the past few months there have been signals to show that he likes me e.g. He would always be where I hang out lunch times. This would happen some days and others it was nearlly like he ... (452 words

Am I the only one that gets jealous?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi girls, I need some help with tackling my jealousy. I get so jealous when my boyfriend speaks to another woman to the point where I feel sick to my stomach. I trust him but at the same time I feel that I'm not good enough and that he will cheat on me because he doesn... (353 words

Am I his girlfriend or sparring partner?

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4 January 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. Now everytime I see him on campus he picks a fight with me. We are in the same residence and it is awkward. Why is he doing this and how can I handle this...cooly...camly. Any replies appreciated.... (48 words

What is the difference in "love" and being "in love"?

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4 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello. I've been seeing a wonderful girl almost 3 months and a third now, it's the longest i've ever had a relationship with anyone (how much of a stud am I?). Anyway i had liked her for months and months before i finally asked her on hearing that she might actually like me and ... (398 words

Losing her Dad and her job and the absence of children suddenly made her feel unfulfilled, in need of a change. Where does the love go??

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4 January 2008 (M age - 25 years ago I married my high school sweetheart and I thought we'd share the rest of our life together. Then four years ago, her father passed away, and she lost her job within about a month of each other. She found another job but I could tell she wasn't happy. She star... (315 words

My best friend is his ex, I feel very insecure about this situation. Is it normal to feel betrayed before it has even happened, when my bf reassures me of his intentions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi,i need help with my relationship i have a lovely boyfriend i have been with him for around a month (according to him) he counts for us both. before i was going out with him we were very good friends i have always been there for him as a close friend. i am very reluctan... (1351 words

We are going to have to part ways. What should I do?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - So I'll try and keep the short and get straight to the point. Basically, I've been kind of ?dating? a guy since October. As in I met him in September, but with school, work, and extracurriculars I wasn't able to start going on dates with him until October. I knew ther... (524 words

I neglected my social life, taking care of my baby - now I feel as if the neighbourhood hates me, lonely and fat. Is it wrong to stay 8 hours online continuously?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a stay at home mom with a 9 mo. old and I am due to have another baby in March..so I really can't work and even if I did work I would be making about what daycare costs anyways and my husband works all different hours so I can't go get a job on a shift opposite him. ... (228 words

Am I making a major issue out of nothing?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together since August 24th 2007. It hasnt been plain sailing, we have had our disagreemennts but all relationships do. Dont they ? Anyway back to the point... i was browsing through my boyfriends phone when i saw a new contact called 'lauren' ... (87 words

Since the homosexual experiment (to follow my old fantasies) my self esteem decreased. I'm confused!

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4 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi im 22 year old male who considers myself straight. I enjoy being with a girl and always have. But since I had entered puberty when I was about 12, I have had homesexual fantasies. In the fantasy i am usually the receiver, typically with an older man. I decided it was a phas... (214 words

What does he want from this relationship?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had class with this guy I never really talked to for three years. Towards the end of the third year (my senior year and his junior year of high school) he asked for my number and started to flirt with me. Summer came. We talked a lot on the phone for about a month. ... (324 words

Is there any way I can get rid of the hurt?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - my bf and i only broke up a month ago and he already moved on and askin for some girl's fone number!! i couldnt believe this after everything we went through. I still cant seem to move on from him and still have strong feelings for him even though he hurt me and left me ... (192 words

Why don't I feel relieved that we're no longer together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

4 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend were together for a year and 4 months. He was my first boyfriend, and first everything. We broke up for good (I think), this morning. We had a lot in common. Music, hobbies, movies, interests, goals... well, he also claimed I was his first love. We had a t... (357 words

I really want to . . . but I don't know if he wants to . . . help me get over this lol!

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now.. and i am a really horny girl lol when ime on my own i masterbate alot and well lets just say i really like it BUT when im with my boyfriend i am really body consious i get paranoid that i wont do something right .. and i hardly ever ... (129 words

I was crushed but I want him back - what should I do?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey! I've had a crush on this kid for a veryy long time .. but he was in a relationship so i never let it show.. 2 months ago we were at the same get together.. his friends are my friends and he had broken up with his girlfriend a month ago!! it was perfect.. we started talking ... (93 words

What were her reasons for texting me?

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4 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Alright, my ex and I broke up this past summer. Even though I knew it was the right decision, I took it very hard and asked her back. It was clear that she had moved on and so I decided to do the same. I cut off all contact with her and surrounded myself with people and ... (244 words

He has 2 kids. I'm only 17. Any advice?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My ex and i broke up over two years ago and didnt speak much but suddenly started to again in the summer..I have really strong feelings for him still as i lost my virginity to him. We meet up today as im going away for a month and he asked if when i get back would i want to ... (124 words

He wiped my vagina with a wet tissue - any chance I could be pregnant?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello i need help!well a few months ago i met this boy that one of my mates brought to my house party an we liked each other an that!but the thing is he asked me to wank him off an i did an he cumd out whilst i was doing it but i got him a tissue to wipe it up but the thing is ... (108 words

Should I tell him how crummy I feel?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - rite so i've been involved with a guy for just over 3 months now. when i met him he was broken up from his gf, but since then he has got back together with her, and they have collectivly been goin out for nearly 2 years. When he had got back with her he had finishd with me,... (252 words

It hurts when he enters me. Why?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi was wondering if anyone could help. when me and my bf have sex and he enters me i get like a sharp pain and ihave to suck my breath in. weve been having sex for over a yera so i cnt understnd whats wrong. we dont need any lubrication as im fine in that department lol just ... (73 words

Does this mean pregnancy or period?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello i am ttc. i have been charting dates according to the internet and i tried all of those nights for the month of december. i recently bought a basal thermometer...not so sure how to record that...or read it. (help) so today is the 4th and my last period was december... (82 words

Could you all tell me about your sex lives please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm just being nosy and curious, I suppose, but I just wanted to know about peoples sex lives. Of course, most people will make out that they have sex every night, they do this that and the other... But really...There must be some people who have long abandoned sex. Th... (122 words

I'm 17 and dating a 24 year old divorcee...How do I tell my Mom?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, I'm dating a guy who is 24 and I'm 17 we started out friends at are job burger king and after I quit we still talk on the phone and everything he was having problems with his marriage and I was just there to help him until one day he came over and we kissed and from there ... (118 words

I like this guy...Should I play it cool or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - i like this guy in my grade...i started noticing him more around me...i dont know if hes around me or another girl but certainly i started noticing him more...i added him on facebook both of us have our emails written, but he hasn't added me, do u think i should add him or i ... (252 words

What could be making my daughter so miserable? How do I through the parent/child barrier?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My daughter is 13 years old and for the past couple of months she seems to be really miserable, i've tried talking to her, i've even asked what is wrong but she always says nothing, my husband tried to find out why she is so miserbale but we have no idea, every t... (292 words

Will I ever understand a woman's rationale? Should I try to keep it going?

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4 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been friends with this girl for about 2 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now. Recently, she mentioned that she wasn't happy and would be happier as friends. She said the long distance isn't an issue, because we visit one another and ... (174 words

Do you think the boy I like is with someone else or have I got a chance?

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4 January 2008 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid, I’m a 13 year old girl; I like a boy the same age as me for 6 years. Ok, when people say that boys like a girl but they don't show it, they always start of being mean. Well that's what happened to me, at first when I was in year 3 the teacher always made us sit in ... (1293 words

How can I help her to open up about her past so we can move on from it?

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4 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hiya i'm recently with my new gf who i've been with for 2 months. Shes not someone you find a lot. Shes had a tough time, doesn't mix easily and tends to feel very unloved. Shes a lovely person and given the chance she really changes and becomes a normal person. This is becasue ... (374 words

We love each other but my wife wants a divorce...help!!

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4 January 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi I have not really been getting on with my wife for a few months whom I have been married for for the last 18 months but together for 9 years. We have always argued in our relationship as we are both quite strong willed. We have always loved each other deeply. I knew we weren... (863 words

Can you give me some tips on spicing up our sex life???

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4 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - dear readers, i have been with my wife for a year now, and our sex life is already terrible. its not the same as in the past as u would understand. what can i do to spice things up? toys, games, punishment - if u get my drift ;) i want to do something unusual. plz help, ur... (65 words

An ex has shown interest again and I don't know if I want to be with my fiance anymore. What should I do?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Well I have an awkward situation on my hands. My first boyfriend whom I loved three years ago suddenly contacts me and tells me he misses me and he always has and that he made a mistake ending it with me and that he wants to make it up to me any way he can. The problem is I'm ... (163 words

Could these be signs my girlfriend is pregnant?

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4 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering if you could help me? My girlfriend is going to the doctors on Monday as she has had heavy bleeding when she wasn't due on her period plus when she has come on her period, it's been heavy. She's also been feeling abit sick. Can you just tell me, do these/ ... (65 words

What are your opinions on lots of pubic hair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - Same person you nice people out there helped me with performance anxiety questions. and now are sex life is crazy outstanding, passionate, he does it all for me and then some, as i do the same for him its only been three months and i truly found my soul mate. and now that we ... (128 words

I've been married 3 years but realise I've been missing out on the single life. Should I split from him?ife.

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4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, i've been married for 3 years and after talking to my single friends I realise i'm missing out on so much fun, should I carry on with my husband or divorce him. My friends say my husband will probably leave the house to me thus ensuring there is as little upheaval as ... (74 words

I have had sex once but I don't wish to repeat the experience since I'm underage. What can I do to keep my bf interested?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I Am 14 Years Old, And I Have Had Sex With My (Also 14 Years Old) Boyfriend. However, It Was The Once, And I Want To Keep It To The Once But He Wants It More Now. I Dont Want To Lose Him Becuase I Love Him But I Want To Wait Til I Am Legal (16). Is There Any Other 'Thing... (78 words

His mate tried to set me up and succeeded to turn my bf against me with his tramp? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok this is for anyone but i need advice from as many males as poss please. its a long one. I was kind of seeing this guy ill call X. anyway i took his best mate somewhere as a favour as he can't drive, when i was dropping his mate off he rang X up and said what i was doing an... (254 words

Can anyone advise me how to cope with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

4 January 2008 (M age 51-59 - Worst Boxing Day Ever. Hi,Boxing day, my wife of 4 years says "i dont love you any more,ive felt like this for the last 6 months".Our mariage is over,w'eve been together for 10 years in total.I am having a very difficult time coming to terms with this and just dont know how... (113 words

My family have forbid me to stay in touch with my ex. What can I do?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok well heres the problem, my ex and i broke up about a month ago. It was long distance and lasted for 4 months, my family were against it from the start because of our age difference(i'm 16 he 20) well the reason we broke up was that he wanted me to come down to his but i ... (256 words

How can I be sure I took her virginity?

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4 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Before I met my girlfriend she was almost raped,a guy forced himself on her,but didn`t penetrate very far(just about the head),she was a virgin and she bled. A year ago, my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time,she told me afterwards that i broke her virginit... (78 words

He anally raped me, treated me like a toy. Should I finish with him?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, and he asked me for anal. I've done it once before with him and didnt really enjoy it but it didnt hurt so i thought it would be fine again, not realising last time i dont it i was very drunk which must have helped alot. ... (309 words

I have feelings for a friend, but she has a boyfriend...help!

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4 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have recently become friends with a girl that I am starting to have stronger feelings for. There are numerous problems with this, She has a boyfriend. I am also friends with her boyfriend. I don’t think she feels the same way. Another problem that exists is that we se... (264 words

She read a part of my diary in which I wondered if I was getting bored of the relationship (later I realised it was not true), now she is thinking of breaking up! How to correct this?

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4 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months, its always been perfect, knowing that we are meant to be together, always being able to make each other smile, and both of us feeling loved. The other day we were in my house and I was reading her diary entries of mine, (because... (265 words

Should I stay broken up for good?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - so tonight i was out with my friend and i deceided to stop by my boyfriends friends house on the way home just to see if he was there and say hi. well i drove up and saw his car so i pulled along side of it. then! he took off driving in his car as fast as he could. my friend ... (236 words

Am I making a big deal out of nothing?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok on sunday i was talking to this boy on msn that most of my freinds know we were talking he said i was beutiful and fit he also asked if i wanted to meet up with him somewhere i said not this week because i am busy and when we go back to school. He was fine with it some girls ... (136 words

I'm a straight female attracted to gay men. Am I weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - I find myself extremely turned on by gay men. Im not gay myself but i have always loved and admired homosexual people. However about six months ago I pursued a relationship with this guy and he told me he wasnt interested in me because he was gay. That would normally turn off a ... (189 words

How do I make anal enjoyable for both me and my boyfriend?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - How do I make anal enjoyable for both me and my boyfriend?... (12 words

Can I trust her not to cheat on me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

4 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey every1.I guess today i also need some advice.I've been dating this girl i regretfully love with all my heart.Everything was rosy in the beginning even when i moved to another town due to work. However,the past two months things changed.She called less,her 4n w... (191 words

I'm scared of jeopardising my final exams because my ex's mother arranged his marriage to separate him from me! How will I concentrate?

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4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello everyone and Happy New Year. I am going thru a really hard time right now and really need some advice. I have my medical finals next month (to become a doctor) and I can't concentrate because of it. I knew this guy for about 3 years on-off (as friends) before he approa... (480 words

Is there a chance we could go out in the future?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - i'm very confused, there was this guy that i like lots but know i don't know if he does or wat to do. it started with him chasing me lots and said he really liked me and told he's friends and my friends i was amazing, he also treated me so well and wanted me to meet he's dad... (287 words

Is there an age restriction for buying pregnancy test kits in Colorado?

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4 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - i need to know what the age restriction is for buying pregnancy tests in colorado is. my girlfried has been having stomach cramps which she says are normal a few weeks before her period as well as her breasts have been very tender for the last month or two. we had a... (100 words

I've wasted 5 years of my life, but don't want to have another affair. What can I do?

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4 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for six years. We have been married for five of those years. During the first year we were together our relationship was perfect. We were intimate if not every day every other day. Since we have been married, he has not wanted me in ... (213 words

We split 6 years ago. Should I contact her? Should I seek professional guidance?

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4 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have not been in a relationship in 6 years. I have been stuck on the "love of my life" who ended it 6 years ago with me. I never got closure from her and it has bothered me all this time. I moved far away from her. I did find out she just got remarried. This helps but I ... (138 words

I need some information on the female orgasm.

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4 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok so im just curious, trying to figure out what women like best during sex so I can the next one I have sex with be very attracted to me. I have heard that sex is better as a female, because of multiple orgasms, and the fact that their orgasms are like so much more intense and ... (231 words

In love with her but she does not reciprocate. Any advice?

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4 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - there's this girl im deeply in love with and i would do anything for her no matter what and it's like she doesn't care, and she doesn't feel the same about me. all this is doing is making me streesed out of my head and i really don't know what i should do about this. do you... (97 words

I need to know if there is any way I can get him to change, because he is a spender.

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 26, I am 18. We care about each other very much, and have a wonderful relationship... only one problem... HE IS SUCH A LITTLE BOY. He still lives at home, has no car, and only pays $200 a month to live with his grandmother. He has no cell phone bill, no insu... (225 words

How can I eliminate lust?

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4 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - How can i eliminate lust? I mean...i'm single, i always have been, And i understand i never have a chance with anyone ever. And talking to friends when i like someone just ends up with them building my hopes up...and you know - the bigger they come the harder they fall. H... (72 words

Married to his ex for 22years, now they might give it another go, is it worth it for me to wait and see what happens?

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4 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - been dating an older wonderful man for eight months. he told me two months into it he was talking with his ex and that they were talking about making it work again. he was married for 22 years and divorced two. he has seen her and yet still wants to see me. when we are together ... (145 words

I've fallen in love with my ex husband's brother, he is only hesitant because of our old family liaisons, do I stay and fight or move on?

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4 January 2008 (F age - my husband and i have been divorced for 5 years,he remarried 2 years ago and seems quite happy. we don't really speak but then again we don't see each other.my problem is i've fallen in love with his brother! we've always been close but never had feelings like this.we got toge... (159 words

Am I her second-best replacement?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - My problem is with my boyfriend. We havent been going out long but i did have something with him a few months ago which wasn't anything serious but ended badly with him calling me 'leftovers' to his ex and him liking her again. A few months after that, when i had begun to... (199 words

Stay together and live a lie or walk away?

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4 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Here is my dilemma. Last summer I got engaged, however, we live 50 miles from one another. He comes up to me on his days off. However, for the past six months I have doubting whether this is what I really want. So much so that I have slipped up a few times and slept with a work ... (127 words

He's so special, but is it worth continuing things?

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4 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, I've recently starting seeing a new guy, problem is he split up from his longterm girlfriend of 2 and a half years just four months ago! she finished him, but she seems to be getting jealous of me and him. ive heard that he's been telling her he still loves her etc but ... (143 words

I connect well with women, but I can't seem to secure a second night with them. What am I missing???

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4 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - WHAT AM I MISSING?? Hello everyone. I was in a long distance relationship with a girl for two years, which ended in June 2007. I spent most of the rest of the year dwelling on that. Recently, I have started going out drinking with friends more than I used to. A few wee... (291 words

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