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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She admits she doesn't call people..so does this mean I will do all the work of calling? Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a lesbian and I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks, things have gotten fairly intense, we get along, laugh, but we havent had sex yet. She said to me she is a person who "doesnt think" that her head is "not thinking" most of the time, she doesn't call her friends ... (146 words)

My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christmas we got along really wel... (161 words)

I had an abortion. How do I bring up the subject in conversation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm 24 years old. At the age of 16 I had a teenage pregnancy which I decided to abort. It all went a bit complicated and they couldn't abort and I was asked back over the next few days but I miscarried as a result of the first botched abortion. Everything was fine ... (188 words)

Confused Teen...am I bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, ive been really unhappy latley ive got very close to a friend of mine but i feel i might have feelings for her. i have never had feelings for a girl befor and i am very confused. i think i might be bisexual. if any1 can give me any advice it would be a grat help thanks.... (58 words)

Would a therapist help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 45 years old, all my children are grown. 14 Months ago my husband decided to have an affair,and the woman is 41 years old, got pregant and had the baby. I try so hard to walk away but he keeps began for forgiveness I kick him out and he goes and lives with her then beggs to ... (209 words)

I'm depressed and I don't like myself! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

- I don't really like myself, even at the age of 20 and when I'm at university. Last night I left my friends at a bar as I was depressed because I hate myself. I even had a conversation with my dad earlier on today about how I should like myself and that I should take one step at ... (137 words)

HENPECKED!! How Do I deprogram a friend that seems to be controled??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Our group of friends meet up every week, once a week to a local pub for seveal years now. We all enjoyed having a few drinks and listen to local music acts. We have always welcomed our single friend's new love interests. Now it seems that one of our friends has ... (238 words)

Should I bother with this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I pursue a love from my past? He has found me after eight years of being apart. I am very interested but he is in a loveless relationship and hasn't left it because there's a child involved(not his)Should I even bother with this man? ... (45 words)

A move means we will break up. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My family are planning on moving house but I don't want to. Mainly because I am with a girl I know I could spend the rest of my life with, but we've both agreed that we mean so much to each other, a long-distance relationship wouldn't work. What should I do?... (54 words)

How do I stop my bulimia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 26 and feel pathetic ,ive got 2 children and i suffer with bullimia ive had it 4 years now and just feel so stuck cos i dont no how to stop or try to eat healthy.I need to stop as im afraid to die leavin my children but i just dont no how ,it goes to the extreem that i order ... (110 words)

I have trouble holding down a job, advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It doesn't matter the job I always end up quitting when people get to know me or when something happens like a tiny misunderstanding that happens to everybody in every job. I get like very frightened and never want to go back. I wish I could just work alone and never have to ... (149 words)

My Brother is a Bully, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - what do i do my older brother abuses me he gets my pressure point to try to make me pass out hits me punches me in my back throws me on the floor and he lives in the house with me and my mother this is a once a week thing what do i do?... (55 words)

How do I walk away from someone I love so much?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my first question it would explain... (128 words)

Should I keep my B/F, just for the sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 27 divorced but was married for 5 years. OK this may sound very shallow but its reality!! I have this boyfriend who I like very much but that is as far as it goes on the emotional front. I have been seeing him for 5 months but do not see a future at all, I want to finish... (130 words)

We are both Muslim, but worlds apart! Can it work for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my problem is that i am involved with a guy who is 9 years senior to me and does not belong to our community also which is a big problem for me as this will cause a huge rift between me and my family.he says he is madly in love with me and is willing to marry me. he has been ... (102 words)

He's aggressive, but I love him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Dear Cupid, This boy likes me and I like him But we keep on going back togeather and breaking up. We are crazy about one-another but he is to agressive and I love him and he loves me what do I do. ... (47 words)

How early can I take a pregnancy test? Do I HAVE to wait until my next period?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi. On Friday night I had unprotected sex, which I know was stupid and everything, but now I'm worried I could be pregnant. I was just wondering whats the earliest I could possibly take the test?? I'd only just come off my period when we did it, do I have to wait till my nex... (78 words)

What makes you are Virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay so i have a question about what makes you a virgin. I know that different people fell different ways about this subject but i want opinions. I havent had sex but i have given oral, and hand jobs, and i have been fingered. Am I still considered a virgin or am i not because ... (61 words)

I cannot break up with my gf, yet..I want to do it! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Why cant i break up with my girlfriend?!? I know i want to do it, i want to see other girls and i cannot picture myself with my current Girlfriend forever. I think about other girls and dating them ALOT, yet i cannot break up with my girlfriend. We have had a few talks t... (168 words)

Am I a Dark Horse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I know its not about relationships but its really bugging me. a really close friend of mine said to me last nite that i have a darkside/dark horse? thing is im not really sure what she ment by it is it a good of bad thing as ive never been told that before and not really sure ... (79 words)

He thinks I cheated but I didn't! What can I do to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I need advice... Me and my boyfriend of 3 years (as of January 12,2007) broke up this past Sunday night. Okay the story... my cousins ex-boyfriend goes to the same college I do. On the first week of school (January 7) he's been trying to talk to me. So one day we were talking ... (261 words)

Do women actually like the 'needier' man and enjoy caretaking him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Does anyone think that some women can actually like needy guys who never got love from their mothers?I guess I'm asking are there women who like to take care of men? And if so,why?... (34 words)

Long Distance Relationship and Future Plans--When do you know to keep trying and when to give up?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a good man for 9 years. This has been through a lot of change (in jobs, location, school etc.) for both of us. We have had hard times and good times together. Right now, he is out of state (6 hour drive. ) Recently (the past 6 months), he has ... (461 words)

Am I being foolish to toss away a good 5 year relationship for another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been in a 5 year relationship with a very kind loving man. im 23, hes 25. iv started having feelings for a friend, hes 30. i know he feels the same 4 me, but am i being foolish throwing away 5 years.. im jus not sure about my feelings for my boyfriend anymore.. ... (59 words)

My bf and I spent a weekend in a cottage and my father is upset! Do I have the right to defend it and tell my Dad exactly, how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Right so, I am an 18 year old girl. Recently, I spent the week with my boyfriend at a cottage in Wales. It was just a nice little holiday for the two of us. My grandmother told me on the phone yesterday that my father and his sister (my Aunt Lucy) are very angry about this... (464 words)

What are the after effects of interrupting a diet, on your birthday? Should I turn down the cake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i have been trying to lose weight for about a week and i am not expecting any results as i am not on a drastic diet, jsut healthier eating. I want to be much slimmer by summer 08 and i want the weight to stay off. however, it is my birthday next monday and my friends wi... (224 words)

In love with my best friend, please help........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - We've been very good friends since our childhood.These days I hardly get the opportunity to meet her as we both are busy with our jobs,but that really didn't affect our friendship. I love her from the bottom of my heart,but I could never express my feelings in the fear of loosi... (193 words)

Everything is great apart from the bedroom department..I can't seem to please him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, ive been seeing my boyfriend for about six months now. Everything is great apart from the bedroom department. He completley pleases me in every way but i only happen to be able to do it to him in the trousers department. Ive tried everything ive read in a kama sutra ... (76 words)

I want kids and he doesn't. What should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i am 26 years old i had and lost a child when i was 16 she passed away from complecations and ever since then i have always felt the need to have children. I was marred for 2 years and he left me to be with the bosses daughter. I am no with i guy who is my everything, my ... (157 words)

I'm bi and have a gf. Not sure about this gay lifestyle as I want kids and family someday. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a woman who likes men and women. I have never been comfy about my female attraction and kept it hidden for along time, my close friends and family now know, they are great about it. My problem is i have now fallen for a lovely woman, she is great but i've never had long ... (156 words)

I still love her and she knows that. Why is she doing this hurtful thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago, she's now been going out with another guy for about 3 weeks. I don't know if it's a rebound, she saw a different guy for a couple of days before, and that was definitely a rebound. But this one seems more serious. Anyway, w... (152 words)

He's not in the mood anymore! Should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I stay or should I leave? My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 15 months now. Ou physical intimacy has been non-existent for the last 3-4 months. But we still have a great time when we are together. There is no tension, whenever I try to initiate it, he p... (277 words)

He's not affectionate and I love it! I want more and he's pulling away..what can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi hope you all can help as I'm feeling pretty down right now. Basically I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. He is wonderful we have the exact same sense of humour, similar interests, similar tastes, we basically on the outside looking in are a really good match. ... (201 words)

I love her but she doesn't feel the same. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, can any body help me out? I'm going out with a lady, that i love with everything in my life, in fact I really want her to be my wife. The funniest thing is that she doesn't love me please what can I do? I really love her and I don't want lose her. thank's am looking ... (65 words)

Ideas needed. What perfumes that turn women on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We need your advice on what perfumes turn you on the most? I would love to hear from all women who get turned on by specific perfumes from the market.... (30 words)

He's unmotivated and I have suddenly stopped feeling for him. Help me understand all this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating this guy for a couple of months now and I like him a lot although I can't understand why I have suddenly stopped feeling for him. I have recently started working out again and we had been talking about getting in shape and eating healthier, but so far I'm the ... (209 words)

My uncle is the 'town nutjob'...what can I do to get him from hurting our family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My uncle is ruining our lives. He (Let's just call him "Bob") lives on the same street as us and he is becoming absolutely unbearable. I have felt increasingly suicidal due to this man and he is making me ill. I do not want to be related to him as he has upset pretty much ... (1118 words)

How does she get rid of this friend, whom she dislikes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - My friend has this problem and she needs help so i thought of posting it out here.Well, she's been friends with this guy for...like....1 year.They were really good friends but now he has been very sensitive for her.She has a boyfriend but that guy is telling not to be friends ... (176 words)

Obsessed with a celebrity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm married, have been for years,with children but have recently become utterly obsessed with a celebrity, to the point of spending time chatting to fellow obsessives in fan forums and neglecting my family and man. the obsession began when I met this man, though he showed ... (67 words)

I'm 16, he's 31 and I met him online. Should I meet him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey im 16 i have been talking to this guy online for a few months. To start with i didnt knw his age n he didnt know mine. I recently found out he's 31 he thought i was about 19 but now knows im 16. We both like eachother but know it would be kinda impossible to have a relation... (134 words)

My best friend is being beaten by the father of her baby..how do I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My best friend is being beaten by the father of her baby. This is quite complecated so bear with me please. My friend had a baby a year ago with her then boyfriend, she has a flat and its ment to be for her and baby only but the dad lives there too. She doesnt like him and wan... (192 words)

He wants me on top and I don't know how! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, i know this probably sounds stupid but id really appreciate your advise. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now (his my first) and we love each other very much, every time we sleep together he is normally on top but recently he is hinting that he'd like me to take ... (151 words)

My relationship is losing it's luster. What's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm sure there are thousand posts like this one every day. Well here is where I am at...I'm worried that my relationship is losing it's luster. My girlfriend and I have only been together for a little over 6 months, but we both believe (or we talk about it) that we are truly ... (252 words)

Met a guy off the internet, had sex and I like him. How do I tell him about my son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19, and I've been meeting guys off the internet. I've already met 3 this week, I've had sex with 2 of them and realised I like 1 of them. I've met him twice, but we only met for sex. He wants to meet me again and knows I have an 8 month old son. I want a relationship and a ... (73 words)

I don't want to marry the wrong guy..so who do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I has been dating with my boyfriend, H for 3 and ½ years. We love each other since day 1 in our relationship. However, I found out that we have lost sparks in our relationship recently although we didn’t have any quarrel. 3 months ago, I met a guy, M at my workspace and I ... (428 words)

How do I stop being a control freak? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like help from anyone who can let me know how to stop being a control freak. I've gone for, Ask no questions from loved ones. Give private space. Control green eyed monster. All the time. Has anyone else got any idea's??... (43 words)

I miscarried and he left me! I want to work things out. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My long term boyfriend broke up with me on the day I found out I had miscarried our child. He rang me up to find out about the news and was very supportive. I miss him and love him so much and he still wants us to do things together but keeps saying he wants time on his own and ... (155 words)

Married but lusting after someone else..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im recently married and i do love my husband more than anything, he has just started to work away but i cant stop thinking and lusting after someone else, i dont know what to do as he knows how i feel and he wants it to. should i just for fill my lust for him and keep it to ... (82 words)

The ex's other children have no manners and swear profusely..my 3 year old is picking up on this this! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex's other children have no manners and swear profusely. Our 3 year old is now picking up on this. I have tried to keep our relationship friendly for the sake of our son but my ex is more interested in being awkward and making life difficult so as you expect talking t... (80 words)

Tips on giving great oral sex to women

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I give great oral to my woman? Any tips from experienced women here? I would really appreciate it.... (20 words)

Why do I have moody spells?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - please help i am 18 years old and i am really moody when ever me and my boyfriend have a good day out i alays seem to end it by me having a öoody spell and i dont know why plus when me and my boyfriend have a little problem i always make the problem bigger please help i live ... (67 words)

New girlfriend cries all the time, how can I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, first of all, thanks for reading this. I am a 27-year old guy currently in a 4-month old relationship with a 32-year woman whom is working in the same company(albeit different department). Ever since we got together, she started crying every time she tells me her wo... (255 words)

Whenever a guy gets close to me...I get cold! Am I too immature for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i really want a steady boyfriend but when ever a guy gets close with me i go cold! i cant help it i just get these feelings that make me want to run! yet theres this guy i long to be with whos not interested. Is the feelings i have for him the reason why i cant get close w... (77 words)

I want her back but what if this other guy is still in the picture? The jealousy is eating me up inside, I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, well. I dated me ex for about 2 1/2 years. We had what i would call a "perfect relationship" we had our differences but we would never argue to a point where we were outwardly upset with eachother... ya know, nothing that a hug and kiss and some cuddling couldnt fix. ... (350 words)

Too young to have a boyfriend at 18? Is she just playing hard to get or is she being serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - i like this young girl .she's 18 i am 24.i met her at a music concert when she walked up to me after i greeted her and i ended up buying her a drink.so i thought the lady likes me.afterwards if she sees me in town she would greet me smiling and since i know her place of ... (213 words)

He can't last more than 5 minutes and this is a problem for us!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - When my boyfriend and I had sex for the first few times, the first being when I lost my virginity, he was able to last for a good while. Now, he's only able to last for 10 minutes or so, at the most. Average time being 5 minutes or less. He says because I'm really ... (88 words)

I love her with all my heart but I don't know if I can trust her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - ive ben with my girlfriend for a few months now. i know its not very long but we know we love eachother very much. things have been going fine up untill a few days ago. shes became alil distant and quite. she says its because of work and school starting back up and i do belive ... (914 words)

Going with my girl for 2 years, but the little things are annoying me, any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, my problem is this. I've been with a girl for nearly 2 years. I had liked her for some time before and eventually we came together. It was a weird twist of fate for me since this thing usually does not happen, and I was thrilled. I thought she was so cool and cute, and ... (514 words)

How do I respond to this guy? Should I give him all my attention or be more calm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Although i speak with the man i used to date last year and i saw him some times during this year there isn't easy to arrange to meet each other. Usually he is working or he has a lot of social responsibilities so he hasn't plenty free time. Sometimes i call him and say to him ... (148 words)

FAllen for my best gal pal..but..she is interested in another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I have fallen for my best female friend. Unfortunately, she has other interests... another girl. They are consumed with each other, although they do not claim to be an item, they pretty much are and they have kissed, that's as far as I know they've gone. She knows my feelings ... (96 words)

Light bleeding ..am I pregnant or its due to the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - if i had an unprotected sex on the last day of my periods i wasnt bleeding though then a couple of hours later i took the contraceptive pill but a week later i again got a light bleeding ..am i pregnant or its due to the pill??... (47 words)

How can I make him more interested in me instead of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Theres this young fellow i like, and hes obviously interested in me as well because he asked me to be his gf.. but we were at a party and he was drunk, so i declined.. but we're friends who will "see what happens in the future.." Moving on.. he has this crush on some girl and ... (129 words)

He swears he loves me. But I can't help but feel he's truly not attracted to me. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 27 and I am 36. I want sex about 5 x a week, but he says he just can't do that. I found, however, that he looks at porn about every other day. I could do it more than we do, and he knows how his choice of porn over me makes me feel. I have made that very ... (170 words)

He's in love with her but still calls me! Why does he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My ex boyfriend and I have long ago broke up (like a month and a half ago)..well he now has a girlfriend and he says he's in love with her...but he has call and texted me for sex while they've been together...and now he has been texting me for the last week or so, but i never ... (111 words)

Although he married me, my husband had a gf and and apt with her and I was being used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I live in New York and I met this guy three years ago on vacation in Trinidad and Tobago. We built a relationship, I visited him a few times throughout the years, and we eventually got married in Trinidad. After we got married, I started to see text messages on his cell phone ... (169 words)

What tolerance or threshold limit one should have on his/her past?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I've recently got together with a girl who had quite a past. She has been very truthful and open about them. She's had 5 ex-boyfriends before we got together. I have no problem with that for sure as I have numerous past relationships myself. However there are two issues that ... (136 words)

Want to lose my virginity but uncomfortable with the way I look.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i will be turning 17 in a few months. I am still a vrigin and one of the select few in my school. I kinda want to lose my virginity but i am very uncomfortable with the way i look. I feel totally disgusted wen i look in the mirrors. My friends say i look fine but they dont see ... (101 words)

He want's to suddenly slow it down! What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months and i recently met his parents and a week later he tells me that he thinks we are moving too fast and he would like us to talk it slow. He didnt really say what he meant by that or how things should change and am very confused and i ... (83 words)

Help! I can't get it 'up' for her and I don't want to lose her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey. I am 17 years old. Recently, I have been with a very close friend of mine, whom I have known since pretty much the beginning of high school. She is one of my best friends, we hang out all the time, and we basically talk about everything with each other, it's just always ... (272 words)

How effective are condoms?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

14 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Lets say your partner has a STD and he wears a condom no matter what weather it's oral or intercourse etc... Is it still possible for you to get STDs?... (31 words)

Help with my girlfriend...has she got someone else because I feel really used here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Currently in a relationship for over a year now with my girlfriend, who's 17 and I'm 20. For the whole year we've always been in touch and haven't gone a day without talking to each other. However for the last couple of months, shes been acting kind of weird. Recently shes been ... (221 words)

She likes me-I like her but she's way out of my league. How do I tell her that we can't date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - This girl at school really likes me and I like her but the only thing she is way out of my league and i feel i wouldn't be able to handle her as people would say and i just want to be friends with her for now because childhood relationships never last but she really likes me ... (100 words)

It seems I can't do anything right for her and she doesn't trust me due to a cheating ex husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

14 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, new to this, 24 yrs old, so here it goes. My gf, of 7 months is ex-military, been to iraq and seen some stuff. She was cheated on when she was married before, and has always been told she's a screw up. I've told her repeatedly that i love her and i'm there for her yet ... (144 words)