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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Do I stay with my partner just to keep my family together or risk giving everything up for this new guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been with my partner for 10 years now and we have 2 children together.he was my first love and we got together when i was only 16. things havent always been good but we recently moved house away from friends and family to make a fresh start but it still hasnt really g... (233 words)

Am I Being Too Picky? What sacrifices do other women make for their man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am wondering if I expect too much from my romantic relationships? I realize there are no "perfect" men out there, but it seems like every one of them disappoints me in some very important areas and I'm starting to wonder if I just need to lower my expectations. For instance, ... (272 words)

Any ideas that will help me sleep the whole night??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm having serious trouble sleeping at the moment. I have been quite stressed and worried recently...could this be why i'm not sleeping? I try to go to bed at a reasonable hour, but I just lie there unable to sleep, and when I do finally drop up I find myself waking up at 4 ... (90 words)

How can I stop being more selfish before I lose the man I love??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F) - I really cant understand why my boyfriend puts up with me. I am 20 and we have been together for 4years. Our relationship has always been really good except we split up for 3months 2years ago because he was joining the army, I didnt feel that it was something I could cope wit... (116 words)

Can I ever trust my bf again and forget about my summer romance??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I broke up in the summer of last year due to a substance abuse problem on his part. While we were apart I started seeing another man only to go back to my boyfriend and try to work things out with him. I'm really skeptical that the 2nd time is a charm, I... (138 words)

This girl can't get over her paranoia and it's starting to feel like she doesn't trust me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Ive been with my girl for just over 7 months now and i love her to bits, but she always says how she doesn't deserve me, and asks; "There are way better lookin girls than me why have you chosen me, wouldn't u prefer to be with them?" To begin with i didnt really mind reas... (105 words)

Am I wrong to resent the fact that he can afford to go out but not come to see me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I've been with my partner for about year and a half, we're now living apart in different countries due to my work commitments. The thing is he's just lost his job and has a mortgage and bills to pay. So he can't afford to come and see me as much as i'd like, the problem ... (176 words)

My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and shouted at me in-front of my f... (399 words)

Our relationship is going downhill and I have always liked his cousin and I know he likes me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid I have been in my current relationship for 9 years. We have 2 kids together but apart from that the relationship has been going downhill for a long time. The whole time we have been together i have had feelings for his cousin. We both really like eachother and ha... (91 words)

I do not have a driver's license yet, thus feel a bit embarassed. Is this a huge deal?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

- Im almost 30yr old. And Im terrified of driving. So therefore I still haven't obtained my drivers license. Now is this a huge deal breaker for men ??? I don't lie about it but at the same time Im a little ashamed at times so I don't bring it up till I really have to.... (56 words)

14, I feel like I'm missing out by not snogging anyone. How can I make it happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - dear cupid, im 14 and i havnt snogged anyone. when it comes to it i get really nervous. i now how to do it and i know im missing out on alot of fun. im not an ugly girland guys do want to go with me. please give me some advice thank you xxx... (54 words)

In a relationship for two years, still happy with him... But there's somebody else. I don't know which one I want. How can I decide?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a 2 year relationship with a lovely guy. He's caring and we have a lot in common in terms of our principles,and I would have always said that we loved each other and saw our future together. We have complete trust which I know is really difficult to find in a ... (184 words)

I don't like how much time he spends with the boys. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for nine months. I am from a small town, but lived in a large city for awhile. I met my boyfriend, now husband, and moved to his small town with him ( from the city). We are now married and expecting our first baby. I do not mind the adjustment from the city ... (376 words)

How can I be strong enough to leave or deal with his having cheated even during my pregnancy?...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband was sleeping with this other girl before we were married, he was actually dating her behind my back. He didn't break up with her until after we were married and he kept sleeping with her. We have been married less than 2 years and he cheated on me at least 20 times ... (97 words)

I love him, but he doesn't turn me on anymore at all, and I can ONLY get turned on by thinking about sleeping with women! Why is this? Am I gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and love him completely - I just don't feel turned on by him at all. I've always wondered what it would be like to be with a woman, and lately, can ONLY get turned on by imagining I'm sleeping with girls.. I don't really fancy ... (134 words)

Why can't he let go of his ex??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey there... I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. we live together, and we always talk about getting married someday... i love him more than anything and want to spend my life with him, but i have some issues i kinda need help with... when we first started ... (345 words)

What does it mean when a guy friend says "you know that I love you"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - What does it mean when a guy friend says you know that i love you? We have been friends for about 2 yrs now and the whole story is complicated and we have already done the bedroom thing. So that leaves out the whole get in ur pants thing. We don't live by each other anymore. ... (116 words)

The boy my sister likes is catching on to that fact, and now is trying to be physical, and is touching her. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey everyone. Well im asking for my sister. She came to me for advice and I don't know what to do. She is 13 and in the 7th grade. She liked some kid in her grade so she started to flirt with him. Well she came home today crying and when I asked her what was wrong she said she ... (219 words)

Are these signs indicators of my period? When should I expect it?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 36 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - I'm really worried about when my periods start and ive been having like a white discharge for about 1 year and I also have bad cramps any Idea when my periods will start?... (33 words)

Confused and wworried after a break up. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and i been togehter for about a year and a half and last week on tuesday he broke up with me. While i was at work he packed all his things and left the apartment we were both renting. He called me every night for that week and everytime i call him he doesnt ... (325 words)

Help me! I've run out of ideas and hope!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - it is a long story but ill try to shorten it been with my boyfriend well ex now for 2 years he dumped me in january last year cos of things like mentionin his exs which i changed he got bak with me after 4days. he then dumped me in january this year and its now been 9 day... (365 words)

12, He's been flirting and has been nice to me... But he touched me inappropriately. He was suspended for it, but do you think he will do it again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm a 12 year old girl so I am still in public school. This boy in my class has been flirting with me and he has been nice to me. but then he gets all gross towards me and he confuses me. he touched me inappropriately and i told my mother and we talked to the prinicble. he was ... (123 words)

14, I don't have many friends, I've never had a boyfriend and I feel like everything is going wrong. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi im really fed up, and have been for weeks. 1. I only have three close friends, and they keep letting me downn. I would like to make more, but most of the people at school i could be mates with i dont really like. 2. Ive never had a boyfriend and im nearly 14, its st... (117 words)

Concerned about people who sleep with those who they know are mairried.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

23 January 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Why is it that advice given to a mistress is way off it seems that people do not want to hurt these people's feelings. Well as for my husband's affair there was no feelings pure anal sex is what she promised online and that turned out to be a nightmare. She actually said he ... (203 words)

Concerned my mom is getting married too fast. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother and I live in different states, about 1000 miles apart. She began dating a new man in early December and told me how great he was and she was very happy. She continually said that they were going to take this slow. She decided to come visit past weekens and brought ... (387 words)

He called out of the blue. What do you think this means?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - so heres the story, the guy i like hangs out with 2 other guys-his bestfriends- who all hang out with other guys at a known place for them...so the day before, my friend/classmate(guy),(who we are not that close anyways) calls me and asks what do we have for the biology test we ... (324 words)

I've never been with another woman before. Nervous about satisfying her, sexually.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i,m a female that has never been with a female before and now i have a girlfriend .the time for sex is so so very close and i have no idea how to satisfy her and realy don't wish to dissapoint her help me please i'm very afraid.... (48 words)

Does he like me? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i just want ur opinion on this: to cut a long story short, that day i went out of my way to the administration, his bus arrives later than mine..so anyways as i was leaving he and his friend were coming up, did what everihad to get inhis face to see me..so he says ... (123 words)

Aren't we too old for childish head games like these? Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay...so this is my problem. I have always been slightly attached to one guy (Z) that I've known for about five years now. We were friends first and then after about a year we decided to try a relationship; however, that didn't work out too well for a few certain reasons.... (407 words)

A women I've spoken to online a few times has told my girlfriend I've been seeing her behind her back! I'm worried she will end it. Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend just received a message from a woman on the internet claiming ive been seeing her behind my girlfriend's back. I've never met this woman and only spoken to her a few times online, the most recent being over a month ago. I've always been faithful to my gf and never ... (70 words)

I really like my friend at school even though we have changed classes. Should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i like this guy since last year, when we were in the same class, as he sat nest to me in class started knowing him, and started liking him..but this year we are in different classes...sometimes he shows intrest in me but then other times he acts like he doesn't see me...so ... (136 words)

She cheated before. I think she is again! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 40 and I've been married for 13 years and know each other for 18 I have three children 8, 6, and 4. My wife had an affair within the first year of our marriage but I somehow managed to forgive and give her my trust back. Do you give trust or earn trust? After a lot of ... (193 words)

I never stop thinking about my teacher. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello guys, I really need some help at the moment. I have been feeling very ill for a few months now because I am absolutely obsessed with my female teacher. I am in my final year at school which is so important yet I find it so hard to concentrate on my any work as I think ... (239 words)

He was in jail for a year and has missed out time with our son. Now I want to leave. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ok i have a problem. i've been with this man for about 4 years but last year fot the whole year he was in jail. he missed out on the best part which is our son. now that he's out he tries to have me home all day everyday and i have to do what he says cuz if i dont he gets mad. ... (225 words)

How do I handle competition?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I love someone. He loves someone else. She's beautiful. And I've just found out that she has an an amazing voice too. How am i meant to take his attention away from her? She's just using him. I don't want to see him hurt, not again.... (58 words)

She lied! It turns out she's pregnant. I don't know what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - why l was lied to about a pregnancy, we split up after a 2 1/2 year relationship with my partner, shes told me to leave her house and not come back, after accusing me of cheating on her, which is not true l have my whole family which back me up,the step father and her brother ... (91 words)

He says he doesn't love me like he used to. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend was with me for a year and a half, and then we split up for a month (he was halfway cheating on me). During this time, he squished his love for me and since then, we got together and it has been 'growing back.' Well, it has been almost two months and he still can't ... (158 words)

Furious over cheat claims... But what can I do about it???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I need some advise people! I was out on a night out a few months ago with some friends from my uni and while out we invited a man to join us. we were all dancing with him, then i got left with him. 5 minutes later i was being accused of cheating on my boyfriend with him. when i ... (214 words)

Will I cum the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Me and my girl are ready for sex talk, about what it might feel like and what we actually do. I'm wondering how many times i need to move my penis in and out to come-is there enough friction with a condom on. also i want my girl to enjoy it.... (51 words)

Does anyone know any good sex games to play?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we get on so well, i want to try and improve our sex life slightly by bringing in games, does any one know any good sex games to play?... (38 words)

What do we do about visitation for the children now we are splitting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have come to end of my relationship of ten years.I belive its OVER!! After ten years,and 3 kids he recently TOLD me we have no future together.I have put up with his manic depression,his affair,his mental,verbal and physical abuse.Him twisting EVERYTHING.He maintains I am ... (167 words)

Should I start a serious relationship with my cousin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid I need help a.s.a.p. I am in love with my cousin who is 2 years older then me and I think she likes me back. I know its wrong so I tried to go out with other girls but I always compare them and I realize that no one is better then her. I want to be with her but l... (91 words)

He holds my hand, says he likes me, but he owes it to his girlfriend to redress their relation. Don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - sorry if this is a little complicated. im 20 and i started a part-time bar job 7 months ago and got really close to a guy called Dan whos 24. we just clicked and got on really well. i didnt do anything about it because he had just started seeing a girl called rachel who also ... (727 words)

I'm almost 6 months pregnant, married only a year and a half and my husband is leaving me, I don't know what to do, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My name is Caroline, I'm totally new on this. I only really came across it a few days ago through looking on the internet for answers I guess. My situation is awful, I'm 34, we got married in July 2006, bought our house together in September 2007, I'm almost... (1596 words)

What does my new B/F mean, by this comment?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My new bf asked me if anyone has "come down" on me, i didnt have a clue what he ment but answered no anyway. Can someone tell me what he was asking please.... (36 words)

How can he say he loves me when he behaves like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has damaged our relationship, we have been married for 30 years, recently I discovered he had been watching porn and masturbating to it, he said he would stop and that it was probably due to boredom having been together for so long. Then I caught him again and he ... (363 words)

How can I get my ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, this sounds really stupid but i need help on how to get an old boyfreind back we split late last year, he ended it, but i still have feelings for him, guess it was because he was my first. but ive still got his number and know where he lives but not sure if ive got the guts ... (109 words)

Does he want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been seeing this guy for the last 5months, we're both in college in the same city. I met him n a club one nite nd we've been meeting up every night that we're out, we've gone to the cinema and he comes over nd watches films and stays over but i asked him about two months ... (192 words)

Am I history?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for two months now. He's in love with me and i'm with him.Problem is, his ex is pregnant. He didn't believe it could be his child, hence he wanted dna testing done the second the child was born. Now, she just gave birth to a healthy baby boy and all... (126 words)

He's got a low sperm count and I'm finding it difficult to concieve. Is there no easy way out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello i was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on my situation. Well i will try to keep it short. I have been with my partner for 6 years and married 2. I have a 5 year old daughter from previous relationship and we are currently trying for a baby. We have been trying ... (188 words)

What's the next best step to healing myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid. I have been in a very emotionally abusive relationship with someone for the past 4 years where I have been lonely most of the time and was confused whether I should call it quits or stick around. About 2 weeks ago I regained contact with an ex of mine which I hav... (252 words)

Am I being too soft?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just had a really tough year in my marriage. Here is a brief history: My husband walk out after a few months of marriage, devastated I then let my job, started a new life, he asked me back after 4 months, i went back, we then move abroad, i returned home after 3 weeks as ... (197 words)

Why can't he accept it's over? He's doing my head in!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex have been talking ALOT over the last few days and its him calling me all day on Monday and when he wasn't calling he was texting me! Drove me nuts as I didn't get anything done but him calling sooo much.Almost every second of my day since he is texting me all ... (418 words)

How can I believe him and trust him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am in a dilemma, I have been married for 6 months now and have been going out with him for 4 years before that. I just cannot tell you how much i love this man, he means everything to me and i thought I meant the same to him. The problem started when i found on ... (594 words)

Why can't we forget each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, a confused, hurt and wet-in-tears girl here.. I broke up with Mr.C 2 years ago, I dumped him cos' I decided to move to another state and work there..and fall in love with a guy..I THOUGHT i don't have any feelings for Mr. C anymore, so I go on with the new guy and leav... (348 words)

I want more than just a kiss now and then. How do I initiate it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone! I have been with a guy for 2 years. It is my first bf. It started as a long distance relationship, but now I stay with him. I am his first gf too! He is a very shy guy. The problem is physically. We kiss each other goodbye everyday before work, but that is... (116 words)

He keeps on lying to me. How can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - my boyfriend has lied to me many times but never cheated on me. he has lied to me for the past 7 months, and the whole time he was lying to me i was still trying to recover from his past lies. he knew i was emotionally vulnerable and i had also been very very clear that i ... (639 words)

Completely and utterly fallen for someone that I cannot have, my ex's best friend. How to dismiss these feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have completely and utterly fallen for someone that I can't have. I know it's stupid. And it's 99.9% definite i can't have him. he's my ex's best friend and he's not looking for a relationship at all. even if he was he wouldn't ever go for me because he's too loyal to hurt... (132 words)

Is it healthy to date two similar men at the same time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Do you think my relationship is healthy? Im in love with 2 men and they both know. I fist fell in love with (will call him Guy) Guy is 10 years older then me, I honestly dont care about that, the issue is he does humantarian work in Africa and we dont have much contact any... (183 words)

How do I transform my love feeling into a friendship, as I do not wish to have an affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been happily married for 15 years and I felt in love in a colleague in the past few months. Hopefully, he doesn't share my feelings but he enjoyes having lunch with me. How do I transform my love feeling into a friendship. I would like to keep him as a true friend. ... (61 words)

Would I be being a bad friend if I dated this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Ok, so I really wanna start dating this guy who I really like and he really seems to like me. The only problem is that he dated my best friend for a long time, even though it was a year ago. But she broke up with him. I have asked for her approval because its important. ... (119 words)

If he really loved me, wouldn't he break it off with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK... So, I'm a teenager, I won't specify my exact age [very private over the interweb], and one of my best friends and I have been sneaking around together. Let's call him Tom. Well, Tom and I found that our sexual connection is strong, and it's been a couple of months. I've ... (252 words)

What is love? Am I in it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - What IS this love?, am i in it? Well ive been dating this girl for about 4years, and been engaged for about 1 1/2 years. She is a great person! Funny, loving, wants to make me feel as good as i can everyday and doesnt care how i look somedays or what i do, she will alwa... (227 words)

What can I say to her in terms she'll understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - My girlfriend is best friends with a guy who is bi and he is always over at her house hanging out with her and her parents watching movies, having dinner, and other stuff. I have never been to her house and only talked to her father on a few occasions. She has never invited me ... (141 words)

We're just friends, but how do I get him to be more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Ok, so there is this guy at my school and he is beautiful and basically the definition of perfect. How do I get him to like me, I mean I know thats impossible but should I flirt(if so how?) Were just friends, how can we be more??... (51 words)

Is joining the armed forces a good idea, and could she be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I have been together since we graduated highschool. She didn't have her period. She is on birth control, so she knows the week that she will have her period. The week came and went. She has been on bc for quite a while, and she uses it correctly. I had... (237 words)

Is it my place to spill the beans?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I dated a girl for my entire senior year in high school, and we broke up when I went away to college. She cheated on me twice during the relationship, and even though I knew that we remained friends after the breakup, and occasionally hooked up. Several times after the breakup, ... (151 words)

I'm curious - is a vibrator better than a penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am considering getting a vibe. I orgasm readily anyway with my partner who is attentive so don't need it to achieve orgasm. How much better is the orgasm is the intensity different or the length? Or is it preety much the same? Thanks!... (47 words)

He can't keep up with my sexual demands. How do I keep him going for longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I know this will be sooo crazy but as a normal, mature, and beautiful 17 year old girl, lately i've been sexual active! but i've been havin sex with my boyfriend( my first and dating for 1 year and 5 months!) but when we do have sex, i always be wanting more and more and he ... (126 words)

I've asked a girl out but I don't know what to do with her. Any ideas?

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23 January 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hey I just asked a girl out she's 15 I'm 17 and I have no clue how to act around her in school.......like when do I hold her hand. kiss her.....and what other thing do u do? and when do you do them?... (43 words)

Is it stress, or is he falling out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

23 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I just had a question... Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years, and he is currently in the military. The thing is he has been acting a little distant lately...he still calls but not when he says he will. He said he would send me a present but he hasnt, an... (231 words)

I want him to take my virginity but I'm scared because he's a big boy. Any tips?

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23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - im 16 but about to be 17 in about 3 months and im still in love with my ex but thats not the half of it i want to lose my virginity to him but he had a girlfriend and i dont know if he still goes with her or not i want to give myself to him because i trust him but i really dont ... (107 words)

Should I do it for him or stick to my principles?

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23 January 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now and suddenly he wants a threesome. Its been talked about before but never this seriously. Ive been involved in one (MMF) in my single days and he says that it bothers him that ive gotten to experience this ... (81 words)

I'm in love with my cousin. What should we do?

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23 January 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid I am so confuse I think.... NO I know I am starting to fall in love with my cousin who is just 2 years older then me. All I want to know is that knowing that this is wrong I still want to have a serious relationship with her. I think she like me back. What shoul... (68 words)

I've matured since last summer. Any tips on getting back with him?

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23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - im 16 and im having real problems with my ex no were not fighting it just lately i be missing him and i believe he feels the same way about me he even told my cousin he was thinking about getting back with me but he has a girlfriend and my friend's sister is his girlfriend ... (207 words)

How can I get over him?

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23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I was "with" a guy but not actually dating him for almost 3 months while he got over his ex of 3 years. He was in love with her and I came to accept that he was going to need time to get over her. I didn't really realise it at the time since he was my first boyfriend but he ... (142 words)

I cant forget my affair, I love her and it Hurts so much! What can I do?

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23 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was involved in an affair that ended after two months. We both knew it was wrong, I was the married one and she wasn't. My marriage has basically been over for the last four+ years and my wife and I have not been intimate in over three years in any way what-so-ever. She en... (504 words)

How do I get him to appreciate me?

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23 January 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay i have this boyfrend and i love him oo i love him so much hes the one i've been looking for but idk it seems that he dosen't care about ALL my feelings just the ones he wants i want to stay with him but i dont wanna fight about something so dumb so what do i do about him.. ... (80 words)

I feel I have to much presure from my parents, how can I tell them to sort this out for themselves?

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23 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I live with my parents due to financial reasons. after a series of bereavements, my mum moved out in the new year,so now I just live with my dad. they both talk to me about their problems (we have always been close) but i find it so hard to deal with the stuff they are sayi... (232 words)