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Do I have a chance with him? I'm scared of getting hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

9 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our friends at the pub to go wi... (179 words

If you have a relationship with an former escort and due to financial issues she returns should you still see her whilst she is active or wait until she stops for good!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a 34year old man, who met a 24 year old girl who told me she was a former escort. When we first met I knew her through a mutual friend we got on immmediately and enjoyed being in each others company. She when away for a year and then returned back to the mutu... (1558 words

Why do so few women masturbate?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - OK, so I know the question I'm going to ask doesn't apply to all women but... Why do so few women masturbate? I was doing an interveiw on facebook, and with each new question it shows you the answer given by the last 10 participants. The question was "Do you masturbate?" ... (90 words

One month of bliss to one month of destruction

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hey everyone...need some help with this... I recently met someone about 2 months ago, we quickly started dating, things were wonderful. We saw each other almost everyday, exchanged emails all day at work, he sent me flowers, said I love you, met the parents, the whole 9 yard... (378 words

What is sex like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm asking this totally out of curiosity i do not have a bf or intend on having sex anytime soon. I just want to know what does the pleasure sort of feel like? What does it feel like when your having sex? Is it a warm feeling or what? What sort of pleasure is it?... (55 words

I'm a young girl attracted to older men

This question has 62 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I am a 17 year old girl. Since I was about 14 I have only been attracted to older men. And I mean older. 40-60's. I don't find a single guy around my age attractive at all and I haven't in forever. At school the only crushes I have developed have been for my teachers. I ... (95 words

I'm bitter and angry, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Is it normal for me to become bitter and angry after being hurt by someone. And hurt others because of it. I have done things to others that i would never of done before, i have hurt others in my pain. And i always end up feeling worse because i realize what ive done. And i ... (149 words

In love with my partner but equivalently attracted by an old friend what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am 16 and im with my first serious bf, and have been for 5 months... i love him and he makes me happy. when we first started dating it was all flames and now its more ashes. Everytime i want to mention this to him i get scared and just keep it to myself. i don't know how to ... (215 words

Help me understand her..Does she really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend we've been going out for a month now. She broke up with her x-boyfriend a month ago. And soon after the two of us got drunk and ended up in bed together. Nothing happened that night, after I started kissing her, she stopped after bout 5 minutes and asked me... (846 words

He's married and I have a boyfriend but this guy keeps touching my bum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

9 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - Um I have two questions actually so here goes: 1. This is a bit stupid to be honest but Im going to ask it anyway, im anaemic and when I smoke (because Im an idiot like that...) I get quite dizzy, are the two connected? 2. Theres this guy at work who is quite alot older ... (201 words

Can I find love without sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I desperately want love (no sex, just love)but, no one I've met wants one without the other. Everyone around me says I'm foolish for holding back and expecting someone to stay. So, please tell me, Am I a princess whose just kissed the wrong frogs and needs to keep looking? Or ... (57 words

He's given me his number and shown interest, how do I ask him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey Aunts Ok, theres this guy whos building my next door neighbours kitchen who is amazingly cute. I asked him for his number yesterday found out hes 19 and he stayed behind for an hour after work talking to me today and yesterday. I want to tell him that I like him and wan... (78 words

I like my boyfriend, but my ex is on the scene again, confusing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am going out with someone who seems really into me, he calls me all the time and always wants to be with me. But recently my ex-boyfriend has started calling me and texting me, also i like another lad but i like him more than i like my boyfriend i feel helpless and stuck. ... (57 words

Why doesn't he tell me he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have both been through difficult divorces and suffer from some trust issues. He is very cautious about getting too involved. In fact, we were not exclusive until after dating for 6 months. When we became exclusive I told him ... (157 words

Any ideas from the girls on sexy underwear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi all. i am 19 and have a healthy sex life with my bf however our anniversary is coming up and we have decided 2 wait until then 2 make it extra special, weve rented a hotel room. he wants me 2 wear a corset style seductive outfit which im all up for, jus wondering if any of ... (96 words

My boyfriends family are trying to turn him against me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age - the man that i have been dating for 3 years allows his son-in-law to control his life. his son-in-law does not like me because i threathen his inhertience from this man. none of his family wants him to date me. they act like i am bad news but i know better. they want him ... (429 words

I'm obsessed with my class tutor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I know there are so many questions about teacher/student relationships on here but i'm kinda stuck at the moment and would really appreciate some advice... I'm obsessed with my class tutor. For the past year or so he has been an incredibly important part of my life. I lost my ... (197 words

I'm in love with my best friend and we've fooled around, but he's taken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm so confused, I completely, utterly and madly love my best friend. I've known him for 8 years but we've only been living in the same town for two months of those 8 years, he has also had girlfriends for that time. We have often been intimate, yes...wrongly behind his girlf... (200 words

My boyfriend tells me other girls were better than me, how do I cope with the criticism?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am living with my boyfriend and have been for about 6 months. i love him to bits but he keeps on criticising me. he has said that 3 girls he has previously slept with were better than me because they were virgins and that i've had sex with too many men. he also drops hints ... (141 words

Has he been in a lap dancing club? He's fairly attentive to me and a good father to my child, but it's the deceipt I cannot tolerate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I have just found out my husband has been into a lap dancing club. Basically the other night i found out he had been viewing porn and he lied about it to me. My husband travels a little with his job, usually Prague, a few years ago he used to go to Germany and Tallin again ... (313 words

How is sexual pleasure related to using tampons?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been using tampons for about 6 months now. No one has fingered me, or given me oral and i have not had sex. So many people say that you are sensitive in your vagina. If this is so, why doesn't it feel "nice" when you move a tampon in or out? If I dont feel any ple... (82 words

Never had a boyfriend, and unsure if my friend likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok does one of my mates like me? I've never had a bf before so don't know what the signs are. In one way i think he does and another way i think its just the way he is. Its just i haven't knwon him long and i can't stop thinking about him. He seems to look at me a lot but i ... (264 words

I've had a rough past and my family are making my life hell right now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - Am 17 and after the sexual attacks that have happened to me in my past, and the names my parents shouted and called me weni told them really upset me and i will never tell them anything again. i now have my father in particular but along with the rest of my family going on ... (158 words

Every time I make a suggestion, my boyfriend yells at me. If I do not, he is not pleased either. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F - I'm trying to make my 3-yr relationship with my b/f work out but at times he seems impossible to please. Some examples: We'll be driving in the car, and he'll tell me that I should look ahead and see if there's traffic coming on my side of the car, as we pull up to the ... (370 words

My soon-to-be wife has unrespectful teenage children. The situation straightens for only a few days every time I try to correct it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 51-59 - I need some advise from anyone who will provide so that its coming from others besides me. My question is.... My soon to be wife has two children. They talk to her with no respect..they yell at her...backtalk, and if she tells them no, they question her as to why she is telling ... (252 words

I will tell him as soon as I am certain of my pregnancy, but I do not know how, or if he will help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17, and took a pregnancy test today and it said positive. What are the chances it's a false positive? I only took the test because the end of my last period was 40 days ago. Also my boobs are really sore and feel like they've grown, I've had period like pains [which I t... (258 words

He can I encourage foreplay? My boyfriend never does it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - Whenever me and my bf have sex, we never have foreplay beforehand, which I'd really like to. Sometimes he tries to push himself up me, when I'm not even lubricated.. This is quite painful. How can i encourage foreplay? Please help me! Thankyou.... (45 words

How should I give him oral sex, for the most pleasure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - I really would like to know how to give him the best oral sex I can, so how should this be done? Please help me!... (25 words

This love rat is toying with 2 of my friends, do I tell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - this may be a long one. but to give some history before i ask the question it is a friend issue. my ex best friend went out with this guy and got hurt by him although she did cheat. now this same guy is going out with my current best friend, now the ex best friend showed me a ... (107 words

How can I make him orgasm without actual intercourse? I want to impress my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

9 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend over a year now and we've started having sex recently, but I really want to impress him. I want to make him remember me as his best, and not his least experienced. Could you maybe give me some tips, on how to make his orgasm longer/better? O... (87 words

Are we just in simple rut, or is it something deeper than that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - So last weekend my boyfriend (of a year) and I had a talk. His parents are seperating and he was re-evaluating our relationship, saying that he just doesn't want to end up like them. He says he's worried because we dont seem to have as much fun as we used to, whenever we'... (378 words

Found receipts of my husband's, which I suspect to indicate porn watching. What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - What is Video Pay TV on a hotel receipt. Is it porn? Found it on some of my husbands receipts when he was away on business. He denies it is porn, but has viewed porn many times behind my back, and would deny it no matter what anyway. He says he was watching footie, which i ... (104 words

We have been intimate and become close, but we're not officially a couple. Am I his girlfriend or... a mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - well, em recently (lke 2 weeks) been seeing this amazing guy which i am very very attracted to. we have been intimate and become close. but in front of his mates and people when he is chattin to them on the phone he says " oh i'm with a friend at the moment...that gurl." H... (200 words

I discovered my husband had a flig with his ex when he was my fiance! Do I stay with him? Our daughter is 3.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - i just found out that my fiancee of 4 years has had a fling with an ex then arranged our marriage i only found out after we got married because she text him to say he was mad do i stay with him or not we have a 3yr old little girl... (52 words

He has been looking for "local brothels." I thought our sexual life was great, we also have a child together. Is he cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i have never done anything like this before but i need to talk to someone. I have been in a relationship for 4yrs with a man i love dearly, we have a baby of 12weeks together who is amazing. My partner was married before he met me and has a son who we are very close to... (294 words

What can I do to speed her up a bit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi there My girlfriend and i have been togethere for 5months now, and we are having sex, but i can't seem to make her come, and i come so kwickly sometimes, sometimes when she comes, but she takes verrrrrrrrry long, is there anything i can do to make her cum quiker. Guys... (108 words

After my ex's explosive reaction I thought we'd never speak again (I suspect her of hypomania), but recently she's been calling, being friendly. Why?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend when she didn't call me for 2wks and didn't come see me on Thanksgiving when she came home from school. I also told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania. I brought it up on the phone after ... (321 words

How can I avoid these dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is not quite a dating love or anything to do with relationship question, but I think it is possibly related. I split up with my boyfriend just before christmas, not an easy break up and he filled me full of lies about why, I loved this guy a hell of a lot so was not only... (275 words

How can we spice things up in the bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Alright, you all are probably going to think I am silly, because I am almost 30 years old. But, I have not given "head" to anyone in over 2 years. I want to do it now for my new boyfriend. The problem is that I am scared. I don't know if I will do it well. Please help me. ... (108 words

How can he expect me to be his rock when in fact I'm more like soft concrete?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F - My partner’s divorce is just coming through. He is depressed and not very nice to my small son and I, sometimes. Everyone sees him as a lovely man and when we first started out I could talk to him about anything, he was my rock. Now it is my turn to be strong. I had a ve... (541 words

I feel so alone, dumped and kicked out, how can I be strong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just feel so alone right now. My 1 year relationship has broken down after seemingly over night, my boyfriend dumped me, and kicked me out. I'm in the middle of a career change and in September will be studying again, so you can understand that was quite harsh, consider... (261 words

My ex dumped me after some very weird behaviour on his part...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke up with me after we went on a trip to meet his family. I had had the feeling he was going to, i don't know why, but still i wasn't expecting it! He was acting weird the whole weekend, just not himself and then broke up with me after the holiday, saying we ... (158 words

Is he having a mid life crisis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age - About 2 months ago, I found out that my partner of 14 years (who is a Policeman) was receiving and sending flirtatious text messages to a wpc at work. We had a big row and he apologised and said that he had never been out with her and it had all been a bit silly and then ... (269 words

Should I give my Teenage Romeo a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - There's a boy who I sort of like but my family would be against me seeing him. I don't think I'm in love with him but he's in love with me. However he apparently has a girlfriend already and got beaten up for fancying another person's girlfriend. I'm not sure if I want someone ... (71 words

I think my girlfriend might be cheating on me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey guys, i have suspisions that my gf is cheating.. i hate to that but i cant help it. been dating for about 2 years now and shes being so weird lately.. everytime i ask to see her phone, she has to delete her msg's first. she always goes with her friends and other guys a... (210 words

My ex is making my life a misery, he scares and intimidates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - My ex scares me. He seems to think he can do and say whatever he feels and that it is perfectly OK to change his mind at the drop of a hat. Last year he dumped his new girlfriend for a renewed chance with me and our son. Promised me the earth but when I found out how he... (408 words

We've moved in together and seem to be stuck in a rut

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F - Hi, I am with this guy for over 2 years and we are living together for the last 4 months. Since we moved in together we have been fighting alot and when were not fighting were just plodding along. We never seem to go out anymore, the romance seems to be completely gone. Just... (112 words

My boyfriend's ex is a real nuisance in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Okay i've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months, and everything is fine with us. But, his ex whom he has a child with has always been nagging him, calling him all the time for the most retarded reasons. it is ovious that she just wants to talk to him. She always tells hi... (137 words

Should I stick by my Boyfriend, after his Behaviour.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was at a party with my boyfriend. He got drunk and then told me to 'shut up' when i was talking to him! I was shocked and horrified. His best friend heard him and told him to apologise to me. I felt really hurt that my boyfriend would do such a thing! That same night, he was ... (206 words

We've broken up and she wants space, but will she come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend broke up w/ me on thanksgiving and i didnt think anything of it. i figured we would work things out and be together again. i moved into her plce after dating for 6 months and she has said that my attitude did a 180. all i ever wanted to do was play video games and ... (418 words

How can I make him orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

9 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex, but how do you know if he orgasms? I know this sounds stupid, but is he orgasming when he comes? I feel like I don't know enough about it, and haven't had enough experience, to give him what he wants. I want him to reme... (113 words

How can we get over this unlucky moment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 51-59 - Although i see again the man i used to date last year the relationship between us isn't perfect. Before two months we had a serious disagreement and it was dubious if we'll see each other again. It seems that we have got over this problem but i don't really feel that i can ... (114 words

I'm unconfident about standing in front of so many people as a model, after I have been selected by the company. What can you suggest to boost my confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - How can i boost my confidence, i've been selected for a model comp coming up an am so worked up about it, i have never done anything like this befor, i no i am a good looking girl but standing there in front of 250 ppl or more makes me sick... i know if i dont do it i will ... (64 words

His jealousy is making me feel chained up. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Im having problems with my boyfriend that I have been with for 4 years. He has been having a lot of trust issues with me since we live far from each other and we only see each other once a month. Lately, I have been talking with another guy I met at a party a couple of weeks ... (256 words

When will I know when it's the right time to attempt a reconciliation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Let me begin by saying that I am sixteen years old and in high school. Anyway, it all began at the end of October, 2007. I and a group of friends had been filming a series of Harry Potter-esque spoof videos at a house of a friend of mine. It was during th... (655 words

What are men looking for when they go to strip clubs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a stripper, and I need to know what turns on men, and what they are looking for looks-wise, and experience-wise when they visit a strip club. Thanks.... (29 words

We seem perfect for each other, but how should I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - Am I looking for love of just desperate for it? I met this guy about two months ago and he is moving extremely slow. He has not completely broken ties with his old relationship, so I have not put up any pressure. However, we are both single (never married) and no kids and we ... (284 words

Should I tell her my feelings or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I've known this girl since the start of high school, so for about 5 years now, we were once close then slowly drifted apart, but just recently are getting close again. I have fallen madly in love with her and I can't stop thinking about her. I dont know whether to tell ... (98 words

I cant figure him out, I'm getting mixed messages, is it worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age - First, I apologize for the length of this, I've never written anything like this before and felt knowing the details would help understand why i need advise - thanks in advance! I'm a 48 yr old woman who had stopped dating for several years - raised my son, taking care of my mo... (1336 words

My bf has a fetish with bestiality. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - I recently discovered my boyfriend of 2 months has a huge fetish with beastiality. Is this normal?! Personally, it grosses me out..... (24 words

Do I confront him or just wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - So, I've been after this girl for a long time--two years now--and have become good friends with her, even though I've never made my feelings known to her. One of my friends, someone I've known almost all my life, just recently broke up with his girlfriend after a year and... (128 words

How do I get out of the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi i'm 15 and i like this girl thats 16. we get along real good but i'm pretty sure i'm in the friend zone. how can i get out and for the future how do i stay away from the friend zone. p.s. she has a bf and please tell me something other than "oh your screwed" i need real help ... (61 words

Any ideas as to where we can go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Where's a good place to take a girl out on a date? I'm going to ask this girl on a date, but I'm not sure where to, I don'tr eally want to goto the movies, I hate going, it's the only place I can think of though. We both drink, so I would ask her to come drinking with me... (173 words

How does a female get in on the dating scene?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - How does a 26 year old female go about the scene of dating, relationships, and becoming intimate? It feels so late in the game!... (24 words

Am I being stupid or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for 2 yaers now sex was amazing at the start and has slowly drifted of i have a realy high sex drive and want sex every day well to the point my boyfriend has totaly gone of sex and only wants it if he is drunk or watched porn first i feel rea... (174 words

Does he want me as a friend or a potential partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

9 January 2008 (? age 30-35 - i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our friends at the pub to go with ... (157 words

Why can't she find someone else to go out in the field with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (F - There is a single gal who works with my b/f. She recently lost her b/f and now everytime she needs to go out in the field to do HEr work, she always wants my b/f to accompany her. She's been there for a year now, and it seems like she'd know how to navigate herself around out ... (425 words

Is it normal to feel afraid of the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

9 January 2008 (M age 30-35 - Is it normal for me to be kind of nervous about having sex for the first time. Its like i want to do it but not with just anyone and im afraid at the same time. I have only told a few girls that have had intrest in me that and only 1 male. He was a close friend and im friends ... (85 words

How important is attraction in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my fiancé broke up about 3 months ago. I still miss him and love him and am holding on to some sort of hope that we will be together in the future. However there is a new guy I have been talking to quite a bit lately.he is such a sweet and respectful guy. there are two ... (123 words

Was I a fool to believe this could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age - Am I a fool? I'm 50, he's 34. I'm Irish, he's African. I'm a graduate, he's intelligent but uneducated. I had money and status in a country where the majority live on less than a dollar a day, and very aware that that was a big attraction to many who would not have looked ... (175 words

Should I just accept my situation or end it ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

9 January 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been w/my current boyfriend for almost 7 years. I lived w/him for most of it until last year. I moved out when he said he needed more space. He wanted to also date other women. This went on a couple months with us still seeing each other 3 times week while dating o... (280 words

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