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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he just a flirt, or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the dilemma: I've been friends with this guy for a number of years now, he's almost 2 years younger than me (he’s 18), so until recently he hasn't been so mature - he has been known among our friends as a flirt. On the weekend, as apart of a youth group, I stayed ... (244 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me then jumped into another girls arms, I can't stop peeking at his emails, am I going mad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If anyone could offer any advice I would really, really appreciate it...I think I am going mad and I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me via email 3 months ago...we're both doing gap years and he's decided he wants to stay where he is, and said he ... (449 words)

Is talking dirty to my college teacher wrong?, I'm 18 he's 31

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am talking dirty with a teacher and i dont know what i should do? It started last week when i seen him out in a club. We got chatting and then i emailed him via the college and said i was sorry if i said anything i shouldnt because i was so drunk then he emailed me back ... (285 words)

What if I forget to take the Pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (?) age 30-35 - okay stupid question really but i need to know. Okay so if you forget to take the pill for a couple of days, you're not protected for 7 days yeah? soo you're supposed to take a pregnancy test, what 4 days before your period is due? but what if you are running packs togethe... (113 words)

Is it normal for people to go cold towards their partner at times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with this guy for over two months. It has been a wonderful relationship. Started out magically and everything. I see him every day. About two days ago, I noticed he was acting strangely and asked him what happened. He said that he had been feeling cold ... (164 words)

Me and my guy are ready for sex. Will it hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together a long time, and he and I both feel we are ready to have sex. But.. Im scared it will hurt. I was just wondering.. is the pain realy bad? I have been horse riding for 13 years now and I heard that can break your hymen, so maybe it will hurt les... (101 words)

Information about spermicide. Is there any risk of pregnancy in given situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - does spermcide really work? B/c i bought a box full of thin desolving spermcide where u put it in u and wait for 15 minutes then have sex. but my boyfriend thought it was ok birth control so he cummed in me. is there a chance where i can be pregant? i put 2 thi spermcid... (77 words)

I'd like to find that special person, but paradoxically... I'm scared, after my last relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is the third question I've posted. I was in a four year relationship which ended nearly 2 years ago. I'm basically over it...but it's taken me THAT long. I believe I've really grown. The only thing is, I've noticed something really strange about myself. I'm almost ... (229 words)

My bf said his ex was a very nasty person, then resumes contact with her. What does this tell about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When you date a guy for 1 year and 4 months and he said hes totally into you, but when he starts talking to ex which he said "she was bitch and i never ever liked her." and plus adds her on myspace. what does that mean? b/c i dont want to take it the wrong way... (61 words)

Little things he does seem to annoy me lately. I think this is a probelm with me. Can anyone help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for around a year now with a boy I go to school with. We're past the boyfriend/girlfriend stage - I class him as my partner. We've been sleeping together for about seven months, first time for both of us. Lately though, I've been feeling disgusted ... (165 words)

How do I let my girlfriend know I'm not comfortable with her smoking Marijuana?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Personally I choose not to smoke marijuana, but my girlfriend does it and she knows i wont do it so she does it behind my back. She does it once every couple of weeks, and although most argue there is nothing wrong with the substance itself, i just don't like it (even though i ... (70 words)

I do not want my bf to think I am not interested in him just because I am generally not excited about Valentine's Day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm in a fairly new relationship with this guy and I like him a lot. My sort-of dilemma that's developing is he's clearly into Valentine's Day and is looking forward to doing something special and extravagant, but I'm not a big Valentine's Day person. I'm not that ex... (80 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that I made out with his best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay me and my boyfriend have not been dating very long..and i now like his best friend..and he likes me and...well...at my boyfriends basketball game i kinda made out with his friend..and i now know that i dont like him and i really really like my boyfriend..should i tell my ... (87 words)

Are my friends being mean about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my freinds have had some convasations about what was being said on a school bus.there is a boy i like who catches it and he simply asked what do i look like? these 2 girls both are my freinds but we dont hang around together. they burst out laughing if they were my fre... (127 words)

I think I might be worrying too much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time. Me and my boyfriend used a condom but I am still extremely scared that I could be pregnant. I told my boyfriend, but he just laughed and said I worry too much. He is a very experienced guy, and has had many long term relationships, which means- a ... (149 words)

I want them both, but am not going to try it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well since summer I have realy REALY liked this guy, but I dont realy know him that well I we dont go to the same schools or anything so I just forgot about him. Anyway I got on with my life, and had a lovly boyfriend, we broke up and then recently got back together and hes ... (172 words)

He dated me but always had a gf!! Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Well where do i start.. im a 17 year old girl and i fell in love. first love and all that. Its been goiing on since my 2nd year in senior school and its always been on and off!.. it got to the year 2005 anddd we wasnt together but got chatting one morning in march, at this tim... (1494 words)

She flirted but never intended to date me! Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi.i got a small problem.MY friend is 56 and me 42.A while ago she was sending me messages that we were goin to be an item.i in stoke, she in glasgow.and so it went on until a sunday where she came out with deep feelings for me and was confused cos i am not her sort.so i went ... (209 words)

Should I grow my hair long?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am thinking of growing my hair long. i am a ginger 13 YR old boy and have been told by my classmates that i would not suit long hair. i still want to grow it though. they say that gingers cant have long hair. i am also wondering what style i should have done. what is ... (75 words)

I like him but I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, theres this guy i REALLY like, he knows I like him, but I dunno what to do =/... (19 words)

Is it possible to be TOO nice to women?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I avoid being nice towards women? I've had relationships but they always end in me getting dumped. My best friend says its because im too nice. what does he mean?... (32 words)

Is he into me or is he just stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I need a guy perspective on this. There a guy I really like and he says he really likes me too. We havent been on a date yet but we flirt loads. He's said we're going to go out one night and go to the cinema and have a nice meal and everything. Things is though, when I ... (125 words)

Do I chose my family or the love of my life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a hindu girl.i am in love with a christian boy.my family is against this affair.they want me to marry a hindu .but i cant.we love each other so much.he is very sincere and loving.but then i dont want to hurt my parents.what will i do.i want my parents support.please give ... (56 words)

Would you allow your wife to have sex with another man?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age - If you were unable to satisfy your wife sexually due to health problems, would it be ok to allow her to have sex with a person of your choice?... (29 words)

Am I being played for a fool? Should I even talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I was with this girl for 2years. We broke up in August of 2007. We had an on going relationship, even having sex until October. Around mid November i cut it off, and didn't speak to her again until a bit before New years. Since we broke up we have both had multiple sex ... (124 words)

Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't do this. what is your opin... (86 words)

Mothers.. When should I stop breastfeeding my child?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - At what age should I stop breast feeding my child? I'm about to be a new mom, and some have told me 3 months, others have told me 3 years. I just want some honest opinions from women who have already had children and weaned them. Thanks for any suggestions. ... (54 words)

My ex wanted me back but wont give up her new guy. I feel like I'm being manipulated, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was mostly because I wasn't attentive enough. She started seeing someone else. I stayed away from her. I didn't call her at all. She called me after a month and told me she missed me. She told me she thinks about me when she's with him. ... (212 words)

He is avoiding me after I talked about getting married...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want some 3rd party opinions on this. I recently informed my boyfriend of 5 years that I need to know where this is actually going because discussing marriage but then counterbalancing it with what seems like sarcastic comments isn't cutting it. I was a great deal nic... (113 words)

Why won't he stop texting other women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Like other posts I have read on here, my fiance and father of my two year old has been texting other women for quite a while. There have been occasions where he has gone out at night and ignored my texts for hours, saying he didn't text me back cos he was hammered and didn't ... (209 words)

A love triangle, how can I get my ex to forgive my betrayal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a complicated problem that I need some help with. me and girl #1 dated when I was in college and she broke my heart and ended up having a child. after this, I fell in love with girl #2,we dated for a year and a half and she broke my heart as well because we were too far ... (183 words)

Am I right in thinking my husband might be having an affair with a co-worker?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been a bit distant from me and he's been more into his job lately. I have this gut feeling that is starting some relationship with a female co-worker of his since he used to just call on a break to say hi and that has stopped and says he was too busy. I rang his ... (197 words)

Should I break a promise I made after a break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of four years for a number of reasons. Over the past few weeks we have been unravelling our relationship, while she prepares to leave the country for up to 2 years in a month or two. I own the car, but she used it more often, as she is a... (121 words)

How will I know that she loves me more than the other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there I m in love with a lady I really loves her a lot, but the problem is she end-up receiving many calls as she has other guys. I reall don't want to lose her how will I know that she loves me the same? is it an easy thing to find out if dated with other guy? do we need to ... (72 words)

Why does he keep calling me and wanting to hang out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for almost 2 years, and he was acting distant and always ditching me for his friends so i broke up with him, hoping it would bring back the guy he used to be. He didnt come back, we spent the next 10 months together but "unofficially" a couple. On my birthday ... (229 words)

My ex wants sex. Does she still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex-fiance said she broke up with me over my temper,I got mad because she would not tell another guy to stop calling her while I was present. She said she had nothing to say to him, she recently said he does the same thing to his ex-wife. She says she is trying to mend a ... (256 words)

I feel like I'm losing him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, i really need advice, I met a guy online last february, met him and started dating, fell in love with him and all that, got engaged in july just gone, however he lost his job a couple of weeks ago and since then he's been stressed out about how to pay his bills etc i ... (111 words)

I'll be devastated if I lose her. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 3.5 years has just left after a fight and said she needed some time and space. I have been fighting depression for some few years now and did not know it until last week when I saw a psychiatrist. I have been verbally abusive to her and she has put an emotional wall ... (211 words)

He bores me, I want to break up. How can I do it gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to break up with my boyfriend of two years. He is a very sweet, but dull person. Sounds harsh, but there's no spark there. I can't chat with him like with my friends. I don't love him or fancy him anymore. I really want to be single because I never have been before, and ... (271 words)

He abuses me emotionally, But I can't leave him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. I'm desperate. I am so in love with my bf, I mean I have never been in love like I am now, but things have happened, I should leave him. Things have turned so nasty between us, but I am so in love, I can't actually tell the difference between right or wron... (154 words)

I want more, how do I tell him without scaring him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an on and off (mainly on) relationship for 9 years with a guy I truly adore. He makes me laugh, we know each other inside out, we have the same goals etc. But I am 25 now, and I am ready for our relationship to be a lot more serious - marriage and kids etc. I ... (167 words)

Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X Factor'. . he has no ... (133 words)

Once a month sex life ...if I'm lucky

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf and I are very much in love with each other and planning a long term future together, only problem is he says he has a very low sex drive. We only have sex about once a month which to be honest is not my usual way, as I have quite a high sex drive. He said that his ex ... (207 words)

He invited me to functions and I had other plans. Now he won't call.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just met this guy three weeks ago. He is 6yrs younger than me. I love him but the age gap gives me problems. I'm a single mother of a 15yr old son while he has 11yr old son and 8yr old daughter from his previous relationship which he chose to raise in his family. He is ... (138 words)

Why do I have so much fear inside me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am worried about the future of my relationship. I am dating a single father with a 5 year old son (his mother passed away). I get along great with his son, but i'm scared about putting too much energy into this. Also I get a little jealous at times. I love them both very much ... (81 words)

At first I wasn't inerested, but now I can't get her off my mind.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a girl in 2006, I never took in interest in her, but after some time I was no longer seeing the girl anymore. All of a sudden I started feeling eager to see the her. I cannot clear her off my mind, I think I am in love with her. I don't know what to do. Please tell me ... (64 words)

Can I go on and off the Pill, and still be safe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have a problem!! I am in a long distances relationship. and I only get 2 see him like every 2 or 3 weeks maybe longer! We don't have sex every time we see each other, but most of the time we do! We use condoms EVERY TIME! But, I wanna go on the pill! He dosen't see a ... (149 words)

She won't have vaginal sex with me, only the back door kind!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been dating this girl from past 3 years now. We tried having vaginal sex many times but every time i have been unable to penetrate her for some or other reason. Either she is too scared of the pain either she is too tense etc.We tried everything from using KY to ... (149 words)

I broke up with her but I don't want it to end! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I feel totally down right now. I broke up with my girlfriend yesterday over the telephone. It was like this. We had difficult times and were just starting to get to the right track again. Yesterday we talked about our problems and we had a fight. I am normally a calm ... (211 words)

How can I test him to check how much he's in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf of a year now is kind of treating me bad lately and gets upsets very very easy...he was not like that in the beginning.why is he acting like this..he gets upset when i'm giving hugs to other guys who's actually one of my best friends.when i asked him about it and said to ... (195 words)

My son is punished everytime my husband drinks.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband is the greatest guy in the world until he starts drinking, he loves my son from a previous marraige, but when he drinks it seems like my son is the worst kid in the world and I am the worst mother. I was going to leave him a couple of months ago but when I told my ... (165 words)

Men who don't kiss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age - my boyfriend says he loves me, does things to show his love but doesn't enjoy kissing..this bothers me. whats the problem... (21 words)

Mom said I never have feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok my problem is my bf lied to me and i broke up with him becasue his ex ws bitching me out but i don't fell bad we broke up my mom said i never have feelings is there something wrong with me?... (43 words)

He likes her more than me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy but he doesnt know. i told my sister that i liked him so she started talking to him and now he hits on her all the time and is starting to like her more than me! what should i do?... (45 words)

Why do I keep second guessing myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had been in a long distance relationship for around a year (he lives around 4.5 hours away) and got engaged in December. We're planning on getting married this Sept and have booked the restaurant and told friends etc. We haven't yet decided where we'll end ... (581 words)

I left hubby now I want him back but he's with someone else now, is there any hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i left my husband about a year ago. i thought i was unhappy with our life together and messed up big time. now that i realize my mistake i want him back but i think it's too late. he has been with a woman for around 8 months or so. the thing is he still tells me that he will ... (161 words)

Nervous and confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im about to be 13 feb. 4th and me and my god sister are double dating and I have never been any where with my boyfriend cuz im not allowed 2 date but we really love each other and we are going 2 the movies on valentine's day and my mom knows that i am going 2 the movies but she ... (86 words)

He's a musician who doesn't work, we have 3 kids, but I think he is cheating on me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years know. We have 3 kids together and he is a musician. Which means he doesn't work. I am the only working household member. He talks to many females on the phone and tells me it is business purposes but yet he always leaves the room and ... (129 words)

All I can do is picture my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, ok i have just started dating this guy, and everytime we kiss good night, i cry because all i can picture is my ex that i broke up with in october.. ... (45 words)

My older boyfriend is now in jail.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 15 and I have a 24 year old boyfriend. We love each other but when I told my mom she told a counceler and he was forced to report it, so now he's in jail, He still calls and writes and says he loves me and stuff but I'm not sure what to do, Do I stay with him or leave ... (77 words)

We split up, but she says she still loves me, is there any point in being hopeful we could get back ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

30 January 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently, my ex and I called it quits. She decided that after 2 1/2 years of dating that she needed time to herself and that over the past 6 years she's only had a few months of time where she wasn't dating. However, she says she stills loves me and even stayed the night ... (139 words)

Is it normal to get wet just thinking about sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. i am new at sex and i was wondering if it is normal to get wet just thinking about it. like out of nowhere in the middle of class just get wet. also what do i do about it? ignore it or run to the bathroom and finger myself and get it over with?... (64 words)

This older guy fancies me, but I'm not into him, people are staring to talk its not fair , should I tell my boyfriend so he wont get the wrong idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 January 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have shared a mutual hobby with a married family friend of ours for quite some time (in agreement with our partners because they are not interested in this hobby), however just before Christmas he confessed to me that he had fancied me for many months, knew that nothing could ... (298 words)